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Does size matter, one persons curvy is another's persons fat!
December 26 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hiii Respectful woman just explore ur fantasies n explore ur sexual life n try new things everytime give u more confidence dont worry about just go for it nature has hidden many things in our soul to explore enjoy respected woman x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Size does not matter but how to do it N do more fantasies - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ok i must say all us women have a complex about something and i use to be a size 18 over a year ago. Yes i have lost heaps of weight but now got loose skin due to no elasticity in my skin at this age and only thing to tighten is an operation of tummy tuck or get my skin cut off. Ive lost my boobs not that i really care, they dont weight me down. Now Im on facebook alot and run groups one is nude. I can tell you for a fact that the majority of men prefer BBWs over me anyday. To the point i feel like shit. My boobs arent big enough for them to make comment, and although they cant see my loose skin laying down its till the BBWs that get all the compliments. So just go with the flow and stop judging yourself hun. I now just do things one on one, alot of men i speak to one on one do like what they see over being in a group where everyone shows themselves and you feel like you are the less desired. Men have often said to me if i complained about my body its the same thing "Do you really think we care" Its our nortiness, confidence and attitude they look at. I must say i do have all that and never feel ashamed about my body when i have someone over. Its the last thing i think of actually. I just injoy the time i have with them. Hope this helps you xxxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Personally, I think there is so much going right with your profile! It's a world of awesome. You make mention of your shape in your profile and have great pics. Putting it all out there for all and sundry to look and critique can be tough. But I really believe in your profile and post you communicate and present very well. Seeking bi women for couple play, in RHP is a tough gig, so don't get disheartened if you don't find it easy. Definitely keep the parties and events going. I hope RHP treats you well. All the best to you
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've learnt to not worry about my weight any more. I'm not going to be to everyone's liking, was even told once I was too chubby for a play, their loss! I am a really confident woman myself and once you have a number of plays, people will see that! You are clear in your profile about your physical description, though I think you look very sexy! Enjoy the ride, if they don't like what they see, it's their issue. Be true to yourself and in my experience, body size doesn't matter. All the best, Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Size doesn't matter to me, it all comes down to what you like getting off to in the end - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
There is a forum in Couples' Corner called "Being BBW sucks in the online world" that may be of help. Basically some people are attracted to voluptuous women, some aren't, and some feel it's not about size but attitude. You can never please everyone and you'll always be judged by someone. Might as well rock what you've been given!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I know the feeling of critiquing your perspective playmates because of your size. I'm a size 16-18 but I have a belly I have boobs and although I'm confident in myself I have questioned why people would want to play with me at times. I have been lucky and had long term friends with Benifits so I havnt really looked closely but I find I have a type of man that I tend to be drawn to because I think there more physically equipped to handle me but reality is its not the type Im necessarily attracted to at all times. But we are who we are there plenty of men and women out there that happily play with us :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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SensualPair21
10 years ago
It really strange I find it much easier to be a social butterfly at swingers party & events but find my self a little paranod about the whole on line thing photo thing. I guess maybe it more a problem with photos. Thanks given me lots to think about! Ps- totally planning to flaunt the hell out of my sexy ass not matter what size I am, like I said we are totally loving our new found lifestyle! Won't let tiny concerns get in the way of that! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
my eyes are not drawn as readily to a BBW. But when I actually get down to chatting and getting to know someone ( to see if any of that elusive and mysterious "chemistry" is there ) size becomes irrelevant and intelligence, wit, personality and attitude are far more in determining whether a woman is sexy to me, and to whether I fantazise about fucking her. And if a woman grants me the privilege of entering her body , body shape and size ceases to matter at all.
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RHP User
10 years ago
you are right 100% there are plenty of men such as my self who like more curvy women nothing wrong with being a size 16- 18 at all thats my favourite size for a woman it turns me on leaving me wanting to please all her needs with nothing in return. nothing better then a woman with curves
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm chubby it states it in my name, I don't hide it and I am not ashamed of it. I am a size 12 with back fat, belly flab, cellulite, stretchmark's and giggly thighs. Men won't contact me unless they like it. I think I am gorgeous, cute and I like my body. Keep going with the internet thing the more you practice the more comfortable you will become. Remember people never see what you see when they look at you. Sometimes we are our most harshest critics.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes size does matter to me, but you're not looking for me 😁 but questions like this always make me wonder why? It's like asking 'do I look fat in these pants'? Are you going to get honest responses or politically correct responses? You'll get a predominantly one-sided opinion so what's the point? It's like the cougar thing for me. Are all young guys going to fuck an older woman, no, of course not. Same will apply to you. I think of us as minority groups. Some are up for it, some aren't. Sounds like you have a great attitude and confidence, that's always a winning combination 😁
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RHP User
10 years ago
Women were made to be curvy and voluptuous, the sexiest women usually are, love them that way - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
the responses you will receive here will mainly be from people who do find larger women attractive. Others generally won't reply because they won't want to hurt your feelings / appear rude / be accused of being shallow. It's just like any trait really, there will be some people who like it and are attracted to it, others won't be. Just focus on the ones who are attracted to you, there will be plenty of those. As others have said you have a good attitude and a good profile, I'm sure you won't have any problems meeting people.
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cleopatrababe
10 years ago
The older i get the more comfortable i feel with my body ...i feel lucky to still be here so enjoy ur life and enjoy what u have look after yourself and be kind to others beauty shines through its about confidence and feeling sexy its about loving yourself thats what matters ...happy new year to all - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I worry about it too. Im a 12 and am curvy. I've got hips and a tummy. I worry about jiggling around and getting ready before I meet up with someone takes a while. To counteract that I put up new pics all the time. I figure if i have recent pics then I'm being honest about what I look like. I'm not a Barbie doll size and I wish I was sometimes. I think that's a burden us women bare. Particularly when I eat my 4th tim tam in a row. Lol. The guys I hook up with get hard within minutes and r constantly telling me I'm sexy and my body is amazing. I think curves r a winner. Size 6 women look great in pics and modeling but I don't think it's realistic to what is actually out there and guys r more used to curves in their women than not. I've always been extremely confident in bed and around men and I'm an alpha personality whilst being coy and dominated at times but I like me and I'm thinking my curves r attractive more often than not. Rock ur curves becoz there r so many other reasons why guys may not b attracted to u like hair color or eyes or personality. U won't b what some guys r looking for as lots of guys rnt what I am looking for, those that r attracted to u will b for lots more reasons than ur curves. Our best features to some will b our least attractive features to there and vice versa for us. Hope that makes sense X - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sex is friction, preferably with a friend. Beyond that, its all a matter of taste! Gotta say, Hotwives Inc. looking GOOD. Call me ANYTIME:) xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Size does matter but it only matters if you are male and don't fit in to the "average" or "athletic" realm
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RHP User
10 years ago
And the day that human beings stop judging themselves is the day they stop judging others. Confidence within ourselves means we no longer seek the approval of others with the courage in self-worth. Peace. Nathan
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