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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  Have to agree with you on there, although im a big chatter in the room and know quite a number of people, it is never to hard to acknowledge someone who has said hi, but have noted a number of people get totally ignored which is very rude. Yes there are the groups in there, but you just need to start up a conversation with someone and then keep it up, no good saying hi, and leaving it at that, you also need to contribute something. And of course anyone with a cam on is going to be chatted to, especially a woman. Anyway next time you in chat, say hi. Shy xx

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  unfortunately some of us find it hard to attend social functions or even socialise so the only way is the chatroom

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  This has happened to us a few times now...I go in and say hi and no one responds have tried to join in the converstaion and get totally ignored.. I don't understand

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  well im a regular in chat and make the effort to speak to all new chatters as i was once my self and a hint of advise if you come in and say hi all then sit like a stunded mullet no 1 will talk to you. you need to maybe make the 1st move and single some1 out and start a convo with them and you will be supprised how many people will take interest in what you have to say and comment so basicly if you want to be noticed you have to make yourself noticed. see you in chat starr xx

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  The Ins and Outs (or the old ston age appalling "pros and cons" terms if you like) of Internet chatting... Like anywhere you go, The Internet Chatroom is no different than you hang out in pubs and clubs, nor in any soial event such as Bingo Commnity and the Laundry Bar around the corner... Everyone can say Hi but not all will reply. In Chatrooms, if everyone say HI back, it would cause a flooding of Hi's that would scroll the screen up faster than the speeding bullet... Besides, everyone saw you say hi, so dont be disapoonted if you ddnt a reply. Of course it IS rude for not replying, but mind you, most chatters belong to "groups" that talks to, Like Stardust said, you have to make a lil effort to draw attention... Bear in mind, you also will come across individuals which we call "Fucktards". The word itself is very self explanitory, there is no need to elaborate this in detailed explanation. I,myself is a veteran chatter for more than ten years, if you (anyone) have any quetions regarding chatting, please dont hesitat to ask me. I be very happy to answer the best I can. S_Finger, with my disability (deafness) I'd find chatting a lot easier to converse than being at social events. But that didnt stop me from going to social events tho. Anyhoo.. i best leave it there and nick off... Spartanis

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  i have been a chatter for a few years now n have found one thing in the chat that really irritates me That guys will chat to you and when there is a sexy girl on cam you get totally ignored, but once that girl has done her thing on cam we all get the hi how you going didnt see you come in, well you would have seen me come in if you were obsessed with watching some chick play with herself!!!!!! IS IT SO HARD TO CONCENTRATE AND TYPE HI i have made some awesome ppl on here and hope to keep my friends i have made on here for years to come but just a word of warning, you can only be rude so many times THINK ABOUT IT yeah we may not all look like glamour models and some of us may have a lil extra weight but deep down we all the same we all have blood running thru our veins that makes our heart beat but for those of us who havent been gifted with the gorgeous looks we have a heart of gold and would do anything for our friends and believe it or not we do have feeling and it does hurt when someone dismisses us for someone who is a size 8 and the perfect body. So we may not be your perfect person but would it hurt to say hi or have a convo with us you may be suprised AGAIN GUYS THINK ABOUT IT

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  sexgames4two, I agree totally. Had that happen last night. Of course, you can't blame guys, simple creature that they are. Let's face it, any girl sitting naked with her feet on the desk is naturally going to attract attention. And I look on it in a positive manner, I know two more guys who won't be meeting me ever.... If I'm not good enough to even acknowledge, then I sure as hell ain't good enough to f*ck.... Viking.

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Sexgames4two and Viking... I agree... Ive come to the conclusion that those guys who only chat to me when some airhead isnt showing her wares on cam.. I wont rush to meet so it cuts the numbers down quite dramatically... I do have certain people I send an excited hello to when I walk in the WA chatroom.. so I guess I can be accused of being cliquey but I wouldnt consider myself RUDE to ppl who come in by not saying hello to them and making them feel welcome... sometimes with the lag..or the fact that I at any given time also have 6 conversations going on msn at the time I may MISS a collective or even a specific hello..... Some people have made their own bad reputation in the WA room tho S_finger... Ive been in there and theres been someone come in and just made a complete tool of themselves abusing ppl and then a couple of days later come in and said "hey all" and wondered why no one says hello back... *shrugs* bundy

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  I find chatting very difficult unless there is less than twenty or so people. But it can be fun too. My limit is about one hour before I get frustrated and crosseyed. :/ I have had some remarkable success though. I don't know but I think luck seems to have a large part to play.

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  I am quite new to this chat room..ok...so have been here over a month... You need to keep on chatting...say Hi to who comes in and Bye to who leaves..if u give respect...thet will give it back... Me and you have chatted before in wa chat..finger...so u know i have told u this before....hang in there hun, u will be ok...and welcome to all to the new chatters who thinks they are ignored.. Don't just say HI.....make a conversation....it becomes easier... xxxxxxxxxxx

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