RHP

RHP User

M47

Is it something I said?

January 14 2008

sex

This is a question for the ladies.. I have tried responding to a few flirts but don't seem to get many responses. Initially I try and respond in a way that is appropriate to the profile in question. Or, I'll start with a really basic 'hi, my names.." etc etc but don't know if thats coming across as too sappy.. I'm not 'just here for sex' so I don't get all steamy in responses but I'm wondering if my approach is wrong and that's why very few responses? Maybe its just my brand of deodorant?? J. x

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I can't smell you from here...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    HI J, I don't know about other woman, but i respond to messages that are quick witted the most. I get alot of messages with guys saying "hi, my name is....i am such and such height and like long walks along the beach, heres my number call me..." ....YAWN (for me) or even "oh baby all the dirty licking we could do together...etc etc..." again YAWN. Perhaps try something other than these 2 approaches. But thats just my opinion...others probably LOVE that. An individual thing i suppose. The other thing is, that it really is just a pot luck thing here....nothing is guaranteed. You will get a response from the girls who are interested...but certainly not everyone...just like you will not be interested in all the chicks you meet at the pub for example. Anyway thats just something to think about and i hope you get a few more ideas from other girls. Best of luck and I am sure you will do just fine. Cheers Veronica xxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    Not all of women are here to meet guys, yeah the profile says they are but the fact is that each is individual with intentions that differ wildly. The majority are "tyre kickers". They check your mileage and kick your tyers, but that's all they ever do. They do a spray of flirts just to get the activity up on their profile. These are just blips on the radar, you know what they are, and no need to read anything into it. Make contact once or twice and give them and go to reply, but dont expect it.