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Flirt Ping Pong.... Booooooring!

October 18 2010

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It would be awesome if blokes would take the rime to really read profiles....to avoid this scenario....Having taken time to finally answer the flirts I have received this weekend...and a few over from last week..... a few of the guys I sent a "Thanks, Flattery will get you anywhere" response, because it had the word "thanks" in it, gave out some mixed signals to them. I got more flirts back from them again despite not being interested, but having no polite way to let them down gently. RHP we need another flirt reply. Something thats not as harsh as the "hell no" one, but not as try again as "the flattery will get you..." one. "You're not quite floating my boat, but thanks for the compliment" " We don't live near enough to one another for anything serious, but thanks for the compliment" "Please re-read my profile, I think you missed a few bits that I find important in a potential sex friend" Anyone else have some thoughts.... might save some people some time....

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I have been thinking the same thing for ages now too!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It would be awesome if blokes would take the rime to really read profiles.I am new to this site and have had a few flirts.A few saying a pic would be good.I dont have a pic on my main page as i want to be discreet.But i do have a couple in my private pics and if any one took the time to read my profile they would know that.I cant find any reply asking any flirters to do that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I have often wished I could re-write my own flirts, especially the one about re-reading profiles. I think though that some guys don't realise that reply flirts come with a yes or no message. I have sent several noooooo's only to find they have messaged me. I reply twice and delete anything else. They eventually get the idea.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    so a variation on F&%k off is probably warranted...........................cant you use the "No definately no" one......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    DominaT Yes you are right. We were on here several weeks before I realised that the 'reply' flirts were different to the 'send' ones. It wasnt until we received a 'Sorry but I dont see our planets colliding' one and went looking for it to use myself that I found it. That tends to be my definatly no reply. I also use the ' put up some pics & become a registered member one. That bugs me when they send you a flirt & you check out the page to find RHP frases or Their own little 'fun couple seeks others to experience...blah blah blah" with no photos. grrrr I realise not everyone can afford a membership but they should at least become a registered user. Ill also use the 'call me a perve but can I see some pics' one but only if Im not fussed as I wouldnt want to accidentally alienate a couple that I thought would be a good match. If I want more info but think they will suit us I waste a message & ask myself. Mrs H xx

  • MITCH42

    MITCH42

    15 years ago

    you send someone a message and they dont bother only ping pong. your interested or not

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I must admit that I have sent unwanted flirts after getting hits on my search, only to have it spelt out very clearly, that the information on their profile clearly indicates that they are not going to be interested in me. So a word of warning to all, do not assume that a search hit is a suitiable or interested partner. Read the profile.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I have had replys only in the negative, the noooo one is a bit harsh makes you wonder. the planets not coliding one is a good one, the flattery one is a bit confusing, however i always respect that someone is not interested and leave it at that, shame though. I do However like the fact that some people reply , keep it up .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'exitonly'so a variation on F&%k off is probably warranted...........................cant you use the "No definately no" one...... Girls there's already one there that I use regularly to great affect... "Sorry I don't see our planets colliding.. but good luck in your search".. It's smack bang in the middle of the flirt replies! It's been so effective for me that I've created an identical Quick Response for the messages I receive, so give that one a try :) xx R

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'rccrhot2trot2' Quoting 'exitonly'so a variation on F&%k off is probably warranted...........................cant you use the "No definately no" one...... Girls there's already one there that I use regularly to great affect... "Sorry I don't see our planets colliding.. but good luck in your search".. It's smack bang in the middle of the flirt replies! It's been so effective for me that I've created an identical Quick Response for the messages I receive, so give that one a try :) xx R She uses it on me all the time lol..........................but im dumb so......i still send her flirts.......................bahahahahahah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'exitonly' Quoting 'rccrhot2trot2' Quoting 'exitonly'so a variation on F&%k off is probably warranted...........................cant you use the "No definately no" one...... Girls there's already one there that I use regularly to great affect... "Sorry I don't see our planets colliding.. but good luck in your search".. It's smack bang in the middle of the flirt replies! It's been so effective for me that I've created an identical Quick Response for the messages I receive, so give that one a try :) xx R She uses it on me all the time lol..........................but im dumb so......i still send her flirts.......................bahahahahahah lol.. yeah, 18 of them at a time!!!!! And STILL I reply to them lol.........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'rccrhot2trot2' Quoting 'exitonly' Quoting 'rccrhot2trot2' Quoting 'exitonly'so a variation on F&%k off is probably warranted...........................cant you use the "No definately no" one...... Girls there's already one there that I use regularly to great affect... "Sorry I don't see our planets colliding.. but good luck in your search".. It's smack bang in the middle of the flirt replies! It's been so effective for me that I've created an identical Quick Response for the messages I receive, so give that one a try :) xx R She uses it on me all the time lol..........................but im dumb so......i still send her flirts.......................bahahahahahah lol.. yeah, 18 of them at a time!!!!! And STILL I reply to them lol......... Yeah but thats just an autoreply..........................that doesnt take anywhere near the time it takes to send out the initial 18.......that took me minutes to organise................wheres my im not santa but you can sit on my lap anytime flirt..............................heheheheheheh

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    and been said so many times before that you would think that the powers that be would listen and give us some options (no disrespect intended)It would be good to be able to create our own flirt replies as we can with the message templates even, I do tend the use the 'sorry i don't see our planets colliding one' if i/we are definitely not interested but there are times when you would like to acknowledge a compliment, say thanks but that's it (not an option) and there seems to be a serious lack of matching up between the flirts you receive and the ones you can reply with.aahhh well back to the drawing board,Mrs GC

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    15 years ago

    There needs to be an option for a simple THANKS flirt response...please take note RHP Management!!