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Does a guys size count?
December 21 2008
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RHP User
17 years ago
Psymon, Speaking personally, the answer is no. What sets Mr BM apart from all others is his persona, his manners, his ability to make me laugh, the care and consideration he shows me, the love we share. I also think he's a handsome man, which of course is a wonderful bonus. I feel that if a lot of women were honest, yes the eye candy is nice to look at, but if there is a major character flaw, or he doesn't have a brain, then what on earth is the point? I know there are ladies who will definatly disagree, and say looks and body are everything, and that is their right to do so. But speaking for myself only, the person I choose to share my life with needs to show himself to be a Man in all aspects, not just outward appearance. Hope this helps. Mrs BM
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RHP User
17 years ago
As a BBW I prefer men who have some meat and muscles cos I want to know when we go for a ride, I aint gonna damage them. LOL Seriously I'd be happy to find a BHM. Like you I know true beauty and sexiness shows through regardless of the size of the package. Wildly yelling yeah for BBP (Big Beautiful People)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hi..good post. Bottom line more than a mouthfull is a waste. Lockjaw hurts....Some nice love handles are great as are curves. Obese is not but normal bellies and flaws are. Stick inserts are not and so damn uncomfortable. Lets get back to more realistic views of what is seen as ok. Mars
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RHP User
17 years ago
i know i've got love handles there's just more of me too cuddle and chunky is funky lol i may not be brad pitt and i don't intend on being him either but i do accept ppl for who they are no one's perfect everyone is their own self
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RHP User
17 years ago
Big Handsome Man.....Love it! Love BHM's not into skinny men....afraid I might break them lol And you go on your rant Psymon....girls with meat on 'em rule LOL
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RHP User
17 years ago
...the man asked a specific question , how about we stick to the topic and not descend into another attack on peoples weight or lack of. All shapes and sizes read these forums ,, you know !!! " be polite " ~~~Horrible~~~
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bondage_reality
17 years ago
I tend to think of myself as a racing greyhound ( all cock n ribs) than a stick insect
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RHP User
17 years ago
body size and shape matters to each person differently. I had a gf years ago that preffered bigger men (I was more skinny) and by bigger men I mean my mate was 18 stone whatever that is in kilos and she was more attracted to him than me at a party I took her to...not that he did the wrong thing by me he was a good mate and she was about a size 12 so go figure
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RHP User
17 years ago
I think that if the right attention and time is payed on swooning and pleasuring the Female then Size should matter if they(Female) have a happy ending!
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RHP User
17 years ago
Our bodies are our TRANSPORT..... Some are Haulpaks, some are Mini Minors..... Depending where you want to go, depends on the form of TRANSPORT you take..... See the person INSIDE first Dazi
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RHP User
17 years ago
I think that it all comes down to personal preferance. I like women with big boobs and big bums. I am sure women have different likes and dislikes, but I have always found that they prefer a man for what he is like mentally above what he is like physically.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Anyones size with us doesn't matter. we are very much personality people. Beauty on the inside is what counts with us.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Size doesnt matter at all, its about how you use it.... If your a creative guy and think strongly about what you are doing than there is no need to worry about size..... Woman who laugh at it or tease you obviously have insecurities about them selves and wish to take the attention off them... Guys have fun, be confident and do what you do....
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RHP User
17 years ago
I had the good fortune to go to a fashion parade recently and many of the models left me gobsmacked. I mean, Ive seen models in 10x8 magazine photos but in real life those babes are tall! I love fashion shows. All the guys are busy checking out each other so those models, largely get ignored! I mean, it's paradise... I've now got a "thing" for women who are taller than me. YUM. As for guys, I like tall muscular guys. A tall muscular bi guy with a tall gf could potentially be sensational company!! :p
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RHP User
17 years ago
Size of the guy count. It shouldn't but unfortunately for some people it does. But I blame advertisers/marketers etc. for a lot of this attitude. In the quest to look skinny (females) /A frame (males), were bombarded with messages from advertisers that we should all look like this. But alas, some of us are just not born like that! In my opinion, the size of the guy does not count - it's his personality that I'm attracted to. Everyone is different, it would be a boring world if we all looked the same :o)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Im 6ft6, 125 kg and a body builder. Some women find me intimidating others like it. Depends on the woman.
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RHP User
17 years ago
shit....i'd be intimidated too....wow....wouldnt stop me perving tho lol But yeh really tall big guys frighten me. But then again Im rather short for a woman being 5'4 and a size 10/12... On topic tho, no big guys as in cuddly ones dont put me off. I find sexiness mainly in personality mixed with 1 or 2 other physical characteristics. I have a softeness for a sexy voice, big eyes and gorgeous smile. Im more a face person than a body person Great topic tho.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Been a bigger girl myself, and having a hubby that is larger too, i prefer men to be on the larger scale as previously said i would feel that i would 'break' them. However on saying that, it does not always come down to a persons size, personality is a big factor for me/us. Someone who we can talk to and get along with we will stay friends with, someone who is a poor conversationalist we wont keep in touch with. So bring on BHM and BBW, but each to their own!
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RHP User
17 years ago
AS some have alreayd said, its all about personal prefference, some like it big some like it small and some dont care as long as the guy knows wha the is doing and isnt selfish. if the guy is actually doing stuff to please the girl them that is waht makes MOST of us happy. Sure there are some that LOVE big cocks, but that is pretty much jsut for the sex, if you find a girl that likes you for you, then the size of your manhood honestly doesnt matter.
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RHP User
17 years ago
wow, i totally miss read that initial post lol :P as most people ahve said, its all personal preference, some lke them big, some like them small. for me, i like smaller, but toned guy, i dont like huge big body builders, for ME they jsut dont do anythign for me. but some girl slike that. that is what is so amazing about humanity, you cannot tell anyone what to like, you may be bought up one way but in the end it is what you find attractive that matters, if you knew a skinny guy / girl at school that was a bully then chances are you arent going to like skinny people. i guess to answer the question, size matters to some and not to others lol :P
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RHP User
17 years ago
I love tall guys ... I have a real thing about it.....it's the first thing I notice about a man.....then his shoulder width....the broader the better....love it. ....Add muscles to that and I'm in heaven. Girls....did you know the average man's erect 'appendage' is 3 times the size of his thumb......so check out the thumbs beforehand next time ladies. Guys....you can stop looking at your thumbs now. :)) Perhaps we could do an experiment.....see if it's true.
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RHP User
17 years ago
it's a matter of personal preference...for me, big guys dont have the stamina or agility I need. I cannot climb around on a huge guy, it's just too much hard work and there's nothing worse than someone big pounding away and looking like a heart attack about to happen. I don't expect stick bugs either, just average size is good...and fitness level is very important.
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RHP User
17 years ago
well atm im living my fantacy so im going for reasonalaby fit men ive slept with a few men that r not fit and healthy but not seriously overweight either just the belly i guess its in howthey carry themself there confidence etc and how they present themselves aslo but beauty is in the eye of the beholder
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RHP User
17 years ago
but im not attracted to really skinny men either makes me feel fatter lol i arent attracted to really muscly men either that look like there bulging muscles r going to explode just doesnt do it for me i like them tall and in the middle
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RHP User
17 years ago
I cant discriminate against cuddlies lol im a cuddly myself. I like bigger guys cause if you are body conscious you dont usually feel that way with them. I find super fit guys a bit intimidating and skinny guys just get lost in me hehe doesnt mean i dont like them. At least with the meaty ones you can have a bit of a chew. Cheers
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