Frustrated Oral Situation

September 27 2009

I Just wondered how many other guys out there, can't ARRIVE from oral stimulation?   A.K.A: Cum when our partners/lovers/buddies suck your cock.   It's not a major concern for me. It's just I've heard how my friends,brothers and my nephews have intense orgasms when they recieve them.   Vagina penetration always works ofcourse. But oral really only keeps me rigid.   Anyone else get this. Anyone overcum it?   Please tell us your thoughts.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    True, I have found it difficult at times to finish..... you have to be in the mood to cum...  but have you noticed that some people really have a knack of getting you there? ... it's my objective to find all of them. Other times, a bit of wanking action to finish off all over said ciock sucker's face isn't a crime.   HUgs Gazza

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I bet i could fix you!!!!LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    OK....from person observations....and experiences....some guys can't cum while laying down....so her kneeling with him standing might help....and if they cant cum standing up....then laying down might help.I have had a few guys tell me that they had never cum from head.....usually just after they have cum!They tell me its coz they can tell that im loving it....and its true!!!The thing is....if the guy has the mindset that he CANT cum from head...then he wont.Trick your brain....tell it that she is gonna make you cum by sucking your cock.....it just might work!!Sometimes....if i cant cum...i make cum noises and movements......and then it starts to happen for real....not always....but sometimes.And dont be afraid to direct her...encourage her.....like....yeah baby...suck that cock hard...yanno what i mean.Good luck!!Just my opinion...BJxxx

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    16 years ago

    Yeahh it happens..I sort of like long drawn out oral....But to get the job done.Instruction sometimes works....eg...use more teeth etc.....maybee a bit of gagging.....you could try squeezing your balls a little.....But the one shurfire way is to get your partner to stick a finger up your bum, If not, do it yourself.....works for me....   But as Gaz said, The pono money shot wank on the face is Awsome !   Cheers Tam

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Good head has had Mr Pup reaching for the resus machine!!!

  • srogers

    srogers

    16 years ago

    I have same problem as well.  I can not cum from receiving head.    That being said it takes me a very long time to cum even during intercourse.    Would love to be able to cum from receiving head so any other suggestions on how to would be greatly appreciated.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    if she does it right it will happen. Once the girl finds the magic formula it works all the time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I used to have that problem but no more with Venus sucking me. She milks me whenever she wants. Its the best. I bet missBJ would as well. Mars

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    you just need a girl who can seriously deep throat then you'll goo LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I love hearing dirty talk from a guy telling me how he is going to cum in my mouth.  Makes me work harder and faster to get his mouthful of cream.   I have been told I am great at BJ, to the point of being offered money to entice me to do it again lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Every guy is different as to how they want head or what gets them off.... My ex favoured a dry hand rather and sort of lubrication, but iknow that doesnt wor for most guys... I took this guy home the othernight, and after hours of chatting we finally got down to business.... he proceeded to tal me in his 28 yrs that he had only ever cum 3 times via head... well i actually took that as a challenge!! I will not be beaten ! LOL Well needless to say in around 2 -3 mins he was done... Now i dont think i have tickets on myself , but the fact that i love giving head, and it obviuosly shows probaly is a bonus, and once he startd grinding those hips, he was a goner... The standing up thing does work... expecially if the girl is kneeling as the guy ges the feeing of power over her, and sometimes that works for them... Maybe place a hand genly( or roughly/) depending on the chick... on the back of her head... Its all working out what works for each guy... and if u like it/love it...it definately helps... I really do hope all u guys out there that have that problem ,find that girl that fixes it !!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Not all women like that either.....feeling you shoot your load inside can be pretty amazing too...all depends on how u play the game

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Really guys, really??? Wow :O  I can honestly say I have never ever even had a guy tell me he can't cum from oral. I didn't even know this problem existed!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Take into consideration the premature ejaculation market ...and how big it is. There is a real reason for that ... Men CUM much faster than they want to ...Also remember the old " I can't cum from a womans oral " trick just to make sure they get that extra attention. lol It's what alot of people call a " stock play " ....The second one is .."gosh , no one has made me cum that fast before " ...It's all good fun if you enjoy both but remember .. not everyone tells the truth completely  ... so keep it in balance

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Positioning is important but there are some girls (and probably guys too!) out there that really are quite magic with their oral talents. I have met several that I am sure could pleasure almost anyone!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hehe... the range of responses to this question are outstanding... from agreement, to "they're just not doing it right", to "that's because you haven't had me yet bebe", to "its a trick ladies beware" ... hehe, Loveprod.. I think they've govered all the bases!     Personally, I like BJ's answer... and Sophie's bottom. hehe.    Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I cant cum from oral last girl took that as a challenge ended up with lock jaw after 3hours of sucking with no result

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Mrs is absolutely fucking fantastic at giving head. She's had guys blowing in minutes. That's not a brag, that's just what's happened. to be honest, there's not much I like better than grabbing her on the back of the head, holding her there at the point of gagging and letting loose into the back of her throat while she's choking and the cum's spitting itself out of the gaps. So me blowing from head is not an issue.Having said that. there are times when I struggle to blow, then she gets on and it's over before it started. Now we've been together for 5 years(ish), so you can't say it's nerves or anything like that.... It's just that something, at that moment, at that time, just wasn't working. Who knows why? Everyone's different. I've got mates that say they can't blow from getting head, yet they always make themselves out to be the ones that go like Dirk Diggler's apprentice and go into fine details of their escapades...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    As for ways to overcome it, loveprod, i don't know if I can help...But I will say this; I have a very overactive imagination. Even when we're going at it, I can be thinking about what I'd like to be seeing, feeling, watching, happening... (usually it involves her and a few guys - something we're yet to organise!!)If I get a certain thought in my head, that can be enough for me to lose it in a very short time. That "fantasy" does change, often, and different things work at different times.maybe you need to release yourself of thinking "C'mon fuck ya, blow in her mouth", and getting so worked up about it it just doesn't happen... Try and lose yourself in your thoughts and just enjoy the sensation. Of course, that session may end quicker than expected if she ask's you what you're thinking, but the old "I'm just enjoying the moment" should have you just about covered....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Trendy experiences:female a) yes im bi or have experimentedb) my problem is I blow guys too quickly spesh those who say they cant cum from oralguysa) I dont cum with oral b) It takes me a while to blow and about 10 to recover;-)

  • Ringleader

    Ringleader

    16 years ago

    At my next funtime situation I'm going to channel my thought into very erotic stuff like: Wickedweasel bikini's, Grace Park and Mortgage repayments.   I need to get back into the group thing. I'm sure 3 mouths at once would sort it.