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Hook line and.... sunk!
April 26 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'd say pretty unsuccessful for him Killer. You hear it so many times from so many different women on any given post. Unfortunately it's arseholes like this married gent who fuck it for the the decent single guy just trying to find a connection and who are single or at least open and honest. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Idiots. Time wasters. Fuckwits. Twat waffles. Cock wombles. Knuckle dragging swamp apes..... Opportunists. Just Sayin. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
That's gold. You have such a way with word's. 😂😂😂😍😍😍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
What you describe is about 90% percent of the males I have come across. I dont understand it either...why not put it out there to start with, no one is helping the situation if you lie about something, it puts doubt in my mind about everything else we may have chatted about...deal breaker for me too. Over and out! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It is not dissimilar to life just way harder to make good judgement. Words are easy to write, hence the liars and time wasters. You just have to wade through a gamut of shite to weed out what is worth your while and not. Similar questions asked in different ways soon show people's true colours and spend some time chatting frequently to see if they are true to their words and profile. As far as hook line and sunk goes. No matter how well one profile matches another or how well you compose your first message to entice another to respond. You still have to have the right bait and there is a veritable butt load of different baits on the Pie and so many species of fish. Cheers
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RHP User
9 years ago
I must admit I don't understand why people lie about simple things like age, height etc. If someone is not interested in you for a particular quality, they are most definitely going to be less interested if you lie about it, and then are caught out in the lie. One of my "things" is for height. I'm honest about mine, but I figure most guys give or take a few inches. However if someone says they are 6 foot and turns out in person to be significantly shorter than myself (its happened), I'd be much less impressed than if they were just honest all along. And lets face it height is a rather benign thing. If someone lied about their relationship status or what state they lived in to me I would be way more pissed off. The example you give for example, I'd have steam coming out my ears.
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RHP User
9 years ago
But mostly time wasters. Because once you catch them in one lie you can be sure more will follow. That has been my experience anyway
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Twatwaffles was a fave ,but got to say knuckle dragging swamp apes ,just went to number one ,lmao Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'xxticklishxx' But mostly time wasters. Because once you catch them in one lie you can be sure more will follow. That has been my experience anyway that's been my experience too, a number of times. All we can do is tighten up our screening processes and ask more questions and if that leads to meeting way fewer men or even no more people at all except at meet n greets then so be it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
'cause they just want a fuck and dont really care at all about the person they have approached. Its all about them. The words on their profile are what THEY think are the best way for them to get laid.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Twat waffles .... my favourite so far!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I can't see any rationally justified reason for it*. It's a behaviour I'm sure many men will find a disappointment too (as it tars us all to some degree). Some of my gender can make only the most tenuous claim to manhood. SMH. * Except perhaps these types want more than they can afford (such as the kind of bordello that offer more than a basic rub & tug in a seedy back street!) When the conversation turns to restaurants, do they specify menu items by number? Would that be 'Order In', or 'Takeaway'?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is that guy isn't serious about ever meeting. He's bored and feeling insignificant/disconnected and is playing a game to make himself feel better/wanted. If it's someone who is in a different state the chance of it ever impacting on him is very low, and he gets to tell himself he did the right thing by being honest to you (in the end). He's a dickhead either way.
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RHP User
9 years ago
* Meant in the context of infidelity on the part of someone who is attached/married and therefore can't afford to simply get themselves seen to in a brothel (?) In any event (to my way of thinking), lying is simply self-defeating in any circumstance. It will most always find a way of catching up on you and create more problems than you thought you'd avoid. No way to live. Senseless really.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'purpletoupee' I must admit I don't understand why people lie about simple things like age, height etc. If someone is not interested in you for a particular quality, they are most definitely going to be less interested if you lie about it, and then are caught out in the lie. One of my "things" is for height. I'm honest about mine, but I figure most guys give or take a few inches. However if someone says they are 6 foot and turns out in person to be significantly shorter than myself (its happened), I'd be much less impressed than if they were just honest all along. And lets face it height is a rather benign thing. If someone lied about their relationship status or what state they lived in to me I would be way more pissed off. The example you give for example, I'd have steam coming out my ears. I have a predilection for tall men and put that in my profile. The number of times I've met a guy for a coffee (meet first person here!) and they have been the same height or a smidgeon taller - even though they swear they are 6'2' plus! Good thing I'm only a size queen with height and nothing else! ;) I reckon most guys lie about length/girth of their penis as well!! :) While the height is a deal breaker for me, penis size is not... good thing I reckon! I know men are prone to exaggeration - we've all heard the joke about the fish that got away - but an outright lie on something most men know is a deal breaker for women... don't get it! Oh and the 'I'm new here and not sure how this site works' excuse has worn very very thin. If I had a dollar for every time I heard that I would be a be a rich woman. Never to return. I'll check on his profile later to see if it's updated - I wonder what he has his profile now? I give people a certain amount of trust and respect. Lie to me - then gone! Never to return.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Liars will ultimately be caught out in their lies. I think it depends on what they are seeking as to whether they gauge it as a success. If a person misrepresents themselves but gets (for example) a conversation, some nudes or other wanking fodder then I guess they don't see it as a waste of their time. So in their eyes the "ploy" aka lies have been successful for them. It's just a waste of the person's time that they have been lying to. After chatting with others from this site (of course this behaviour is not limited to RHP) and often dealing with this type of person most of us apply our own vetting tools that hopefully weed out liars/time wasters before gratifying their bs. Good luck hun xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Believe them the first time - Maya Angelou (very wise woman 😉) Lying breaks trust whether it's a big lie or a small lie. If I'm going to trust you with my body and a little piece of myself then I need nothing but honesty. Integrity is everything to me. Lying just shows that you're willing to compromise who you are to get what you want and that doesn't sit well with me. Lying about your relationship status or your age: for what? To increase your odds? You're aren't a lotto ticket and the people you're lying to aren't a prize. I always eye roll when I know someone's age is stated younger than they are it reeks of desperation to me. I personally only want people who want me for me, not for who I pretend to be.
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RHP User
9 years ago
With lies they think they'll succeed but in the end compromise so much including themselves. They want success at any cost. And watch out if you actuallly call them out on their lying cheating ways (this goes for both men and women) ... Chatted with a guy recently, he was told chatting only as I'm not playing. Low and behold he says 'this is Blahh blah ... she's going to join us in a three some ... Sunday 4 pm at a hotel near my work ... can you pay for a hotel and we'll fix you up later' . Um no!!! Pay for your own hotel I tell him. Well he tells me he can't, the wife will check the statement'. Because I didn't engage in the conversation further ... said other chick backed out. I got a vitriolic message from this guy blaming me for being rude, not talking to the other lady and ruining his chances. Well, when you poke the bear 🐻... The message verbatim .... It's your lying, cheating arse that ruined your chances here. You disrespected every one of my boundaries for even suggesting a threesome. I probably was rude to ... blah blah.... because neither of you were capable of stringing some words together to start a conversation BUT I'm not having a sexual conversation with you or her, you know my boundaries too well. Secondly, we've never met, chatted intermittently on KIK and you think three strangers getting together for a threesome is a good idea? BUT again, you were well aware that I wouldn't be playing so you lied to someone else about the circumstances all to get your dick wet. BUT here's the clincher ... you expected me to pay so you can fuck someone ... how low can someone get? Don't ever contact me again ... His final response ...'ok. Lol ' I have no doubt he'll continue to lie to lure people in, he'll get what he wants and put people in compromising positions or even hurt some people in the process. Mary xx
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
Is that the people who tell them get so caught up in the bullshit, they actually believe their own lies. I've met, interacted, watched, listened to a lot of people over the years and most people will portray themselves the way they want people to view them, which quite often is not the real them. The problem comes when they can't keep the charade up or they get caught in their own webs, then they lie about other people, they will try and manipulate the people around them. They do it because it works sometimes, for every one of us that see through their lies there also someone that falls for it.💋
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RHP User
9 years ago
I prefer not to lie, mainly because I would prefer the truth back in reply Not being female, I can only wonder the messages you get. I'm not defending others here. Yet I believe. Many might stretch the truth, in hope of getting a reply. Why, I don't know
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RHP User
9 years ago
Do women out there do the same and lie about being married? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hi, Wow, looks like I,m picking up from your writings here so many do lie, I really see no point because at some point your going to be caught out and even lie more to get your self out of the fist lie and so on or say sorry you did not state the truth first time , Spos I,m in a better position I don't have to say much at all because any one can read my background and its world wide through TVNZ, Cambell live and Closeup, two top front people for TV NZ both interviewed myself and went nation wide . prime time . and I have told others check this kid out, you wont to know about us and some about members in our family and then you can ether say I,m a fruit cake of a person or accept who I am as a normal person . The only detail I did not talk about was that I,m an intersexed female and from the time of the interviews I have been able to talk about this part of my life openly and freely. So put my name on the net,= Noeleena Loch-head, and youll also see where I,m from as well , ...noeleena...
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RHP User
9 years ago
So KH have you only received half of the story (replies from the people on RHP who are honest) or are they all lying and just saying what they think you want to hear? Hopefully all the liars have gone and hidden under their respective rocks and not forever damaged the integrity of these wonderful forums. Not quite sure how much integrity these forums have anyway but they are fun to read and occasionally contribute to. Anyway I could easily be unattached if you like, certainly didn't have any volunteers to help me go out and cut firewood today! 6'2", no problem! If your going to wear heels then surely I get to make up that extra inch with my shoes. Over 30 tick, male tick, intellectual connection tick - well I like to think so anyway, See perfect match if you overlook those first couple of stumbles. I guess lying does make it easier to get that first meeting but I suspect it makes it much harder to get the second one and the fun meets later on. I have gone to meet a woman with an average body not realising that the picture showed her average body size for the last 20 years. She was now at the larger end of the scale which only became a problem because she had lied to me. In that situation I will always start to wonder what else she had lied about. Don't care if someone lies about their age since it is more about the person than how long since they were born. There are some things that I would consider deal breakers but certainly not everything. Just for the record, I choose to be honest with everything in my profile since my bloody memory isn't good enough to keep track of reality and a list of lies as well!
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RHP User
9 years ago
There's more 8 inch dicks on this site, than anywhere else in the world
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RHP User
9 years ago
This behavior should be considered sociopathic. Especially when the liar gets angry after being found out. Unfortunately, as the stories here vouch, some of these lies are not discovered until after meeting. I have suffered this myself. It is incredibly egotistical to believe, that after creating a certain expectation you can overcome obvious shortfalls. Not to mention disappointing and awkward for the one being intentionally led up the garden path. It shows a complete lack of respect on any level and is not conducive to the trust and respect required to get naked together. It is not exclusive to this site. Here is a story for you. A female friend was telling me recently, that a guy she knows has been in a relationship for 3 years with his girlfriend. He has still not come clean about the fact he used to be married and has a 6yo child. How, in any way shape or form, can this ever end well? Understanding sociopathic behavior there are two rules - don't take it personally and completely cut communication.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Lovinit28andKC72' Is that the people who tell them get so caught up in the bullshit, they actually believe their own lies. Including those persons who have convinced themselves than once they meet someone irl, the other will be so enthralled by their wit and charm, it won't matter person one is 50 pounds heavier/10 years older/4 inches shorter. And then you meet up and sitting before you is a woman that you're on your knees thanking the Red Hot Pies Gods for delivering to you and you believe in the internet again She is of beauty of face and body and already your naming your future children But 20 minutes in, you're ready to neck yourself because she's a pretentious, narcissistic cow Or worse, zero personality at all Give me wit and charm anytime, at least it has a chance of being a enthralling meet
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RHP User
9 years ago
Lanegan's comment above resonates with me. As a young lad, it was suggested to me you should 'get amongst it' at every opportunity - "The one you miss is the one you never get" - a concept that quickly lost appeal to me. Being social creatures with the biggest brains, opposable digits, and five sensory inputs, we humans have vast capabilities at our disposal. These may all be applied in combination to amazing effect. I can't see the point if you can't strike the right balance, and if a false expectation has been established at the outset. Sadly, it appears to me some people feel compelled to 'sell' an image they think others (sometimes perhaps any others at all) will buy, simply for fear of missing out. I suppose there are likely others still who may not be very self or socially aware (or sufficiently experienced, confident, or honest with/within themselves) to know the difference. Anyhow, this is all conjecture on my part. I don't know Art, but I know what I like (and that ain't it!)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'ontology' ...biggest brains, opposable digits, and five sensory inputs... * Of course, I do understand there are people with different physical and intellectual capacities. It is still possible to strike a balance, but I think the chance of finding the right partner and striking that balance is not very likely if you're disingenuous in your approach.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'satisfyus45' So KH have you only received half of the story (replies from the people on RHP who are honest) or are they all lying and just saying what they think you want to hear? Hopefully all the liars have gone and hidden under their respective rocks and not forever damaged the integrity of these wonderful forums. Not quite sure how much integrity these forums have anyway but they are fun to read and occasionally contribute to. Anyway I could easily be unattached if you like, certainly didn't have any volunteers to help me go out and cut firewood today! 6'2", no problem! If your going to wear heels then surely I get to make up that extra inch with my shoes. Over 30 tick, male tick, intellectual connection tick - well I like to think so anyway, See perfect match if you overlook those first couple of stumbles. I guess lying does make it easier to get that first meeting but I suspect it makes it much harder to get the second one and the fun meets later on. I have gone to meet a woman with an average body not realising that the picture showed her average body size for the last 20 years. She was now at the larger end of the scale which only became a problem because she had lied to me. In that situation I will always start to wonder what else she had lied about. Don't care if someone lies about their age since it is more about the person than how long since they were born. There are some things that I would consider deal breakers but certainly not everything. Just for the record, I choose to be honest with everything in my profile since my bloody memory isn't good enough to keep track of reality and a list of lies as well! Thank you S45 for your pointing out how close you are to my perfect match.... ;) if it wasn't for the marriage status and height stumbling blocks .... :) I've met men who are definitely not 6'2" - even with shoes - yet their profile states they are 6'3". Then there are the guys that want to meet at weird times and tell me they can't stay overnight. Hmmm - I wonder what their relationship status truly is? Nope - won't meet. Age - unless under 30 - is not as important as long as their pictures are recent and not 10-20 years old - that's happened more than once with guys so women are definitely not the only ones guilty of that!! Showing old pics is ridiculous. When you go to meet they look nothing like their picture (I've almost walked past them!). Oh and then there are the photo shopped pics...wrinkles 'ironed' out so that their faces look smoother than a baby's. Guess what? You're right - no second meet and definitely no play. And they are consigned to the 'nope' list. No matter how well we've connected during messages, it's really off putting when they haven't looked like their pics for the last 10+ years or they have lied about their height. Occasionally though I have found a diamond amongst the dross - and it all works. Amazing! Look like their pics. height as advertised with a great intellectual and physical attraction. I would say it makes it all worthwhile but .... not so much. Each time a guy lies about status or height or what they are looking for, it colours how I feel about the next time I am contacted... I have made some great connections online and gone on to meet them. Sometimes it works with play meets ensuing, sometimes a friendship with no play. However, they have one thing in common - no bullshit. Ahhh the joys of the interweb!! KH
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