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Female partner orgasms too quickly.
December 01 2013
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wingman2014
12 years ago
Are you saying she is only allowed to have one ??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi Anet,.does your current partner know you feel this way? If she did I think she'd be happy to try a few other positions before the missionary, or am I wrong?The thing you are giving her is the one that makes her come the fastest, so it sounds like that would be first thing to change a bit..I'm sure the other ladies will have heaps to add. Good luck!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Be saying that she is only interested in one... That was the situation with my wife, one orgasm and she shut up shop for the night... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok so you know her weak spot is missionary. I'm assuming you also know when she's about to pop her cookie? I'm also assuming you know which position has her lasting the longest?? If yes to those questions..... Try holding her on the brink...if that means you stop and pull out and let her calm down a bit then so be it. Have her suck your cock or something for a bit while she comes down a bit. I also agree with wingman but ask, can she no longer continue due to sensitivity after only one orgasm?? I had a woman similar to this I was starting to see about 2 years ago, but she could and asked me to continue fucking her during and after her orgasm. Who was I to say no to that request?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
But guys... Couldn't help yourselves, huh?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is she really happy with it being all over for her in 5 minutes? Does she know how unsatisfied you are? I know my bits need a rest from those really big orgasms but doesn't stop me go back for more. Does she know how many different types of orgasms there are? Have you tried exploring them with her? Does she know that after a while they all join together and you hit the 'zone'? (you know that bit where you go into full ongoing orgasmic jelly legs fit) Sorry, I digress. It's been a while and my clitoris is about to explode. Seriously, sounds like you need to spice things up a little. The girl sounds a bit bored.
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RHP User
12 years ago
to understand....but everyone is different!! I normally orgasm during foreplay..if the guy knows what he is doing.... I then cant wait for more.......especially penetration!! everything is all engorged and throbbing......makes it all extra tight........dam I need a cold shower
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for thinking of me....... ..... bahahahaha
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RHP User
12 years ago
In a word.....no :D - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ask her! First key to improving ANY sexual interaction. Communication. Tell her exactly what you've written here, that you want to improve the experience for her and you'd like some ideas on how to extend your sessions. One thing I will say is if she becomes too sensitive after the first orgasm try changing what you do. Move to another position that doesn't directly stimulate her clit, try some erotic massage or oral that doesn't focus on the clit until she gives you the word that she's ready to go again. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just keep going, see how many you can get her to have... Not sure why it's unsatisfying to you? I quite like stir-it's suggestion too. I have a lover who loves keeping me on the brink... Bloody control freak! It's fun though, I'm begging for him to let me orgasm by the end of it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
This can happen to me. Definitely only a one orgasm girl.... I had to be really turned on and use lube to keep going or sex becomes painful . My clit becomes too sensitive at first and then when I can go back near its like its lost sensitivity and there is no way I can come again. Very very jealous of girls who can come over and over. Even two orgasms in one day are difficult to achieve even if hours apart. I'd just make sure you don't let her come straight away. Tease her ... Make her beg for more. Don't let her touch her clit for a bit.... Stop and start... Like if I am on my own I can come in 3 mins flat but I prefer to make things last - take myself to the edge and then ease off because I know I can only come once. At least then when I do it's a big one! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
In many convos I have had with men that are in relationships a lot complain that their wife comes in 5 mins then loses interest. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Women who come that quickly are the rarity.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe with you jay... 😄😄😄😄😄😛😛😛😛💋 Hp xo 💌 Because I'm worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Use it to your advantage, see how many times you can get her off. Otherwise start practicing orgasm denial or get her to hold off as long as she can. I know a few women that love this, they say it makes the orgasm more intense. B - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
you ask her too suck you off till well you know and then do the deed and you both cum... Problem solved...
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RHP User
12 years ago
it could be she fakes it... and WANTS to get it over and done with ASAP here is a trick... Next time she "Cums" and goes to sleep... masterbate and cum all over her face and hair... She will soon learn to satisfy you BEFORE she sleeps.. Of course... That COULD turn out to be bad advise too...Your choice :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks to everyone who has made suggestions, many people have asked questions so I will try to answer them all at once 1) After orgasm she is so sensitive we can't continue2) It is usually a weekend only thing (work=too tired)3) I have told her how I feel, but she does not show much interest in solutions (or experiments) - she is happy with her lot.4) "complain that their wife comes in 5 mins then loses interest." = exactly the situation. I think the common theme above is to try and slow things down when she starts getting excited. To tell you the truth, I really love sending her wild, so maybe I'm my own worst enemy, I know what she likes and it turns me on to do it (as I know she is enjoying it...), but she gets there quicker than I do. I like the suggestion of more foreplay for me, that will probably work a treat (she is not a blow job enthusiast, but maybe some other types, like a massage or body rub). I think I will practice slowing things down, I have tried that before and I did not think I was that good at it...I'm not sure she likes it (It frustrates her I think...however I do love extending the session like that, as when you finally get there, it is so much better..) Please keep up suggestions !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Now I regret instant posting. But OP I ask why are you 'unsatisfied' I think we need far more info
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RHP User
12 years ago
Brilliant strategy. That'll wake her up all right, and if not I suppose it is almost as good as any facial mask.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Or a divorce proposal - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
have you been together?Has this always happened?...perhaps you are sexually incompatible if you have tried absolutely everything and she is happy with her quick orgasms....
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RHP User
12 years ago
You crack me up, I'm not sure of your methods, but feel you could be on the right track!
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RHP User
12 years ago
mind you... seeing you are on here as a single looking for a lady... yo are not serious about her... so.. dump her ... and find a girl who has never cum through actualy sex
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RHP User
12 years ago
A little jaded there, cavey? lol The single v couple question is an interesting one though. But isn't it always
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have never met a girl who can only orgasm once during penetration. I've met a lot who get too sensitive after having an orgasm via clitoral stimulation. Is this really a thing?
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N4November
12 years ago
I can come within minutes as well but I'm a multi orgasmic squirter and can have orgasms all night!! I guesstimate that I will come at least 60 at a party but I'm completely exhausted the next day. My advice is don't mention it as might make her self-conscious and see if you can take her to the next level! There are no rules and you need to lighten up and not be so rigid!! Many women can't even bring themselves to orgasm so don't spoil this for her!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I stnd reprimanded :(
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
love your way of thinking...cracks me up every time....
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RHP User
12 years ago
The difference between me and you is'. I don't pretend I have the golden knob that makes EVERY female roar off into orgasm... But my success rate is quite satisfactory...
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RHP User
12 years ago
That last post was for you... Because you deserve it. ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
60 times in one night baygirl??? I need to have a serious talk with my vagina she is letting me down!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' But my success rate is quite satisfactory... But how do you know..... the women of rhp have mentioned that theyve faked it. Maybe their faking was more satisfactory than yours 3.....2....1....
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RHP User
12 years ago
My knob is not only golden but studded with diamonds too... You gotta get with the groove and make with the times dude... Women have become impregnated just by reading my forums... That's how virile I am... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
From FOTC: hiphopapotomus..... My rhymes are so potent that in this small segment I made all of the ladies in the area pregnant Yes, sometimes my lyrics are sexist But you lovely bitches and hoes should know I'm trying to correct this
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RHP User
12 years ago
:) Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it... ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nice to see the debate, idea's and bragging this topic has invoked ! Mesmerised - does your current partner know you feel this way Kaleidoscope - First key to improving ANY sexual interaction. Communication. baygirl2315 - My advice is don't mention it as might make her self-conscious I'm with babygirl on this one, from what I know of her personality (and we've been together long enough) she is very self-conscious, to the point of undressing in the dark etc, which is a shame because she is gorgeous. Stir_it_alot - I'm assuming you also know when she's about to pop her cookie Yes, I definitely know, I know the signs, I have tried to slow or stop at that point but I can’t keep her activated after that, she either loses interest if I slow and the moment fades or I keep going and she orgasms. If she orgasms, I miss out and am unsatisfied and if she loses interest I don’t find it fun (even though I can continue to orgasm). Maybe as Maude_Gonne suggests, maybe we’re sexually incompatible. My idea of a perfect week is quick sex every night and a 2-3 hour romp several times on a weekend. Her idea of a perfect week (seems to be) no contact all week and a 5 minute slam on Saturday night….. paint_me - Is she really happy with it being all over for her in 5 minutes- yes she is and has said so, she says she's always been like this in all her relationships…. I’m wondering how I fire up some interest (by making it fun and enjoyable) to play longer…. I’ve never had any trouble previously .. I'm going to keep on trying though. It seems like some of the female posters here like to be brought to the brink and then back off, be brought close again, repeating, until they're so ready they would roll the guy over and pound him to death just to release the beast and explode into orgasm.....or am I misunderstanding the posts.... sounds good to me...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'slickz' I have never met a girl who can only orgasm once during penetration. I've met a lot who get too sensitive after having an orgasm via clitoral stimulation. Is this really a thing?
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RHP User
12 years ago
DG Who cares ? Im not about to sit around and start worrying if they did or did'nt, thats their problem not mine. ? Relying on someone else to provide the fireworks ' really is the lazy females excuse for not wanting to return the favor.. Besides' the females that cum quietly and bump along are usually the serious ones.. not the screamers.. HP.. With that sloopy Crown you bestow upon yourself. How the hell can you see while its sitting down around your nose somewhere.. ? dude..
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RHP User
12 years ago
You're an ex footballer aren't you? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Jay_me I won't pretend to speak for anyone else, but I was laughing with you not at you. So pick up your bottom lip before you trip over it, it just makes you a bigger target dude... hp xo 💌 In Melbourne for Xmas... wingman and playmate required... Apply within.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lol I hope not mixing the two ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well now...there's one for the books!
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RHP User
12 years ago
IM DUMFOUNDED ON THE ? AND IM TAKEING IT AS A JOKE I DONT MEAN TO AFFEND BUT SERIOUSLY IF YOU DONT KNOW ADVICE IS GOING TO HELP , LOOK IM NO ROMEO AND SERIOULY HAVNT BEEN ABLE TO GET A WOMEN LADIE CHICK EVEN IN A WHORE HOUSE DONT KNOW WHY I EVEN HAVE MONEY WHEN IM IN A WHORE HOUSE LOL , BUT HEY WHEN IM WITH A WOMEN ITS NOT ME WODERING WHY SHES SO QUICKE OF HAVEING ONE ITS USUAL JUST KEEP GOING UNTILL WE BOTH DROP IN EXSUATION AND NOT REALY KNOWING HOW MANY TIME WEVE BOTH BEEN TO HOW HAPPY PLACES ORGASM ... HERE IF SHE LEAVE YOU THERES A PROBLEM ..
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madotara69
12 years ago
The problem is no biggie, the lady in question just does not know how much she enjoys anal........yet. The tide may well turn. Then it is on you OP, lasting then may become your greatest hope, to fulfil an extraordinary test to see just how long you can hang on. It would be a shame to let her down. Good luck Mado, Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Perhaps you should try to give her squirting orgasms? They are g spot ones rather than clit ones and are oh-so-yummy. There's a clip on Redtube (the first choice when you search squirting orgasms) with a guy demonstrating how to give one to a girl (you can get the drift of basic technique you need to apply if you've never been involved with one before). Be prepared for a wet patch underneath her though which might make her uncomfortable if she's not expecting it. Squirting orgasms are a whole new foreplay experience that will have her coming back for more over and over again and then you can follow up with the clit orgasm. Once she's experienced a few squirting ones she may even be able to have a clit & g spot orgasm at the same time. That will blow her mind! That should prolong the whole experience for you a bit and turn you on big time watching the effect you have on her. Hopefully she will be feeling so fantastic she will be happy to return the favour and put some effort into pleasuring you. If she doesn't she's an ungrateful wench. Lol! Mrs LTL
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RHP User
12 years ago
I used to be like your girl, I thought I could only have one and I always pop so damn fast, and never had a problem with continuing sex afterwards, and I still enjoyed it, but my mind was in control and believed that I couldn't cum again. I used to make the most of my one orgasm (and it'd usually be earth-shattering) with a lot of what you might call "edging", as in, getting as close as I could to it and then stopping, calming down a little, then going back there, and again and again until CHK-BOOM! Definitely try this, it helped to desensitise me a bit I think. I too was always jealous of the women who talked about multiple orgasms and cumming over and over and over again. Then one day I met a man who showed me what my body could do, again, and again... CONSECUTIVELY! Mind shattered, body shattered, no going back from that, and HALLELUJAH to that! Hahaha! Yes that was smug laughter. I agree with many other posters here, communication is so important, as I said, it was all in my mind, my body was handicapped. Encourage her to masturbate and "edge" herself, and get her to experiment with herself after cumming, feeling what she can and can't tolerate and just how it all feels down there in it's engorged state. Oh and stay away from direct clitoral stimulation straight after she cums until she has a handle on it. So much fun experimentation to do in this situation, but she has to be on board or it's all futile. GOOD LUCK
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RHP User
12 years ago
is this a real convo or we just joking hahahaahahahahahahahahah
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey there.. My partner and I enjoy literally hours of build up and foreplay... Sexy lingerie.... getting dressed in it in front of him.... Gotta focus on the WHOLE experience not just the end result. We tease and play. Lots of toys, pumps, nipple clamps, butt plugs (for either or both - whatever turns you on), photographs, sexy poses even- and sexy texts (pics) during the day. Yes I know normal mundane life gets in the way but if both partners dont have equal sex drives you have to work on making her enjoy more than just cuming.. I think.. Try make the build up as exciting and sexual as the actual sex. I cum multiple times before he does and he loves watching me explode ;-) Try something different - not the bedroom, not even the house?? My two cents worth Have fun and good luck x
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RHP User
12 years ago
OHH GOD YEAH I KNOW THIS IS SERIOUS NOW IVE READ SOME OF THE ADVICE OH GOD IM STILL LUAGTHING THOUGH SORRY ..
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have the opposite problem takes me ages to come if at all damn she is lucky! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Firstly you are lucky at least you can get out the car and have a quicky. I cant understand why she just wants one orgasm but sugest this-- Keep oral to short amounts and vary foreplay also stay away from missionary but if you do, make it short and hold her off from that orgasm. I am a guy who has taught many women to squirt and had more than my fair share of women when younger, but this is the first time I had to ponder on an answer. I might come back with a better answer but will need time to ponder more. LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ex footballer yes, with a university degree and a very successful business. How's that for a no brain footballer... I thought you were smarter than that ? HP... So was I .... Not so smart after all ? Lighten up...
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RHP User
12 years ago
before her!!! then leave her high and dry .... :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't see your problem women do have more than one & ho does this stop you from getting there
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RHP User
12 years ago
So the op can't finish himself off/get a hand? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ive read through the replies...... and my first question is...... .... is this lady vaginally orgasmic?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well Im one of the lucky ones who get to have multiple orgasms, but as for u and ur partner? Well do it in other positions and then do it in missionary last that way you will both be satisfied. Good luck buddy :)
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madotara69
12 years ago
Chevy darling enough pondering, give it straight up. The tension is enough to drive one nuts, your pending pondered answer is the missing link. How can we move forward without the usual insight, delicately delivered as informative and consistently factual recollections, many to your wisdom, only you gift to these forums. Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
On occasion I have felt down and been negative but you thrive on it. Can you ever be nice.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Chevy, I think that mado is being nice in his own way, I know some people don't get you either... And I've been looked at like a crazy man on the wrong side of the fence outside the asylum many times 😎 But you're a bright light in here... So let's gather mado and Tara (not leaving her out ! 😈) and you, and let's have a big hug... Followed by some spooning... 😜 C'mon down big fella... 😄😄😈😈 What was the topic...? hp xo 💌 In Melbourne for Xmas... wingman and playmate required... Apply within.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ive had the same problem with my wife from day dot she goes twice really fast within 15 mins or so then gets to sensative n sore to continue and majority or the time like 99 out of 100 i have to finsh my self off and its missionary for her aswell lol the only time she hoes more is if shes drunk and that numbs all her sences a bit lol.
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madotara69
12 years ago
I have had enough of being negative, I try not to be and even when feeling that way I try to still be positive. But my post was in the best of spirits, as HP said. You have bought a lot of topics to the forums, the stuff you cop most of the shit over, brings out some pretty interesting thoughts from the greater number of regulars to one time wonders, it certainly keeps the forums interesting. It took some time to get use to your way of getting stuff out and into the streams of conversation. But the way you play the game, brings out the best with a lot of people. chevy darling has got to stick, that is Tara's name for you. I would rather be in the shit with you, than with her. So, just playful banter is all and you still have not come back to the table with this pondering bit. Plus, why would you see that post as negative, talking about pussy and lots of them, is a pretty positive incentive no matter what they can do. As long that we remain to be gentlemen to their owners, as they have the permissions we seek for the chance to actually look even play with. Then boast to the forums pretending we know what we think, and pass for effort at least with the ladies entertainment. It is more fun than being right in the shit with them. But you seem to handle that better than me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
How much foreplay do you have, do you talk scenes during sex, providing you understand each other I have found verbal senarios where your both on the same page is multi orgasmic
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