Is anyone really serious?

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  We are not real people here and online, so sadly people feel that they have licence to lie, fib, cheat and deceive because... Well, because they think they can get away with it. They haven't met you, are unlikely to meet you and have to explain themselves, so they arrange dates that they know they can't get to, or they intend to get to, but can't and don't bother letting you know. Or they vanish mid conversation whilst messaging... Try not to take it to heart. There are some truely amazing people in here though, and it's worth all the wankers to find these good people. Meet and greet drinks night are a fantastic way to meet real people, I've never been to a private party, but I'm told they can also be great. The best thing about these two is that there are real people there, people who actually get out from behind their keyboards... Good luck Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Hey, sorry to hear about this hey am an hour away, will travel, good to my word and keen Orange

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I am surprised you get that far without any photos or such a short profile. But to answer your question. Yes people are for real, I have probably met over 100 RHP people at meet & greet nights or at swingers clubs over the years.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  kids /family/jobs all get in the way it will happen.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  To give the benefit of the doubt, I don't think many/any people set out to be "time wasters". But they don't think you are as important as something else that comes up or get cold feet when it's time to meet. My suggestions would be to meet in real life (eg. Dates, meet and greets or parties) so that overcomes some of the nerves and people think of you as a real person. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  The second most frustrating component of dating sites... All is going well, up to the last minute. But quite often from the observations I've made regarding posts quite similar to this is that there's a lot of investment into just meeting. This unfortunately breeds some expectations, and let's face it, disappointment stems from having such expectations... So here's how I counter any expectations of people meeting. I make the first meet fit into a trip that I've planned anyway. This way the meet is actually plan B and not at the forefront of such trips. The aim of doing so allows me to include that person/s as simply a bonus to the fun I already plan on having. And....ta dah!!! I don't miss out on my fun, and I don't become disappointed if they don't show or they cancel at the last minute as it becomes their loss and not mine :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  i agree with the man and yessss, the private parties are definitely the way to go. so much fun to be had when everyone is jumping in the pool naked...

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