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How young is too young?
October 25 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
I dont believe that a person is ever too old for this site. A healthy sex life is a very important aspect of life and helps in maintaining good physical and mental health. I am not exactly in a retirement village but I hear that there is a very active social life going on there. Often the single men can be seen going across the compound, wine bottle under the arm for a game of........euchre! As for too young, I guess the legal age is 18 for so many things. I know it seems so very young to me but at that age you can be sent overseas to die for your country, marry, vote, sign contracts and be reasonably independent from ones parents.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks for that fiona i really didn't want to hear that there was a 'too old' limit I know what you mean about legal at 18 ( a whole other concept i disagree with but i digress) but it scares me a little because as mentioned there is no real way to verify that they are in fact 18 (are we supposed to ask for ID on your first meet??) what if someone younger did get on here saying they were 18, looked and acted 18 but turned out to be much younger??? yikes i would just DIE!!! part of the reason i just don't want to go there, also my time with guys in that age bracket was when i was young and scrawny not now as a 'real woman' after 3 kids lolBut i am still curious to hear why they are attracted to it when they are still so young and fresh in their sexual lives is it like everything else with GenY? need to do everything NOW someone tell me please Mrs GC
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RHP User
15 years ago
I find that i get on with women older then myself better then those that are closer to my age. RHP is just an additional way to find and meet them.Absolute.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't think anybody will ever be too old. Sex and sexual expression are healthy components of a fulfilling life. As for too young? I don't know. The legal age to have sex is 16, so it shouldn't be unexpected that GENY and Z are tapping into the technological society for a little nookie, especially since they've/we've been socialised alongside the internet. It's everywhere, online, TV, in schools and the classifieds of the paper...It's a natural solution to a nagging curiosity and also gives those from more sheltered background to find a safer means of expression before coming out of their shells. Sites such as rhp also allow young people from rural areas or even the burbs to branch out and find somebody (even if its just a fling) they connect with, instead of settling on an expectation or with someone they don't actually feel anything for. Age is not indicative of sexuality. If they're legal in the eyes of the state and of the rules governing the site. This kind of technology allows people to gauge another before agreeing to meet/have sex/pursue a friendship. It's a safety blanket not available in the pub, club or other haunts of the young and restless. This way, one can at least pick somebody they are mutually attracted to, instead of finding themselves doing the walk of shame the next morning, disgusted with the latest case of beer goggles.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I tend to draw the line at 21. I figure while it might be legal at a lower age, that most aren't mature enough. Having said that I do find a lot of the younger ones look hot. Unfortunately they are typically after someone closer to their own age, so that rules me out
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
There should be no set age for swinging...if you are 80 and still want it..why not, if you can find people to play with. As for how young? Yes there are some younguns on here and in clubs etc. but if they are 18 or over they are free to do as they please. Whether they are mature enough is their issue. From our experience, some of the younger ones are more switched on then folk twice their age. As for policing their ages...there probably is no way to be 100% sure...so if you're in doubt, just don't go there.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Too young is when you ask your cousin to "bring you something" then find out at a later date you broke the law... oopsiesalthough he did the same, in reverse, and I guess losing my v plates was statutory rape technically. (her being older for the record).Although I haven't really "put my money where my mouth is" too many times on here, I like having that extra option that gives me a little bit more choice.Again, with a cousin, who's 19, her friends her age tend to do my nut in a little bit, plus for a lot of them I'm too young, at 19, they want 30s guys.For the older girls, I tend to meet them in environments with older guys so even when they seem keen, they usually back out when it comes down to it, for silly little reasons of getting teased by the older blokes for "doing the baby" lol.Also, probably making a couples profile with a friend of mine soon, as it's a site where you can comfortably state what you're looking for. We've brought it up with a couple of people, to some success, but other times it really throws people off so we just kind of don't really want to take that chance sometimes. The walls have ears in our world sometimes!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well I am 61 my wife 57 and I hope we are never too old.... We meet many couples our age and older, often the guys have a hard time getting it up but usually we have fun.. On the other hand we do not like couples around our childrens age.. wow too close to the mark!!! Incest and all that stuff.. A lot of young folk we see, we wonder if they have their relationship on a steady enough base, swinging can raise some issues maybe they didn't think about, not just the fun side.... My husband always says he wants to go with an 18YO before he is way too old, not me tho.. R&L
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hotqld- what can i say LMAO poprocket- nicely said, you do make some very valid points there and i guess in some ways it is the generation that has grown up with this technology that would be best equipped to use it safely.captnjack- i do worry about the maturity thing too (perhaps it is the mother in me) but i really don't want one that i have to train, if i wanted that i would get another puppy, i prefer the older more experienced type myself.Donna_Brett as always well put, I must say that reading some of these responses i am beginning to agree with you about the younger ones having their head on straight.itsb3n- not sure i followed what you were saying the whole way through but from what i gather while 25 is still very young i guess it is kind of middle of the road from the two ends of the spectrum that i was talking about.Ozzyrovers- thanks for the input, good to see that age is no barrier for you and that you are still having a great time, best of luck to Mr with his fantasy of the 18 year old though (kind of makes me wonder what age your kids are mmmmmm) lolAnyway thanks everyone for the input so far, i am finding the responses very interesting an ever more informed Mrs GC
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RHP User
15 years ago
A female is legally able to have sex at 16 but if she participates in BDSM activities then that is deemed to be corrupting a minor. A male is not legally allowed to have sex until he is 18. At 18 everyone can do what the heck they like. As long as it is legal who cares about age. My partner is 50 but looks younger than me (lucky bugger). I have played with guys as young as 22 who knew exactly what they were about. There is no shame in age. Go out and have fun.
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N4November
15 years ago
I was fairly strict with myself about interacting with guys much younger than myself - I just refused to go there... but I took a chance on someone who appealed and was amazed by his maturity and sense of self. God, I've never looked back!! It all goes to attraction and the ability to connect with someone. I've met some pretty shallow and immature 40 year olds but thats true regardless of any age. Don't limit your experiences from your own bigotry. That's why I"m loving RHP and the adventures it brings me - I keep pushing my boundries and it gobsmacks me how its always getting better and better!!! Lastly, to Mrs GC - hopefully the only reason I stop having sex (even with myself) is because I've died of a great old age!!! kisses xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wasn't it 16 for heterosexual sex, but 18 for homosexual sex? (did they unify this to make it the same in all states or is it still a state by state thing?)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Age does not come into the equation at all it is far more about how well they look after themselves physically. And what they are like when we meet.. plain and simple attraction is a MUST
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RHP User
15 years ago
Todays Generation..has been sexualised since they were.....what do they call them Now...Tweens....? Anyway my point being is that they are being desensitised daily....Tv, Music,Adverts....We all Know Sex Sells....but fair dinkum its crammed down their throats...no matter where they Gowhen first thrust back into the dating world a few years ago...My older children whom are Adult males and very protective of their Mommy,and myself discussed what They and I would be comfortable with Age wise.....we come up with 10 years older than My Oldest Son.....and 10 years younger than My Mother There is a similar distance of years between myself and my mother as there is with my son and myself... My mother was always very honest and open about any questions i had...Yes even about Kinky stuff...So i had no problem carrying on this family tradition...of keeping an open mind and asking and answering lots of questions. Anything thing on the other side of those figures would Be Freaky.....this is just my oppinion
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RHP User
15 years ago
Myself and Hubby were with a couple where the male was around our age but the female turned out to be 18 (we found out afterwards) which was 10 years younger than Hubby at the time, kinda freaked him out for a second, but she was quite beautiful so i think he got over it pretty quick lol . I tend to like guys at least 24 or so, as the younger ones "generally" just don't know enough about a woman to do things right etc . But as long as all parties are attracted physicaly and mentaly then I really don't think age is an issue. Summur xoxo
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twowithnolimits
15 years ago
Why are people so engrossed in what is right, "for someone else"? Just think how much better the world would be if we just accepted that all people are potentially different and whats right for them is right for them..... Attaching numbers(ages in this case) is always bordering on the farcial... already we are discussing here, differences between federal and state law, state Vs state law, gender Vs gender, sexual orientation.... now lets throw in some other considerations, country Vs country....continent Vs continent..religion Vs religion.....generation Vs generation.... What should speed limits be? What age should you marry? Can you be an "adult" at 14? How old is correct before you can drive? Shoot a gun? Enter a night club? Go to war? Become a mother? How many wives can/should you have? Why is it an african teenager can manage a farm and family and an australian teenager is expected to implode under the stress of an exam? Legislation only ever reflects the prevailing view of the power group of the time. Paul
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RHP User
15 years ago
for me! I was with a guy around 2 years ago that was only 19...never knew his age at the time, I just assumed he was around 25!! Met him at a shop and didn't bother asking him as he was hot, hot, hot!! To me...it doesn't matter about the age (younger), it's how I can converse with them and if my pussy gets all wet just by him looking at me ... droooolllll!!! But, I have never been with an older man since I was 25, don't know why, I just seem to attract the young ones and love it!!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I like women in general but theres something about older women thats wow, the curves, the experience and without the bs of girls my own age lol. I am 22 but probs look closer to 17/18 lol.
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RHP User
15 years ago
OK so again some interesting points of view, to be clear once again i am not intending this as a judgmental kind of question and i do not hold age alone as a deciding factor when choosing a playmate, it is more about the attraction level but i am just not attracted to the really young ones i tend to like more of a 'manly man' to boyish charm (my personal taste)As Hotqld pointed out in terms of actually swinging, age can be more of an issue more to the point it is the time they have had together and how secure they are as a couple. When i see couples on here that are in the 18 - 20ish bracket i do stop and wonder how secure in their relationship they can be and know that at that age i certainly would not have been ready for it ( I was married quite young the first time at 20 and divorced by 24 so i think that may have something to do with it lol) but Mr GC and I have been together for around 7 years now but in that time we have been through quite a lot and come out the other side stronger than ever so we were both very comfortable with our decision to give this a try so in that respect it is not our age but our time together and our life experience that made us ready and able to handle things.From an adult site point of view then of course if they are of legal age they have every right to be here and to have a great time and not be judged for it and i suppose on reflection it makes sense that they would turn to the internet as they are the generation that have grown up with it.And as twowithnolimits pointed out there are a variety of differences that could be taken into consideration so there is no need to be hung up on just one so i guess we could go the the extreme of asking is 16 too young for the age of consent?? I don't know, maybe it is, but does anyone really care? kids are getting younger and younger when they start experimenting with sex (possibly due to the fact that they are so bombarded with sexual material everywhere for most of their lives) I am sure they are not going to say 'oh wait i am not legal yet i should wait' LMAOI find Chilli's comment interesting that he finds the older women more appealing as they are more put together and less bs than girls his own age because there are a lot of women his age on here so are they all bs? is that a generalization? or to play devils advocate for a moment is that kind of my point with the younger age bracket?? It is really interesting though that everyone seems so open minded ( I love that )about age and that it doesn't seem to be a big factor to most people, i must say that in my time here i have broadened my view on the age range a little and have been pleasantly surprised as a result.Anyway loving the points of view so keep 'em coming An ever more informed,Mrs GC
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sydneyboy I am still waiting trying to find the relevant authorities so I can get the correct official information in writing. I have been told by someone in the police force that those are the correct ages but as a BDSM Mistress I want it in writing!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
It was just a generalisation but at the same time as you've pointed out it does technically answer your question. To further add to my previous comment ill refer to your post in which you questioned the security of young couples relationships, that's sort of where i'm coming from. My interests are nothing more than nsa sessions, who better than a mature lady who's experienced in this lifestyle as opposed to someone my own age who may get the wrong idea and/or be after something different in me as a partner........etc Obviously this is a massive over generalisation but as I said it's where my line of thinking comes from in regards to my age preferences. lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
We had a young lass who was rather rude even thou her profile clearly stated18-90 (and all genders too). Wish the young ladies who state they are hot live by what they state in their profile..When we stated mrs humanbio looked 25-30, she said she didn't look that youngWell.. wel seen her pics and sorry skin texture and an body shapeMrs humanbio looked half her age physically.So age is in the head, some 25 year olds have more muffin and look very ageddepends on how you lived (ie alcohol and smoking ages the body etc)RANT over....LOL
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RHP User
15 years ago
and couldn't find it...... but thanks! I've forgotten why I wanted it.. but none the less... I attended a party of 18 year olds up to around 21 I guess... all fun loving people and well behaved.. and I was on the door, checking I.D. handing out the vodka slammers, the skulling of which was the price of entry, and taking down phone numbers... errr... in case I had to ring their parents for any reason. "Sure" I said.. "of course you can call me daddy"... and I got to thinking.... how mature in many ways that 18 year old people are these days... not adverse to nudity it would seem, as they frolicked in the pool.... but what I noticed was respect.... where's the respect for each other? They hide their alcohol from each other... gone are the days when we put all our beers in a bathtub full of ice and could safely retrieve same without fear of it being entirely consumed by "friends".Anyway.... as a rule of thumb... choose the age of your eldest adult child and add 7 years...... that's as good rule of thumb as any other. It just feels inappropriate playing with youngin's that age.. so... ummm... best not to ask... the age I mean. I mean, nobody asks me how old I am! HUGsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'Anyway.... as a rule of thumb... choose the age of your eldest adult child and add 7 years...... that's as good rule of thumb as any other. It just feels inappropriate playing with youngin's that age.. so... ummm... best not to ask... the age I mean. I mean, nobody asks me how old I am! HUGsStalky Lol...dont tell Fionbee that equation she might hurt us both...you really are limiting her choice of playmates then arent you...hehe... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' Quoting 'stalky'Anyway.... as a rule of thumb... choose the age of your eldest adult child and add 7 years...... that's as good rule of thumb as any other. It just feels inappropriate playing with youngin's that age.. so... ummm... best not to ask... the age I mean. I mean, nobody asks me how old I am! HUGsStalky Lol...dont tell Fionbee that equation she might hurt us both...you really are limiting her choice of playmates then arent you...hehe... . Kisses FocusNot nice. But I will accept it as you did say rule of thumb and I do have a habit of breaking rules that have been set for me and making my own.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think it comes down to how old you are aswell, i mean there are ALOT of horny young men and women out there, but also MOST DEFINITELY alot of creepy ass older people out there who are all into "the younger, the better", i think there should be no more than say 20 years difference, also depending on age and preference, i mean some young women are into older older blokes, and some young blokes are into older older women..... Is it the experience difference between the 2, i'm sure sometimes it very much is, for young blokes.....For young women ie "anna nicole smith", MONEY MONEY MONEYYYYYY!!!!! PLAYFULGUY.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
What I said was... don't ask a person's age and problem solved! :pHUgsStalkyQuoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'focusliason' Quoting 'stalky'so... ummm... best not to ask... the age I mean. I mean, nobody asks me how old I am! HUGsStalky Lol...dont tell Fionbee that equation she might hurt us both...you really are limiting her choice of playmates then arent you...hehe... . Kisses FocusNot nice. But I will accept it as you did say rule of thumb and I do have a habit of breaking rules that have been set for me and making my own.
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