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Condoms - safe sex for intercourse?
October 16 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have come across only the one lady that wanted me to wear a chocolate flavoured condom for oral. We were both 19 and she had been to an all girls school and was just discovering guys.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
Probably married and doesn't want any evidence of a lovely bright red lipstick ring around his cock. 😜😁 Ms Foxy
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horneycouplewa
6 years ago
There is only two men who don't wear condoms with me. My husband and my best friend, they wear them elsewhere. I'm not even entertaining the idea of why ffs......
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horneycouplewa
6 years ago
2 bottles f bubbles down and here I am .... Oral dunno I just do it
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haydenja
6 years ago
I’ve never had a got head with a condom there literally is no point and woman would hate the taste anyway defeats the whole purpose, and btw I’ve been trying to contact u fte but I don’t have premium
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RHP User
6 years ago
In reality most people forget that giving head can be just as risky. We prefer not to use them at all but if a guy wants to roll one on then we can understand but I’d rather feel all of him and feel the warm hot feeling when he arrives
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BungCpl
6 years ago
I suspect (for us anyway) the answer is along the lines of because that is what we have grown up believing and or being taught, being that safe sex is all about using a condom to prevent STD infections during intercourse. I can’t recall seeing a safe sex campaign that suggested using a condom when getting a head job was something that should be done. I’m not even sure which of the nasty STD’s can be exchanged through Oral sex, either on a male or female, any references for the risks?
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
Its their choice to be safe. As its your choice not to. Safe sex and how each party practice it, should be discussed fully and openly before you meet. That way, if theres a concern..... I just say "yeah but nah have fun".
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RHP User
6 years ago
Told you so. 😜
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RHP User
6 years ago
Oral sex isn't as risky as penetrati e sex. ...although, you CAN still get hep from it.
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SpicyKale
6 years ago
Yes you can catch a whole stack of nasties from oral, but I don't think there's been a reported case of hiv transmission through oral sex. People are just assessing their own personal risk levels. When you say bareback between couples is rampant, do you mean between established couples or between couples that are swapping partners? I'm guessing you mean the former, it's a very different situation than with a stranger. It's sort of like a previous thread that claimed married couples that were ethically non monogamous were actually cheating. Apologies if I've interpreted that incorrectly. Out of curiosity, how many receptive partners can tell if the guy fucking them has a condom on? Or is this just a guy problem? Yes, I know that some people love cum and all the feelings that come with it. Not judging, everyone can assess their own risks
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RHP User
6 years ago
You can basically catch every std from oral sex as u can from intercourse...........so putting a condom on after oral sex is kinda irrelevent except for pregnancy issues. SpiceyKale .... wasnt saying bareback was rampant between couples.....what most peoples profile say is 'love oral sex, giving & receiving, but condom for intercourse".....my usual response is WTF I always am upfront anout everything..........win some lose some
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SpicyKale
6 years ago
Think we're going to have to agree to disagree on that one. Yes you can catch every std from oral, but it's a reduced risk. Have a read up on the difference in transmission rates between oral, vaginal and anal sex with the different types of std. Some are easier to catch, especially if someone cums in your mouth. You're at higher risks orally if you have cuts, ulcers etc... Research your stats from medical journals, the centre for disease control in the states, even our local hospital websites have good information. Don't rely on stuff you read on here or something a mate told you. I'm not trying to change your mind or judge your decisions , but I also don't want others to read your post and think that the information is accurate
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RHP User
6 years ago
You are correct SpicyKale, the risk is less. But how is fair the female giving a bareback blowjob take more of a risk than the male. I have read up on this issue and know the 'statistics' show it is a lesser risk of attracting an std through oral than intercourse. BUT, if the female (or male) is expected to give oral without protection EVERY time, then the risk is increased. Its like closing the gate after the horse has bolted. But happy hunting....
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RHP User
6 years ago
A woman yet who’d like her pussy licked through a layer of glad wrap.
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SpicyKale
6 years ago
Yep, we all except our own risk level I guess Male half here who's bi, yes I'm fully aware of my risk levels through oral contact. I don't use condoms for oral, but there's no way in hell anyone is ever fucking me without one. The risk of hiv transmission through oral is statistically zero. There's a very small risk though. The chances of catching it from penetrative sex is substantially higher, you're just not comparing apples and apples. Yes, I know I'm not focusing on other stds, but besides cancer from a hpv infection in my throat it's unlikely to kill me. Yes, we get tested too. As for fairness, which I don't really get..... the majority of people playing in the lifestyle are couples. If one partner gets something, chances are they're passing it on to their partner anyway We're all at higher statistical risk because we play with multiple partners anyway.... I don't think any of us want to reduce our risk by staying monogamous 😳 But yes, happy hunting indeed 😇
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curiousnhorny05
6 years ago
For me it depends on the situation. Say at a club and I don’t know the persons history. Then it’s a no without protection. For both oral and whatever. I’ve never had anyone refuse a blowjob. In the past I had done the occasional without and got burnt because a numpty decided to completely disrespect my boundaries and came in my mouth. That scared the crap out of me. Each individual needs to work out an acceptable risk for them. And everyone else’s job to respect those boundaries whatever they are. I did look into the female variety of protection and it’s next to impossible to source them. So little stuck on that one. Does anyone know the actual stats I’m curious :)
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RHP User
6 years ago
Bareback is for trusted long term partners. Otherwise...if you want to run the risk of stds.. fine. Oral sex does not have the same level of potential infection. Each to your own....your body, your rules
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ibreakbad
6 years ago
I had a head job whilst wearing a condom many years ago, only way she would do it as didn't feel she was cheating husband if another's cum did not come in contact with her person 🤡. It was like taking a shower whilst wearing a raincoat.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I would have thought that the risk of catching anything would be in proportion to the time spent on oral against penetration. Statistically you spend more time using the mouth so the risk factor increases. Apparently if the guy is circumcised the risk factor is less but again who can know. If some has engaged in risky behaviour like unprotected anal etc you might never know unless everyone is candid about their sexual history which wouldn't be on most peoples conversational agenda first meet.
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wildcrazyloving
6 years ago
HIV transmission may be low with unprotected oral, though having to contact lovers regarding positive throat/anal swab to Gonorrhoea or Chlamydia through unprotected oral, may alter your safety preferences. As an experienced extertainer, whom is inundated with requests for unsafe work practices, i have mastered the art of imitation sex and protected oral. From my observations, i can state with certainty that the 'i don't like the feel of condoms' or 'condoms reduce sensitivity' is nothing but psychological preferences. I challenge you to experiment and find out for youself. ×
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RHP User
6 years ago
Experiment a little LOL......do t worry i have had plenty of possibilities to experiment & wont refuse sex if the participant is insistent......however for me it is NOT just a psychological thing....my pleasure receptors sure can tell the difference & lubricate accordingly....... But as i said at the start "each to their own" & upfront honesty is the only way to go......as i said u win some u lose some Happy hunting everyone
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have no problem whatsoever with protected oral giving or receiving. The privilege of spending intimate time with that person(s) that you're attracted to is what it's about for me, and everyone feeling comfortable.
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moonchild
6 years ago
condoms are for fucking pussies
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'moonchild' condoms are for fucking pussies Arseholes.
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MatureFun4You
6 years ago
Although I have rarely experienced a condom for oral sex, it was probably because I and my partners considered oral sex to be less risky than intercourse. For the same reason, I have never given head to a woman using a shield or oral dam. However, it's worth noting that infection rates for Syphilis, Gonorrhea and Chlamydia have stabilised for vaginal intercourse but oral infections have generally increased in most western countries. This information was given to me by the nurse at my last STD check up. All three of the above, can be spread from mouth - genital contact. Luckily, HIV seems to be far less likely to be spread in this manner, unless you have an open cut in your mouth or on your lips. I always prefer to use a condom for intercourse with any partner who I don't know well, especially if they are likely to have multiple partners. I also like to think they can relax and enjoy the fun, knowing that they won't be catching anything from me either. I know that to some, it may be a raincoat experience but then I consider it a small price to pay in the short-term, compared to the long-term problems which not wearing one, may allow.
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