M47
Is it me?
December 22 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Get rid of that silly warning in your profile and move to Sydney.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You should ask couples the question. What are they looking for, what do they like to see in a profile (because yours says nothing except that you are down to fuck), why they choose some men over others. Often it's men from the couple that are profile searching and answering messages.... So I think you have to appeal to the men first. I think. So another question to ask. :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm assuming you've never met the 5 couples profiles out of the 7 friends on your friends list... Which brings me to assume that they're only there as your aspirational CV... If my assumptions are wrong; and you HAVE indeed met them....then what's the issue?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Have you been on here for long? You look cute. Xxviolet
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RHP User
11 years ago
You have ticked oral sex receiving, but not giving... That's a big issue for many women.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi Scottsman, barely 3 months ago I joined RHP and in 2 days saw a meet and greet here at the Perth Casino. Guess what? I went and introduced myself, met some nice people, felt like a cliche though but I didn't give up. I asked people to view my profile and offer suggestions but not even 1 out of 10 responded. Yet I didn't give up. I joined the chat rooms and and just made friends, learning informally what floats their boats. Long short, I had my first meet with a lovely lady this Saturday and it was all FUN. Manage your expectations, build relationships and the fun will surely follow
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RHP User
11 years ago
The world was not made in a day. if you have been at it for a year and nothing then maybe you need to change your style. If its only been a month then keep going, it will happen. You will start to get a feel of how to do the approach and what type of members will be interested. It is also important I think to make friends, just because people are not interested in the funk does not mean they are not interested in you. The more people you know in the scene the better the odds get. If a down and out bum like me can get some then a young good looking Scotsman should have easy pickings. Loose the dark sunglasses in the photo. People like to see the eyes. More words help a bit and like someone said get rid of the silly warning its not worth the screen space and actually a legally meaningless. In fact those silly warning actually decrease your rights.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's not you but I suggest it could be your profile...though who doesn't love a cute Scotsman:)....put some more thought into your profile,it is your advertisement after all... ask yourself the question.if I read my profile,would I want to meet me?...Good luck xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'BBCBoyd' Hi Scottsman, barely 3 months ago I joined RHP and in 2 days saw a meet and greet here at the Perth Casino. Guess what? I went and introduced myself, met some nice people, felt like a cliche though but I didn't give up. I asked people to view my profile and offer suggestions but not even 1 out of 10 responded. Yet I didn't give up. I joined the chat rooms and and just made friends, learning informally what floats their boats. Long short, I had my first meet with a lovely lady this Saturday and it was all FUN. Manage your expectations, build relationships and the fun will surely follow I did the same when I first joined RHP - moons ago - You have to put yourself out there and be confident.
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MissBishere
11 years ago
I'm sure you could teach me a thing or two
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are the couples you are sending messages to also looking for an mmf? After a brief chat with you in the chat rooms, I can vouch for you that you are polite, can spell and have good grammar, and you seem nice....but men are not what we are looking for so any messages or friend reqests would mostly be ignored or politely declined for that reason. Good luck!
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Taleros
11 years ago
When the silly legal warning posted in someone's profile is actually longer than what they've written about and are looking for then there is a problem. You've essentially got nothing on your profile to give you any real substance for which to generate interest. Yes, you've got a photo up which is always a plus but that can't solely be the only defining point of your profile. Couples have thousands of single guys out there on the site to choose from, many of which have such bare profiles, so just some effort can help make you stand out even just a little more from the rest. As Meeka mentioned, a big thing to try and answer or show to couples is why we should pick you over the thousands of other guys. Essentially, when we get a message from a guy the first thing we do is look at their profile and if there is nothing there of interest then there's a pretty good chance we won't be much interested in anything they have to say in the message too. So in your case, for us your message would have to be mind-blowingly amazing otherwise yeah, you'd at best be getting our templated rejection reply.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think I need to review my profile and make some changes. It seems I might not be giving the right impression. Sir stir you are right I haven't met the couples I've become friends with but at one stage they were hopefuls who had exchanged messages but nothing happened :-( I'll make some edits today so feel free to have a new look. Hopefully it looks better!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks violet .. I've been on here for around 1 year (I think). Plenty of chat but no action :-(
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RHP User
11 years ago
Missb72... It's definitely one city I'm yet to visit :-)
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Taleros
11 years ago
Ugh, and typing on the phone ruined the paragraph formatting of our last post so it is one horrible block of text. :( WTB edit button for the forums.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What sort of couples are you focusing on? Younger? Hot only? We aren't necessarily looking for more single males, but are always open to meet nice, kind, respectful guys to see where it might lead...but since we haven't heard from you, we gather we may not be your type ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I appreciate the kind words. Yes I try to only message those that are looking for mmf or fun with a single man of some sort. I realise trying to convince a couple who aren't won't happen :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I definitely have looked at my profile with the feedback and agree it was pretty bare! I've updated it and tried to tell a bit more about me. Here's hoping it helps :-)
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nattyocean
11 years ago
😊 and yes a bit more about yourself wouldn't hurt. I love to read a profile that has been well thought out and certainly sparks interest and desire to explore a little further about the person or couple. Good luck xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your post was great regardless I think. Some great changes to your profile, OP, though I'd personally like to hear in a bit more detail what you like and what you are looking for, as well as what you have to offer. I love your pics, so nice to see a smiling face and fully dressed body in a sea of cock shots!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79'if I read my profile, would I want to meet me?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just read the profile of new forum poster MrAqurius30. Though I'm not suggesting it's for you, I'm pointing it out because I think his profile gives a real sense of who he is and what he is looking for. Nice one, Aquarius.
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