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March 18 2014
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Beachlover1999
12 years ago
I love giving compliments, makes the world a better place!!! :))
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RHP User
12 years ago
If a guy told me I was attractive, I might say thanks, depending on the person and situation. Walk up and whisper in my ear however, and you're likely to get told off in no uncertain terms. Check this out: http://www.redhotpie.co.uk/Adult-Forums/Cold-approach-on-the-street-41287
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I used to be shocked and didn't know what to say when a total stranger would say to me "Has anyone told you lately how attractive or sexy you are?". I would get all embarrassed, like seriously I would !! Now a-days, I just say "Thank you" But it just depends if I am attracted to them, I just may say it one day. Just gotta get rid of that feeling of rejection. It's a fear I have. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
That wasn't the best link to post. Anyone have a better one?
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's what I meant! and Meander...that's what I thought too!!! Hahaha
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RHP User
12 years ago
If it is a real compliment with no hidden agenda it's great. If you are being all creepy about it ... Then no I would not appreciate it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
IMO most people fear rejection, so as Meander said, it would depend on the situation. I would take it as a compliment if it wasn't said in a creepy way.
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madotara69
12 years ago
The whisper OP, it's a term used as to the privacy and not putting a lady on show (so to speak) ? Just a point, as expressing a compliment to a lady (from a man perspective) even to the utmost intentions, doing so by having her in presence of other company, be it strangers passing by on the footpath on a busy street, amongst friends or colleagues, etc. Puting a lady in an embarrassing position by situations alone, may be simply disregarded to any type of introduction, even if the suggestion is taken as compliment. How can we know a person in passing is not engaged to thought for matters maybe significant. It's considered a little rude to engage socially while in train of thought, simply because vague to others is the standing term for showing lack of interest, it can be taken as offensive especially to strangers. On those grounds then attempting to express intentions, maybe pure to kindness and compliment, I personally would hold the thoughts unless expression was shown that the person in passing had an inviting nature to mind, a smile with eye contact and some relaxed type of body language, hinting that privacy was not being displayed, even then it would be a shot in the dark, to the common interests to the subject expressed. I try it on Tara all the time, though I know when there are chances she feels a little towards being horny, and to the facts when she is not. Especially when we are amongst company, sometimes I could shout out across a busy room, other times, she just hears me thinking it, then it all comes down to that look her eyes may give. I do fuck up every now and then, by missing the opportunity for whispering sweet naughty things. Though I do my very best to make it up to her in other ways, when we fuck for example. Mado Mado Tara xx
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Will be along shortly... Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
It may be a bit safer to compliment a woman on one attractive feature rather than saying she's good-looking, so it doesn't come across like you're just hitting on her. Maybe compliment her on her smile, the way she walks or her charisma? Mischeviouslad (As much I disagree with a lot of his posts ;-p) says he gives a compliment to a person (not sure if they're just women, but doesn't matter) every day just for the sake of it. I think it's great and something I aim for as well. Giving compliments to strangers is also great practice, the more you approach people with something nice to say, the more natural it becomes and the more confident you'll get.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
It's nice to show one's appreciation to another be it to the lady putting money in the parking meter about her pretty dress and shoes on Sunday just gone to the attractive bloke at the pub lastnight wearing the 1978 t-shirt as he was leaving with his mates that he was "Hot!" to the giggles of the beautiful Provocativeminx to complimenting the barman for making her a Whiskey Sour and the Chef for not burning the bejesus out of the 2nd lot of Oysters Kilpatrick brought to our table 😃 It's also nice how they smiled back at me. ~ Indy spreading the ❤️
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erotictouch4u
12 years ago
Just a wink when she is looking at you to let her know you think she is something special usually gets a smile. ET xox
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RHP User
12 years ago
Fiery...... your profile says you're 50yo. Have you not worked this out by now??? Really???!!!!!....Women are often fielding compliments from strangers on rather shallow aspects of how they look, by rather shallow guys expressing rather shallow words seeking to obtain favourable responses from her. In short, she has been "trained" to respond in a set way, often to reject most guys' loaded offering. It is always better instead compliment a person on something they have ACHEIVED through some degree of effort. It's received and accepted as more sincere as the person has worked for whatever that achievement is and thus feels rewarded for their work being recognized. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Never had it happen to me. And if it did, I would immediately become suspicious. Are they taking the piss? And no, I have never complimented a male I don't know either. I don't enjoy putting myself in those situations! Issues? What issues? ;-)
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madotara69
12 years ago
Meander, I have seen DG exercising his habit for ages, and for all intentions fair and gentlemanly and elementary to hold title as Pussy Whisperer, at times even makes my pussy twinge! (see what I did there) DG has a delicate approach for giving compliment to the fashion of the truth hurts. he he.
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
Giving a compliment brings joy to both. In a world that is so fast paced, a compliment slows time. We allow ourselves the moment to give it & those that receive it, to enjoy it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just the other day I was standing in line at the bank and just as I got to the front of the line the guy standing behind me tapped me on the shoulder and said "I just had to tell you that you have the nicest looking arse I've seen in ages" I didn't know what to do or say lol. Luckily the teller called me over and rescued me. I thanked him and continued about my business. But as I finished and walked out I started thinking about it more. He totally made my day :-D I need to learn how to take a compliment. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
DG, the snide remark at the beginning lets your whole post down. So what if it takes someone a long time to learn? From memory it took you until the end of your marriage to start changing your whole approach to women. I also DO want to be complimented on my looks from time to time. Not all women find it tedious. I don't want creepy but I don't mind, and in fact I enjoy, being told I have a nice smile, nice walk, nice hair etc. Again, as long as it's warm and genuine, not creepy. And no folks, no walking up and whispering in my ear when you're a complete stranger, tyvm! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Fiery...... your profile says you're 50yo. Have you not worked this out by now??? Really???!!!!! Just when I said something nice about your approach to people you had to prove me wrong.
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RHP User
12 years ago
love a sincere compliment?.... Why are we so suspicious?....perhaps we have a fear of "negging''...the backhanded compliment......imagine if we all went through life without anyone ever saying something positive about us and to us....however OP,if you are going to compliment a perfect stranger,a whisper in the ear,is just downright creepy....it's all in the delivery xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
DG that you think of a woman as like Pavlov's dog......pussy whisperer and now trainer of bitches...is there no end to your skills.Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
...you werent thinking it.... and the rest of my post isnt valid. And lilmiss.... no.... it took me the end of my marriage to realise I was WORTH more. Big difference. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
....and the pot and kettle principle applies here, me thinks ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Fiery...... your profile says you're 50yo. Have you not worked this out by now??? Really???!!!!!....Women are often fielding compliments from strangers on rather shallow aspects of how they look, by rather shallow guys expressing rather shallow words seeking to obtain favourable responses from her. In short, she has been "trained" to respond in a set way, often to reject most guys' loaded offering. It is always better instead compliment a person on something they have ACHEIVED through some degree of effort. It's received and accepted as more sincere as the person has worked for whatever that achievement is and thus feels rewarded for their work being recognized. DG On the age remark the type of compliment the reason for giving the compliment
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RHP User
12 years ago
MsElle72 I do not and cannot believe that you have never been complimented on your extreme beauty, but if that was so, it's all about to change when everyone gets to view, the absolutely stunning YOU in your profile.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am happy with nice tits flo from anyone
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RHP User
12 years ago
there I was sitting having a cuppa jo hardly anyone around except the five or six guys that worked in this deli coffee shopit was around five in the morning and a bum came up to the window , where I was sitting and started licking the windowhe yelled out, baby you are a fiiiiiiiine lookin woman. and wandered offthe guys cracked up laughing , and I actually blushed New York City , where men are not afraid to show their feelings
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RHP User
12 years ago
5am is a bit early for a hobo tonguing. Let a NYC girl finish her coffee and bagel first!;-)
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madotara69
12 years ago
Gee whiz you have lovely tits
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RHP User
12 years ago
Flattery will get you everywhere!
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