How do you impress

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  And the chat does not last long. I know that the internet does hasten things a fair amount BUT if we met in real life and were just begining to get to now each other, no decent man would answer with "I'm horny" I do find it a little offensive.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  It seems people forget really easily that there are real human beings behind the profile they click on. Nothing annoys me more than having sex, an act I consider to be quite intimate, discussed in the first message I receive. I make first impression judgements based on the content of that first contact and an otherwise intelligent person may slip through the crack if they use this approach on mr, especially as it also tends to suggest they didn't bother reading my profile *eyeroll* I agree with Fiona's point that if we met in real life as opposed to online, nobody would say that in response to a straightforward question like "how are you?" ... Flirty x

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  .....then make me laugh :) . "Im horny" isn't funny....it's just lazy

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I found out long ago that a lot of men (OK not all) use instant messaging to get their rocks off and never follow up with a meeting. No matter what you say online they keep bringing it back to sex. I NEVER online chat now because of that. Anyway Next time I meet someone for a drink I might try that response ("I'm Horny") lol betcha they do a double take at that

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Alot of the conversation comes down to what you want. I'm not innocent of that remark but i learnt a long time ago for it to work its a 1 in a million shot. The meeting is usually dependant on making her feel safe and secure. The idea that for her to be out of control, I, (as man) have to be IN control. And the conversation is where it starts. But I actually dont know what's going on. If you say, 'how are you' and the answer is 'fine' where do you go? Persoanlly, I prefer honesty. If someone is in a bad mood, tell me 'how are you?' ''Shit, my dog left me for the cat next door, my teenage daughter is dating a biker and son is wearing pink shirts!' Now we have a conversation!!!! I agree you can't say 'I'm horny' It's not polite and1 of the biggest lessons I learnt about women a long time ago is, YOU CAN GET BY ON CHARM FOR ABOUT 10 MINS, AFTER THAT YOU'D BETTER KNOW SOMETHING. I may not have the beauty one-night women are looking for, but as for morning after conversation and cooked breakfasts, I'm a Stephen Fry and Gordon 'F^%&ing Ramsey...know your place, show some respect boys, play to your strengths, and yes Flirty is right, there are real people behind these words, pictures, and electronic conversations...Chivalry isn't dead, it's just behind the bus shelter getting beaten down by a 6-pack and 9inch schlong...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  The one thing that annoys me about these sites is that some people who are on here are very selfish and inconsiderate of others and that spoils it for the decent people who are on here. I have learn't that a successful relationship of any description between people cannot exist unless there is mutual respect. A one line conversation is not the way to earn respect and meet people and expect them to like you. I know there has to be an attraction between people for them to meet, however most people only look at the cover and think they are going to have a geart session of unbridled passion because of someone's looks. Nothing could be further from the truth. You also need to treat each other with respect in the bedroom and be sensetive to each others needs and wants. Good manners and politeness are more important. I like TigerTanta may not have the looks and I know that I am sexually unattractive to women, but I would love to meet someone on this site and be given a chance to treat them right.

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