Confident or sexually aggressive

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Lead on McDuff. How do I know what she likes or wants if it is a first play date. I can ask but she may not tell you. Take the lead and tell him what ou want, I am sure he will accomodate.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I like a bit of both, really...whether in playful fun, the fun of foreplay or getting right down to the real fun. I like to lead...but I delight in following when a woman has something in mind and wants to go there or simply experiment a bit. Playing within any guidelines...not my style at all and much prefer to make up the rules as we go along. | Now sexually aggressive...that can be interesting and I think my true Alpha might just show through, as the word "aggressive" is one of those that can mean something interesting or someone that really is not all that interested in their partner or any outcomes other than the ones they want or expect. Of course two aggressives can be explosive...you just have to be ready for the challenges that may be part of the game. | Old expression "Lead, follow or get out of the way" seems to fit. The chi of balance will always dictate and even with the same person, the rules of engagement can change with the mood of the evening. | Let the games begin...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I must admit I have yet to find a problem with sexually aggressive women, but I am sure there is a line to cross. Look, I think it is incredibly sexy for a woman to take the lead, to feel confident and to know what they want. I am detecting a theme in Meeka's questions in the forum lately, and I like that too :) I see nothing wrong with a woman leading in the bedroom. It does not compromise my masculinity in any way, and it is a good indicator of the woman's confidence in general. And there is nothing but upside to a woman with confidence.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I'm normally take the lead, but it's defiately hot when the woman takes over for a change...always good to mix it up and a confident woman is a turn on.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Personally I find a woman taking the lead to be a major turn-on in many cases. I'm very much a fan of a woman letting me know what she wants and maybe even making the move herself, there's just something about that kind of confidence that really gets exciting. Mix it up a bit - sometimes she can lead, sometimes I can lead, wherever the mood goes basically. I do think there definitely needs to be some variation and definitely no emphasis on one person to do everything - I've been in situations where the onus has been entirely on me to do my thing and you can kind of tell it's awfully one-sided and nowhere near as fun as it could be, and I imagine it'd be no fun for a woman if I expected her to just do everything every time.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Sidd, I think I am giving you the wrong impression. Yes I know what I like and I am upfront about it. Having said that, I like a man to take the lead. But yes, if things are moving a little slowly or not in the direction I would like.... I will tell you or take over. And again, certain situations and with some people I can be even shy, but I guess you have to see what mood I am in by the look in my eyes. :P xx Meeka

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  she can be whatever i let her be

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  If there is more than one man in the mix, I prefer the woman to "take control of the situation". I don't mean she needs to tie us up or tame us with a whip and chair... although of course, I've seen that sort of thing happen... what I mean is that I feel most comfortable knowing the she is most comfortable.. and I can relax and get into it if I don't have to keep adjusting my thoughts towards reading her reactions to all that is going on.. I mean, it's one thing to read her reactions to my actions .. but it's quite distracting trying to read her reactions to the other guy's actions as well... so... if everyone is looking after their own interests.... together.... that's what I enjoy most... disappearing into the melting squishy moments and forgetting everything else. One on one situations are for more intimate.. the stuff reserved for lovers... too intimate for this little loner duck, but in which I usually end up taking up the lead unless it's my toyboy.HUgsStalky

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  At times, I'll prefer to take the lead, assert my dominance, and take control of the situation. Others times, I love ending up her plaything...to do as she pleases. Both are equally as fun...and I think it would get boring if it was all one way after a while...And as for being TOO sexually aggressive...the answer is yes. Especially after hearing those stories about you Meeks...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Chilli, yes I definitely prefer sexy women to take the lead. :P KD7884, there are no stories going around about me.. so I ain't falling for that one :) (is there?)xxMeeka

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Someone just told me my pictures have a very calming / sensual look to them. See I am very CALMING for men, not aggressive at all. hehexxMeeks

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I like it when a girl takes the lead and lets me know what she likes.All the better to please her with, I say. At the same time I don't mind letting her know what I enjoy and am happy to take charge and throw in a few surprises now and then.

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