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Do you like to watch?
February 28 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
And if you do participate in front of a others - does that automatically make you an exhibitionist??
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RHP User
15 years ago
Now thats an interesting question miss m , I have been known to be / do both. In the midst of things or even at the very beginning of play I get enormous joy out of watching sarah engulfed in play with a fine young lady , a couple or a bevy of beauties. Now why ? I think it is best described as compersion ............ From Wiki - Compersion is a state of empathetic happiness and joy experienced when an individual's current or former romantic partner experiences happiness and joy through an outside source, including, but not limited to, another romantic interest. This can be experienced as any form of erotic or emotional empathy, depending on the person experiencing the emotion. It happens to both sarah and myself.For me there is a warm feeling I get a feeling that all is good and an overwhelming feeling of joy. Perhaps it is an enormously generous way of being selfish ....... both of us in bliss. Sarah once on finding out I had been playing with a girly friend or ours in one of our beds insisted on us sleeping in that room for nights on end , again insisting we NOT wash the sheets as she could smell us both in the sheets and it made her feel fantastic. Brae ........... as I said an interesting question.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Brae, yes I understand that concept. And I can imagine watching for a while. But I don't think I could sit and watch through the whole thing - can't help myself I would have to jump in too. I have no control :(xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love my camera.... everywhere I turn there is art begging to be found.... and I've worked out I don't actually need the camera... some pictures are not shared... best left in the old memory banks waiting for a memory trigger to bring them back to life. A smell does it for me so far as triggers go. I like watching people who I know turn me on, having sex with other people.... I'm checking out their equipment .. the things they say....and do... and how they interact... where their happy spots are... how excited they get... that strange feeling somewhere between being self conscious and relaxing to the point of being oblivious to the others in the room.....Same with exhibitionism... I like watching people who are watching me .... whether what we are up to is getting them excited too..... I like it best when watchers get so involved that they cannot contain themselves any longer and stop watching... and join in.... Everybody has to get really sweaty and then ultimately we all collapse in an exhausted, sticky and euphoric mess, liberated from inhibitions! HugsS
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Brae, yes I understand that concept. And I can imagine watching for a while. But I don't think I could sit and watch through the whole thing - can't help myself I would have to jump in too. I have no control :(xxMeeks Hmmmm, now to be at a party where Meeka is present But to answer, or at least try.We both enjoy the watching as it is a great perve factor and quite a turn-on to watch other people enjoying themselves, although at times the sounds alone can be one massive turn-on.But, there comes a time when watching makes the urge to join in overwhelming and so at times we join, although Sheba is often the first one in as Gazz really enjoys the watching side (he being the voyeuristic perve type :) )If we had to choose then it would be to be the watched and not the watcher.With regards to the exhibitionist question that is tricky although we would both say we have definite exhibitionist streaks and enjoy being watched (Sheba gets off on it), so yes we would say that we are exhibitionist in that regard.Shell and Gaz
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RHP User
15 years ago
Now on being watched. We have been known to frequent dens of iniquity, Oh the fun. Sarah is in her element in these homes away from home. Again whilst completely engourging herself in another female with my good self it may be three of use or it maybe a few more depends on how amny lovely single girls there are , we have been know to be greedy. We will play for an hour or so without taking a break at times. In these times it is not uncommon for us to draw a crowd ......... yes a crowd, say at times 10 to 15 people watching us. Why do they develop .......well swinger joints dont get as many people as you would think slapping arses and pulling hair ....perhaps I have thought it is this. Sarah to the most part sarah will often be oblivious to this and on telling her she will say really a crowd !!! I have often wondered what the watchers think ....is it live porn , do they want to join , are they not brazen enough ? For sarah they mean little , she is far too busy in her bliss. For me though it is a distraction it is not as enjoyable as when I am in a small group I am most at home when the club has no more than 20 ......... strangely more intimate ........ work it out ! Brae
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RHP User
15 years ago
three levels of interest spring to mind- 1. naked bodies (usually) look yummy, and its a turn on to look at them. 2. academic interest, taking the chance to see how others do it- would i/ could i do that too? 3. morbid fascination, sometimes people do things that are freaked out. eg. dunkin' doughnuts, and its fun to spin out, and laugh at weird shit.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Agree Brae, it seems like some people just prefer to watch all the time - like a live porn show. Do you find that it is usually men that watch? They are probably just waiting for a woman to tell them what to do. LOL. M
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nope definately couples together ....... watching talking whispering
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks for the helpful insight into the world of watching... I have always wanted to sit in a corner and watch a session... But I am pretty sure that I would not able to stop myself from joining in... Only way to stop me joining in would be to restrain me.. and thinking that is a topic of conversation covered in another thread Ta
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Bubbaj
15 years ago
and learn and then compare :Pdont have the guts to really just dig in and join....yes im shy... as if u havent noticed :P
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RHP User
15 years ago
are really great for both. Most of the parties we organise or attend are totally open play and I get a great rush (compersion) out of watching Mrs. Ty with another man. We also have no qualms about 'doing it' in full view of an audience so long as the generally single guys are respectful and keep their mouths shut. A big reason we don't have single guys at our parties. They just can't help themselves from making smart arse remarks. Group sex at a party is for us great for many reasons but watching and being watched is a part of the fun.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Bubbaj'and learn and then compare :Pdont have the guts to really just dig in and join....yes im shy... as if u havent noticed :P Stop watching get brave ;-) B
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RHP User
15 years ago
The Four of us, Watching her with him, with her watching him with her! Then swap watching her watching him. Party theme Watching her with him, with her watching him with her, with another him and her watching 2 hims and 2 hers. Great
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RHP User
15 years ago
we love to put on a good show, then sit back and watch someone else...get some tips, or join in later :>
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RHP User
15 years ago
never done this before, but find it a real turn on,...i guess its a step out of the imagination into the reality. one part of me wants to see my g/f with another guy, and another part gets a little jealous,...even that little pang of jealousy feels good in the system
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'secretsafe' never done this before, but find it a real turn on,...i guess its a step out of the imagination into the reality. one part of me wants to see my g/f with another guy, and another part gets a little jealous,...even that little pang of jealousy feels good in the system This is definitely not the thing to do if even the slightest bit jealous i think because even if you think it is a good feeling now over time that feeling will grow and do damage and not be a good thing at all.The forums are full of tales of couples who have fallen by the wayside in this scene because of jealousy issues and insecurities be sure it is your thing and that BOTH of you are into it or it will be no fun for anyone.To answer the original question OH HELL YEAH!!! i LOVE to see MR GC pleasing another woman to the point where she is cuming so hard she might just explode and i love it when he sees me with another guy hard to explain why it is such a turn on it just is perhaps it is the knowing that you have someone worth sharing/someone that somebody other than you wants the satisfaction of knowing that at the end of the night he is going home to me and me alone HOT HOT HOTMrs GC
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RHP User
15 years ago
hi all yes i could only watch for so long & then i would have to jump in... Quoting 'Meeka100'Brae, yes I understand that concept. And I can imagine watching for a while. But I don't think I could sit and watch through the whole thing - can't help myself I would have to jump in too. I have no control :(xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Generally speaking I think Voyers and exhibitionists are a function of one-another. Each needs the other to function (like dancing without music playing - looks pretty daft) Generally Men are more visual and Women more Kinesthetic about sex - generally of course. Awkwardnesss/shyness versus confident/extrovert and variants of personality are part of anyone's persona at some time. Neither is bad, enjoyment is enjoyment. I like to watch then join the fray. I dig those who love to show off, I appreciate those who are a little more reserved. It's all good.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' I love my camera.... everywhere I turn there is art begging to be found.... and I've worked out I don't actually need the camera... some pictures are not shared... best left in the old memory banks waiting for a memory trigger to bring them back to life. A smell does it for me so far as triggers go. I like watching people who I know turn me on, having sex with other people.... I'm checking out their equipment .. the things they say....and do... and how they interact... where their happy spots are... how excited they get... that strange feeling somewhere between being self conscious and relaxing to the point of being oblivious to the others in the room.....Well said!Well said Stalky!Same with exhibitionism... I like watching people who are watching me .... whether what we are up to is getting them excited too..... I like it best when watchers get so involved that they cannot contain themselves any longer and stop watching... and join in.... Everybody has to get really sweaty and then ultimately we all collapse in an exhausted, sticky and euphoric mess, liberated from inhibitions! HugsS
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Quoting 'singlefemale36' Same with exhibitionism... I like watching people who are watching me .... whether what we are up to is getting them excited too..... I like it best when watchers get so involved that they cannot contain themselves any longer and stop watching... and join in.... Everybody has to get really sweaty and then ultimately we all collapse in an exhausted, sticky and euphoric mess, liberated from inhibitions! HugsSHmmm........we know what you mean Miss S
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love to watch, and nup I dont feel even the slightest need to join in. There is nothing mor even e beautiful than watching a couple who is totally unaware of anyone else in the room mmm gorgeous!!!! not someone who does it purely for the show, doesn't even tickle my fancy. I love the real stuff There's def no "get a room you two' for me, just do it right there and then n show the whole thing.
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