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Guys..... answer me this
October 25 2007
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RHP User
18 years ago
stardust yes we alll look at those so called magazines were they only have sizes 8 to 10 but the truth is ladies on average are 12 to 16 so u are a good size also its how u feel if u feel great with your size stick to it if not well maybe do something .hope that makes u feel a lot better cheers joe xxxxx
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RHP User
18 years ago
Hi Starrdust, For me personally, I wouldn't go lighter than a size 8 and no bigger than a size 12. I'm not into seeing ribs and bones as that brings a total soft-on! As for the girls bigger than a size 12, I'm more into really, really physical sex; such as lifting the girl up onto my cock and f**king her whilst carrying her, and various other 'positions' that involve some more intense physical activity other than missionary or doggie for instance. If you're looking for love and relationship etc...then as they say, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". If you're happy with the way you are, then that's all that matters, and there's nothing to be ashamed of! :) Cheers, Dave
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RHP User
18 years ago
I'm sorry you're feeling a little insecure right now. Some time soon you'll get back to that place where you don't give a shit.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Hi Star, Being a female and a size 6 to 8 has its disadvantages also... Be yourself, happy and healthy... beauty radiates from within. Life is about being happy with how others find you... we mingle with all sizes... its about a connection of the minds for us.. We have friends that are a size 4 and friends that are size 20... all are equal and beautiful too !! D xx
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RHP User
18 years ago
Starr, You are perfect the way u are. Deltoid, I am size 14 and I can do all sorts of kinky stuff. Maybe u need to be stronger!
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RHP User
18 years ago
LOL Wildthing70....I'm working on it babe! It's just that standing up in a '69' holding the weight of an 85kg babe above my shoulders, me working her pussy with my tongue and she deepthroating me, for any longer than a couple of minutes becomes exhausting! It takes me a bit longer than that to cum so as you can imagine, I do prefer a lighter girl.... I prefer to keep my gym workouts 'solo' imao! Cheers, Dave
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RHP User
18 years ago
I think the important thing here is to be happy and healthy, and if you can manage both of them. Who gives a dam about anyone else?
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RHP User
18 years ago
size 8,,,,or size 14....it all comes down to ppl's attitude for me. I know some size 12/14 girls who just ooze sexuality, and that to me is yum. Likewise with the skinny's.. My 2cents;) Mr G
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RHP User
18 years ago
Sorry can't help you there dear starrdust... as I'm allergic to walking skeletons who get that way though puking all the time. I would much rather garlic breath than that. If I could bring myself to bonking one... I would be forever worried that something might break. They put air cushions in cars for a very good reason... and mother nature has known about this design feature for eons. Most of the fashion nazis are homosexual, so maybe it's their way at getting back at us straight guys? Just because they can save on fabric and charge twice as much... they have much to answer for. Plus there's less worry about the models popping a boob on the catwalk... when they don't have any. It's all a conspiracy I think.
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RHP User
18 years ago
i am very happy with my size if you read through my post again you will see that twice i do state that i am happy i love my arse as it is the only part of my body that was left unscaved by pregnacy its full and round and and hasnt yet given into gravity :) i have a flat stomach and a very broad sold set of shoulders ( came is very handy when i played contact sports ) so ill ask the question again in different words....... GUYS DO YOU PREFER A WOMAN TO HAVE A GOOD SET OF CURVES IS THE SEX MORE PLEASURABLE OR DO YOU PREFER A SKINNY MINNI basicly MEN what do you prefer??? starrxxxxxxx
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RHP User
18 years ago
Sorry but I don't think I implied that you were a walking skeleton. And gravity is a good thing... otherwise every time I take a piss it would hit me in the eye. I would rather suckle from a breast that has a past history of lactating... then try to wrap my lips around some artificially over inflated facsimile of a boob. Your flat stomach would be an asset when it come to pruning the pubes... though I don't mind a lady with a tummy... as I'm fond of helping out with the lower body gardening. The broad set of shoulders reminds me of those Olympic swimming ladies... though the Chinese female swimmers of a few years ago did look a bit butch... and their use of steroids probably left them with a clit as big as the average penis. At least no man would have an excuse for being unable to find it. Sorry... I'm not implying anything there either... so yes if you've got a good set of curves... I would give you top marks. Now the sex part I can't comment on... as it's different horses for different courses. It depends how nice the filly is in bed... regardless of body shape.
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RHP User
18 years ago
its nice to have a woman with curves and a bit of meat on her bones. besides looking healthy it also feels great.
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RHP User
18 years ago
I prefer skinny aliens wiith multiple saggn tits :P On the serious note: Neither. For my own taste is irrelevent, i prefer somehwere between skinny minni - busty curves, with nice small breast size. I had sex with a curvey woman, and she being on top of me, somehow hurts my testicles.. oh the ballsmanity!! I do like to have women on top, but after that, my balls are very very conscious about these things lol Sparty
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RHP User
18 years ago
I have been involved with women at both ends of the spectrum, from very small and skinny to very large. What attracted me to them was not the shape of the body, but they way they lived in the body they had. (about 40kg up to 120 plus, from 4'11 to 6'). Different shapes and sizes just offer new things to explore. If a woman is comfortable in herself, that is one of the things I find sexiest. Bit of mental stimulation on top of that and things couldnt be sweeter. You just have to be creative with positions depending on size and shape, which of course adds to the interest. G
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RHP User
18 years ago
Now that you've rephrased the question....I prefer a good set of curves! Cheers, Dave
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RHP User
18 years ago
I'd refuse to answer on grounds that I might be incriminated by one or another party. ;)
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RHP User
18 years ago
first you must pick your meal.. the only stipulatuion is you have to use pasta.. as the evening moves on.. work out what sort of whine you should have with the pasta.. drink lots of this early on.. then just as you are about to put the pasta in the boiling water look at the shape of it.. compare this to your date.. do they feel right for each other??? if so. she is not too skinny or fat.. easy!! LRE
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RHP User
18 years ago
theres sooo many people of all types, i dont think its possible to draw a line in the sand and say 'no more/less than x,y or z'. some people have a liking for big girls, some for the petite. besides, you shouldn't judge yourself by someone elses reckoning... how confusing would that be considering how many people have an opinion? be your own judge. do YOU feel comfortable in your body? feel healthy? have energy? why are you looking for happiness in someone elses opinion anyways? if its as a sex object, have at it and enjoy your bod :) , but i think it a mistake to define yourself by something so transient. for me personally, too skinny is not a matter of taste, its health. if you were slight to the point that it impacts your health, i'd do no more than raise it as a concern and then make sure i was as supportive as possible whichever your decision. otherwise, who am i to say what you do with your body really? all that marketing crap makes me sick, it does nothing but brainwash people into being the next trend whore, i have no time for that. it works for some people, which i can respect, but not for me.
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RHP User
18 years ago
i've had enjoyable sex with partners of slight to voluptuous and cant say i prefered one over the other. sure both extremes are different but i can only conclude my enjoyment doesnt depend on such things lol, sounds like such a cop-out response, but its true...
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RHP User
18 years ago
Um no it wouldnt be benificaul for you to lose more weight. If you love your body then thats all the matters. Im a size 12-14 depending on where im shopping and i love it. If I start working out I just lose weight from my breats. I dont want that. I love them. I also hate skinny guys. I like someone who has something for me to hold all night. Not bone... and your right hips do hurt when youre trying to be close to someone. I think you answered your own question.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Starr. I'll be in Bunbury for a week... ;) :P
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deltoid
18 years ago
I noticed you mentioned me earlier, may have been a case of mistaken identity But just in case more than happy to prove I am more than strong enough to handle anything kinky with you
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RHP User
18 years ago
read between the lines and look behind each words, and crack the subliminal message of what Wildthing70 has said.. lol dunno about you, but its plain obvious to what she said :P
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RHP User
18 years ago
It was mistaken identity.
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deltoid
18 years ago
No problem I gathered that was the case, just having a bit of fun the offer is still good though LOL
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RHP User
18 years ago
a face pic, Deltoid. Lovely muscles tho.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Star being small isnt as nice as its said to be, size 6-8 isnt cool while you see girls with ribs sticking out everywhere being size smaller than 8 doesnt mean you have ribs sticking out, I myself am an 8 and no bones are showing, I spent far to many years in the modeling business watching girls and guys trying to maintain that "perfect" size it doesnt matter if your size 6 or 16, love the body that your in, and if you meet a guy who tries to get you to slim down I say ditch him, find the guy that wants you for you, not for a size 24 waist. Pixie
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RHP User
18 years ago
as Frank Zappa says in one of his songs (Jazz discharge party hats?) THE BIGGER THE CUSHION, THE BETTER THE PUSHIN... skinny arses, hips are a turn off!!
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RHP User
18 years ago
wow you quotes the man with the statue in easter europe.. my day is compleate. LRE
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RHP User
18 years ago
Well I have been a range of sizes from a size 8 to a size 16. Ok so currently I'm pregnant so that doesn't count and am a size 14 atm, but pre-pregnancy I am around 8-10. I am a typical ruler. 6ft 1, small boobs (not tiny though), no ass, but I do have a lil bit of hips lol I would kill to be able to find pants to fit my overly long legs, bigger boobs, an ass, and bigger hips, but I don't. I work with what I have, as it's the only body I have. I don't do exercise, I eat like a pig, I have 2 kids (almost 3), and I drop weight without lifting a finger. I personally feel icky and unhealthy being a size 8, but that is just me. I would prefer to be a size 10-12. Just because I'm skinny, doesn't mean I'm happy or want to be this skinny. But lucky for me fordy loves me no matter what size I am. That makes me happy. :)
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RHP User
18 years ago
Dont lose more weight Size 14 is a great size Starrdust
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RHP User
18 years ago
We haven't met in person but I reckon you're damn hot.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Thanks :)
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RHP User
18 years ago
It all comes down to different tastes i guess, I prefer slimmer girls because i am slim myself, But my partners weight can flutuate and thats fine with me also, i lover her for who she is and the sex is just as good. So be happy with who you are and what you are and if other people dont like like it then that is their loss.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Well, imo...which, is worth Fukk all, 'cept to me, and is MY opinion and NO fukka else's (prob NOT a TRUE statement, anyways). I like to see bodies, Female - and Male, for that matter as they were intended by nature... YNO...lean, toned and supple. We descend from creatures who were hunters, BUT who could just as well become the hunted. Body types evolved for particular conditions, skeletal and musculature followed suit. Were all still descendent's of primitive man, non-the-less, aren't we. Easy lives and modern conveniences have made us all lethargic and have far removed from the optimal physical specimens we once were. I like/love the look (and feel) of a well toned physique, female AND male (jus the look of that, btw). To me..eeekh, i think for females, that under 60kg is an optimal weight, they look good, look healthy and are obviously maintaining a correct fuel intake to fuel burn ratio. Some people take more care and pay more attention to the condition and running of their car, than their bodies. Your body is the BEST machine that you will EVER, EVER, EVER own. Its the pinnacle of a millenia of refinements and engineering, that is GIFTED to you, for you to take care of and enjoy. I think everyone would benefit in some way, by trying to achieve a lower BMI, and becoming active and STRONG. Yeah, I'm a bit of a health nut...so what, each to their own. I'm lucky...i got blessed with good genes and a high metabolism, BUT...that said, if i HADN'T then i would have made an effort to achieve the BEST that i could be, without impinging too much on my everyday life and well-being. like i said...just my opinion...NOT wanting to rock any boat here, just contributing and airing a/my view AND, im NOT gonna mention "feel good in the skin you're in" and other cliches...YUP, theyre ALL relevant, its a personal thing, isn't it. To finish up... I have been fit n healthy ALL my life, i can still do just about everything i could when i was 16 years old, its natures gift to me, and i love it. I TRUELY wish everyone could feel the same. I implement a "constant monitoring' thing...i watch what i eat and drink, and try to do things that keep my body active, even the smallest effort, over a period of time can have quite dramatic effects, but you DO have to put the effort in...Hey if a Fukkin Mammoth was chasin your ass, you'd move the fukka pretty damn quick, wouldn't you!?!?! Be the BEST you can be!!!!! ~~F~~ **This post, in NO way was meant to convey anything other that "An opinion", or tries to denigrate anyone OR anything, if you read anything OTHER than that into it, please re-read OR forgive me for putting my opinion across in an ambiguous OR poorly conveyed manner...cheerz Peepz**
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RHP User
18 years ago
Mutual I happen to agree with you that men would have been the hunter and thus very lean but I'm not sure if that can be equally applied to women. If we are using the theory that we still have many physical traits left from primative times then I would be assuming that women, being descendants of women who minded the cave and family, do not need to be so lean. In fact, speaking physiologically, they might even benefit from being less lean. .
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RHP User
18 years ago
My body is flexible, supple and well, 76 kilos. That makes me a size fourteen. I have given birth to a child so my body has adjusted permanently to this body change. My hips grew wider and my breasts got larger. Look at any hunter gatherer society and you will find that women my age look like me, not skinny rangey types. We are the elders and are good doers on minimal food. BMI of 26% plus is not uncommon. If you are too skinny you will succumb to exposure and disease very quickly. Humans are only adapted for running small distances and excessive exercise is harmful to a creature that lives over 50 years in the wild. One major injury means a lifetime of discomfort. Sixty kilos on an average height woman is a pre-childbirth weight, and therefore pretty unusual in wild humans, unless they are pygmies! I think some people's expectations of what is normal is, well, pretty unrealistic.
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RHP User
18 years ago
... ~~F~~
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RHP User
18 years ago
Who cares about body size and weight - unless you see an individual in the flesh things like size 14 and 76kgs etc mean nothing at all as there are so many variances ( height, bone structure and density, proportion) Women need to stop worrying about what men may like. Some men love the heroin chic look and love to eat a good bag of bones, while other men love the plump, soft rounded sensuality of a body you can sink yourself into. There is no right or wrong answer. There will always be someone/many who really dig your body shape. The key is to find someone who not only loves your body but also thinks you are a pretty cool kinda person too. My 10c worth.
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RHP User
18 years ago
K..._K... Wished ida said that really. ~~F~~
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RHP User
18 years ago
Im a size 10-12 depending on clothes, and im happy with what i am, dont consider myself skinny or likely to get sick easier than other people, thats just ludicrous to say.Also dont think im a bag of bones either, i have had kids as well and believe in looking after myself. Yes i am active and walk loads, but i also eat lots, like my food and plenty of it. shy
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RHP User
18 years ago
I was referring to my height/weight ratio. If I was 60 kilos I would be underweight. I was also referring to medical opinion that underweight people are generally unhealthier than people that occupy the middle of the weight spectrum.
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RHP User
18 years ago
as long as its proportionate
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RHP User
18 years ago
You disappoint me... 60 kilos is the optimum weight for a woman???? What if she's over 6 foot tall? Or very muscular? (you surely know that muscle weighs more than fat) I personally think sexiness is portrayed in the way you carry yourself not in the weight you carry. Hey- That could be a bumper sticker!!! goldy x
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RHP User
18 years ago
CrimeScene... As per...I didn't apply much/ANY thought to my posting!??! BUT, if i had, i would have liked to have added something along the lines of... "Proportional to body size" Forget the weight thing, then...my particular preference is slim/athletic A-n-n-d...yep, i DO realise that muscle weighs more than body fat. I was thinkin about this topic whilst workin the other day, and RE remembered(?!?!?) that my body taste(s) conform to the typical stereotypes, yno...I like woman/girls to look petite/small framed and distintly feminine (to ME, and imo, that is...eeekh, thin ice, thin ice), and, conversely, i like a fella to look masculine (im NOT gay or bi, btw, but can appreciate and GOOD body), yno, tall, muscular, toned/defined. I like my body a certain way and try to keep it lookin /feelin that way, too...thats me, tho. Re the weight thing...my body is quite dense, doesnt float at all well in water, and would NOT be considered lightweight. BUT, it is proportioned. I like it that way, what anyone else does with their own body is entirely THEIR concern. ~~F~~
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RHP User
18 years ago
mutual i actually thought that your head was way too big in proportion to the size of the rest of your body so it goes to show everyone has their own minds where they make their own opinions and have their own tastes so perhaps everyone just needs to get over their insecurities and accept themselves as they are and find others who do the same
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RHP User
18 years ago
Mutual I think we might agree on something here. I too find that I end up with small to medium sized women. Just like some women find they end up with men with a certain type of shoe lol If I were to be politically correct with everything in life, including physical attraction, I would be using my cerebrum to determine who I end up with and entirely ignoring bodily sensations and instinct. And I like my body a certain way too. In Winter I put on a little weight, a few kilos, to insulate my core I imagine. And I don't like myself any less but when Summer comes and I lose those kilos again...I can feel the definition in my muscles, I feel more lithe and flexible and I'm faster and feel like a panther rather than a lion. And I find I naturally appreciate those same values in a woman, though not exclusively. I still like lionesses too.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Ha, cranial weight loss. You can NEVER lose the weight from were you want to, eh!?!?! Tried all the diets, but to NO avail AND then..i decided to do somethin radical, and it worked a treat... I had a HAIRCUT I NOW have a svelte, more proportioned head. Thanx for your input tho. Wished I'd have taken as much notice of your physical attributes, everyone likes to be a critic, eh?!?!? Lemme guess, a little out of the "perfect" band on the BMI chart, eh Who cares ~~f~~ **Sometimes i wonder just why i bother to post at all**
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RHP User
18 years ago
hi starrdust in all my sexual pleasures i have enjoyed , i have found that the average size12/18 woman have been the best session i have ever had, to the size 6/10 have been very ordanary , so you to me are just perfect gggggggrrrrrrr bye for now
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RHP User
18 years ago
give me curves anyday : )
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RHP User
18 years ago
alway a women with curves for me to skinny can be just down right painful being jabed by bones sticking out but attitude plays a huge part if a women with curves is comefortable then thats even sexier so i say as long as ur comfortable in ur own skin then why change
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RHP User
18 years ago
I love curves. If I can see the ribs and the pelvis then you're probably too skinny for me.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Give me soft supple compliant curves any day.Much prefer comfort to speed.The only thing I want to be hard is my dick.
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RHP User
18 years ago
i don't own a pen so i don't draw lines
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