Couples, They arnt scary!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Taby' you are right.. What you are doing now is only a extention of what you already experienced. Im sure if you find a nice relaxed considerate couple' you will have a great time. I agree with Sweetiepie' watch out for pushy people who appear to be rounding you up for their pleasure forgetting about yours.. A couples situation can be very rewarding by remaining uncomplicated while still forming friendships. We are also both straight and there is no problem if the mood is right and everyone is happy..... its about shareing the love as they say.. I know my man is desireable and I perfectly understand someone wanting a peice of him... Its no big deal if you like who you're with and happy to go with the flow... You're a woman of the world now' so Im sure you have some interesting times ahead.. Good luck.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  To everything you have said, and find myself alot of the time in the same boat. Although there are a couple of local 'hubbies'...mmm one in particular...I wouldn't mind pinning down and having all to myself too :P. And without offending anyone, I have met some very attractive couples, I probably wouldnt've gone there if I wasn't attracted to both parties! Two for the price of one can be fun, but on the odd occasion when those insecurities you speak of arise, especially mid 'swing'...one on one without the drama can be a damn sight easier!! My sexy fb and I have started this profile as a couple. After experiences with couples alone,(although we've both had some fantastic times too!) we thought we might be more fun to try to find couples to play with who are secure, fun and easy going people, who know what they want and just want to get naked, share some laughs and then get into some naughty good times..! We have actually put on our profile.... As we are not officially a couple... We bring no jealousy issues, no drama, etc. But it seems alot of people still like to only meet couples in a 'proper relationship'. Each to their own.... Good luck Taby...and I know you will have lots of funnn! X

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hi Taby, As a single, particularly a female I can understand why couples might seem a bit scary. I'm sure in some cases there are scary couples out there but in saying that there are respectful, genuine couples too - and can be just as many scary singles as couples lol:-) Being straight certainly isn't a problem as there are quite a few couples like ourselves that the female half prefers straight mff and gets off on watching their man with another sexy lady having fun. Good on you for broadening your horizons, meeting new people and going to new events. No doubt you will have loads of fun. The couple that you speak of are both equally lovely and funny, sexy people! I would suggest that if you're interested in talking to couples and getting a feel for whether you might perhaps be interested in venutring further you look going along to a club - it's a good neutral meeting place and you can of course take a partner with you if that makes you more comfortable. All the best and enjoy the party! Alina xx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  rhp pin my husband???

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  No. Sorry, someone elses..!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I am sure you will have a great time and get plenty of attention, I have no doubt that with the liberal minded nature of swingers you will find that women are happy and aroused to see you exploring and enjoying their partners. I have no doubt you will have a wonderful time. I am sure being straight will not be a problem and that 99% of female swingers would be happy to just sit back and watch you and their partner going for it!, that's assuming they aren't pre occupied already!.Have fun and play safe.

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  SexyArse

  15 years ago

  Hey RHPlayersI have just one word of advice for you. When wanting to do anything with just the male side of the partnership always remember the female side of the partnership. What I mean is, should u wish to approach a male in a club for example u might want to speak to his partner first and make sure she is ok with him being with u. (U may just go up to her and say u think that her husband/partner is drop dead sexy). I know this may be daunting but it is just a respect thing. Sometimes in clubs women can tend to only want to play with other women or only want to play in a 3some, whether it be ffm or mmf. Basically by saying something to her it enables things to run smoothly. It also shows that u respect their relationship. In saying all of this some women don't really mind if you don't approach them but it is always better to show them respect than not.Mrs SAOT xx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  you should introduce us! We have met a few single girls and come across a few different situations. Andy has found it hard to connect with the single fem because she is overly conscious and cautious of making sure I am comfortable, I have felt pushed out of my own bed when the female was clearly there to play with Andy (which is fine but show some respect to me when I am sharing my partner with you), we have experienced a female that does not listen or is just not attuned to us as a couple and keeps doing what she thinks is right or wanted but doesn't listen when asked to back off a little. The best experience we have with a female be her straight or bi or experimental is someone who takes the time to get to know us both as a couple and as individuals, and who shares her time equally and manages to make Andy feel super sexy and wanted and me totally cool with sharing. It is big deal for me to share Andy with someone, I want to know that there is trust, respect and open communication. As the couple it is just as much, if not more so our responsibility to make sure of this (we are the ones inviting in the third person after all). I don't need the female to want to play with me too if she does not want to, but the little things I like are when lying side by side the female will hold my hand for a little while, I like to initiate the same too sometimes like a little acknowledgement that all is cool. If the female is maybe going to play with Andy separately then knowing she will take the time to communicate with me too and listen to how I feel, puts me at great ease. And hey if we hit it off and can be kind of friends, I would love nothing more than a girls night out dancing and getting up to mischief before racing home with her to jump into bed either side of Andy. xx Salina

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  With a satisfied grin Sweetie?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  You will fast find out that couples can be fun..the more the merrier lol

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  if you do decide to swing with couples from rhp you could nearly have the pick of the bunch....heaps more couples looking for single women then the other way around.. i know this cause i have given up looking for single women lol But yeah have a great night and hope you find some1 sexy to hook up with

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