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How BI are you really....
December 20 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
Practice makes Perfect....keep on Humpin
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RHP User
15 years ago
From our experience, most of the women who say they are bisexual seem to be pretty interested in girl-on-girl.It is the one's who say they are bi-curious but do not seem at all interested in the suggestion of playing with another woman that make me think they are only putting it on their profile to attract attention. And just for the record...I say that I am bisexual on our profile because I genuinely enjoy playing with other women :)Mrs NTN
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RHP User
15 years ago
It seemed to be a situation that required compassion and understanding despite leaving you wondering (and unsatisfied). Many would tout the girl as selfish, but your approach from what you have written was sensitive. She had an undercurrent of hurt going on. Best wishes to you...and fingers crossed, some satisfaction comes your way shortly ;P
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RHP User
15 years ago
its because people are curious but fearful. or just plain dishonest and claim to be bi, just to get into the gals pants. we now put the acid on right from word one. play with us is about play with both or not at all.
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RHP User
15 years ago
It is the one's who say they are bi-curious but do not seem at all interested in the suggestion of playing with another woman that make me think they are only putting it on their profile to attract attention. I had bi-curious on my profile for a while as I thoiught it was something I may like to experience. When it dawned on me that I was definatley heterosexual and in no way shape or form even remotely interested in women I removed it. It had nothing to do with attention seeking. More self discovery. On the original topic, maybe she was not interested in touching the woman as she was unsure of what to do. This could have been her deciding moment. If we all close our eyes, a mouth is a mouth and a tongue is a tongue, irrespective on wether it is a man or a woman. We can all get our rocks off easily enough but then reciprocating with the same sex may be an entirely different matter.
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RHP User
15 years ago
i have no idea on this...im as straight as a rod, no interest at all in any woman but maybe it is pressure from society that women should be more open to touching other women when we were young when you got a porno or looked at mags it was woman on woman that was hot and sexy...men on men was gross and so far from hot and sexy it just wasnt funny although things are different now....you ask most men and they will tell you their biggest fantasy is a threesome with 2 women i know a few women that tell me they love the feel and the taste of another woman but i also know some that will just do it cause they feel they should... so maybe its jusy a thing some women think they should do to keep others happy roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
ok someone tell me if i am curious or totally bi then or just a dreamerI dream of fucking a girl/woman and nibbling on tits playing with pussy but its all just a dream is this a fantasy? the thought of being touched kissed and caressed by another really does it for me but i have neva had the opp to fullfill. I have had one experience when i was a teen and have been to scared to ask - for the general consensus is its a no go zone or so the girls all say and put on this omg no way shit - but behind closed dooors!!!! its different what the!
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RHP User
15 years ago
ok help - i put bi curious because i am genuinly curious I have had one experience with a girl as a teen and it seems i was more into than she so it neva went anywhere - since then i have been attracted to others to no avail - to scared to put it on anyone for fear of rejection and judgement - I have dreams of being with another girl - but they are always about what she will do to me!and wht if it turns out its not for mewell then i will openly admit im straight - honestly tho i dont think i am. Sex full stop just turns me on.
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Mr_MrsJones
15 years ago
Our profile lists Lady (me) as Bi-curious. There has been much discussion in our house about what constitutes bi-sexual. We feel it means that the woman (or man) would enter into a fully blown relationship with another person of the same sex. I like having sex with women but I don't think I would marry one hence my status is listed as bi-curious. At first I was just that, curious. Now I know that I like SOME women but not all. I also know that when I play with women I don't like to do it for the viewing pleasure of any men that might happen to be around. I have a real problem with couples who use the girl-girl play as a warm up act. In a lot of ways I like my girl girl time to be without any male influence at all. I have attended Ladies Nights at CI and found them to be excellent in that regard (Leesa really does make it a great night). What strikes me about a lot of women I have met there is the complete fear of touching another woman because they don't know what to do. The assumption that women will be able to automatically please another woman is completly false and all women know this in their hearts. Women are complex creatures even to other women.
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RHP User
15 years ago
This is a difficult question to answer. I think, and it is my personal opinion that you can run a line from 100% hetro to 100% gay and most of us will fall some place along that line. I am inclined to think that we all fall some place along the line with varying degrees in same sex partner interest. Personally I love MMF threesomes and play with both partners with equal excitement. It was stated earlier that a mouth is a mouth if you cant see who is supplying it, generally you really don't care. Now I will not play with guys on their own. Would I join in a group self masturbation session...possibly...Would I use a glory hole knowing there is a fair chance it was a guy sucking me...possibly. Still this is a social Tabu in the case in question perhaps she suddenly felt ashamed of being pleased by a woman. It is hard to know. So how Bi are we...I think it varies. LC
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'lord_lady69' Our profile lists Lady (me) as Bi-curious. There has been much discussion in our house about what constitutes bi-sexual. We feel it means that the woman (or man) would enter into a fully blown relationship with another person of the same sex. I like having sex with women but I don't think I would marry one hence my status is listed as bi-curious. At first I was just that, curious. Now I know that I like SOME women but not all. I also know that when I play with women I don't like to do it for the viewing pleasure of any men that might happen to be around. I have a real problem with couples who use the girl-girl play as a warm up act. In a lot of ways I like my girl girl time to be without any male influence at all. I have attended Ladies Nights at CI and found them to be excellent in that regard (Leesa really does make it a great night). What strikes me about a lot of women I have met there is the complete fear of touching another woman because they don't know what to do. The assumption that women will be able to automatically please another woman is completly false and all women know this in their hearts. Women are complex creatures even to other women. think you will find that being bi curious means you'd be up for a play but could easily give it a miss. bisexual means you actively seek out sexual interaction with people of same sex, and gay or homosexual means you seek out an exclusive relationship with a person of your own sex. bi and gay can involve degrees of "love' but the gay idea involves commitment to a lifestyle whereas bisexual really means the physical barriers are down and although deep affection and fondness are acceptable, its not your lifestyle of choice.bi men move between their family life and their sex life with little guilt and compunction, even if they live straight and play bi. not sure if there's 'degrees' of bi, but do know that for guys, anal sex is not a 'given' any more than in a hetero relationship.
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RHP User
15 years ago
you should all do some research on what it is to be bisexual. it basically means that you choose to have same sex encounters, sexually, romantically or emotionally, whether or not you are in a hetero relationship doesn't mean a thing...... there are no 'shades' of bi'. you either are or you are not. its fairly simple. 30% of us are bisexual. its no big deal. its just easier for a woman to admit they are bi than it is for a man,thanks to the bigots and prudes amongst us.
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RHP User
15 years ago
bisexual doesn't mean a committed one on one mutually exclusive relationship. that's what homosexual means.ones a lifestyle choice9gay) the other a choice of convenience(bi). bisexual is what i have been since my early teens. the attraction is there but not a desire to become romantically involved.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' For me too truely BI Sexual means "i could just as easily live in a relationship with a woman as a man" I am not, i love playing with women, i don't do it to ammuse men...i think that's a HUGE insult to the other women you play with but i would not and could not live in a relationship with a woman as i do a man. I'd like to see the classification "bi-active" in there..........I'm not curious because i KNOW the joys of "soft love", i'm not BiSexual because i favour men but i am definatly BiActive. xx Sweetie Yeah I guess I have to agree... if Im in a mmf threesome I would only do it if the guy wanted to play with me and my gf or if I was the third guy I would expect that we play as well as with the girl... its about three people having a great time... not one watching while two have fun (whats the point in that? doesnt feel balanced to me) now I know that might happen at some points in the interaction but its not how I see the structure of a threesome... everyone should be there for everyone else too... totally mutual.but yeah... I cant say I would ever have an enduring relationship with only a guy... Id be great friends and who knows if the mood struck and things were in that head space then I wouldnt say no but it wouldnt be an ongoing and exclusive thing... my preference is for women in that sense.LS
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RHP User
15 years ago
I might be making very broad definitions, but I think that catergories, for all there worth are as follows:Straight is for those who would never go near the same sex.Experimental is for those that are happy to try new things if the mood takes them.Bi Curious is for the person who is interested in a same sex relationship.Bi Sexual is for those that are open to being with the same or opposite sex and don't really prefer one over the other.Gay or Lesbian is for those that don't have a need or want to be with a member of the opposite sex.These though are very braod catergories and im sure there can be a wide degree of variation or interpretation. I do find though that what people catergorise themselves as in their profile and what they actually are is usually very different, especially with men.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ahhhh We have a word here at CI that is ..BI social...It means...I dont mind girls for the foreplay and fun but finish me off with cock please. Maybe we should put it in wikipedia...lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'couplesint' Ahhhh We have a word here at CI that is ..BI social...It means...I dont mind girls for the foreplay and fun but finish me off with cock please. Maybe we should put it in wikipedia...lol That is a great definition ( although probably should be less focused on a womans perspective to be truly balanced as not every guy eanst to be finished off with cock ) and probably more how we see ourselves.
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RHP User
15 years ago
No woman, as lovely as they are has ever made me scream obsenities that would make a sailor blush. Cock rocks xxs Sweetie
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' It is the one's who say they are bi-curious but do not seem at all interested in the suggestion of playing with another woman that make me think they are only putting it on their profile to attract attention. I had bi-curious on my profile for a while as I thoiught it was something I may like to experience. When it dawned on me that I was definatley heterosexual and in no way shape or form even remotely interested in women I removed it. It had nothing to do with attention seeking. More self discovery. Well that is fair enough, seems to be genuine curiosity.The common scenarios that we have encountered is couples where the guy is trying to convince everyone that his partner is bi, when she shows absolutely no interest in women. Or the single girls who seem to be interested in chatting until they realise that it is the female of the couple they are chatting to. In both scenarios it seems that the bi-curious label may be wrong and slightly misleading. But since no-one can reach a consensus on what bi-curious actually means, maybe not.Mrs NTN
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