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Guys BS
February 25 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
As a suggestion........ Treat every guy you hook up as though you wont be hooking up with them again. If they message you then well and good. Take control of your own life and don't rely on others. Saves all the bullshit
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RHP User
8 years ago
Women say that sort of stuff to men as well. It's because most people don't want to a) hurt people's feelings by being honest at the time, and / or b) don't want to have to deal with the upset / angry reactions that may result if they are honest at the time. I would suggest telling the guys early on that they can be honest with you, and that you'd rather know straight out if they won't be in touch again. As long as you think you'll be able to handle that and not react too negatively if they do tell you that they aren't interested in another meet.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Totally agree. Treat them all like a one off. If you do hear from them again then that's awesome. Who knows maybe they just don't have the balls too say thanks but it won't be happening again. Very rare few might just not want to hurt your feelings and don't know how to tell you. Highly unlikely but maybe?? No one ever knows what goes on in peoples heads and why even try and work it out. Some people are just assholes!! Ms Midnight
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RHP User
8 years ago
Have heard some women do this too.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've gone back for seconds with chicks that look like Quasimodo purely because their head game was so good it put me into a trance
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think that's called "Keeping your options open.."
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RHP User
8 years ago
They are just used to the b.s. lines so they can get a root. Simples
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
The scenario that they will call you or the honest truth that you don't turn them on, you are a below average root, you are a sack of potatoes in the sack...... I think I'd prefer the wondering of what may have come up in their life that they couldn't get back to me for another amazing sex episode in their life..... Poor peeps....
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think it's a little of what bd said and a little of kool... in which case that may very well intend on second round, but then things change... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
"THAT" is why I like you so.. I always reckoned you had your head screwed on right..
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
No good will come of it. Its a wormhole and you will get sucked into. Don't give it too much energy, you'll never know. .....Also, what Inspirit said.
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RHP User
8 years ago
and yes it IS called keeping ones options open so don't take it personally.
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RHP User
8 years ago
So what is the pièce de résistance? When the lady slides her thumb up your butt? Bet that breaks the trance. :P
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' As a suggestion........ Treat every guy you hook up as though you wont be hooking up with them again. If they message you then well and good. Take control of your own life and don't rely on others. Saves all the bullshit That is soooo friggen sexy .............im hard!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks everyone. Lots of good advice. Think inspirit has the right idea - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I rather tend live in the moment enjoy the naughty pleasure without thinking about the next time around as truth be told not sure if I would want to meet the person again either. So best not to place any expectations and just enjoy each other's pleasure as you have multiple and squirt like no tomorrow (That's a unicorn for me) 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You tell a guy that he can be honest with you, he won’t be.... Lying cunts are lying cunts...they’ve lied to themselves so much they believe their own bullshit... So a path to be honest will be met with “Nahh that’s too easy, it’s a trap” mindset.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
They may not all be lying cunts though. There are various reasons why people might not be upfront with someone straight away. It's very easy for us to pontificate on here and judge, but I'd also bet that at least some who do the judging have been guilty of the same behaviour, for whatever reason. I also like Inspirit's advice and I use that approach myself. However, if you really want to know at the time if they plan to come back for more then no harm in asking them to be honest with you. Sure some probably won't be but these are humans we're dealing with. There's no absolutes or sure things, only messy people with messy internal lives.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think its time to wash your mouth out with soap. 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Might need to go visit the swearing thread again?
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RHP User
8 years ago
tobasco sauce might be reqired Quoting 'MrPlayful' Might need to go visit the swearing thread again?
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RHP User
8 years ago
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curiousnhorny05
8 years ago
This is definitely the hardest part of this lifestyle, not knowing whats up or down some days. I’ve had a great experience so far however I wished I’d had the guts to give the man a good blow job at the time haha! Pommyfucker I like your theory :) and yes I’ve done a surprise finger with my partner memorable for him for good reasons! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I made a post on this the other day however wasn’t worded as well as yours. It happens all too often .. men constantly saying yes when they don’t have the intention of meeting up again and are only being polite. Grow some balls .. if your not into her or you didn’t have a great time as she did — tell her.. otherwise the signal your sending is saying ‘ I’m full of shit and you can’t trust a thing I say’ Yes we can treat it as a one off but some chicks maybe looking forward to seeing them again , only to be disappointed. So many guys lie and talk shit to get what they want , and they wonder why they are single. Harsh but true .. you expect us to trust you when your constantly lying ... Be honest! It’s not hard to say no thanks I’m not into you or I didn’t have a good time. Best of luck see ya later . Men are so afraid of the drama that follows or the confrontation. How did confrontation get so bad , no one seems to do it anymore instead here we are in limbo half the time wondering what the hell is going on! There is no need to make things more difficult than they need to be. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Me: I had a great time Her: Me too Me: We should do it again soon Her: I'd like that .... time passes ... cycle begins Me: Hi, let's organise a time to get together again Her: (silence) Me: Hi, would you like to catch up, let me know when you're free Her: (silence) How often does one repeat that cycle before it becomes harassment or you write it off and move on? I'm happy to hear "I've changed my mind" or "my circumstances have changed" or whatever. - Posted from rhpmobile
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