M48
Daddy dearest.
October 19 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm going to have to start wearing a suit then :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nope, sometimes submissive girls call their master Daddy and she is his little girl. Nothing new there. You will also see gay guys also advertising for a Daddy or they will even say are there any Daddy's looking for a son. It's a D&S relationship and has nothing to do with modern society and break down of marriages. This is their kink.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ever seen public disgrace porn, bound and gagged? Hot! But I don't like to see girls like that only men dominating other men. Makes me swoon!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I call my lover Daddy all the time, when I am feeling all soft and girlie. Yeah yeah I know... It's sick. It started off as a joke but I now I really like it. ☺️
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't know anything about it, but I know you have mentioned the breakdown of marriages as being a contributor. Well it maybe impacts children. I have only met a few women into this and they had had very troubled childhoods, and suffered sexual abuse as well. Maybe this was just a coincidence? The master can dominate her whole life, tell her what to wear, etc. I have been to a few meet and greets where a couple of girls were texting their masters all night getting instructions on what they could do. I was part of a group orgy a few years ago and one woman kept texting someone, when I asked her what she was doing she told me that she had to tell her master what was happening so he could give her instructions on what she could do next! Mind you neither of these women called their Master, Daddy. Maybe it's a different type of relationship?? Does anyone know?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Indeed it is their own kink but I'm just wondering if on a deeper subconscious level that is what is causing this desire, like an Oedipus complex. I see it becoming more popular on this other site and I'm wondering if its also becoming a trend? Just like vintage tattoos, beards, vintage clothes and Starbucks ( vomits in mouth ). I guess the principal is the same no matter the sexual orientation. And to answer your question Meeka, I have seen some of that porn but it does nothing for me personally.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Damn Meeka I took ages to write a response but you got another one in there! Haha How am I meant to keep up? I'm not saying it definately is a cause but I am curious to know if there is some kind of connection with marriage breakdowns etc. It could just be that finally women can step out of an oppressive mind set where they can be more open with their personal desires without fear of being ostracised for those desires. The whole dominance side of thing doesn't appeal to me so I don't know much about it, but I am curious about why people are the way they are. I have also been with a couple of women who were abused at a younger age and they both had strong fantasies about being raped. It blew me away hearing this as my childhood was very "normal". My protective and nurturing side came out in me and that's probably why it ended with them, I was too soft.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't know anyone personally who is into the daddy thing but it is, as you say Meeka a particular type of D/s relationship. I do sometimes wonder about the psychology of that relationship and whether it is linked to a traumatic childhood. From what I have read, it can be a very nurturing relationship but there is usually an element of punishment and there is definitely control. Sometimes the woman, playing the role of brat, will test daddy's patience so as to deserve punishment. Gavin the local BDSM scenes usually have munches for new people so maybe get along to one in your area to meet people and ask questions. I spent some time hanging out in that scene in Tasmania and met an amazing bunch people, predominately woman, who were happy to discuss their sojourn into BDSM. Good luck in finding answers.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i have had a female friend, who was in this type of arrangement with her partner...from what i have gathered though...it is more the submissive part that is "in control", then the one who dominates...he had to know her very well...know her limits...and how far he could push those limits...recognize her moods...especially sexually...so he'd give her only , what she was ready/eager to take..they had a "safe word"...if she had said that word...all sexual activity would stop instantly...from what i understood...to be a good "Master" (or Daddy...whatever)..he had to be very attentive...observant..and devoted only to her..same way as she was devoted only to him....so perhaps this type of relationship with a man...might make a woman feel , like she is the only one in his world...as a reward for her submission...she got to feel, like the most important woman in his life...as he took his time, to learn her emotionally/sexually, like no one else has ever bothered to do so...as for me, personally...i call my man "Daddy" at times...and very much enjoy being submissive to him..(not to the level, that you had described in your post...but there's still time to grow...haha)he takes care of me...emotionally and sexually...allows me, to be vulnerable and totally open, without the fear of taken advantage of...and has devoted a lot of time, to learn, how to please me...i think a lot of women have that primal, submissive side to them...but it takes a man, who can make them feel loved, safe..well a man who can make them feel like a woman...for that submissive side, to come to life...i of course have a very limited experience, in this lifestyle...and the rest is only what i have gathered talking to others..so this only my humble opinion...
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RHP User
12 years ago
As Meeka said, its nothing new, and its not restricted to the male being the Dominant one, there are plenty of men who call their mistresses 'mummy' etc and want to be controlled in every way, including chastity and orgasm denial.Personally I cant see a link with marriage breakdowns, with the way they were brought up? family circumstances? perhaps, though most I know are from very ordinary backgrounds, they just like having control taken away from them for a while...even if its only an hour
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RHP User
12 years ago
I doubt that there is any one reason why women would want this type of relationship..it could be the lack of a father figure...it could be wanting to replicate the relationship that they had with their father...or neither...they might just like being submissive.....and that does not mean that they have no control over the relationship...Perhaps it is the fault of Mr.Grey...a new fashion in passion
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sirlurkalot... Time to suit up! It's showtime! haha Wildsong... I am a naturally shy person so I would probably find it hard to talk to people on such a private and personal level, but thank you for the suggestion. Psychology in general is of interest to me as is to you, so I know you understand my curiosity :) Sensualtimes... Your humble opinion is most welcomed. The women in question are empowered by the fact they are getting what they desire, same as the "Daddy" getting what he desires also. No matter who has the control, it's up to the individual want of each person to either be in control or give it up to another. Ding... I understand what you are saying about both sexes wanting this, but this is a specific trend I have noticed and wanted to use it as an example. I have personally experienced kids in broken marriages crave the attention of a role model of the opposite sex. Children are very sensitive to this sort of thing and it could possibly alter their lives in the future. Freya... I agree it couldn't be pin pointed to one specific reason. I read some of what these women had posted about "pleasing daddy" and it got me thinking (as well you know my dear I live in my brain a lot haha) whether there was a link. Ah Mr Grey, has done for BDSM for what Robert Langdon did for esoteric communities ;) Please don't think I'm chastising any of these women for their personal desires, I'm just curious to the cause of these desires.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree, there are HEAPS of men that want to be submissive to a woman and to other men. I am really surprised at how many.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What to choose.... Calvin Klein, Dolce Vita?? Hmmmm... Now.....where did I leave Siri?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think this is becoming a trend, okay maybe it is become more mainstream but I think lots of people dabble in it but living the D&S lifestyle is something else all together. This is a lifestyle for many people not a role play. Frankly I can't see the connection, a woman wanting a role model or someone to look up to is the same as wanting to be submissive to the extremes that you describe above. I don't see a connection at all. Having a man that can look after you, support you, someone who is strong... Is a complete turn on for me. But I too want to look after him, support him an be strong for him too. Cause I love my Daddy. ☺️
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry it's not the same I mean.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I deal with girls who are into this a lot, they are everywhere, some have daddy issues and some just love the idea of an older guy dominating them. None I know are into the really kinky stuff but they love a man who manhandles them and uses them as a toy. I had one girl dress up as a school girl and we played out a scenario where I was her step dad and took advantage of her. I'm currently talking to one who wants to be spanked and treated like a naughty girl. She was doing her assignments last night and completely distracted her it was so awesome !
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is more common than you think and there hasto be respect between them.To soe it is also a lifestyle and for some time I hada sub.All subs are different and have soe only want to serveincluding /cooking/cleaning and sex.
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Tall74nHard9
12 years ago
it's been pretty well covered by all before, but the only type of 'Daddy' relationship I'm concerned about is the one whereby the female is only after material gain, such as "Daddy, buy me a new iphone" or "Daddy, I need some new clothes". I have seen a few on site here who are only after this type of relationship, not the Dom/Sub type, and certainly not offering many 'benefits' to the Daddy. Tall
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have a friend who identifies as being a babygirl. She is a sub to her Daddy but she tells me that it's more than that. Yes it has the normal Dom/sub relationship of dominance and punishment etc but there is also the element of protection, be it physical or emotional. She feels secure to open up to her Daddy about everything: her wants, desires, dreams, worries. She tells him her concerns and relinquishes the worries and control over to him. How she got into it, I have no idea.
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