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I'm sorry, you're too young!!!

November 21 2012

Hello RHP community!Tigeroo here...been on this site a while but never ever posted in these forums, but I thought I'd give it a shot because I would love some insight from the women on this one...Ok, first of all, I'm a 27 yr old male, on this site for the purposes of finding some casual fun...but this has been quite the humbling experience.What I really want to know is - Why do so many women tell me that I am too young for them?I get the 'oh Tigeroo, very nice, shame your too young for me :('Now look, I understand age can be an issue for some, but this is a SEX WEBSITE?! so WHY does AGE MATTER? If the women on here are looking for the love of their life, I realize age has a lot to do with compatibility...but quite frankly if you're looking for 'love', I don't think this is exactly the best place to find it...I get the 'too young' thing from women in their 30's mainly, but also some who are younger than me!! (What the F*#K?!)So my question is: for the purposes of NSA casual sex - WHY is age a factor? Should I cancel my m/ship and come back in my 40s?I must say, I need some clarification here, thanks girls :)

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ... but for the tryanny of distance ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'paintme'... but for the tryanny of distance ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    .... does not mean that every woman wants YOU.   It is our prerogative to choose, for whatever reason (27 is too young for my taste), we like.   My profile clearly states that I am not interested in men under 40 but still young men ask. I ask you.... what the F*#K!!??   I'm not going to cancel my menbership because I am not the optimum age! ....... Oh yeah I am only a guest, silly old me.

  • De0cypher

    De0cypher

    13 years ago

    The epithet 'too young' is applied mostly to men younger than 25... but my definition of 'too young' is not enough experience or not a long enough attention span to give me what I'm looking (mainly, something regular with someone dirty enough to explore my fantasies with). Of course, this can be applied to anyone at any age... but personal experience has taught me to be wary of a certain age group. I am of course, as always, willing to have my mind changed :)   Then there's also the 'too old' for men over 50 as my dad's around that age and it would feel just a little too weird.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    not sure on the age range of women you have been contacting .. for if it were the 20-40 age range .. then I would say you should be just fine .. if your contacting women over that , then yes ,,. some / most of them might consider you would be too young .Women don't just want sex.. they also want intelligent stimulating conversation... 'excite the mind, before exciting the body'From my own perspective - I might consider you too young as you are within the same age range as my children, and the mental impact there would be --- similar conversation / similar music .. which doesn't relate with me .Things would only change with me if I was able to see that the 'young' guy was mentally older than his chronological age .. JMO

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Simply, you did not meet their criteria. Everyone has the right to choose who they interact with. If someone says you are too young, too old, too fit, too far away, too fat etc etc, then accept it and move on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    i think you are yummy and if i was allowed to play with you i so would.i cant talk for the rest of the women on here but i find it hard with the women two i have invited 3 women and 2men out to a burlesque club for dinner and drinks then a hotel after if they like me and i get the run a round...maybe im two young two :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    young Tigger...I looked at you and then at your friends,OMG what a bunch of gorgeousness. A lot of women would feel quite intimidated by that bevy of beauty.So instead of saying,you are wayyyyy to hot for me Tigs, they might just use the age card.Same effect and saves face.whew off to take me blood pressure meds now...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks everyone for the insight, it's interesting to read your views on the subject, much appreciated. -Tiger.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hello TigerI see you have an age bracket for the women you seek on your profile. I would not have thought your age up to a 40 year old an excessive age difference but, I suppose it depends on the individual you ask. Good luck with your search, there are plenty of fish in the RHP ocean.C

  • captainkaos

    captainkaos

    13 years ago

    They would like to to get to know someone first and be with someone that they can relate to. Be mentally stimulated as well.   I am not saying that you are dumb but i guess that they like to have things in common with you and get to know you before they bonk your brains out.   It works both ways Tiger. Some girls in their 20's say that i am too old. Imagine that!!! lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    As a self confessed Cougar, I can definitely say that I would be up for some 'feline fun' with you!Bella x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    it goes like this...for us at least, and a few others we are aware of......if you are the age of, or younger than our children, its not going to happen. we have 'children' older than yourself, and its pretty difficult to think of u, or anyone else in the same age group, as a prospective playmate...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That you put your thoughts on the forum...fresh blood an all that..hope you get your question answered and welcome!.. Now where are you other boys?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Good question Tiger ... there's a lot to agree with in terms of what others have said, especially those who (like Mike and Shel) have a rule about people younger than their own kids, we can totally relate to that. No reflection on you as a person, but icky from a parent's point of view.Having said that, people can grow old without growing up - some are as silly at 60 as they are at 6 - but probably many women on this site are looking for a level of experience/confidence in their lovers that SOMETIMES only comes with age. But there are always exceptions.If your intelligence, conversation and open mindedness is there for all to see, we can't see that you would have any problem in being mown down with offers!!Good luck :)

  • belladonna888

    belladonna888

    13 years ago

    You ask this and you have put a limit on the age your looking for .   Is age a factor or isnt it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Your not the only one out there! I dont get some of the women here. It's an adult dating site for sex! Don't know why people would be looking for a long term relationship on here

  • captainkaos

    captainkaos

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'belladonna888' You ask this and you have put a limit on the age your looking for .   Is age a factor or isnt it Touche eeeeeeeeeee   Is that how you spell it? You know the French word......There is supposed to be the funny liitle mark on top of the e as used with Andre. lol. Been too long out of school I think. lol.

  • MegaSin

    MegaSin

    13 years ago

    Love to be Mrs Saturns boy ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You say on your profile that you're only looking for women up to the age of 40! If you were to hypothetially contact me...I would say no as you are not actively seeking someone my age! Also your profile says "If required" for safe sex...that to me is HUGE pass! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have an 18yr old....... he looks 25, so age is a big thing for me personally. I just cannot connect sexually thinking about my son!I do have an age range on my profile..... which men tend to ignore. I made rules for me to keep me safe and sane.However...... I would break my rules for you.Oh my goodness, yes i would.But son of a PIGLET!!!!Why are all the hot men in the eastern states?WAAAAHHHHHH....... I so have to move.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have a Son 20 years younger than I am,My Mother Is 17 years older than I amCurrent Friend With Benefits 10 years older than I am...For me that's an Equation i can live with

  • Zsuza69

    Zsuza69

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'goddesstara'i think you are yummy and if i was allowed to play with you i so would.i cant talk for the rest of the women on here but i find it hard with the women two i have invited 3 women and 2men out to a burlesque club for dinner and drinks then a hotel after if they like me and i get the run a round... maybe im two young two :) Well next time Goddesstara you want someon for the burlesque club invite us lol Oh and the fun afterwards hell yes   As for the topic I (Mr Z) agree with Tigeroo i too have found that too many women want more than casual fun on here and yes it is a sex site and you have the option to pick and choose, but in my experiance in an open relationship when the women find out i am happy with Mrs Z and yes Mrs Z does know and no i dont want strings......they go and make an excuse from too old, not the right body type, too much hair, not enough hair, too tall, too short, too something. I bet if i had heaps of money, single and Gullible enough to take on their children and mortgage and or rent, those women would be all over me. lol but alas im not (pheew) to those women i say get off the sex websites and sign up to the many dating sites and leave the sex sites to poeple who are after sex only.

  • belladonna888

    belladonna888

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Zsuza69' Quoting 'goddesstara'i think you are yummy and if i was allowed to play with you i so would.i cant talk for the rest of the women on here but i find it hard with the women two i have invited 3 women and 2men out to a burlesque club for dinner and drinks then a hotel after if they like me and i get the run a round... maybe im two young two :) Well next time Goddesstara you want someon for the burlesque club invite us lol Oh and the fun afterwards hell yes   As for the topic I (Mr Z) agree with Tigeroo i too have found that too many women want more than casual fun on here and yes it is a sex site and you have the option to pick and choose, but in my experiance in an open relationship when the women find out i am happy with Mrs Z and yes Mrs Z does know and no i dont want strings......they go and make an excuse from too old, not the right body type, too much hair, not enough hair, too tall, too short, too something. I bet if i had heaps of money, single and Gullible enough to take on their children and mortgage and or rent, those women would be all over me. lol but alas im not (pheew) to those women i say get off the sex websites and sign up to the many dating sites and leave the sex sites to poeple who are after sex only.Couldnt have said it better myself !!

  • belladonna888

    belladonna888

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'captainkaos' They would like to to get to know someone first and be with someone that they can relate to. Be mentally stimulated as well.   I am not saying that you are dumb but i guess that they like to have things in common with you and get to know you before they bonk your brains out.   It works both ways Tiger. Some girls in their 20's say that i am too old. Imagine that!!! lol.The best sex i have is with randoms for the pub , dont even know their names , the only true nsa sex !!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13' young Tigger...I looked at you and then at your friends,OMG what a bunch of gorgeousness. A lot of women would feel quite intimidated by that bevy of beauty.So instead of saying,you are wayyyyy to hot for me Tigs, they might just use the age card.Same effect and saves face.whew off to take me blood pressure meds now... This is exactly the way I would feel also. I would look at your photos (great body btw), look at your female friends and their young hot bods.....then think "there is no way in hell I'm getting this old body naked with you" whimper a little, then use the age card as to not appear insecure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    So Tigeroo you are to young? Thank yourself lucky mate ,wait till the women tell you "your to old!"Then you gotta worry.Keep on rolling mate it takes all sorts to make the world go roundWait till you ,short fat bald and ugly,and all the women want you!

  • TomatoSauce33

    TomatoSauce33

    13 years ago

    And the reason's I were given were along the lines of... you look like my younger brother/son just too young, and I think these are good reasons as I'd be freaked out if a someone that reminded me of my own mum/aunt approached me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ok babycakes....some people just have standards. Not that hard to get is it?? Ok run along there's a good boy. But seeing you need the crayon treatment, just because you sign up doesn't guarantee you're going to get laid. It only guarantees you exposure. So quit your whining, and move on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'Ok babycakes....some people just have standards. Not that hard to get is it?? Ok run along there's a good boy. But seeing you need the crayon treatment, just because you sign up doesn't guarantee you're going to get laid. It only guarantees you exposure. So quit your whining, and move on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ok people, I think some of you are misinterpreting my question, and I probably should have worded it better.my question is more along the lines of:'What are the aspects of a younger man, that you believe may be an issue'?It's not about me - I'm doing just fine for myself on this site, I'm not asking 'what's wrong with ME' for goodness sake lol.

  • wannabyummymummy

    wannabyummymummy

    13 years ago

    The fact that you refer to RHP as a 'SEX SITE' and think that means age shouldnt matter is a bit of a concern really, nowhere on this site does it promise sex for a start, yes people meet on here for that reason but that doesnt mean that because someone is on here that they will fuck anything that moves (ok SOME of the guys might lol) the fact is we all have preferences thin/large/short/tall/young/old the lists are endless and most of the preferences are based on attraction therefore if someone isnt attracted to you for whatever reason (in your case age) then it just isnt going to happen. Focus your attention on ladies who are looking for men in your age range and stop focusing on all the ones that are not looking for you and you will have a much better time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Look at Mike and Shels answer , I am in the same boat , I have a teenage son , and I have my own rules about who I want to play with , so for single guys they have to accept my rules , the biggest problem I have is young guys who constantly fail to read my profile and the age groups I want to meet - me thinks education standards have slipped so how

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    hahahaha mega!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    i would fuck you lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I've had a fair share of toy boys in my time and for me sexually, it was quite disappointing. I don't know what is wrong with the young girls who are telling you, you are too young - that makes no sense. Each toy boy experience I have had, they have the stamina, just not the experience. A good and fulfilling sexual experience to me is all about, connection - sexually and mentally and most importantly the build up, foreplay, not just a mad pounding session.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You should... :).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Trust me, my young friend, this is not a comment worth losing sleep over. The day will come when you never hear it again. Now that's disturbing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Tigeroo'Ok people, I think some of you are misinterpreting my question, and I probably should have worded it better.my question is more along the lines of:'What are the aspects of a younger man, that you believe may be an issue'?It's not about me - I'm doing just fine for myself on this site, I'm not asking 'what's wrong with ME' for goodness sake lol. I was a bit confused and thought it was about you...Especially seeings as you used the word "I" x 12 times in your OP! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    So 23 is to young for this site?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'jensman1903' Trust me, my young friend, this is not a comment worth losing sleep over. The day will come when you never hear it again. Now that's disturbing. You are quite correct, it's better to be too young than too old, Tigeroo enjoy your youth for it is fleeting and will abandon you with no compassion!.

  • belladonna888

    belladonna888

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Tigeroo' Ok people, I think some of you are misinterpreting my question, and I probably should have worded it better.my question is more along the lines of:'What are the aspects of a younger man, that you believe may be an issue'?It's not about me - I'm doing just fine for myself on this site, I'm not asking 'what's wrong with ME' for goodness sake lol. I cant see a thing wrong with you

  • MegaSin

    MegaSin

    13 years ago

    LIKE LIKE

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ...why others would find you too young...but speaking for myself...i would have no problem, with your age

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

  • jezebel_jj

    jezebel_jj

    13 years ago

    I've been playing for 5 years and I can honestly say I've never had the problem. I have had experiences with women close to 30 years my senior. Most of them not, but I have had regular meets with women in their 40's. From my experiences and what I've heard from these women it's got nothing to do with age, it's all about attitude. They have all said at one stage or another, the reason they don't generally play with younger guys is that they lack the mental stimulation an older gentleman might be able to provide - in other words "young and stupid". Physical stimulation is great but if you're a dipshit, you can't expect your cougar to fall to the floor begging for more. If you can excite their imagination first everything else will follow.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    you mention no strings attached fun as the reason for being on this site. take the effort and get to know the particular person you are looking for as a person first and not just an object for sex and you will find that the sex (when it happens) will be a whole lot more satisfying.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Tigeroo....whilst you are very nice to look at you are also the same age as my son and that is a big no-no in my books.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    if ur hot who cares on ur age, its a sex site

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    13 years ago

    Also curious and I'm goung to ask very bluntly. WTF are all you under 25's doing on a website anyway, have all of yoyr conversational/interaction skills deteriorated so completely with the addition of mobile phones that instead of hooking up with others at parties or clubs you're all txting someone instead of meeting the people right in front of you. I might also add for the under 20's, does your Mother know what you're up to because I'm sure she wouldn't be fckg impressed with you looking at some pics of sexy women in her age bracket!!! Think about it.....and come back when your balls have dropped. Yes this is a sex site. No there's no guarentee you're going to get laid. I doubt many women would wants to be just a notch on some young tools belt, or have him running down to the pub/skate park to tell his boyfriends he just banged an old girl!! Jeezus.... As for younger women than you telling you you're too young? For the majority of my life I have always been with older men, they usually know what they want, will treat you with respect and thoughtfulness; make excellent lovers/teachers and have a knack for considering your feelings enough to take the time to make you feel desirable. Give me a man over a boy anyday. Age is but a number but what you offer in youthful stamina and appearance an older man makes up for with sex appeal and experience. Something you will eventually grow into.....in time. Forgive my tirade, BUT make a point of reading profiles young cubs, even those seeking casual NSA sex want someone they can communicate in depth with; that also applies to some older persons of both sexes. Don't take it personal if you're told you're too young/old/bald/fat/sexy/gorgeous. Accept it with the grace of an adult and without the heartache of a child.....and harden the hell up. OS over and out!

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    13 years ago

    For an 18/19 yo girl you may be the purrrfect older man to get jiggy with. Treat them well.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Incognito_Bella' As a self confessed Cougar, I can definitely say that I would be up for some 'feline fun' with you!Bella x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'On_Safari'Also curious and I'm goung to ask very bluntly. WTF are all you under 25's doing on a website anyway, have all of yoyr conversational/interaction skills deteriorated so completely with the addition of mobile phones that instead of hooking up with others at parties or clubs you're all txting someone instead of meeting the people right in front of you. I might also add for the under 20's, does your Mother know what you're up to because I'm sure she wouldn't be fckg impressed with you looking at some pics of sexy women in her age bracket!!! Think about it.....and come back when your balls have dropped. Yes this is a sex site. No there's no guarentee you're going to get laid. I doubt many women would wants to be just a notch on some young tools belt, or have him running down to the pub/skate park to tell his boyfriends he just banged an old girl!! Jeezus.... As for younger women than you telling you you're too young? For the majority of my life I have always been with older men, they usually know what they want, will treat you with respect and thoughtfulness; make excellent lovers/teachers and have a knack for considering your feelings enough to take the time to make you feel desirable. Give me a man over a boy anyday. Age is but a number but what you offer in youthful stamina and appearance an older man makes up for with sex appeal and experience. Something you will eventually grow into.....in time. Forgive my tirade, BUT make a point of reading profiles young cubs, even those seeking casual NSA sex want someone they can communicate in depth with; that also applies to some older persons of both sexes. Don't take it personal if you're told you're too young/old/bald/fat/sexy/gorgeous. Accept it with the grace of an adult and without the heartache of a child.....and harden the hell up. OS over and out! Sorry, but who the hell are you to say at what age anyone can be on the net? Just because someone is on here doesn't mean that they have lost any social skills at all! My daughter joined a couple of sites when she was 18 and now thanks to one of those wonderful gay sites she has met the most lovely girl and they have been together for almost a year and they only lived 3 streets away from each other for years and may not had met if not for the internet .... My daughter still has all her old friends from before the net, her old school mates are still around...She goes out clubbing still and has great communication skills! Just because an 18 yo has signed up on here doesn't mean that they are on 24/7 and if they are what does it matter to you...You don't meet them, you don't have sex with them...so....get over yourself! Noone has the right to judge anyone on why they are on here...same as you would hate to be judged for being on here! Stop being so judgemental ... if you don't like the youngun's then leave them for the ones that enjoy them and move on! . xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Personally, I would also feel weird if I was with someone my kids age and my fathers age, Yeuk!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hi some time young not bad to meet olds only have more expirense

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Nice marketing ploy Tigaroo (seemed to have worked!) Am now waiting to see if someone posts "OMG- they all think my dick's too big!"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    i guess its everyones personal choice of what they want and dont want me im a fan of the younger man age is just a number just because they are younger dosent mean they dont no how to treat a women there is good and bad in men of all ages and from my experience id rather deal with a younger mature man anyday thats just my opinion :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    HI Tigeroo, well if you EVER get to Adelaide ....................Ill make sure im free!!! well the reason I say no to some guys is that they dont meet my criteria , yes us girls need a criteria because we do get an abundance of messages sometimes and as much as we'd like to we cant play with everyone ! lol Work and family get in the way ! heheheI myself prefer guys your age to about 45 ish and anyone older or younger there has to be special circumstances ! If you can be selective and chosey then why not! and yes quoting xfunlovingx you obviously have a criteria or you should change you profile to say youre looking for girl any age! you're missing out on a huge demographic hun! And we're horny and know how to treat a man!cheersCutie xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I concur with Maria. A word of advice though Tnnaroo, by asking the question perhaps you have just provided yourself with the answer?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Nonconforming' Nice marketing ploy Tigaroo (seemed to have worked!) Am now waiting to see if someone posts "OMG- they all think my dick's too big!"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Does anyone know how to remove this topic?   PLEASE?!?!!??!?!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Why ?? quota reached lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'On_Safari'Also curious and I'm goung to ask very bluntly. WTF are all you under 25's doing on a website anyway, have all of yoyr conversational/interaction skills deteriorated so completely with the addition of mobile phones that instead of hooking up with others at parties or clubs you're all txting someone instead of meeting the people right in front of you. I might also add for the under 20's, does your Mother know what you're up to because I'm sure she wouldn't be fckg impressed with you looking at some pics of sexy women in her age bracket!!! Think about it.....and come back when your balls have dropped. Yes this is a sex site. No there's no guarentee you're going to get laid. I doubt many women would wants to be just a notch on some young tools belt, or have him running down to the pub/skate park to tell his boyfriends he just banged an old girl!! Jeezus.... As for younger women than you telling you you're too young? For the majority of my life I have always been with older men, they usually know what they want, will treat you with respect and thoughtfulness; make excellent lovers/teachers and have a knack for considering your feelings enough to take the time to make you feel desirable. Give me a man over a boy anyday. Age is but a number but what you offer in youthful stamina and appearance an older man makes up for with sex appeal and experience. Something you will eventually grow into.....in time. Forgive my tirade, BUT make a point of reading profiles young cubs, even those seeking casual NSA sex want someone they can communicate in depth with; that also applies to some older persons of both sexes. Don't take it personal if you're told you're too young/old/bald/fat/sexy/gorgeous. Accept it with the grace of an adult and without the heartache of a child.....and harden the hell up. OS over and out! Sorry, but who the hell are you to say at what age anyone can be on the net? Just because someone is on here doesn't mean that they have lost any social skills at all! My daughter joined a couple of sites when she was 18 and now thanks to one of those wonderful gay sites she has met the most lovely girl and they have been together for almost a year and they only lived 3 streets away from each other for years and may not had met if not for the internet .... My daughter still has all her old friends from before the net, her old school mates are still around...She goes out clubbing still and has great communication skills! Just because an 18 yo has signed up on here doesn't mean that they are on 24/7 and if they are what does it matter to you...You don't meet them, you don't have sex with them...so....get over yourself! Noone has the right to judge anyone on why they are on here...same as you would hate to be judged for being on here! Stop being so judgemental ... if you don't like the youngun's then leave them for the ones that enjoy them and move on! . xFunlovingx THANK you Funloving!!!! Could not have said it better myself! In saying that, here's my two cents.... On_Safari, I am NOT here because i'm socially retarded. I've been on RHP since I was 20 and met Spam (Mr) on here in the chatrooms.I'm here because I love the non-judgmental mentality of MOST, clearly you don't fit into that category... I also love the fact that I can chat people up whilst sitting on the couch in my PJs eating dinner and watching a movie. Unlike with a club, I don't have to get all dolled up if I don't want to and I don't have to worry about getting my ass squeezed as I walk past or my tits oggled at (unless i'm in the chatroom, in which case that might be just what i'm going for). People that i've met in 'the real world' who find out i'm on an online 'dating' site are quite surprised as i'm attractive, friendly, fun and 'normal' i.e. I don't wear coke-bottle thick glasses (just the usual thickness), have terrible adult acne (an occassional spot every now and then, granted) and stutter and stammer around the opposite sex (i'm more likely to do that around a pretty girl). This is no judgment on anyone that online 'dates' - heck i'm one of them- simply a result of that stigma that online 'dating' still has. You obviously are of this opinion also given your comments, which is quite ironic since you are here too. The 'txting someone instead of meeting the people right in front of you' also goes for you if you're on here, regardless of your age or not. Also hypocritical given your 'age is but a number' comment. End of rant. Dida xx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Its just a question of ones morals and self respect. If someone doesn't like the idea of being with someone that is as old as their children, that's their choice. Personally for myself, being surrounded by more mature people in my life since a young age, I tend to get along better with people that are around my own age or older.   On the other foot...I have experienced the so called "Cougar" thing, with being with younger women, yeah sure we can enjoy the younger woman, but nine times out of ten, they're only in it for themselves. Its about the balance of enjoying each other... pleasing each other... where as the experiences I have experienced with younger women in the past, its a one-sided affair....and quite often they're only looking for the one-nighter, cause they dont have as much self respect... their boredom is continually changing, hense why unless you have a lot of money... they're off to the next stable.   Ok, my words might bite here... however these are my thoughts. Good luck to all...

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    13 years ago

    While you might not get anything out of it .. other guys who are too afraid to ask might get a wealth of information from it! Noone has been abusive or rude! Just click "Unfollow" if you don't want to read it anymore! xFunlovingx

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    13 years ago

    Tigeroo, while I find your pics and profile delicious, I would have to agree with Boo75....I would feel like I was having fun with my son (if I had one !). .... :o)

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Nonconforming' Nice marketing ploy Tigaroo (seemed to have worked!) Am now waiting to see if someone posts "OMG- they all think my dick's too big!"

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    13 years ago

    You are beautiful, but my rule is "if you are closer to my son's age than mine - no deal!" It would just seem wrong. Good luck xxx

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    13 years ago

    I got that all the time too buddy, I'm 27 too. I guess it really depends on the woman you are talking to. If she wants you, she wants you and if she doesn't, no matter how good looking you are or how impressive your life status is you are nothing to them. Hope you find one soon buddy. good luck! :)

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    13 years ago

    Women on here are contacted by soooooo many single men, we can be fussy so we stick with what works for us. Sometimes that means a preferred age or experience. I have found men younger than 30 are really not able to mentally stimulate me, and tend to please themselves first. I am one of those who needs attraction and connection and I like my playmates to have enough experience to please a woman and to enjoy pleasing me. This seems to come with emotional maturity. Besides, I had plenty of 27 year olds when I was 20 something- been there, done that! Lol! Having said that, if you think you are an exception to these assumptions, I am more than happy to entertain the idea.

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    13 years ago

    I also get told I'm too young, from the ladies who are late 40 early 50s. These women generally know what they are doing. I actually use the same line on younger girls, because early 20s not too many have much in the way of intelligent conversation, or anywhere near as,pleasurable experience as an older more experienced lover PocketRocket31