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Hello from a Newcastle Newbie

June 04 2015

Hi there fellow rhp'ers. I'm back on rhp after a long hiatus. I never found what I thought I would find last time (instant connections with like minded people want crazy sex) so I gave up. Since then, I've had my horizons broadened immensely by some chance encounters in the offline would (never though I would ever suck a cock, but hey, you only live once - and when opportunity knocks, you better open the door). I now find myself in the single scene after what became a very straight relationship. The sex was good, but I missed the variety and exploration I had been introduced to (but that wasn't the reason the relationship failed) So I'm back on rhp, but with a totally diffent mindset and a catalogue of experiences. I'm not in a rush this time. This time, I want to be IN the scene - not an outsider tickling his fancy. So without further ado - Hello ;) I'm a young at heart 40 year old. I'll try pretty much anything once. Can't think of anything I didn't enjoy trying. Definitely did not regret anything. I'm not 'fit and fabulous' now. I used to be very fit. As I said, I'm in for the long haul, so if you check back in six months, you will see a completely different physical me. I like to think I know how to please. That comes from being relaxed, willing to try new things, and above all, willing to listen. The hard thing for me is that, as a single male, I'm pretty much excluded from swingers parties. What I'm wondering is - are there any social events in the Newcastle region which a single male is welcome to attend? I would love to hear any advise you might have. I look forward to hearing from you, and hopefully one day meeting some of you. - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You will only pay to be a member if a paid member contacts you and you think that they are worth you paying for?..but surely you won't have to pay because they already have..or are you waiting for flirts from other guests ,and it's the "quality " of the guest who is flirting that will inspire you to become a member? ... .are you looking for a single woman to go to events with? ..I am a bit confused ,but good luck in your search OP xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Ok - i solved the membership question you had. I figured if it's going to cause confusion then I should just stump up the cash and join. So I'm now a fully paid memer of the rhp society. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    furniture salesman by any chance??? 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya79' You will only pay to be a member if a paid member contacts you and you think that they are worth you paying for? I'm guessing you've become a member and changed your profile since Freya wrote this? Good luck, I think your profile is clear and sounds genuine. Just one thing: "I've had my cock sucked by a guy, and sucked his cock in return in a group session. I would consider myself bi (I wouldn't get with another guy outside a group setting involving women) - but I like to dabble." I don't think that makes you sound bi at all, more like heteroflexible.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks for the feedback. I've tweaked my profile. Nothing major. Embraced my hetroflexibility for one :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Welcome back. As for Newcastle parties look up orgyorgyorgy dot com. The organsizer has a winter break so not sure when the next party is but the same guy does nude bi orgies, refer to NBO by the pple in the know, in Brisbane, Syney, Melb & Newcaslte. It is mainly bi-sexual men but wild single women and couples also go. It can be full on so not for the faint hearted but a very good way to meet the ravers in your area.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Much betterer😀..now you can be proactive xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    From my time on Fetlife, I appreciate the dangers of jumping in too far too soon. I think a social or small intimate (up to maybe 4 or 5 participants) meetings would be a safer start :) But NBO looks like a lot of fun. Maybe in a few months or so :) - Posted from rhpmobile