M34
Cougars
August 14 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wish they'd never come up with the name .In answer..yes some are......but some aren't, that cover it for you?
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RHP User
13 years ago
You are just one of hundreds of young guys looking for older women. With no photos and very little interesting info on your profile, it doesn't make you the profile that stands out. I skip past profiles without pictures and think there are many more that do much the same. Hope this is helpful and good luck!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Most women (not all) regard the word Cougar as somewhat derogatory perhaps rephrase and use words like Experienced, Mature, Worldly etc... and personally if I was 35 and up (Im closer to 45 and up) I would be offended that you thought at 35 I was a "Cougar"..but I guess I would be in your eyes, if I was bedding a whippersnapper of 20.... still this is only my humble opinion...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Personally no Im not, because........last year you were still a teenager .Velvet is right, do a little search on here for topics with cougar in the title and you might save yourself some heartache..Ask yourself this........what do you want from your 'cougar'Do you want her to teach you everything she has spent years experiencing one step at a time, learning along the way what works for some and not others, teach you to be an absolute lothario for the day you meet that special girl who you would consider taking out into the daylight and out of the bedroom, introduce to your friends and family...and can blow her away with your bedroom skills?And then go back and ask yourself what's in it for your 'cougar' exactly.your fantasy 'cougar' is a person with feelings and emotions, and sexual needs herself.....what, sweetheart...are you bringing to her table? .I blame fucking television for this little pearler of a title an a very unreal expectation that every older woman wants a fresh piece of meat to chew on, when they dont even taste that good in first place.Sorry youngen, Im watching my diet......my hips aren't what they were.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Atleast I'm not the only one that's 20 on here :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi,These women, to my understanding and experience that want younger guys, want an experience with it. They don't want sex outright for the most part (Certainly it happens). They want to be wined and dined over good conversation and to feel comfortable around you. They don't really want the topic of sex brought up as the very first thing, since they likely get that from every other guy, even if they are from here. They want to laugh, they want to see you are sure of yourself and what you want yet have the maturity to restrain yourself and understand sex is just a nice bonus that comes along with their company. When it does come to going back to theirs, again, they want a sensual experience. They want that feeling of being pampered and their needs seen to be that younger man. They like the upfront discussions so there are no 'bad surprises' to hinder them enjoying themselves. Mostly, they want that energy.The bad news is, even when I was 20...I wanted women that were around 35. I felt strongly I had the maturity, yet my age got in the way. Way it is unfortunately.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Belt n braces, hardhat, tighten the jockstrap, gunna be a rough ride !
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RHP User
13 years ago
want to rethink your strategy hurley.You are a guest,you cant be proactive in your search, you are waiting for older women to contact you.Most women are guests,they have one message a week,why would they send it to a man who has a profile that has no pics,and that has just one line that says, looking for women who can keep up .An arrogant statement IMO. You do not present as a very attractive proposition Mr.Hurley. Ms Velvet is correct when she says most older women find the term cougar offensive,some don't and perhaps with this post you might attract some interest. x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Allow me to be a little more succinct: NO
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RHP User
13 years ago
Damn, if your going to be like that I am only going to go for young chickybabes. You young fella's can't have them all. Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes yes yes ohhhhh baby yesss ohhhhh god, fuck meharderrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ohhhhhhhh fuck shit where did he go? as I look down between my saggy thighs? bugga spunky young things are good if they have a brain to go with the dick to go with the consideration you do not have to go all-night to please a woman you just have to go until she has had her pleasure FIRST! and that is the bullshit that goes with the promise of hot sex with young guys. Its all about MOI! Bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah
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belladonna888
13 years ago
I for one love my toy boys , iv never been left wanting and im always treated with respect . In my expeience they are eager to please , Iv never been disappointed :) You really should have a pic up , unless you have something to hide Just saying Bella :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi1 Hurleyg69:) Hun this question has come up in similar forms recently However i'll add my view too .What the others have already said about ..Mature Women aren't really keen on that term at all it's derogatory..makes us seem like emotionally needy Women. I checked out your profile there again ..No Pic ..'No Pic little Interest from anyone".. I laughed at your line "if they can keep up" ha!ha! I Luv it..I suggest you change it tho or delete altogether.. For your information..I'm 60yrs far from decrepid ..1 reason I have younger Lovers as in plural is because they are drained after the 1st go..I'm re-energized..It's to do with my Sexual andd Spiritual Abilities combined I might add..ha!ha!...I especially love the guy.. I'm sure you're 1 who tells me he can go for hours..I just grin and think to myself ummm we'll see he!he! like the others he folds after the 1st session ..hardly able to raise their arm feeling like they're floating with a big smile look of bliss in their eyes ha!ha! ...Good Luck! with your search hun for local Mature Women...Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Last year' I had the pleasure of loving 2 lovely fems ' both in their mid to late 20s..... I know it sounds conceited.. but how else can I say it without it sounding that way ? So does that make me a tiger ? and what does this make them ? kittens ? Grrrrrrrrr... like a tiger, like a tiger.... To all you lovely ladies that dont mind some young stiffy to keep you happy' good on you.. You might not realise it' but you will give some young guy something to remember for the rest of his life. Me thinks you do a service to the inexperienced of the world.. giving and receiving has its just deserts.. It is you who will grow old with a smile on your face when the grandkids gather around your feet... You lived' while others regret they missed out...
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RHP User
13 years ago
We are an enduring breed, have been around for centuries, and will stay around a lot longer. I have been told by a few of my cubs that young women just want too much, are too fussy and have too high expectations, not that that's a bad thing. Also, just cos we are cougars, or more correctly mature women who like younger males, does not mean that we are predators. For myself I just want someone who is fitter and can give me what I need, which is more than a 10 minute romp. Also I personally will not usually associate with cubs younger than my son who is 34. There is of course the odd exception to the rule, but mostly I stick to it.
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belladonna888
13 years ago
I am cougar , hear me roar !!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
what DGT said!
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RHP User
13 years ago
We wouldn't entertain play time with under 20, and very unlikely with under 25. Two main reasons - we want to know you have some experience - we're only interested in sharing with a committed couple Our thoughts were we're not interested in having additional members in our relationship, but in sharing & exploring with a couple as equally strong and compatible. Less complications, and separation of the emotional and the physical.Clearly we are generalising that you have to be of a more mature age to have those things, and of course we're happy to be proven wrong Besides MrM already has his youngun, and MsC likes her older man
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RHP User
13 years ago
Off topic but still within range.... Personally i like women a little older than myself. I find women 37 to 43 have reached a great balance between looks and internal sexiness. I find a radiate energy that i can see and feel and the balance is fantastic.
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RHP User
13 years ago
they love profiles with no pics so run with that
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wish I lived in nsw Bella 8,life is too short live it up!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well, I'm assuming that due to the lack of pics, that you are probably quite unattractive; the lack of profile text (and what's there is poorly written), that you are quite illiterate; the lack of social finesse, that you are quite awkward; the lack of replies to your own thread, that you are a troll; the lack of interest on my part, that even I were single and looking, you'd be so far down the list that I'd be about 70 before you hit "maybe". P. s. the second you call 35 "older", you just shot yourself. In the cock. :) hope that helps :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
if I were *scowl*
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well said DontGrabThat !!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'belladonna888' I am cougar , hear me roar !!! i can hear it
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi I'm love to haw sex with olds women more fun Mack ihpirense
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RHP User
13 years ago
check my pics ;) and decide if you want to play cougar Quoting 'cougar4fun' You are just one of hundreds of young guys looking for older women. With no photos and very little interesting info on your profile, it doesn't make you the profile that stands out. I skip past profiles without pictures and think there are many more that do much the same. Hope this is helpful and good luck!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just a quick question.....don't want to come across as precious, cos that's certainly not me at all. Do any of you ladies out there actually hate the term cougar, or am I alone? I cant really explain what it is, but there is something about being labelled, in any way, that I find really uncomfortable. I would much rather be referred to as a sexy, horny, mature woman. Cougar almost conjures images of has been old women, desperate to shag any younger guy...... Maybe I'm just fussy, but there it is.,Lubeysx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hello Lubeys, I think you will find a hell of a lot of women don't like the term cougars. Makes us growl and want to put the disrespectful little shits across our knee and smack their bot bots!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Hello Lubeys, I think you will find a hell of a lot of women don't like the term cougars. Makes us growl and want to put the disrespectful little shits across our knee and smack their bot bots!! Meeka, Threats like that will only encourage them!
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beebs
12 years ago
@ lubeys4fun, I think it is like Tim Minchin says, " only a ginger can call another ginger ginger" which is to say that shared pronouns that touch on the personal should only be used by those that feel they share and identify as such. IMHO of course. B
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madotara69
12 years ago
this is like blankety blanksMado
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love your work Meeka! maybe that's where I have been going wrong.....giving them way too much freedom to be bad boys....heehee'beebs' .... I guess I don't like being referred to as a 'furry pussy'.....(tongue firmly plated in cheek)..... Ironically, I am a red head too.xx
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