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Dating the ex's sibling....

December 09 2009

I had just recently broken up with my partner a month ago in what was, a delirious mix of pleasure and pain for the last three years(I'll leave it at that)The break up was bad and I thought I'd never have anything to do with her or her friends/familyanyways...along comes the younger sister who just flew back home for the holidays and I've just received an email to meet up this weekendnow my dilemma is that we had a fling prior to my ex and I getting together and then she went to the states 2yrs ago and that was when I saw her last.....from what's been written in the email she sent me, she is fully aware of our break upso in my situation, should I:a) steer clear of the family....periodb) go and see her discreetly and see where this weekend takes us(which is what most of my mates are eggin' me to do)c) see her and let my ex know that I'm gonna see her(upfront an honest but I can see a backlash on this approach)what would your best advice be...oh people of RHP whom I do not know but i'll ask anyways...

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RHP User

16 years ago

NO way I would ! Trev

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RHP User

16 years ago

If you really hate your ex then go for it as this can only end badly. Never mess with a family as you'll leave a lot of hurt people in your wake and no sex is worth inflicting that amount of pain!My 2c anyway!

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RHP User

16 years ago

Well I can see her point of view. You were her mark before she left so why would anything change. She probably felt very hurt that you and her sister ever had a relationship. Now that she is back, she is hear to claim you and by the looks of you mate... woohoo .. hehe I'd say she would have tried it on even if you were still dating her sister. Now you didn't say who broke up with who... but let's just pretend for the sake of a hilarious situation that your ex really broke off with you to make way for her sisters return... and it was you, ignorant of the looming riff between them, that caused the difficult separation. Now to resolve this your are going to have to keep your wits about you. My advice is to bag the returning sister and then discuss the prospect of patching things up with your ex and you could have the perfect situation, being a green light to shack up with one and root both with consent! I mean serious, are you crazy? Hehe. That's a fairy tale ending. But you're already out in the cold so it's surely worth a try? What can possibly go wrong in that situation? Hugs and armpit licks Gazza

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RHP User

16 years ago

You can pick your friends but you cant pick your family... if it's blood related. I guess a lot depends on how attached the sister is to your ex? If they tend to live in each others pocket... then that will cramp your style no end. If the parting between you and the ex is final... and you no longer have a yearning for her... then its only a matter of time before it becomes ancient history. But if you do start an affair with the sister and it comes unstuck... then you may have both of them firing venom at you. As hazardous as Gaz's scenario is... it does have appeal in a crazy sort of way... particularly the arm pit licking. NOT! :)

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RHP User

16 years ago

C'mon eunuch, where's your sense of adventure?? lolz Gaz

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RHP User

16 years ago

Hmmm..no dude!!!..there are some things you just dont do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RHP User

16 years ago

thanks for the replies guys...pretty much same as what my mates are telling mefunny enough it is her twin...i'll post pics up when i get on my other laptop and you'll see there's no real difference from each other, except probably in personalities...but pics will never tell you that

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RHP User

16 years ago

Meah Oblivious.. you are full of crap man. Is she a twin or a younger sister.. c'mon make up your mind... maybe they just look like each other.. right.. yeah .. that must be what you meant. Gaz

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RHP User

16 years ago

Id go with option "B". But as gaz had picked up: anyways...along comes the younger sister who just flew back home for the holidays and I've just received an email to meet up this weekend funny enough it is her twin...i'll post pics up when i get on my other laptop and you'll see there's no real difference from each other Unless you mean younger as in 30 secs younger? But all in all id say do it! What do you have to lose really? A. dont do it and have no contact with the ex and family? B. HIT IT C. Hit it and it backfires and you ulitmately have no contact with both girls and the family? B!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Eugene

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RHP User

16 years ago

I've posted 2 pics up on my profile with the ex-mrs and I(in the cap) and the twin younger sister and I with no cap...spot the difference?anyways if you were to differentiate twins wouldn't younger/older be a better wording for them?why am i even trying to defend myself?

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