Is It Ghosting If...

September 28 2023

... you make the last message in a conversation? I know technically, I'm not the ghoster, if I left the last message, and they never replied. But, I could always follow up with another message. I feel if I haven't done that, then we've both kinda ghosted each other. What say you RHP brain trust? - Alex.

Comments

  • CliveWing

    CliveWing

    2 years ago

    IMHO, you arent a ghoster if you've made a genuine attempt at communication. Its them if they dont reply. Naturally this only applies where an actual conversation had been happening.

  • mssexybitch2u

    mssexybitch2u

    2 years ago

    Depends what the last message is. Was it a question and they didn’t answer? They have ghosted you. If you’re meant to let them know about a meet or whatever at a later time or day and you don’t let them know, then you ghosted them. All depends how the conversation ended.

  • Alex_Lover

    Alex_Lover

    2 years ago

    I should add some more context I missed. This is a person you've met and played with in real life, multiple times. (Also it's not an RHP person, so all the people I chat with.... don't worry 😇💋) Thanks for all your answers ❤️ - Alex

  • Lostyanumber

    Lostyanumber

    2 years ago

    As a rule I don't send another message before I get a reply, sometimes I do send a follow up or similar.

  • Felicitous

    Felicitous

    2 years ago

    I'd consider the use of 'ghosting' as a description when communication is abrasively exited without reason. Ie Where conversation seemingly is flowing - then 'bam' no response or message left unread. Nothing quite like a message left unread to make one feel rather inconsequential. If the conversation just petered off. Small talk with no 'questions' left unanswered/ not responded to - then that's not ghosting (imo)

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    2 years ago

    Nope I often think a conversation is both partys Chatting and often if there’s no response that’s on them ,occasionally I will send dot as a reminder to a convo was being had , but that’s about it as far as I think balls in there court to continue that way it’s not like I’m pushing my own wheelbarrow for no reason , Mr b

  • CuriousAsianCpl

    CuriousAsianCpl

    2 years ago

    If we don’t get a reply to our last message we leave it as we’ve done our part. Plenty of other fish in the sea 😂