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Friends with benefits nothing more..

October 10 2013

So I realise and accept I am inviting a barrage of feedback on this one but I have to take issue with the amount of peoples profiles (including couples etc) that have that they are looking for friends with benefits and nothing more but specifically take issue with single males or married males. To me, if all you are looking for is uncomplicated sex you cannot get more uncomplicated than a man who has a need for discretion. We are all on here for our own reasons and I for one do not have any misconceptions about what this is. This post may seem like judgement however it is not. In fact this is just observation. I personally think that if you just simply want to get your rocks off, it really doesn't matter who the miner is provided they meet what you are physically and sexually looking for. The idea that you are "hurting" someone is simply not true. A person cheating on their partner is a choice for whatever reason. It is solely between the couple and not an issue of who the other person is (unless it is for example a sibling). If you are an RHP hookup then embrace it. I guess what I am saying is when people suggest they are suggesting NSA, more often they have strings themselves. Just be real guys and I think you would find the amount of "time wasters" would decline rapidly.

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RHP User

12 years ago

I'm just new to this site but you make some good observations, I've been investigating nude sun baking & there is a lot of negative comments about single men. So probably unfair. However, is that your real profile pic...

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RHP User

12 years ago

Having NSA sex with someone who is taken means you get ignored unless they want sex. Which is annoying, because flirting is half the funDoesn't mean you're after more than just sex though.

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RHP User

12 years ago

It's the scheduling that's a bitch. Sure, single guys have lives and jobs and mates that take up their time but it's easier to get a booty call from them than a married guy. xx Sarah

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RHP User

12 years ago

I'm new to the site though I agree with your point Hank. It seems if a women is in a relationship then it's fine for her to put herself out there for singles play but if am man states he's married, even in an open relationship, then he is declared taken and not to be messed with.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'magilla68' I'm new to the site though I agree with your point Hank. It seems if a women is in a relationship then it's fine for her to put herself out there for singles play but if am man states he's married, even in an open relationship, then he is declared taken and not to be messed with. Girls are raised to be 'nice' and also very very judgemental. ie "only a selfish slut/whore/bitch would want to steal another girl's toy" <<<< Not sayin, just explaining... some women can't help it. It takes years to train our brains around that kind of thinking. Maybe check out "The Ethical Slut" by Dossie Easton for greater insight. xx Sarah

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playwithus742

11 years ago

Mrs Play here...I specifically have a "no partnered men" clause in our profile for a reason. We had interest from a guy who was doing this behind his gfs back, and I was extremely cautious from the start (nothing occurred, we were just in the talking stages). He told us that she knew. She didn't, but soon found out, and she did NOT like it one bit. Mr and I got caught in their drama, which, for people who need discretion because of our professions, was an unpleasant experience to say the least. So single guys are fine by me, married ones or taken ones, forget it!

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RHP User

11 years ago

Nothing in life is ever that b/w is it? No strings is also no dramas, it's easy going and should just have positive thoughts and experiences only. Well in a perfect world anyway. I don't play with married men either. It's not a judge mental thing at all it's purely because I was once on the side that was cheated on and it broke my heart. I know that no matter how hard I tried I'd feel guilty, even though I know intellectually I have no reason to. So I avoid that negative thought, and that is how I do it. Please don't think it represents a judgement because it doesn't.

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