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Fakin' it...
April 26 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Why would a woman fake it, ever?I love to see a woman enjoy herself but the fact that a woman might fake it just means that she is too insecure to enjoy sex?
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RHP User
15 years ago
OH dear...was this a long time after the meet or not long after they/you had left?? obviously your fake one was convincing - well done I too have faked it on occassion in group style environments...for the same reason...they deserve something for their effort...lucky for me though the gentleman involved knows that it can take me a while to orgasm in a group environementt (and this does include threesomes) and sometimes I just wont orgasm at all so he asks me afterwards whether it was real or fake (once the other participant/s have left) and then ensures that I have a real one or two or three or.... though some women think because I have squirted I have had an orgasm - different kinds ladies Dont worry about it, if he cant recognise that sometimes in a multiperson situation you may take longer and help facilitate you reaching and orgasm then maybe he has his own insecurities just dont admit it again maybe? Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' tDont worry about it, if he cant recognise that sometimes in a multiperson situation you may take longer and help facilitate you reaching and orgasm then maybe he has his own insecurities just dont admit it again maybe? Heres where men and women differ. Women think men should be mind readers and spend hours every day working out what is going through a womans head. Wouldn't the mature/easy thing to do be to tell your man?
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RHP User
15 years ago
You were warned that this would happen if you told but you just couldn't resist, could you?Turn in your vagina at the nearest collection post, which just happens to be my house. I'll take good care of it for ya!Seriously, it's hard to compete with easily-multiorgasmic girls. Some days I can keep up for the first few rounds but some days they have me lapped before i even get warmed up and in those cases it becomes a bit distracting and makes it almost impossible to concentrate on my own.Has he considered the possibility that the other girl may have been nothing more than an excellent showperson herself and it could have gotten a little bit awkward for all involved if you didn't 'join in' (in some fashion) but that it was just the pressure of that particular situation that led to this instance, something that doesn't usually occur at other times? As Focus suggested, it could be something you just keep between yourselves as a dirty little secret and perhaps give your man a pre-arranged signal* if it occurs again so he knows for sure the difference between real and 'sensationalised' and is aware that you'll need some extra 'for realsies' attention from him at the end of the session in a more relaxed environment so you can get what you need and he can be the one to give it to you.*I'd suggest if you're going to act, create a very different act rather than mimicking your normal 'real' thing to ensure he'll know the real thing when he sees/hears it.xx Sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
The male here has faked it when the female half of a couple just does not make the grade but her husband is hot. So one for the team, thank you for Viagra, otherwise it would have been Mr Softy. Discussed with the wife afterwards and she admitted she was surprised I went there, but she was happy. Suppose its charactor building.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Doncha hate that ? And a little secret just between you, me, Focus, and CNG oh and the hundreds or thousands of lurkers shhhhh I fkn hate easily multi orgasmic women I mean what the hell? they make me feel like I missed out on something at the little girl shop way back when. Bitches . But agree with CNG completely , make sure you let him know that it was just the pressure of the situation and have a sign to let him know, that he'll need to finish you off later (as only he can do so well ;)) He's probably been so busy wondering how many of them you faked with him along the way. re-assurance and a good talk once he's chilled a bit should sort it all out. Best of luck, and dont go giving out anymore secret womens business or CNG will have to follow through on her threat
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sunnyfun
15 years ago
Don.t let it worry you, I wouldn't blame my wife for doing the same.We met a couple once where the lady came so often it got a little bit boring after the 20th orgasm, my wife was really put off with her screams and couldn't get off (and she always gets off!!).. I would much rather a gal that gets there after a lot of effort - kind of makes it all worthwhile - if she doesn't then thats ok too as long as she has had a great time. Its funny guys get jealous of guys that stay hard and dont get off until the sun rises and girls get jealous of multi-orgasmic women - we all have our style and as long as everyone is nice to each other and has a shagging good time then no harm done.Cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Doncha hate that ? And a little secret just between you, me, Focus, and CNG oh and the hundreds or thousands of lurkers shhhhh I fkn hate easily multi orgasmic women I mean what the hell? they make me feel like I missed out on something at the little girl shop way back when. Bitches I like to think i've got one over them in the quality vs quantity stakes. Days or partners where it comes easy and you can go all night like the energiser bunny is great, but I wouldn't want to be like that every damn time. Many of those girls miss out on the fun of holding out for the one big one that'll completely do me in and leave me purring and weak as a newborn kitten. Hehe.xx Sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
You dont bloody tell them you faked it! Quoting 'dontgothere' Doncha hate that ? And a little secret just between you, me, Focus, and CNG oh and the hundreds or thousands of lurkers shhhhh I fkn hate easily multi orgasmic women I mean what the hell? they make me feel like I missed out on something at the little girl shop way back when. Bitches . But agree with CNG completely , make sure you let him know that it was just the pressure of the situation and have a sign to let him know, that he'll need to finish you off later (as only he can do so well ;)) He's probably been so busy wondering how many of them you faked with him along the way. re-assurance and a good talk once he's chilled a bit should sort it all out. Best of luck, and dont go giving out anymore secret womens business or CNG will have to follow through on her threat I'm with DGT.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Quoting 'dontgothere' Doncha hate that ? And a little secret just between you, me, Focus, and CNG oh and the hundreds or thousands of lurkers shhhhh I fkn hate easily multi orgasmic women I mean what the hell? they make me feel like I missed out on something at the little girl shop way back when. Bitches I like to think i've got one over them in the quality vs quantity stakes. Days or partners where it comes easy and you can go all night like the energiser bunny is great, but I wouldn't want to be like that every damn time. Many of those girls miss out on the fun of holding out for the one big one that'll completely do me in and leave me purring and weak as a newborn kitten. Hehe. xx SarahIm alllll about the big ones, mmmmmm nice big jelly trembler
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RHP User
15 years ago
You mean we can have REAL ones?!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I did it (divulged the secret) and I'm sorry my sisters - but I am so glad to hear you say I'm not alone in this. Pressure is such a aaargh thing - but u know..everyone should be glad to read this - that we can all suffer 'stage fright' lol. I feel comforted to read your comments - and good news, the boy has calmed down and we are good again .. whew. That cat let out of the bag almost swallowed the whole damn flock of pigeons..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sometimes, I get riiiiiight to the edge of the cliff and then ... nothing. I just cannot bring myself to fake it. I think this is helped somewhat by having a partner who shares the view of sex being an exploration rather than a mission. The only person it'll seriously piss off if I did fake it is me, which would then only compound my frustration at not orgasming. . I can't get my head around this notion of "rewarding" someone's effort ... this could be my failure to understand, or it could be my belief that their reward is experienced throughout the interaction with me and the orgasm is merely the icing on the cake. I don't know, I accept that I lack experience in the kind of group situations that might put me under pressure to challenge these ideas ... .. I suppose I agree with the other girls' reasoning behind saying you shouldn't tell him, but I'm also too damn honest for my own good and would've told him too. I have no idea or offering of any use here. Quoting 'focusliason' ...lucky for me though the gentleman involved knows that it can take me a while to orgasm in a group environementt (and this does include threesomes) and sometimes I just wont orgasm at all so he asks me afterwards whether it was real or fake (once the other participant/s have left) and then ensures that I have a real one or two or three or.... though some women think because I have squirted I have had an orgasm - different kinds ladies I agree with Focus on this. I appreciate that group situations may occasionally lead to difficulty in performing as well as you would like, but one aspect of sharing your partner involves intimacy between the two of you, before, during and after, so it stands to reason that he would then naturally want to ensure you have some real ones courtesy of the one who knows you and your body the best
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RHP User
15 years ago
Flirty boy do I recognise that cliff. I sometimes look like that wombat off the RSPCA ad you know the one.....he gets half way across.......nope back he goes all the other animals end up going first until eventually here I come waddling across the finish line last. One important thing for us girls to remember is , we're not porn stars, we are all different including the big O races. I stopped beating myself up for being a Johnny cum lastly ages ago, if I do, i do, if not....well it sure as hell doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed every little sensation along the way sometimes Im so off in my own little head that I even forget all about it, and believe me they are GOOD ones, I have many treasured mental moments where an orgasm wasn't my primary target, never underestimate the power of being so overwhelmed that you just don't want it to end.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh for chissake...what is with all this "cliff haning" crap? Ladies...grab your ankles then line up along the edge of the cliff together. I am more than happy to walk down the line and help you go over the edge...you know, sex can be an extreme sport and sometimes you need a bit of mental stimulation to get you over the edge? So it's one, two three....push, and don't even think about faking it. It's a long way down to the bottom of the abyss if I decide to just push you late comers over the edge anyway. | There is a soggy old joke about why they line sheep up on the edge of a cliff. I can't tell it here because it's in very poor taste... | ...but it does make them push back harder.
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RHP User
15 years ago
CM if I knew the dang reason for it, i would have addressed the issue quick smart let me tell you. A little something you might already know, but Im pretty sure all the girls in here push back damn hard as it is
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Scubaseven'Why would a woman fake it, ever? I love to see a woman enjoy herself but the fact that a woman might fake it just means that she is too insecure to enjoy sex? For some of us we are enjoying ourselves immensly but many dont believe that without aorgasm you couldnt possibly be having a good time so we (on occassion) fake it to reassure those we are with that we have enjoyed ourselves...not everyone can reach an orgasm easily...and thne of course there are those times you just want it over with...no quicker way then to have the big O and get out of there...lol sometimes it really is all about you Kisses Focus
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Too much importance is put on orgasm..for women & men. Faking it is being dishonest. If you don't cum..you don't cum, so long as you are enjoying the whole experience is all that matters. Guys that expect a woman to cum every time are insecure and dreamers. The same is in reverse, if a woman is insulted if the guy she's with doesn't cum ..well..she just doesn't get it either. Everyone should stop watching the "unreal" world or pornos, just relax and enjoy the ride.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Scubaseven' Quoting 'focusliason' tDont worry about it, if he cant recognise that sometimes in a multiperson situation you may take longer and help facilitate you reaching and orgasm then maybe he has his own insecurities just dont admit it again maybe? Heres where men and women differ. Women think men should be mind readers and spend hours every day working out what is going through a womans head. Wouldn't the mature/easy thing to do be to tell your man? And if she wasnt aware this could happen to her should she then excuse themselves so she can whisper to him she is having a difficulty to reaching an orgasm and how do you explain your absence once you get back to the room???? We dont expect you to be mind readers and if you had noted the rest of my post you would also see that I have stated that I have a gentleman who is well aware of the difficulty for me in these kind of situations and this is becaiuse I have told him...I agree communication is the key but if she wasnt aware of her difficulty how could she make him aware??? its not always black and white Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Oh for chissake...what is with all this "cliff haning" crap? Ladies...grab your ankles then line up along the edge of the cliff together. I am more than happy to walk down the line and help you go over the edge...you know, sex can be an extreme sport and sometimes you need a bit of mental stimulation to get you over the edge? So it's one, two three....push, and don't even think about faking it. It's a long way down to the bottom of the abyss if I decide to just push you late comers over the edge anyway. | There is a soggy old joke about why they line sheep up on the edge of a cliff. I can't tell it here because it's in very poor taste... | ...but it does make them push back harder. Most of my sheep jokes are too colourful for RHP too, I've heard them all I reckon, but this one is a fave: . When a tourist coach passes through a small country town in New Zealand, one of the passengers notices a sheep tied to a lamppost on the corner of the main street. "What's that?" she asks "Oh, that", says the guide, "That's the Recreation Centre".
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RHP User
15 years ago
Aww you poor little thing, CGT...I think we have talked a little bit about this before and maybe you just need to start playing in the right league. Sure, it's easy to entertain the young Jedi, just keep on pushing and hope they can hang on... | Quoting 'dontgothere' CM if I knew the dang reason for it, i would have addressed the issue quick smart let me tell you.| Could be that you just need a Jedi Master to show you the way...you really shouldn't have to push hard at all. A strong and powerful voice that rumbles inside you, the touch of the master's brush painting over your skin in colours that are so vivid your mind will begin to explode and... | ....*boink* there goes that head again. | It's called the "Lazurus Effect" and a Jedi Master knows it well. Enough to raise the dead, CGT...and again, I am sorry that your pussy died. | I won't even ask about how you killed your rabbit over the long weekend... | ...that would be cruel. | | Go on...call in the big guns. You know you want to, so just do it!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Seriously, and I say this with a somewhat heavy ummmmm heart.....CM its just not the fault of the man, it's usally to do with a myriad of circumstances. I've had some wonderful, wonderful men try their absolute guts out in some cases. We're not talking boys here either. But for whatever reason at the time, it hasn't ended with the kind of explosion it deserved. It's done in many a male head, and for that I end up feeling a little guilt, but I can't ever fake it to soften a blow to anyone's ego. I'm big enough and ugly enough to wear it as one of 'my' foibles and not theirs. We women are very different creatures, and that is the god's honest truth
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Seriously, and I say this with a somewhat heavy ummmmm heart.....CM its just not the fault of the man, it's usally to do with a myriad of circumstances. I've had some wonderful, wonderful men try their absolute guts out in some cases. We're not talking boys here either. But for whatever reason at the time, it hasn't ended with the kind of explosion it deserved. It's done in many a male head, and for that I end up feeling a little guilt, but I can't ever fake it to soften a blow to anyone's ego. I'm big enough and ugly enough to wear it as one of 'my' foibles and not theirs. We women are very different creatures, and that is the god's honest truthShe's right. And you should know it!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I do actually understand, DGT. I really should not tease about something like that...and as a friend might have a thought, or two that could just be a solution? | Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem'2 against 1... | Have you two met? This might just work so colour me in...and if not, I am heading over the hill to a place where the sun really sets in the west. I am sure that we could find someone there that might just... | ...spice up your life. | | But not until I "go there" first...this one is all mine.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ahhh thats why Im here CM well kind of A little tweaking, and exploring, and seeing if things can't be sped up by experiences all new to my lil bod and there are some yummy little treasures to be found on rhp
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'CrackUp'I did it (divulged the secret) and I'm sorry my sisters - but I am so glad to hear you say I'm not alone in this. Pressure is such a aaargh thing - but u know..everyone should be glad to read this - that we can all suffer 'stage fright' lol. I feel comforted to read your comments - and good news, the boy has calmed down and we are good again .. whew. That cat let out of the bag almost swallowed the whole damn flock of pigeons.. So happy to hear that he's calmed down about it all, who know's some great future communication might come out of this for you both. And help him to see a bit of how certain things might affect you in your next adventures. Best of luck Crackup xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'funcpl4usandu'Don.t let it worry you, I wouldn't blame my wife for doing the same.We met a couple once where the lady came so often it got a little bit boring after the 20th orgasm, my wife was really put off with her screams and couldn't get off (and she always gets off!!).. I would much rather a gal that gets there after a lot of effort - kind of makes it all worthwhile - if she doesn't then thats ok too as long as she has had a great time. Its funny guys get jealous of guys that stay hard and dont get off until the sun rises and girls get jealous of multi-orgasmic women - we all have our style and as long as everyone is nice to each other and has a shagging good time then no harm done.Cheers We have hit that as well in a swap, a very vocal lady in bed, slowed my wife down a fair bit. Seemed every time you moved inside her she had a orgasm and screamed like a porn star. We were organising a repeat date and requested not so much noise....well that hurt their feelings and we have never heard from them again!
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RHP User
15 years ago
women 'fake' it for a number of reasons.... two that come to mind are...... so it can finish and......so his feelings dont get all hurt and bruised.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'women 'fake' it for a number of reasons.... two that come to mind are...... so it can finish and......so his feelings dont get all hurt and bruised..... Damn - now whos letting the secrets out?? , Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' Quoting 'mikeandshel'women 'fake' it for a number of reasons.... two that come to mind are...... so it can finish and......so his feelings dont get all hurt and bruised..... Damn - now whos letting the secrets out?? , Kisses Focus it was a secret? pooh!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I wouldnt fake it... I think its kinda rude... I sometime take a long while to get there... sometimes I dont... but I never have considered faking it... why? I think its kinda rude to fake. If youve had a good time (which is normally the case for me if I cum or not) then I dont see why I should pretend I came just to make my partner feel good... if my partner is that insecure about their performance then I guess thats something they can ask about or question me about how to make me cum faster if its something they really want to happen every single time... and thats happened too - occasionally my partner has said that they want to see me cum or that it feels more fair if I do etc so sometimes Ive ended up getting myself there and then letting them finish me with their mouth or a few hard thrusts... or with a porn style finish.... but I have never faked and I dont think I ever will... if I havent cum and Im done Ill roll over smiling and start chatting or something idk... faking just seems... fake?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Coz I was tired and to make her feel better. Whatever , she didn't check the condom or anything so who cares? Lol everybody won. If a girl fakes it with me (and some probably have) then I really could care less , if it was a shit acting attempt then I'd say that would be cause for a bloody good laugh. Nah you did the best thing , or at least it was a good option. He's gotten over it ; cool , just massage his ego a little bit if it bothers him again. That's usually easy eg that's the most beautiful cock I've ever seen , my fave position is _____ because only you know how to hit the ___spot , only you go down on me and make it feel _____ , No-one smells as good as you , my god your biceps are just so f__king amazing....you get the idea , whenever I've heard shit like that my head has swollen like a basket ball for an entire week :) Loz , oh yeah plan B ; just suck his cock , in my experience there's nothing like a bj to solve all of life's problems. If pain persists then just suck him dry ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I can certainly understand why you would fake it...and no harm done. Different situations can call for different approaches..and yes sometimes it is ok to fake it to "finish" the session. Ive trained myself to go all night and sometimes dont cum till im at home with my sexy gal. that doesnt mean there arnt huuge highs and build ups, then slow down and off we go again. Yes guys and girls like to hear you moan and CREAM, but if your not ready thats ok too. Think i faked it once when i was younger...as the young girl thought guys had to cum to enjoy it...lol Bernie
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JessicaRabbit
15 years ago
It can be a real mood killer when they are trying to so hard and can't quite give you that final push over the edge. Sometimes for whatever reason it just isn't going to happen - As DGT said, if we knew nwhat it was, we would damn sure do something about it! I'm more likely to just change the focus to something/someone else rather than fake it and i've only done it a few times before, but at the same time, it's incredibly frustrating to be sooooo very close and not quite able to get there for the receiver too. Add that to the fact that too much stimulation can just end up in mentally feeling the pressure to get there and physical soreness and maybe the feelings of the faker need to be considered more, not just those being faked on??? Dida xx Quoting 'dontgothere' CM if I knew the dang reason for it, i would have addressed the issue quick smart let me tell you. A little something you might already know, but Im pretty sure all the girls in here push back damn hard as it is
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RHP User
15 years ago
Honey at your age I'm surprised you aren't gummed shut. Your husband should be pleased that you didn't dislocate a hip! HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Cos most blokes wouldnt give a shite as long as they got one away.....................
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RHP User
15 years ago
yeah i faked an orgasm in a group situation and my man had no issues with it...its not like u were faking it with him and i think he would rather u be truthful so ur not in the wrong.evil here: ive faked orgasm once in a cpls situation cause i didnt want any1 2 worry that i was actually passing out (hav low blood pressure amongst other things) personally im against fakin orgasm cause how is ur partner gunna learn how 2 make u cum regularly if u fake it
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RHP User
15 years ago
does it even matter? faking it can be all about the woman, and be nothing to do with the man.her being secure enough to share the fact is the big challenge, and him being man enough to not make it into an issue..........it happens. so what?
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