HOT & SEXY...... "please define"

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  For the first part of your post for me it's 2,1,3. A profile that's more than a cut and paste from the standard matters, it shows the person is real, hopefully intelligent and has a true idea of what they're looking for. Facial appearance really matters as well, lets face it, that's what you're going to be looking at primarily and the hottest body in the world doesn't help when the person has a false eyeball, a unabrow and two missing front teeth LOL An alluring tease shot is definitely great, it leaves something to the imagination. As for the whole close up/full frontal thing... there's no class in that, it's just bits of meat on display and it doesn't really have context to me when I think of the person. I do have those pics of course and keep them in a separate gallery but primarily I send my face pics. It's a hard one though, some people insist on seeing dick picks, others are offended or annoyed. I generally only send if asked. For the second part that's a lot harder, it depends on what happens at the meet! If I meet someone and they haven't been honest with their pics (eg they had 20 year old shots and have put on 60kgs and lost all their hair and teeth) or honest about their relationship status or who they are then I'll walk because I think that you can't start any kind of relationship based on lies. Of course there's always exceptions, for example sometimes the person is so nice when you meet them that you can forgive an older pic. But I can't forgive a lie, I always wonder what else they're fibbing about and if there's no trust there I won't continue on :) Just my opinion for what it's worth :) Which isn't much LOL

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  That's an excellent and helpful insight...i've heard of horror stories of people meeting nd feeling pretty let down, and dealing with awkwardness of just wanting to run a mile...whether it be physical or intellectual contact that lacks the decision to meet in the first place... Then again...people hook up under any circumstances...to find out what the other has to offer sexually. I suppose thats far from a bad thing... besides a pic shot of a eg," big dick"..surely something more has to inspire one's decision to walk ova that threshold for starters....Mmmmmmmmmmm...Ur key points are top marks...xx Shelly xx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  What can I say...it seems Mr 'WantPeakExp' has summed up my thoughts beautifully....couldnt put it better myself.Im still laughing about the fake eyeball and unibrow. Now thats what I seriously find hot and sexy...a great sense of humour and a hint of confidence thrown in for good measure. Each to their own, but if you think sexy.... you act sexy and hence....you are perceived as SEXY!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hey Shelly~ Great post! Can I just say that your profile is hawt and sexy... I think it's the first couple of intro lines that gets me. There are few things more beautiful than a person who has the attractive character to match their dashing good looks... just saying. A person's profile avatar is definitely like a shop window. You can walk passed shops all day but when something catches your eye you take a closer look. OK.. so maybe that eye catcher is good looking genitals.. but not every cock you see is worth putting up in the shop window... you know what I mean? hehe. Yeah. What makes Michealangelo's statue of David so much more appealing than any of other marble figures of the day? An avatar is like a piece of art. Some are going to love it, some are going to hate it, some are going to walk right on passed without taking any notice.... But the pictures some people put up... it's like they dont care... and maybe they don't... and if that is so, then is that any reflection of their character? Whether it is or not, we all make value judgments on what is in the shopfront as to whether we want to buy taste the candy. :p So any one of the five items you listed could work for me.. at least to look further and click on the profile name. What's written then comes into play. But it's also only a snippet... perhaps a snapshot of how that person perceives themselves to be... perhaps offering genuine insight. Your profile blurb for instance is very attractie to me. It discloses a person who that is apparently calm and unintimidated and at teh same time welcoming and warm. We use our social experience to make those value judgements, and without a doubt apply our experience of someone else to you. In reality , something about you must remind me of someone whose company I have really enjoyed. You're fun. I therefore don't know these things with any certainty... .and I'm making those assumptions based on my experience of someone else that something about you reminds me of. Who that is I just don't know. The next part of your quesiton relates to what if these expectations are not met. My only adviswe is that you should try and set aside you rexpectations. This is of course impossible, as all the sexual tension prior to meeting does nothing but build up those expectations, so all you can do is accept people as they come and take from that what you can. I dont mean you should , go with the flow and let them have their way with you.. I mean you should only ever do anything sexual if you are actually enjoying it.... and not do it for someone else's benefit or out of any sense of duty. I do qualify this statement by saying that some of the best sex I've had has been with some of the most unexpected people... hehe... so I try to keep an open mind about that.. and if I am not enjoying teh situation, I have a habit of saying "next".. sometimes I even say that out aloud.. lolz. Woops. My bad... but hey... no expectations right? Hugs Stalky

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  well babe i can not help much no pc but if we meet up for coffie we can chat babe

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  hi shelly, i think you have got the criteria pretty spot on in the order you have them now, as mentioned previously if there is not something there that catches your eye than you just walk on by. once there you need something to interest you to ensure that you are not wasting your time, if someone can not be bothered taking the time to give you an insight into there interests then why would you waste yours, although in saying that depending on ones reasons for being here anyway. i guess there are different options for different people but what works for me is , nice facial pic, some time and thought and honesty given to profile to make me want to find out more. a full on tits/pussy shot doesnt or in your case dick shot ha ha mean you are going to enjoy yourself nessacarily. i think your initial impressions are usually pretty good , either its hot or its not and as you have probably realized by now yours is hot lol. good work and have a great day.xxcheers

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  physical prowess is super important. But at the end of the day, for me, its all about intellect and the nature of the mind. Although there are some exceptions in here, for most its v.hard to convey such attributes via a profile.....

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