RHP

RHP User

M51

FWB or NSA

November 18 2018

Hi im a newbie i am wondering how the ladies her like to be greeted in the first msg and how do you now when its time to meet for the first time without asking and getting told im not ready just yet? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    My instinct and gut usually tell me when it's time. I will say so and put it out there to a phone chat first, before a face to face meet. In the first message, it is respectful to refer to profile name (EG: Hello Ms SuperFoxxy or Ms Foxy). Refer to something in their profile you like. Things like "Sexy", " beautiful", "Wadup" "waturn-off" is a turn off and is kinda creepy. One simple rule to go by: Email and talk to her like you would to your mother. One does not disrespect their mother, so don't do it to the ladies here. 😊 Ms Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    Meant to be "wanna root". 😎 Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thank Miss Foxxy

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    7 years ago

    Killed myself laughing. Imaging all these single guys now emailing women thinking of their mothers. That tends to be the last thought buried deep down in my mind. Also, not sure that is the type of guys most want to be attracting.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    Tits, all my pleasure. Mum's the word. 😉 Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Tis or Tits Ms Foxxy 😆

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    Use the term NSA.The women usually dont like the term.It's their strings and they are not afraid to use them

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Polite and respectful An introduction is nice, show what common interests you may have, read their profile and don’t contact them unless you can offer something they’re into or looking for. What sets you apart? Why should she consider you as a meet? What made you want to contact her? These will help you above and beyond the other 10 messages we receive of “hey sexy” or “want sum fun”? 🙄 In regards to when to meet, if the conversation is flowing and there’s common interest and availability, then go for it. But don’t offer for her to pop over, make an effort and make her feel safe.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    First rule of marketing; "What's in it for them?"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Good thread and love the treat as your mother comment. Ladies should be respected though no matter what the situation

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Don’t call us • babe ( we’re not bacon or an animal rolling in mud) Mean what you message don’t just bullshit to get into our pants. If she doesn’t have pictures available don’t ask to early in message to see them. Make first move and share yours. Lay the foundations for trust. once she share don’t request to see more or ask for her naughtier pic. There’s nothing wrong with leaving more intimate sharing until you meet. That the same as asking for all her turn ons and off. Guy want to know to much. Takes the fun out explore each other. But this is just my opinion

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    When do you ask? My view is...... only after you’ve established sufficient rapport to gain their phone number, then spoken to them and gained further rapport so that meeting seems like a logical and even make sense decision! I’m told so many guys urgently expect a meeting on their first message just because they like her profile photo Weird.... especially given the huge number of dodgy profiles in here

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thanks for the heads up to all of you that replied