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First Time Swingers Club/Event

December 22 2010

We have never been to a full on swingers club/event. We have played with other singles and couples in the privacy of a home or hotel but never "exposed" ourselves to a group of people we had never met or spoken to. We are extremely turned on by the thought of going to a club or event but absolutely paranoid about exposing ourselves to unknowns. Is this a common apprehension?? Is it considered bad form to go to a club or event and not swap? Will others understand? A part of me says go for it and lose ourselevs in the moment yet another part of me (Ms Sensible part) says hang on - take it slowly. Are there any clubs or events which are best suited to people in our situation. Any opinions greatly appreciated. Nikki xxx

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RHP User

15 years ago

Hi guys.. Couples Club in Sydney (or Lotus Lounge) are great. Themed nights are the best.Couples Club has a great night once a month on the first friday - Angels & Demons .. it is a good start

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RHP User

15 years ago

We were at Angels and Demons a couple of weeks ago and altho we prefer to swap, most people didn't and the place was packed out. You will feel comfy, it is all quite tame. Now who can find us a place that aint so tame??????????????? P.S this is the female writing!!

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RHP User

15 years ago

If Fridaynightfun wants to get down and dirty perhaps Club Rub might be the one to go to. I was talking to the lady that runs it and she says it can get rather wild.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Thanks I had completely forgotten about that and I know Cherry anyway, been to another of her functions. Cheers. XX

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RHP User

15 years ago

Some really positive responses so far so thank you for taking the time to read my post and get back to me. And Leesa next time we are in Brisbane we will give you a call - CI looks like it could be our venue. Nikki

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RHP User

15 years ago

them places rock

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RHP User

15 years ago

can we ask where??? been to angels & demons and had a great time, did our own thing with a little join in but its pretty much do as you wish. you can do all or nothing, either way enjoy yourself.

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RHP User

15 years ago

http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Club/CLUB-RUB-264 Check out that link.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Remember strangers are just people you have not met yet.

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