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Getting noticed

December 03 2018

Hi all really we are new( ish )to sharing and have a question. While we are out at parties/ clubs/ nite clubs etc is there a something that we could wear that shows others that we in the lifestyle ( we heard a black ring on finger ) don’t know if that’s true . Just something to make it easier to meet the right people and not get too embarrassed. We like to meet people out rather than always goin through all the emails, tex etc . We are just looking for bit of advice as getting embarrassed while out sometimes puts a little downer on our night. Any advice would be great. Thanks all - Posted from rhpmobile

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boxestotick

7 years ago

While it would be great, you need to remember not everyone is in the lifestyle. Hence why RHP exists.

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RHP User

7 years ago

...a lot that you could or would want to do out in public as regardless of how contemporary the world around may seem at times, it still just aiin't happenin'! FWIW you just got noticed here by quite a few folks...even me, and I am notoriously the shy and bashful type of personality! CM the sinister....

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BungCpl

7 years ago

The Black Ring, Happened to see a short clip recently and noticed that Prince Harry had a Black ring on his right hand, same finger as one would wear a wedding ring. Pretty sure he wasn't advertising that he and Megan were in the scene and open to being hit up 😃😃😃

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Rlee552

7 years ago

... it was a fitness monitoring ring 😂. Hence why there is no secret item of clothing, dance, handshake or anything else (at least that is what I have been told so far). Too much potential of jumping to an assumption and getting it wrong. There are apps you can get etc which vibrate if your interest matches the interest of someone else in the vicinity. Not used widely though in Australia. In the BDSM world there are items that can indicate a relationship or ownership You may be better off going to an event. At least that way you know everyone else has at least the same understanding regarding the event. Will still need to have potentially awkward and embarrassing conversations, and to deal with rejection. PS this is one of these topics that come up frequently. Search for it and you will find some good information. Post script - Wwwwhhhhhaaaaatttttt - there is something, and you were all keeping it hidden from me.

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justus211

7 years ago

Thanks all was just asking as we both have attended parties at clubs and private parties too so we aren’t completely new lol. Thanks everyone for your answers . We will keep playing together and with others .

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