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Condoms or not????
October 05 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
I get so sick hearing from guys..."I am clean"...I am sure that is what that Circus preformer told all those women that he infected with AIDS!! If I meet a guy and they say anthing negative about using condoms...I just yell "NEXT" ... not even going to argue the fact with them (I always ask this before getting in a hot and heavy situation as you did)! I did have a guy once that kept "pulling out too far" and putting his hand down there to "place it back in"...I got suspicious on the 2nd time he did this and then put my hand down there only to find he was slowly rolling the condom up so it would fall out inside of me! Not sure if his ribs survived or not...but boy did he get a kick in the ribs!! You have to be ever vigilant with guys that say "I am very clean", and cannot back that up with a Certificate. Well done to you for sticking to your guns and not relenting..no matter how cute/sexy you found him!! Kudos!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi Bad,I don't have a problem at all with wearing condoms,to me they are not that uncomfortable and in fact i reckon they can prolong things a bit if you are really excited ! I would prefer not to cum in them as it doesn't feel as good personally and find that if i ask i can come out side but in saying that its not the end of the world if it doesn't work out that way.One thing i will say is that they do spoil it a bit by having to stop what yore doing and put one on then get going again,but once again that's just my personal opinion and it doesn't really bother me that much. Hope that has been some help.CheersZeek :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
always y would u risk it
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RHP User
15 years ago
always y would u risk it
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RHP User
15 years ago
It is your body, youre an adult and your rules. Dont bend your rules for anyone, you simply say "NEXT" and move on. We would never try to change someones mind am surprised it did not come up sonner. Your profile says "allways" he is being naughty he should have simply moved on or communicated 1st or 2nd message. But then if his said "Never" Whats wrong with both of you.....start communicating! Same with us we get really annoyed if we say we are straight and females think they have God Damm right to experiment on other females or hoping they will change them naked in the bedroom. Its fun playing, no hassells dont judge anyone or get up on your soap box, we all play different ways.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I hate the bloody things............But i would REALLY hate to get Clap, Syph, Aids, and all the other diseases that could cause my dick to drop off So in reality......condoms are cool .....otay (Best Buckwheet impersonation i could muster online)As for how this guy reacted....he's lucky he didn't get escorted out on his ass. Anyone started speaking to Mrs Rough like that....well last thing he would be worried about is bloody cock socks!
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RHP User
15 years ago
you done the right thing by sticking to your guns on that one and i must say good for your man for standing up to him and escorting him out the door whoohooo to you both whenever i have a man tell me he doesnt like them i tell him but you dont know where iv been and who iv been doing...thats makes them put it on real quick hehehe good for you and your man you should both be proud of each other xx roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
We just both believe it has got to be swinging on a "condom friendly" basis especially when meeting others who have not met before. Between a couple themselves, whatever you want, but when you meet to play with others, it is a no brainer.....got to have those condoms.
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RHP User
15 years ago
do stop the majority of diseases from occurring and I am in no way implying that they should not be worn but please be aware, ladies and gentlemen, that they DO NOT STOP ALL ! It is till necessary to get regular tests.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes condoms are necessary as is testing and given it can take upto 3 months for something to show in testing I doubt these so called clean men are having unprotected sex waiting 3 months, get tested and then can validate they are clean. I would love to not have to use then but there are times you do.As for BADs troublesome male, he sounds like a person who has no respect for women and frankly dosen't deserve to be with one given his attitude.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thank you to all that responded....I think we did the right thing allthough the guy was not impressed.. I would love to hear from anyone who refuses to use condoms and their reasoning for it? There might be no one who answers this but lets see... I know condoms are not 100% safe as people have pointed out which is very true but at least it cuts the risk a little...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Condoms are probably our only major rule - otherwise anything goes
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'daytimecouple45' We just both believe it has got to be swinging on a "condom friendly" basis especially when meeting others who have not met before. Between a couple themselves, whatever you want, but when you meet to play with others, it is a no brainer.....got to have those condoms. Why do u specify intercourse only then?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010'NEXT! Why do u specify intercourse only?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'thegardener68'Yes condoms are necessary as is testing and given it can take upto 3 months for something to show in testing I doubt these so called clean men are having unprotected sex waiting 3 months, get tested and then can validate they are clean. I would love to not have to use then but there are times you do.As for BADs troublesome male, he sounds like a person who has no respect for women and frankly dosen't deserve to be with one given his attitude.Why do u say on your profile "if required"
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'twoactive'Condoms are probably our only major rule - otherwise anything goes .....Why intercourse only
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RHP User
15 years ago
did i hear somebody say NEXT rolling into the tube now standing and ready ,,,,,,,,,,,,,, um why am I here alone ????? ladies PLEASE Andy XXX
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Bubbaj
15 years ago
i prefer witout as to get pregnant...... who wants to b a daddy!?! hehehe
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RHP User
15 years ago
We could not agree more with you, pregnancy control when swinging or playing is a must, we say all have to be protected ....Girl on the pill PLUS guy with condoms. NO EXCEPTIONS Or BOTH cut Crazy to play without these safe guards, So untill you both are cut condoms are compulsary sorry. Capital .....Some ladies might like the feel of cum in their pussies not all are in it just for the Bi Girl stuff. Quoting 'Bubbaj' i prefer witout as to get pregnant...... who wants to b a daddy!?! hehehe
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RHP User
15 years ago
Condoms are a must with ppl you don't know {:0)
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RHP User
15 years ago
If you want to play...play safe I say!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Condoms are a must if you are playing...keep doing what yr doing {:o)
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's like seat belts in the car, people should not question it... STDs are the major risk of adult games ;-)As for little swimmers I got those eliminated few years ago...!
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RHP User
15 years ago
My mother is a doctor and she specializes in STD's I have had unprotected sex once in my life was a drunken error on my part and we were both into it.... I have seen some of my moms text books on STD's please for god sake use a fucking condom....they got some stuff out there that can make your cock look like a foot and you pussy look like a bottle of air freshener. I agree with one of the above comments.....they slow things down a bit and can prolong your rate of banging but the problem is they are annoying but i'd rather be able to fuck and not be able to fuck at all :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Bring them back...also the advert where they had all the couples in bed....reminding us that when we have unprotected sex that we are sleeping with everyone that person has ever slept with and each subsequent person that they in turn have sleep with....Todays generation has No idea of the impact on lifestyles of any of the Killer Std's...If i read a profile that has in the safe sex preferances... " IF Required, Or Sometimes"all i read is DANGER .....DANGER...I cannot click away fast enough...." IF ITS NOT ON......ITS NOT ON...!Im not playing russian roulette with my genitalia....with or for anyone..
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RHP User
15 years ago
What a jerk. Ive seen dudes get upset about it too at times and I've had to bounce some of them. I figure their little tanty might work on their mums.... hence they try it on for the rest of their lives.If you're used to going without a rubber then yes, you really do notice the difference. Sex with a condom feels less viscous if I can put it that way. The vaginal mucous adds considerably to the sensations and does not feel the same as lube on latex. Clearly. Also, uncut guys seem to be more affected than cut guys. None the less.... nobody can expect to have bareback sex with someone else's wife or girlfriend. That's simply an absurd expectation. NEXT. HUgsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Bad_Influence...you may need to change your handle as I think everything you said or did rates highly in the good books. I doubt I would have shown either the decorum or patience that you and your husband did in dealing with someone that had more issues that just his or your own health. Condoms are not much fun, agreed...however we all have to take responsibility for our own health and be decent enough to respect the health of others. I purchase mine online O/S as the choices and variety here are a bit limiting. That said...consider the following a bit of a public service announcement...maybe "Safe Sex for Dummies" or something they should know. | You've just had unprotected sex with a new partner and all of a sudden a strange mark has appeared in your pubic area If the sheets haven't even cooled down yet that pimple is almost certainly not a new STD symptom. Next time, practice safer sex. It will drastically reduce your stress levels. | • Chlamydia: One to three weeks after exposure to the bacteria. | • Gonorrhea: Frequently asymptomatic although they may show up as early as two days after exposure or take as long as one month. | • Syphilis: The First stage of syphilis appears on average twenty one days after infection. | • Chancroid: May appear any time from one day to several weeks after infection. |• Trichomoniasis: In women symptoms usually appear between 5 to 28 days after exposure. | • Genital Warts: Outbreak within three months of initial infection. | • Genital Herpes: Most people never know they're infected. Symtoms can show up within two weeks of exposure to the virus. | • HIV: Can remain asymptomatic for years. The only way to know if you have HIV is to be tested. It may take up to six months after exposure to the HIV virus before you will test positive on an HIV antibody test. |• Hepatitis B: Symptoms show up between four to six weeks after infection however is completely preventable by vaccination. | The list goes on but the likelyhood of transmission to the blood system, which is often where most of the problem begins including exposure to the normally friendly little e. coli bacteria that we all have...is extremely rare. Extremely being a fraction number being lower than 0.1% | We can have fun and will never totally eliminate all the possibles unless we start wearning body condoms and carry dental dams in our play kits...but get real. I have never had "sex to die for" and if I like you well enough to want to have sex with you I should have some respect for you, right? | I am regularly tested even though I am a true needle-phobic and have a simple rule that I don't need to explain to anyone...once I am tested I go on holiday until the results are all in and I am cleared for take off. Period. Oh well...that's a small price to pay and I don't break my own rules. Boundaries, hell yes...societal and moral rules, bring it on. The rest is just a simple matter of respect and that for me translates into trust. | The end.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Nudierudie2'the advert where they had all the couples in bed....reminding us that when we have unprotected sex that we are sleeping with everyone that person has ever slept with and each subsequent person that they in turn have sleep with.... why did they stop showing those kind of ads in the first place, i wonder? it seems strange to me that there isn't something like that still around now. the last guy who tried the "baby I'm clean I swear" bit seemed a little shocked when I laughed in his face.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' I purchase mine online O/S as the choices and variety here are a bit limiting. That said...consider the following a bit of a public service announcement...maybe "Safe Sex for Dummies" or something they should know. Do you mind sharing with us what o/s website you use for condoms your preferences and why? We learnt a while back they come in different diameters! hehe going tell all the girls on here what dia you take? Maybe that could be good info on your profile "Condom size S M L ??" KKKKKKKKWwHAwwwwwwwwwT |
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Bubbaj'i prefer witout as to get pregnant...... who wants to b a daddy!?! hehehe .Bubbaj that was fucken hilarious!!!! Hehehehe. . Love your work. . xx Meeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' No one the less.... nobody can expect to have bareback sex with someone else's wife or girlfriend. That's simply an absurd expectation. NEXT. But it is okay for us single ones??????????
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' No one the less.... nobody can expect to have bareback sex with someone else's wife or girlfriend. That's simply an absurd expectation. NEXT. But it is okay for us single ones??????????
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RHP User
15 years ago
I can't really think of a good argument for not using condoms. I think I might be beating a dead horse here, but they make too much sense to not wear. On top of that, if someone says that they will not have sex without using a condom, how can you tell them they are wrong? It is about respect, and repecting boundaries, and if you can do that, you shouldn't be having sex. Wrap it up
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Do you mind sharing with us what o/s website you use for condoms your preferences and why? ||| Let's start with an update to Safe Sex for Dummies with something that may be a bit like that television show "Myth Busters...you google "wikipedia human penis size" the information (and particularly the charts) may offer a bit of information for those of us interested in probability and statistics variable outcomes. Looks like they may have missed the data here on RHP? | Now I can't make a recommendation but... try googling "condomdepot" in the USA and if I could make a suggestion, the two "World's Best" tins are a great way to spend a weekend, especially if you notice the little freebies that they include. Now then as for the rest...decorum prevents me from answering but I do recall a translation from a very ancient language that says...... "it's not the sword but the warrior".
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