Fears of first timer couples

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  We are playing in a very physical realm but most of us are also very emotional beings. I still get cold feet at the 11th hour but always have a good time and enjoy myself and come out of it feeling great. But next time, still trepidatious. It's just in our nature.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  There is absolutely nothing wrong with not being 100% sure about doing something. Its part of our nature as human beings to be wary when stepping outside of our normal boundaries. Don't ever feel bad for having these feelings, your not alone, we all certainly do. Unfortunately we don't yet have the ability to read minds so can make one wary of what the other person is thinking. But at the end of the day if someone can't accept you for who you are, (remembering no one is ever perfect) then they really aren't worth knowing (or worrying about) in the first place imo. You will know when your ready

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  We understand your feelings. My wife made a deal with me that we would never get to the play stage unless she feels totally comfortable, even if that means meeting for drinks more than once. As you mentioned in your profile, the chemistry needs to be right and this is when you'll know you're ready.cheers Ed

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