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Guys not climaxing
January 20 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's common, some men will not come at all at times.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Kudos to the man who has learnt to control himself and give the woman pleasure. He was probably enjoying himself all the more for your having orgasmed so often. Yes there are still men out there that think of the woman first!
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RHP User
13 years ago
message me his details ... share?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not Complaining Handmaiden, was just a weird feeling :/ Spose i have never been fortunate enough to have a previous lover care more about me than himself. Was more enquiring if others have felt like they just weren't doing it right.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yep, I thought that a bit as well the first few times. That he wasn't that turned on or something... but it's not that at all.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Which talked about this. It could be a number of things, nerves/mental block, medication, some sort of sex god I dunno. But I would enjoy it if I were you if he says he loves being with you and he truly does have no problem with it. Just as a lot of men have problems with premature ejaculation, some have the opposite issues.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Do NOT worry my friend...you've found yourself a great lover. Can I please have his number!! Come on, share.....:-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Over a 4 hour session, 10+ times we did the horizontal waltz, I finished less than half the time, she, on the other hand.. Lotsa fun for the both of us, although physically exhausting in the end :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I understand your feelings ms OP. I did worry the first few times too....but the ability to communicate and ask the question.....now has me completely aware of the what the why and the where.... I have never had so much fun and felt so great. But am I telling or sharing,.....ERM. Nope sorry ladies..... It took me lots of hard work to find them. Including kissing the odd frog. And for the record, they were single blokes and I contacted them first. So don't just sit back and wait for the mountain,.... Go to it girls.... Get brave.
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RHP User
13 years ago
That is quite common. I have had a couple of incredible sessions with an rhp hottie and only cum once in a few hours. I love it. I wouldn't think that the ladies would complain about a nice rock hard cock to swing off fit hours. Tell me what you think- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
sometimes guys will have a good wank and come prior to visiting...so it will stay up longer...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can only tell you from my pov sometimes we can be so turned on but just can't quite get there !!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can't count the times..... I have heard.... How did you do that? Cheeky cheeky grin!!!! Damm shame I am in Melbourne the week after the meet and greet!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's not that uncommon and certainly a better problem than finishing too fast! Physiologically speaking it gets harder and harder (pun intended) for a guy to orgasm after each successive climax. From what I have read this is due to the desensitization of the parts and the tiring of the prostate. I think it's also a mental thing in many ways, a lot of guys, myself among them, garner more pleasure for letting a woman climax than just sorting ourselves out. I know I would rather not cum at all than have a woman not having fun. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Make of it what you will..... A challenge, Where were you when I was living innMelbourne.....grin!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lots of men last longer but don't come! It's is about pleasing the other not just themselves. Men have come further then the old days. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sounds like a keeper!That statement, "that i hadn't done enough or that i hadn't aroused him enough", it is such an evil thought... get it out of your head! Self-doubt is a sure-fire way to kill the vibe. And besides, if the guy really isn't enjoying it, he'll probably let himself go more quickly, just to get it over :-O
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can only speak from a touchy feely Taurus who is more giving then taking. I have always had an oral fetish or really enjoyed giving a woman multiple orgasms. The enjoyment I get when I get body shaking and quivering twitching and spasming from hot expressive female makes me hard even at the thought. It also took me 33 years to even know or even learn about how to make a woman squirt. The added excitement of hearing a woman in ecstasy and laughing with awe and happiness is way better than the feeling of my orgasm. When I first found out how to make a girl squirt I thought I was wrapped at spending the whole weekend in bed with a lover and giving her 33 orgasms. It was just sensational seeing her writhing and bounce and tense up. I didn't need to come as I was in another world knowing I could actually do that. It's almost like the feeling of seeing a picture or video of a new born baby giggling and laughing. On another note being a giver is also a curse as sometimes when all u want to do us please and keep going your lover might just want the quick fix of feeling you explode deep inside if them and just enjoy the fullness and closeness and feeling I see both sides but from a givers point of view with a fetish for hot expressive multi orgasmic oral takers I know what I love doing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi, I'm a guy that has this "problem" so I thought I'd help you shed some light on it. First of all, it could be nerves. Some guy come in seconds because they're nervous, other guys (like me) could go for hours and will probably go soft first. It doesn't have to be fright either; just a little pent up excitement over meeting someone new or trying something new will do it. So we start to worry because we dont want to disappoint you and then over think it. Another cause. Thinking too much is my worst enemy and greatest ally; If I'm getting really close and want to hang on, I start doing complicated arithmetic in my head. Its also an unwanted thing that happens when I meet someone I'm maybe trying too hard to impress. So here's my advice: enjoy the journey, not the destination. The guy met you didn't he? He took you to a bed, got naked with you and erect? Trust me; it's not you, and it doesn't mean he's not enjoying it. I've had wonderful sex with seriously sexy women and never let a drop of cum go. - Posted from rhpmobile
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