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Forum Farewell

March 23 2010

Just wanted to bid a fond forum farewell to all my friends. I'm not leaving RHP and will be lurking in the background, spying on you all but for now I will keep my wit and wisdom to myself. This litlle chickadee has finally had enough of the assumptions made based on my words and the frustration that as clear as my profile is, my posts apparently convey a different message. I do not believe I need to defend who I am or why I do certain things and not others. I make it clear that I am NOT after casual, meaningless sex but for some reason many people assume I just need convincing ! I have ALWAYS enjoyed HOT (at times kinky) sex with a very limited (preferably ONE) partner. Red Hot Pie is not just a site for casual fucking. It has the potential to offer so much more. I acknowledge that the problem with a reasonably high profile is that people think they know you and WILL make judgements. I don't mind people recognising me and saying "hi". I just prefer them to have an open mind. I may be blonde but I'm certainly NOT dumb. I also deserve respect just like every other person on here does. I don't write on the forums for fame or to attract men ! I write simply because I LOVE writing ! It really is that simple. I love conveying the ups and downs of my life in a funny, ironic, at times sarcastic manner. I am comfortable sharing my life with others but I am NOT comfortable with the misperceptions that come with that. I was going to write several more stories for the Erotic Story section but have decided against publishing them here. How sad that I can't write about certain fantasies without men assuming that's what I WANT to do. Do people read Harry Potter believing that J.K Rowling can ride a broom stick ? I don't require or desire any response to this. I value ALL of the people who post in the forums. I hope as many of you as possible come along to the next Melbourne Drinks Night and get to know the real me and all the other wonderful fourm posters. Hugs and sticky chocolate kisses, Miss Saturn

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    well, of course I don't think that about JK Rowling... but then I like to believe your stories are at least original works ;)You'll be back, they all say they're gone .. but you'll be back, you know it :-p (enjoy your lurking)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey SaturnI will miss you and your posts to the forums, people that can and do think and write well are quite rare. I shall also miss your thought provoking, mind expanding views on the world.i feel its a shame you feel pushed to leave simply becuase you have an opinion different to others.Pop back now and then and say hi.Sticky chocky kissesDevine

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    This seems to be a growing trend, it seems some people don't like people who can express views here. Ms S, please don't go, I love your wit, your humour, your momentary lapses of seriousness here.This forum just got a hell of a lot lonelier and not as much fun.Mooka (who is sad now)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Miss Saturn , you have to keep them honest ..Miss Saturn's way ...i am coming down for the drinks night so beware Melb !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Miss Saturn I am fairly new here a (couple of months) but i have certainly enjoyed reading your posts and responses. From what iv'e read people here do love and respect you. I'm sure you'll be sadly missed by all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    sorry to hear yet another fabulous forum contributor ( and fun person) feels the need to exit the forums. Your candour & wit will be missed here. Be true to yourself. See you at Drinks night! woohoo intrigued & curious ~~~wondering when, if ever, the majority of men here will ever realise they would get a lot further with the intelligent, sensual evolved women if they treated us with the respect & courtesy they expect their sisters and mothers to receive....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Oh miss saturn what are you doing? Who cares what people on here think of you, you are most likely never gonna meet these people so fuck em, just block them if you dont like what they say.Fuck there's heaps on here that dont like me but do I give a fuck, NO. You chicks think way too much about stuff. This only a forum, IT ISNT REAL LIFE.Dont make it real and let it affect you. mr pip. p.s. Dont stop posting on our survivor forum, the game is just getting good. Be happy girl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    violets are blueand now Earl is tops loved your fiction. was awesome.well written and composed.Earl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Random

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Will be sad to see a like minded person leave the forums.It's a rotten shame ..that people have to rob others enjoyment.and prejudge...That's the thing Miss_Saturn...they don't want to take the time getting to know us as people.Most guys will justify..in their own minds.that is just a quickie sex site..as you stated it is all things.xoxoxmumma and lots of chocky kisses

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    miss saturn it is with great sadness that I read your last post.Although I am not what desire,and have never met or talked,your profile and pic always put a smile on me dial and a stirring in my loins, I once received a return flirt from you and I will never forget the way you made myheart flutter at the sight of the flirt.Maybe another time or place in life we could of meet .For that I thank you and the kindness of your heart and soul is second to none.I will greatly miss your intelligent ,bright and funny input into the forums.I do hope you return and once again dazzle us with mind and beauty .If you dont return I wish you all the best and hope you find that special person that you truly deserve. with luvin thoughts always your admirer quietcolt

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Really sad that people r like that and make u feel that way! People on here need to realise, just cause a woman is comfortable talking on here, does not mean, the we would just do any guy! we r all on a sex site as we all love sex! I would like to say Miss saturn u r a great woman and if they meet u im sure they would realise they r soooo wrong! TO ALL U PEOPLE OUT THERE DONT JUDGE OTHERS THAT U HAVENT EVEN MET! IM SURE U WOULD NOT LIKE TO BE JUDGED EITHER! WHERES THE LOVE!!! hugs and kisses 4 u Miss Saturn xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Big hugs and kisses to everyone. I am a very friendly (at times flirty) woman...I LOVE people ! I love life. Thats what I want people to know about me. I hope everyone will continue to attend the Melbourne Drinks Night as we really can use that as a chance to meet each other in a non-sexual, fun and friendly way. I always make an effort to chat to everyone, that's just me. Everyone has something to offer. I learn something from every person I meet. Honestly there is NO ONE I would avoid meeting. Thanks for the compliments. It is a pity that the people who give them (and honestly mean what they say) are in the minority. For all those wonderful, sincere people, please message me your MSN and I will gladly chat to you online. I have formed some great friendships from here, particularly with the women. xxx Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    when i'm able to message i will...xoxoxmumma

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Why let a few turds clog up your play in our virtual cesspool bebe? Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I assume you have been receivng hate mail maybe?? I have had my fair share of that in the past. It is usually sent by gutless people who don't actually want to voice their views on the forums. If people don't like what you say or whatever, they should respond to you on forum not send messages directly to you. Just ignore them I've had people, usually single men, writing and telling me to get off RHP as I am luring married men away from their wives!!! I just delete and block Good luck XXXX

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You'll need to update your profile MsSaturn... there's a mismatch between your quitter forum attitude and go-getter profile attitude. Interesting you chose the quitter to win

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have been very fortunate to never receive any hate mail. I have always struggled with the balance between between flirty and friendly but not leading guys on. I don't aim to be a cock tease...that's just cruel. My experiences here have highlighted the gap between men and women. No matter how hard many of us try to bridge that gap, the void remains. The gap can be overcome with communication but most people can't be bothered... they just stick to their own opinions. My nickname has always reflected what I strive for: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus but I want to be from Saturn...the place where we are all equal and communicate openly. Imagine how amazing relationships would be if we listened to each other rather than judged and assumed ! Come join me on Saturn...the air may be a little different but it's well worth breathing ! xx Miss Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'm not a QUITTER... I'm still here. I'm not hiding. I am like an onion... I have many layers... peel them away one by one... eat me after only the first few layers and I will taste bitter... wait until they are all peeled away and a sweetness full of juice and character, emerges. xx Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Are you seriously coming to Melbourne ? You will be the guest of honour ! I will reserve a place for you at the head of the table, I will buy you a drink although I'll probably have to fight all the other women for the privelege. Oooo did I hear you mention post drinks party ??? xx Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Miss Saturn I am sometimes told I should not flirt so much. (OOPs nearly put my name in) Now_or_never, stop flirting Strangely enough never by the women I am flirting with. Big breath, chest out…I have been told frequently that I get on well with women, I am in touch with my feelings, in touch with my feminine side etc. Therefore I wanted to give air to my thoughts on the ………. Unfortunately unlike you my ability does not estend to the written word without a lot of effort and spellchecking, grammar checking. Up steps Google, (sidenote; a company whose search engine I use way too often, especially when its known, what I think of their accounting procedures..end sidenote.) I found this article and read it…could not believe my luck. This describes you to a tee, in my humble opinion. The Art of Flirting A good flirt can be spotted from a mile away. You know the type, always smiling, laughing, intense eye contact and over-friendly arm touches. Does this describe you? Well congratulations you have been officially labeled a FLIRT!To admit you're a flirt is nothing to be ashamed of! I am the first one to admit that I am a big flirt - I really can't help myself, it is inherent in my nature.But flirting doesn't have to hold sexual connotations. On the contrary, many people, view the act of flirting as a "gentle amusement", an act of friendliness and perfectly harmless unless it is bordering on the line of sleaziness or plain rudeness.But more than that, flirting is not just about being over-friendly, it is about being confident and liking yourself and sharing a bit of that with the rest of the world.According to the dictionary, flirting means: being playfully romantic; something of little value or importance; speak or act in a playful or flirting way.We have been a flirting society for many decades as documented in novels, poems, art, and drama. Remember the tactics in years gone by, where a lady walking past a gentleman who has caught her eye might drop a lace handkerchief as she passes him, with hopes that he will pick it up and run after her. Well I am happy to report that women have since progressed with their style of flirting!Nowadays, an accomplished flirter can walk into a room and strike up a conversation and instant rapport with a stranger at any time and without the reliant need for alcohol or dropping that lace hankie!The first tip in the flirting game is that it be tastefully executed. This means if you are the one doing the flirting, you should have tact and realize that flirting is done in small quantities with consideration and good sense. You should also be aware of the individual preference of the person you are flirting with. Flirting really isn't meant to hold much value or importance and has no room for rudeness.QUICK FACT: Did you know that flirting with people can actually be good for your health and boosting your level of happiness? Well I kid you not!Flirting can add more to your life than you probably realize. Accomplished flirting can ease the way in your friendships, your love life and your career, therefore making life pleasurable. Often the most appealing people are those who radiant confidence and self-respect.GREAT FLIRTS:Here are some tips for picking out the flirt professional: · They have empowering beliefs about themselves. · Have the ability to form a rapport with almost anyone, can accommodate others while maintaining a sense of their themselves. · Are upbeat and positive. · Are in touch with and aware of their own sexual energy. · Pick up other people's signals and know when to take flirting to the next level and when to stop. · Have fun and have a child-like quality about them.If flirting is perceived as just great communication, it can be of benefit anywhere, including in that controversial arena, the workplace. So the next time you contemplate going up and introducing yourself to the person across the room, don't contemplate, just do it! And remember to carry with you a big SMILE!- Annemarie Failla Kindest regards, Now_or_never …..and if I may be so bold xxx and a hug.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' I'm not a QUITTER... I'm still here. I'm not hiding. I am like an onion... I have many layers... peel them away one by one... eat me after only the first few layers and I will taste bitter... wait until they are all peeled away and a sweetness full of juice and character, emerges. xx Saturn Ohhh that's a shocking analogy.... have you tasted the middle of an onion *rofl* You should have said profiterole... oh nah - they taste good on the outside AND the inside.... erm - hmm - I got nothing! Maybe a watermelon... the skin on those is disgusting!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Two words Jean.... "Ferrero Rocher" hehe Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Two words Jean.... "Ferrero Rocher" hehe Hugs Stalky Is that french for "You are hot"? Oops - I should know shouldn't I. Oui Oui. Buongior

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' Come join me on Saturn...the air may be a little different but it's well worth breathing ! xx Miss Saturn No Complaints from us here Miss!!!! xxxxx Hope to see you posting again soon lovely girl!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have a confession to make.... Miss Saturn is a big genuine flirt ! I always have been, I always will be. So maybe... I need to add that to my profile ? "Beware ... I am a FLIRT ! This involves spontaneous fun, laughter, and touch. I smile at random strangers, flick my blonde hair from side to side and flicker my eye lids. It doesn't mean I want to marry you or fuck you. It just means I'm enjoying myself." But... would anyone listen ? I'm sure guys will think, "yeah... but I KNOW you really DO want ME !" Hugs Miss Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    in my eyes...raising my hot chocolate and proposing a toast...to a beautiful woman...and a beautiful soul...Jose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    HI Miss Saturn yes i am coming down for the weekend..I am looking forward to meeting everyone..I went to Stalkys drinks to meet the people i play with here and make it real..Same goes for the Melb drinks.. We have to keep it real Missy ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Miss Saturn ..they own their own thought s nobody can make you feel anything...you choose to feel. When she flirts with me I (choose to) enjoy it.(thus accepting it for what it is ) Correct When she flirts with me I (choose) to feel she wants me.I (choose to) think she wants me...duh WRONG buddy!!! It is called flirting grow up guys... Better still visit the chatroom and see it in action. Not the comments "show me your boobs.pleeaase. Watch and learn... Nice top...you look terrific in that top..etc Not giving any secrets away here...lol Can u tell I started a pysch degree...lol Jumps off soapbox.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'm getting excited about the next drinks night ! This will hopefully be the best night yet. Glad you are coming Taipan.... a little birdy told me that J.G (aka DOC) will be there too ! I am touched by everyone's kind words. As I said, I'm not disappearing, just dropping down a few levels. xxx Miss Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Another one bites the dust,Dear Miss Saturn, I've always enjoyed your posts. Not always agreed with you but that's what life's about. Take care babe and when we get down your way I do hope you'll come say hi and share some chocolate sauce with us, maybe lick it off Mrs Pup?Mwahxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Oi !!!!!!! you owe me dinner and a movie........dont think about going too far LOL have hugs for free earl grey always available...... hot chocolate on request..... the silence will be deafening...... take care Miss S.....reflect heal protect grow and re-emerge anew we await your return miss b

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Miss Saturn - one of the few truly sexy people on this site... Take some time out and come back bigger and better... Dog.

  • wannabyummymummy

    wannabyummymummy

    16 years ago

    stay on and share your wisdom and wit with those of us who appreciate it and forget about the losers.you will be sorely missed if you go.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lolz saturn I saw a smidge of what yr going through, I saw a person commenting "on another poster being a drama queen about leaving, how much time do they spend on here ffs"Funny little man BUT the weirdest part was he'd een on line for over 12 hours All you can do is realise that cream rises to the top and shit sinks,,, your in the cream class Saturn enjoy Dev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Dont go because others have an opinion of you... Opinions are like arse holes.... every one has one...Stand your ground!! To be honest i think the RHP gene pool could do with some chlorine..... I have read your posts and enjoy them, come back and keep it up for us here in forums . Me thinks some people have jealousy issues and need an attitude adjustment.. Trippa xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Miss Saturn you don’t create the problems, you just merely offer you ideas on them. You must be feeling a tad weak and vulnerable. I think you must be ready to re-look at the past and have a wanting to move to the future. Don’t let other people’s identity crisis, dint amour. Miss Saturn, I welcome the thought that you shall be lurking in the back drops and still will be able to voice your ideas from time to time. Miss Saturn, this is a turning point you are experiencing, I await your full time return, once you have controlled you conflict internally. Miss Saturn, what I do know is, you take responsibility for your own life. Take as much time as you need to breath. Powderpuff