M56
Endless msn and photo swap
May 25 2009
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RHP User
17 years ago
There's an abundance of photoswap people on here... and looking at your profile pic... I can easily imagine why you're being pestered! *wink* I'm over the let's chat/phone sex/photoswap/cam bigade too... I mean all that stuff doesn't get my jollies off either ... I prefer my sex smeared with kisses, in the flesh, sweat dripping from every limb. There are those that do.. and there are those that it seems, never will. They're all talk.... hiding behind their computer monitors all safe and dry.... and they're just playing with themselves... wankers in every sense of the word! Clearly not everyone is like that.... but sure seems there are plenty of 'em, mate.
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RHP User
17 years ago
So over the msn'g with other couples now, all a big waste of time. If asked i now say if you want to meet up with us we will be at a club on a Saturday night, give brief description of what we look like, and they can take it from there. So far no takers, what does that tell you! All they want is to get off on talking and picture swopping, not our thing at all. Shy
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RHP User
17 years ago
For me, I know if I don't get pinned down to a meeting after the third week of regular chatting, I know i'm never going to meet them. and by chatting, I do mean getting to know someone and them getting to know me, not cybering with them.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I'll keep this one short. 1st. You are getting more success with what you have said than 80% of single guys on here. 2nd. You are doing nothing wrong, it is pretty normal to get nothing irrespective of what you do. 3rd. If you want to be more successful on this site you have two choices, have a sex change or become a couple first.
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RHP User
17 years ago
With the number of females asking for my msn and fotos... I had to erase more than half of them from my MSN Contact list simply because they are never onlne after a breif photo swap. SO , as Not2shygirl said: I dont do msn.. I dont do Photo Swaping.. if they are really interested in me.. its obvous what they are to do.. MEET ME!! lol Other wise.. they are a complete time wasters. Yes even FEMALES can be time wasters. So how does it work? You find a nice lady. You msg'ed her.. and after 4 msg's.. then you ask her out to meet somewhere. If no reply.. move along. :) Sparty
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RHP User
17 years ago
I can't say I have had a brilliant strike rate but I'm not complaining either. Make your profile look genuine. A face photo is beeter than just a body. Look happy! If your body isn't in the best shape, leave something to the imagiantion. If asked to send a pic, make it clotherd and one showing your body, maybe a bit of the old fella but to be honest I haven't had one request for a cock shot from a successful hook-up. Going by this I would assume those that want shots of my old fella are not keen on meeting. It is also a numbers game. There are some very genuine singles and couples but also some fake profiles that you have to use a bit of brain power to work out. Example, 18 girl with a preference for any age up to 90 who does everything but wash the dishes. Always lead into a message being polite. It can get dirty later. I also note your profile isn't verified, if you want to improve your chances make the effort to do this. My last bit of advice, hit them up on cam ASAP. Ask then out or get a number to call. It will sort the wheat from the chaff. Good luck and have fun
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RHP User
17 years ago
I know how you feel... we have been stood up by guys before now... and as for the few females on RHP?? Its hard to believe there are any serious ladies on here to play... Even finding a hot young guy is becoming difficult these days... Supose its a bit like fishing... you just drop the profile in the water and see what you catch with the bait... P&C
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hi all, MSN, endless emails and pic swap, get a life we say. We are on RHP to meet people for adult fun. Maybe someone can create a site where people can swap pics, endless emails and MSN knowing they will never meet up and leave RHP for us who want to meet up. With us its meet on the second date or find some else to waste your time with. Luv Kandi
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RHP User
17 years ago
Part of the beauty of this site is that it allows you to screen for partners. Yes you have the odd drongo and dipstick (Ok maybe more than the odd one!). That said, we have found it to be a great way to ease into the scene and take it at our own pace. So far we have been in touch with a few singles, and are sorting out a meeting. Thismeeting is all about the drinks and flirting. If they turn up and it leads to more, then great. If not thn we will still have a great night out anyway. I think if you are keen fo a great night whatever the outcome, then how can you be disapointed! Guys-Why do some get action and others not. Boils down to 2 things- looks and personality. Unfortunately, RHP doesn't llow for personality till you are able to chat. So improve your profile and pics. If a single girl is asking for pics, more than liely it's a gay guy, fishing for some "wank bank" material. Whenever we are asked for pics, we give them out- Great face and body pics, thats all.
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RHP User
17 years ago
but that is what the internet is for??!! come on people ~grins~ look... some people love to chat online and swap pics. why call them time wasters? when i do decide to actually meet someone it's only after they have won my confidence. it usually involves quite a bit of msn and pic swaping. i would never call people who hook up after a quick phone convo something less than flattering. so why call people who like a bit of online flirting time wasters? read their profile. if the chat/photo swap box is clicked, don't be surprised if that's what that soul likes. LRE (who likes to chat and swap pics)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Glad to see we are not the only ones who think this way. For some it is a very nervracking experience, and not something you would be likely to do without a ton of research and trust building.
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RHP User
17 years ago
It seems to me there is a ton of fake couples on this site. I can not tell you how many times I have been stood up...this is when they have contacted me wanting to meet!! Figure that out. Im genuine but am loosing faith very quickly. Can anyone restore my faith in you couples :)) Famoso........Ciao xx
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RHP User
17 years ago
Cos we don't get the chance to chat with any sort of regularity, we prefer to swap messages over a period of time as part of our getting to know each other process. For pics, we have our galleries on here. We usually make it clear in our profile that we like to take time getting to know people... as far as we're concerned... good things take time and there is pleasure to be had at every step of the journey... From our experiences, we have learnt that we prefer to take time to build some degree of trust, confidence and rapport before wanting to meet anyone and possibly go further, so yes it does happen lol. I think that Lifestyleguy makes a good point re: getting profiles verified and I thought I'd mention that we've read regular comments in the forums from people stating they automatically reject profiles with the heading 'Very horny and in need of attention… NOW!'. We are one of them, but that's because we don't want to be wasting anyone's time if we're obviously after different things ;-) :-Peachypear
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RHP User
17 years ago
Luvitgood we have only be on RHP for the last 9 months. We are yet to meet and play with our ideal playmate. We have cammed for a few special ladies on msn, but inreality all good things come to those who wait. It may be disheartening but all in good time. When shopping no one buys the first thing they see, just doesn't happen that. Patience is a virtue. Enjoy the communication and eventually someone will click with you. All the best.
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RHP User
17 years ago
at least you get a response on MSN when they're logged on. I've almost given up barely send mail anymore never get response, when i do its lets keep in touch i send a couple of messages get no response so see yah later. I've almost worn out me delete button. Although i have met 1 lady went out for about 4 months and also a couple which lasted almost a year so its not all doom and gloom.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Chewie70 one slight difference, luvitgood is a single guy. You talk about being picky, some of us do not have anyone to pick from. As a couples point of view it is a bit different. You say you've been members for 9 months, well I been a paying member for over 8 now and was a non paying member for over two years prior to that. I haven't even got close to getting to meet someone and I'm not a bad looking guy. Patience sometimes wears thin. It's all good and well when you have invites that you can turn down, but some don't even get that.
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RHP User
17 years ago
are a complete waste of time!!!, as has been stated in a forum post in Hot Topics, photo's can be TOTALLY out of date and not a true reflection of the person/couple. Bob and I prefer to exchange pics straight away, then chat on msn briefly and suggest a meet...after that the only other chatting is when I (Bren) ring the other lady to confirm the date and to confirm she and I exsist!! Hey it might just be that when we meet....we don't "click" but heck.... everyone has a night out and you can always come home and send the "dear John" email. Just continue what ur doing luvit, don't do the endless chat thing, and I'm sure it will "happen" for you Regards and happy hunting people Bren xoxoxoxo
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RHP User
17 years ago
I am in the difficult position of being on my own with my kids. Their father isnt around and doesnt help, and I am over begging my family to help out. Babysitters dont grow on trees nor are they cheap. Its not that I dont want to meet, its all in the timing and my kids arent old enough to leave on their own. Lucky if I can get out once every 2 months, so it doesnt leave much time to meet anyone. I like to chat to ppl for a while for this reason also to establish whether or not they are worth meeting. Everyone has a different situation....not all of us are just here to bullshit and play silly games.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I'll use msn to "screen" as much as I want, if I want to be as picky as hell I will. If msn chat one on one doesnt work for you, dont do it. I'll continue to use msn to basically verify what they've said in their profiles, get up to date pictures or at least a face pic before I contemplate a meet or giving them my phone number. If the guys cant be bothered with that, so be it. Works for me, but IF they cant come up with a recent face pic very quickly, and info asked, then they're off my list and they wont see me again. msn = screening. if you're not particularly fussy, no or little screening required I guess.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I loath msn, refuse to photo swap unless we plan to meet, then they're not so hot anyway. I don't want to email, it gives too much of my name etc away. So I like to message a few times on rhp, and after the initial flirt and a couple of how are you's go back and forth the invariable questions in the third message are, when and where are you available, let's hook up. But I'd be an idiot if I didn't take a bit of time to suss out a person I intend to get close enough to fuck. A dangerous and scary situation just waiting to happen, Be a bit patient, you can avoid a lot of craziness by screening your potential fuckbuddies, remember to ask the important questions and respond according to answers received or not.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Why dont you just get a free hotmail acct with and use details that dont give your name away etc. I have one hotmail for ppl I chat to online, whether it be here or Facebook etc and one that shows my name when I email ppl I know like close friends and family. I agree wholeheartedly with the concept of screening on msn. If you cant hold a conversation or they are just vulgar and have no conversation skills except to ask what size your tits are, how big their cock is or whether you take it up the arse within the first 5 mins of convo....they clearly arent worth meeting....unless of course you like that kind of thing.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I suppose this shows just how diverse the site is. Some people are in intimate relationships where a little extra spice maybe nice.. but they can affort to be choosy .. whats the hurry anyway...if nothing happens you still have each other... and the chase and interaction is arousing in itself; Others want just to meet and fuck .. preferably as fast as possible .. another way of getting to know what someones like. Then there's the desperate single men And the timid single women Well the site exists for all these ... and more
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have to agree with jamncream49. bascially I will be as picky as I want. if u dont have msn I wont talk to u, if u dont have a pic I wont. If u give me ur number or ask for mine to quickly I wont. If u ask to meet within the first chat I wont. And Im not a time waster, I have meet about 13 different ppl off this site some it took months basically because believe it or not ppl on here have a life. And some its only takes a cpl of days. Stop complaining about this site, if u dont like it, leave.
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RHP User
16 years ago
So, let me get this right.... if the man of your dreams doesnt have MSN... he doesn't stand a chance. Fair enough. You must really love your MSN. :p Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
I dont use msn all that often... if I was to give out my number to everyone just to chat to see if we like each other and get along then id have to change my number fairly often wouldnt I when I turned someone down.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think alot of people are just looking I dont have any craving to meet half the time, which is bloody annoying!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry Hype12. I was just being a smart arse. I agree with everything you said except I hate MSN. :p Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
I got a photo of my face and i send messages to girls i think are attractive and i dont send messages like "hey you wanna fuck" and i dont even get profile views?whats going on here?
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RHP User
16 years ago
We dont like to endlessly msn either and a few times we've busted guys pretending to be couples from MSN and their demanding of pics, all we want is some decent face pictures (clear, well lit and a decent size so we can see you) Yes, sure you're proud of your six pack and 8 incher but we don't really need to see it and we'd actually prefer to wait until we meet and save some mystery for the night. Same goes for women, sure you have a nice chest, but we'd prefer a good smiles and sultry eyes any day. We figure at very most a week of chatting on msn before a meet as we're normally trying to plan for the following weekend anyway.
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RHP User
16 years ago
So you want to play.Play with the ones that are going to give it to you or meet. You aint looking for a pen pal
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