RHP

RHP User

M45 F42

First MMF

January 07 2011

sex

Hi guys, I would love to watch my wife with another guy, however she tells me she does not like the idea of two guys being together with her. She has no problem with FFM when we talk about group sex. Do girls fantasize about two guys pleasing them like guys do for two girls? I would like to hear how you were introduced to MMF, maybe I could get an idea of how to persuade her to try it.

Comments

  • Mr_Invisible

    Mr_Invisible

    15 years ago

    Maybe you could start off with her having an interlude with another man while you watch from outside the windowThen after he's gone you and Mrs talk about it and see how it made you both feelThen gradually maybe you can get closer and closer till your in the same room and slowly join in

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I think it all girls will be different on this one. I personally, am much more turned on by the idea of a FFM than a MMF, although i do love a MMF when im in the right mood lol :)However i find most girls ive met both on here and personal friends who play, are quite into having multiple guys, and love the idea of a MMF threesome.The way we started with our first MMF was having the other guy round, all have a few drinks first, then him and i snuck off into the bedroom and started things off as a one on one while Mr 2 ezee watched and took photos, then joined in after a while :)At the end of the day if she is just not into it then there is not much you can do im afraid.GOOD LUCK!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We were just talking about this last night, she doesn't feel comfortable being with two guys, or another man altogether. Just FFM. We haven't even gone to a date on this site yet and were talking options. Looks like were just going to have to wait.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hi Newkinky2, I've got the same problem like u. So far I've only managed to get her into having a tantric massage by a male with me watching. She tells me she's interested with MMF sometimes but then changes her mind again. Normally after the massage she'll say yes but the next day it becomes a 'NO'. She does fantasize herself in a MMF but simply can't find the courage to do it I guess. I'll just have to try harder !!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    the lady usually is more reserved , and wonders what hubby / partner will think afterwards ,its more about the repercussion after so she is cautious and non commital , my suggestion is start with couples separate rooms then couples same room , after progress to MFM

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We first started playing with another couple we have known for a very long time and one thing led to another before 'she' was getting fucked by both of the boys. Not so much planned; just happened. We knew the other couple very well so the trust was there that it was only fun. And fun it was ... a number of times. We actually prefer MFM (straight only:)) because 'he' is not interested in pleasing another girl; 'he' just loves to watch 'her' please and tease :) BUT; it's not for everyone. Have fun!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    My husband talked about it for approx 6 months and then one day we went to a small swingers club and he made sure my glass was always topped up - it was exciting not knowing whether i could go through with it and then full of happiness and a little help from my friend the baileys we got talking with a lovely guy and he put his hand on my knee so I knew this could be the moment as your wife I wasnt sure about it so i asked my man is this what you want he asked is this what you want and back and forth then i just said lets do it and it was fantastic knowing my man was there made it alot easier the other guy was very caring and gentle and that is very important if for the first time -- it was amazing and we will do it again I was very reserved and wondering how he will look or think about me but its made us closer this was my first time so just go for it good luck