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Domination
January 07 2008
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RHP User
18 years ago
Very interesting Swan. As a man who loves lots of 4play, this seem to be interesting. I am a very dominate man and love to hear a woman beg or plead for something. I enjoy being in control. And do so very often. Thanks for the post Swannie, very interesting .. SunsetSuperman
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RHP User
18 years ago
Nice post Swan. These tips would work with the genders reversed too.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Very hot :) Ty B_Swan..... I don't know what else to say but.... .... its not only dominant, fiesty women who want this treatment, guys! nadi xx
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RHP User
18 years ago
Sounds just like my first wife...
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RHP User
18 years ago
i'm a bloke who cant spell but knows how to read very long posts... so look into my eyes sawn.. look into my eyes. LRE x.
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RHP User
18 years ago
I love the idea of vying for power in the bed, kitchen, forest floor. I did have one girlfriend who was in touch with her power and we would wrestle. I loved feeling her power and loved winning most of the time and fucking her with all my animal might. She loved being obliterated. I also enjoyed letting her win once in a while and seeing what she came up with to please herself using me.
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RHP User
18 years ago
and all this is free. Swan you rock!
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RHP User
18 years ago
Swannie, Good on you for finding this, and the info is exactly right. Bring it on... if you dare! Viking
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RHP User
18 years ago
I only read the first part because of my eyes...lol..(where the fuk are my glasses!) But that is sadism. The "s" in bdsm. (still trying to read...lol..) ps......will post if I get turned on ok....lol..
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RHP User
18 years ago
Ah yes.. the question remains... am I really a dominant twat? or a submissive twat? :P
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RHP User
18 years ago
I might be reading between the lines here, but what I'm seeing implies that Dominance is Swannie's creed, and the lucky chappy who she selects is in for a Wacko the diddlyoh good time. Being ridden like a champion is most appealing, as firstly the view is first class watching the boobies bounce, and secondly it's less energy sapping for the male... one will still have horsepower to burn as she approaches exhaustion. I think this certainly gives us an insight into Swannie's mind, as it would not be reproduced here if these moves did not fascinate this lovely lady.
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RHP User
18 years ago
lol you've got it ALL wrong eunuch ;) I suggest you read it again... I love the comments all, keep them coming!!
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RHP User
18 years ago
Do keep reading. This is NOT about sadism. (Not that I have anything against sadism...... ;) nadi xx
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RHP User
18 years ago
How assertive can a Dominant be? Viking's dagger may cause some poor submissive to soil his pants, if in fact he was wearing any. Now that's a different sort of play altogether me thinks?
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RHP User
18 years ago
Ohhhhh............I totally agree with Viking xxxMaster's Wench (Mistress to others)
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RHP User
18 years ago
An insightful article Swanny though I cannot say that having the tables turned on is a turn on whatsover. In a world where men tend to be dominant in so many areas I find that being dominant sexually is something that many men seem to enjoy and even embrace. I for one won't be changing my ways or dealing with men who want to take my control away Kiss
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RHP User
18 years ago
Oh I can't think of anything better than being sat on by Kiss. Being one that is built for comfort... I'll be your cushion.
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RHP User
18 years ago
I totally agree with Nobby, or any(fukka) else for that matter. Use me, abuse me, bruise and cover me in donkey-do-do's me I'm potters clay, mold and manually manipulate moi - Eeeekh - watch those nails, lil' lube wouldn't go amiss either, yno!?!?! ~~Frappe'd F~~ **Good post, btw: Originality O, effort 3, Impact 9. I'll be adding parts of this to my otherwise boring, sleepy repertoire, cheerz**
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Mr_Invisible
18 years ago
I have a submissive streak But I still love to Dom the Domme... and she loves it too Joys of both ebing switches I guess
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RHP User
18 years ago
Sits in the back of class sucking her lollipop and takes notes. Wiggles in her seat, as her thoughts wander from today's lesson to the sound of Headmaster's footsteps approaching the classroom door...... mmmmm
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RHP User
18 years ago
Miss Honey is fascinated with the authority figure, particularly if that be an attractive and desirable authority figure. For though she appears as an innocent, there exists a hidden yearning to participate in happenings which everyday life would deny. Her spirits and heartbeat rises whenever she hears those fondly recognized footsteps which both intimidate and yet stimulate her passions. Her inhibitions are on tender hooks as she has an overwhelming need to tease and explore the artificial boundaries that custom and society has placed on us. For even though the owner of those footsteps is normally forbidden to touch her inappropriately, he may through the proxy of his cane or wooden ruler. The sting being a reminder that regardless of her enforced subservience, the endorphins that are released also free the rebel within, as her passions engulf her. In her mind and soul, all constraints seem broken. Her whole being feels as if its being carnally devoured by each sting, as it makes her sweet pink bottom blush. So if discipline is the only permissible conduit between him and her desires... then so be it.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Hit the nail on the head!...lol... xx SnS
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RHP User
18 years ago
Mr VNG. Headmaster is not only authoritive and issues discipline but also is a teacher. Sir will have a lesson plan to be followed to his standard, which will have the consequence of punishment or reward depending on how well instruction has been carried out, and he is very persuasive in making sure that the lesson plan is followed accordingly. Straying, being cheeky, talking back, distracted or just being lazy may result in a smack to the cheeks by a method of his choosing, and sometimes mine, however often a firm guiding hand with an encouraging whisper in the ear, (mmmm) with a warm breath that tickles the neck is enough to get back on track. But, never humiliated or degraded as there is a strong respect and understanding of each other. Sir is very aware of Miss Honey's strengths and weaknesses, limitations, and what I am capable of achieving. Sir demonstrates, excellent communication skills, patience, authority and persuasion to ensure that Miss will progress swiftly to each level, and not become bored, digress or over confident. Sir always knows best and Miss trusts him and will be guided. Unfortunately good headmasters can be hard to find, when one needs to be replaced due to changing circumstances with his work etc. And it can be a big learning curve and long process before class begins. Especially to build the trust and respect, and to hand all control over to another. But when the right one's are found, it is a very happy playground. : ) ........and Miss Honey must be allowed to have lollipops in class hehehehe
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RHP User
18 years ago
Lets SnS have a lick of her lollipop. xx Miss H xx
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RHP User
18 years ago
The irony of it all, as one must often wonder just who is the pupil and who is the teacher. A most interesting and intriguing learning curve, making one also wonder if there will ever be a graduation, as the occasional need to find new teachers suggests that the school is built on an infinite loop with a never ending curriculum of new directions and discoveries. It does seem very much to be a one on one classroom, which otherwise would be most unruly if there were more like Miss to administer. Could you imagine an academy full of little darlings such as Miss Honey? There would be mismate, mistouch, misplays, misseats, mislay, misroute, missionary, mistress, misbehaves, mischief, misconduct and not to forget misdemeanour. How would a headmaster ever get any rest and relaxation?
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RHP User
18 years ago
If Miss Honey is half as mischievous as I think see is, then what teacher in their right mind would seat her at the back of class? Firstly, she would be better eye candy than any lollipop, and secondly her wiggle would insure that all eyes were facing the front. The strictest teacher I ever had was in bubbs, our first introduction to school. Miss Verria was the reincarnation of the wicked witch of the west, and looked the part too. Pimping was a common practice with the tiny tots, and it seemed to be a break from the monotony, to watch another being disciplined for misdoings they were often innocent of. One young miss from a poor family came to school wearing no knickers. Her fellow little darlings made Miss Verria aware of this at the earliest opportunity, to which the unfortunate young thing was dragged before the whole class and instructed to lift her dress. Even though distraught and distressed, she obeyed, knowing full well that crossing Miss Verria was a fate worse than death. I often wonder how scarred this sweet young thing turned out, as I have not seen her for many years. Unfortunately, there was nothing erotic about this school ma'am, and she was probably buried with a stake through the heart.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Yes you are correct Eunuch, this can be infinate, with different classes and teachers, especially with school commencing soon, applications from new headmasters at this time of the year is competitive, but the right headmaster will have to pass the interview process. *plops a gold star in the middle of this forehead* Well done! Like all good things, they must come to an end one day. There will be a graduation for Miss one day (a long way away at this stage) and whom ever the lucky Headmaster is at that time will deserve to be there on the day. Schooling is not necessarily a one on one tutorial classroom, it just is at present. There is always room for a substitute teacher to observe and learn or Headmaster and Headmistress to tutor together, what better way then Miss Honey to observe and then practice what she learnt : ). And of course my best friend might need to lift her grades or maybe Miss could get caught with a boy behind the bike shed by Head Master or mucking around in the gym showers with class mates. Head Master will know when I am ready : ) There are school excursions including country schools mmmmm Gero and Kal are rumoured for this year hehehe, and carnivals to attend, plenty of homework and of course there is the school tart Miss Sabbie who is loitering in the wings, just waiting to get hold of my headmaster. So as you can see I have lots to learn. I am sure Eunuch you would do well starting your own academy for girls, and I can think of a few guys that would be happy to assist you, just so u can have a rest. Perhaps you can sit back and grade an oral or practical exam in progress : P. It will be your school, so your rules, and students must always do as she is told. Good luck if you ever get the opportunity to, it would be heaps of fun. P.s Yes headmasters learn lots too, but shh dont tell them that. *Steals a jellybean from the jar on the desk* XX Miss H XX
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RHP User
18 years ago
I am amazed that a woman had to point this out to the men, thought it was the norm. Anyway i'll just keep doing what i do , fellas learn and it was a woman that showed you how too be a man .
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RHP User
18 years ago
Thinks Miss Honey has hit the nail on the head too. How wonderful it would be to have an academy conducted along her lines. Me thinks Miss Smartnsweet may be tempted too. Pity Lupo's Cake and Coffee Emporium does not have sufficient seating to accommodate a larger assembly, as I'm sure this Saturday's meeting could otherwise be the inaugural class of 2008. Dress code: a cross between school vamp and baby doll. Knickers and bra optional, otherwise edible variety. Shame I'm otherwise engaged.
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RHP User
18 years ago
hehehe thought Mr VNG's ear's would prick up at the thought of an Academy. You were one of the boys I had in mind. Hmmm school excursion to Lupos tomorrow, now not sure if that would be a good idea, definately a recipe for a coronary for the guys...and I'm not talking about the amount of sugar and cream that could be consumed by you boys. More where the cream and cake could be smeared, licked, dribbled etc over a body. Too much sugar for girls is bound to erupt into a food fight, and i think u guys would have heart palpitations watching girls playing in it hehehe. Think the cover charge would go up a bit too lol. oooo starting to crave Lupos Hazelnut Merinque again, its so squishy, creamy and sweet. Shame school nurse has confined Miss Honey to bed for a few days grrr. Miss H is not happy : ( XX Miss H XX
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RHP User
18 years ago
We shall see...
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RHP_Editor
18 years ago
Hi B_Swan, Great post, was just wondering where you got the article from? RHP_Editor xo
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RHP User
17 years ago
revival of an oldie
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RHP User
17 years ago
thanks for bringing this back swan, its the first time i have read it. not many people understand that there is more to domination than just the physical. stimulating the mind directly effects the body especially if it out of the norm but still acceptable. but as with all play mutual respect and trust must be there. even a submissive person will not submit if they dont feel comfortable and safe. anyhow, a great post and an interesting read thanks again. PD
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RHP User
17 years ago
Very interesting post thank you B_Swan. I do have a question (or several perhaps) - Quote: When trying to dominate a dominant woman, the idea is to show her how much she really wants you to dominate her, in spite of all those verbal denials she keeps making. The easiest way to accomplish this is via oral sex. Turn her on as you would any other woman... There seems to be a great big step missing here. My wife has a very dominant personality, but when it comes to sex, she's barely interested. She does get turned on by being dragged unexpectedly into the bedroom by lustful husband, but she just wants an urgent missionary position quickie, followed by a roll-on-top for herself. Any attempts at oral or prolonged foreplay just ruin the mood - she drags me back to missionary, & if I resist then her mood changes from excited to tolerant wife doing her duty. Now I'd be the last person to claim genius status in the oral stakes, having only had one partner, and not much joy there - but ffs - I've read the manuals, bought the books, watched the doco's, the only thing left is practice & I can't practise on myself... So, a little more specific comment on getting from the "winning the eye contact battle" to "stop fighting me while I try to explore below your neck" would be appreciated. Thanks again in eager anticipation,
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RHP User
17 years ago
and worth reading again.. LRE (now knows more)
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RHP User
17 years ago
A great read. I especially liked the end "these women like a good challenge as long as they are respected in the process. Cheers Wilds
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RHP User
17 years ago
Nice post Swanny. You are spot on. Unfortunately most of my partners have been very submissive, which is fun but not nearly as good as a good wrestle of minds bodies and willpower. What a great mind-fuck that is!! The only thing i don't like is rampant bad/aggressive attitude and bad manners from uber-sassy ladies. Use a bit of subtlety and sensual/erotic talk as well as some physicality and i will be your rock hard plaything.. (at least until i am ready to turn the tables and return the favour).
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Mr_Invisible
17 years ago
An excert from an article I read We often associate dominant women with whips, chains and a pitiful man groveling at their feet while licking a pair of vinyl boots. This certainly occurs with some regularity, but you may be surprised to learn that dominance doesn’t always translate into sadism. On the contrary, many dominant women play the superior role in relationships simply because their man hasn’t learned how to dominate them. She may be strong-willed, feisty and independent, but this doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to be ravished like any other female might. If you’re ready to take charge in the bedroom, the following tips will show you precisely how to sexually dominate a dominant woman. Take the lead Dominant women tend to be physically aggressive in the bedroom; these are the chicks who’ll throw you down on the bed and ride you like a champion. While this vision may appeal to most men, allowing this to happen on a regular basis puts you in a subservient role -- and that’ll carry over into other areas of your relationship. If you want to wear the pants, you’re going to have to show her you can. To dominate a dominant woman, the next time she pounces, turn the tables and flip her onto her back. Keep her firmly (but not painfully) pinned to the bed and let her writhe for a bit. As she struggles to regain the upper hand, calmly let her know you’re going to be in charge for the rest of the evening. Her panties will be soaked by the time you finish the sentence. Just be prepared to deliver the goods, as you’re bound to have one horny woman on your hands. Maintain eye contact Proper eye contact is extremely important when it comes to asserting dominance. A truly dominant man or woman can influence a less dominant person with the subtlest of glances. When two dominant people are vying for the role of leader, however, subtlety is no longer an option. Your vixen will try to dominate you by staring straight into your eyes and giving you a wicked grin that promises sexual submission on her terms. Most men, when faced with a woman like this, turn to jelly and happily let her do whatever she pleases. To dominate a dominant woman, however, it’s crucial you don’t fall for this move. Lower your eyelids slightly and stare back while returning that wicked little grin; this tells her she’s going to have to do much better than that if she wants to play Dom. It also tells her you’re capable of the same tricks, which will make her wonder what else you’ve got up your sleeve. While these thoughts are going through her mind, she’s likely to break eye contact and look away -- this is a good indication she’s open to being dominated. Make her beg Begging is the ultimate sign of submission, and it can be an incredibly sexy experience for both individuals. When trying to dominate a dominant woman, the idea is to show her how much she really wants you to dominate her, in spite of all those verbal denials she keeps making. The easiest way to accomplish this is via oral sex. Turn her on as you would any other woman, spending lots of quality time on her clitoris. When she reaches the point of moaning and thrashing, back off a bit. That’s right; slow down. Let your tongue explore another area for a few seconds, nibble her inner thigh, etc. Keep lavishing attention on her body, but avoid the clitoris at all costs. The mix of sexual frustration and sexual stimulation will make her want you a thousand percent more than she did when she thought orgasm was imminent. A dominant woman will likely demand you direct your attention back to her clitoris, which, you will of course do -- just as soon as she begs for it. You’ll probably have to insist more than once, but when she finally gives in, her orgasm is bound to be explosive. Tell her what you’re going to do Telling a dominant woman precisely how you’re going to dominate her is a guaranteed challenge. And dominant women are all about a challenge; it’s an invitation for her to try her best moves on you, and an opportunity for you to show her who’s really in charge. If you want a head start with dominating a dominant woman, use this tip over dinner or in the car on the way back to your place. She’ll be intrigued by your confidence and aroused by your promises. Once you’re in bed, tell her you’re going to take her from behind and make her scream your name all night long. Tell her you’re going to go down on her until she begs for orgasm. Tell her you’re going to dominate her and that she’s going to love every minute of it -- and then show her you’re a man of your word. Guide her hands Dominant women do what they want, when they want. She’s fully accustomed to grabbing a man and pulling him in for a long, deep kiss before she takes over completely. When dealing with women like this, it’s important you’re clear from the start regarding who is leading whom. This means even the kissing is done on your terms. If she slides her fingers through your hair and draws you near, dominate a dominant woman by taking hold of her hands and sliding them around your neck instead. This move tells her you’re happy to have her hands on you, but that she will not be using them to assert dominance. If she’s pawing at your body like she owns it, intercept her hands and guide her palms across her own body. The thrill of having control taken away, combined with a sexy mutual exploration of her own curves, will have her purring in no time. turning the tablesWhile it’s true that some dominant women only enjoy sex when a man is groveling, there are plenty of dominant women out there who prefer what dominant men have to offer in the bedroom. These women like a good challenge, as long they’re respected in the process. Don’t let the feisty chicks intimidate you, and don’t assume they aren’t worth the effort; dominating a dominant woman can take sex to a whole new dimension. Score one of these vamps in the bedroom, and you stand to score the best sex of your life.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I think I am a dominant woman in the bedroom, I know what I want but I am also considerate to my partner.....very interesting post. Will be hitting the study books tonight.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Another interesting topic of conversation. My advice for what it is worth, be very careful with this approach, I have had the honour of knowing many dominant women, call them Dommes, Mistresses or whichever title is appropriate to the situation, and I have to say that if they are truly dominant then they will not appreciate the turn around especially from someone who is in training. This type of behaviour is referred to as topping from the bottom and that is not a good thing especially with those women who identify themselves as "lifestyle" Dominants. Regardless of whether it is sado or not it is important to have open communication. If you are in any doubt about trying this with a dominant partner I find the best approach is to be honest and ask. No matter how good a sub/slave you are, you aren't a mind reader. If your Dom objects to you asking questions then in most cases, except for prolonged exposure cases, they are not a very good Dom. Just the two cents of someone who has frequently been in both roles.
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RHP User
17 years ago
think you've missed the point of the article there poetryinbondage
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RHP User
17 years ago
On the contrary, many dominant women play the superior role in relationships simply because their man hasn’t learned how to dominate them. She may be strong-willed, feisty and independent, but this doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to be ravished like any other female might. You'd be surprised how many women feel this way. It has nothing to do with women who choose to identify themselves as "Dom's" as you say. This is just ordinary every day women the article is referring to.
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RHP User
17 years ago
CoodabeenaHunk the only option left for you to try is to tie her (all 4 limbs) to each corner of the bed and go down on her until she succumbs to your amazing oral skills. Once she realises what she has been missing out all this time she shall change the error of her ways. If she complains too much you may want to consider a ball gag too.
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