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February 05 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
I dont. But I did sign up on one site a while back and found plenty of men on there who were also on RHP. Naturally on RHP they are only looking for fun but on the other sites are looking for "the one". I also found that the guys on the other site were not even prepared to begin to chat with me unless I was actually from the same town. It seems that if there is a chance of getting sex...as in...on RHP, they will begin chatting far more readily. As for the one man who was happy to chat to me on this site...but not on the other....you know who you are!
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RHP User
15 years ago
That's just weird. The dudes a freak. What business is it of his? He is treating the whole exercise as a commercial venture. Really, is it any wonder he is single? I mean really? I can't believe the crap people have in their heads. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am on a couple of sites and because Canberra is not such a big town I tend to see the same people on different sites. What I dont like tho is guys who treat you with respect if you are on a particular site. Their emails/txts are quiet polite. However the same guy contacts you on another site such as this one or the fishing one and their contact immediately assumes you are going to rush out and fuck them all night. Yes I like to fuck but a bit of tact would be nice as well. I am the same person no matter what site I am on. Oh and if RHP is ONLY a sex site why do they post testimonials of people who have met their true love????
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RHP User
15 years ago
Did this guy just happen to make sure your glass was perfectly round and "accidentally" roll it for fingerprints with some clear plastic tape? You might suggest that he gets the new iPad app where you just touch the screen and it cross checks you with the Interpol database for immediate identification. | Personally, I would just rather hook up with Mariska Hargitay (Law & Order-SVU) and swap DNA samples....much more conclusive and happy to forward the results of the test to you Miss Saturn. Besides, Mariska looks dangerous to me...and I would go to almost any length to avoid getting caught out in potentially dangerous situation with her. Damn...the polygraph just went off the paper again clear up into the "you are lying your ass off" zone. | Courtesy of the Styx... | Is it any wonder I'm not crazy,is it any wonder I'm sane at all?Well I'm so tired of losing,I got nothing to do and all day to do it,I go out cruisin' but I've no place to go,and all night to get thereIs it any wonder I'm not a criminal?Is it any wonder I'm not in jail?Is it any wonder I've gottoo much time on my hands?| | I just don't have time for being on several sites at once let alone trying cross check and reference the potential candidates. Of course, I am not looking for anything...I prefer the serendipity of finding everything. In this case maybe just tick another box off the list... | ...loser.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'That's just weird. The dudes a freak. What business is it of his? He is treating the whole exercise as a commercial venture. Really, is it any wonder he is single? I mean really? I can't believe the crap people have in their heads. Hugs Stalky He's looking for reasons to judge and/or veto people, not willing to take chances, sounds like a real pessimist. I bet he'll be single a long while
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RHP User
15 years ago
Maybe i'm different (Do like to swim against the current )But i would have tjought that if he crossed checked and found you on the other site, he would have thought"Ok, could be relationship material"then finds out you are also on RHPI would be thinking-"Yee haa, all my Christmases caom at once" hahabut hey thats just me!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I do checsk now.. Just so I know where it all stands. I have had in the past guys who would not date me seriously because I was on RHP..pppftt.. they are too! Guy 1.. Told me in an email that he would never date a girl seriously who is on RHP. He Only would only take a woman seriously if on the other vanilla site. Guy 2. Told me also that could not date me as I was on RHP.. 6 months later I saw he had a profile up here. Guy 3. Again told me no as I was on here. 2 weeks later he has a profile on here with cock shots! oohh... a few months back I ran into him at the supermarket (I had not seen him in over 6 months). We exchanged polite hello's and then a lil while after returning home I received a text saying how nice it was for him to see me again. Then the following day another text asking If I was still on RHP and having naughty fun with it? I never replied back!!! pppfttt..Obvious what he was gettin at in that text. I have had dates with guys from vanilla dating sites. I have been honest and if it looks like it might lead somewhere I tell them I am on here. I told one guy who decided it was the right time to start all the moves ..the sensual kissing .. I had to be honest before anything happened that he should know that I am quite kinky and love MFM.. He asked what that was.. :P I told him and in shock he jumps up and looks at me in disgust announcing that he had not even slept with me and why I am telling him this... I replied that I wish to be honest from the start. He replied .. That he would not even contemplate FMF let alone MFM.. He then ran out the door! Never had a man leave so fast! PMSL!! Ohhh..wait.. there was this guy not long ago that left fast.. Was an MFM.. He cum just as he was putting his condom on...then made an excuse that he had to get back to Perth..Ran out the door..LOL...My friend and I just sat there dazed.. Could not believe that he just did that.. I think if you are on the vanilla dating sites and feel it might lead somewhere then ..yes! tell the guy. On the other hand I have had male friends tell me not to tell the guy too fast as it is a shock to them and they could feel intimidated.. Heaven forbid we women take on our own lives and sexual desires.....hmmmm. huggies sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Hugs to you Miss Saturn! I would have said exactly the same thing to that guy.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Seems to me like this guy doesn't understand women AT ALL. And who has time to try and find people on other sites????As for telling people you are on RHP or like MFM straight up. I understand being honest from the start - I perfer that myself. But you don't have to tell them everything from the start. None of their business really. I think you should wait until you get to know each other a little better (maybe the second date? lol) before the "I am kinky and want to swing from chandlers while being anally fisted" conversation. GOOD LUCK!!xxxMeeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
from chandeliers I mean........ while being double waggied.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'As for telling people you are on RHP or like MFM straight up. I understand being honest from the start - I perfer that myself. But you don't have to tell them everything from the start. None of their business really. I think you should wait until you get to know each other a little better (maybe the second date? lol) before the "I am kinky and want to swing from chandlers while being anally fisted" conversation. GOOD LUCK!!xxxMeekaI absolutely agree with this. I think honesty is good, but appropriate levels of honesty for the situation at hand. I think you can share anything you want with someone, but it the degree of honesty is inappropriate for the situation at hand, than it can get a little creepy. As for this guy, I wonder what he would have done before there were web sites...answer all the personals in all of the newspapers just to make sure his potential date was not double dipping? He sounds like a douche bag to me. I am just sayin'....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Men are creatures sometime we even men find hard to understand . Men would love to have extra marital , side on relationships but would not prefer/like their female counterparts to do the same . Reason - We are wired that way in our heads . Take for instance our nearest animal relatives . Monkeys and Chimpanzee's and the like . They would have many females in their pack which they then protect from outside males but will themselves always look out for more females .Weird !! Nature made us that way
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Seems to me like this guy doesn't understand women AT ALL. there are guys that understand women?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Honestly do men expect us to be sitting at home being a good girl watching tv and cleaning fuck thatI have a high sex drive and am sure Im not alonemy profile stats that Im happy to have fun while Im still singleit doesnt change the person I am and we all have a pastsome a tad more colourful than othersthere are sooooo many judgemental people out theretime for a wake up call to alot of mennothing wrong with being on this site and the other onethats my outburst
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RHP User
15 years ago
In all fairness to the guy... he IS very nice and I will go out again IF he doesn't run for the hills after reading my forum post !!!! (Since I told him I"m on here I'm pretty sure he'll have a look.) I'm not going to stop seeing him because he cross checks. I'm sure we all have flaws or biases, I was just a little surprised. I really don't think how sexually adventurous you are has anything to do with being faithful. Some of the most loyal and loving couples I know are also swingers ! Hugs, Miss Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
Give someone you barely know so much information. It takes me weeks to divulge too much about myself and even then I probably don't give too much away. It takes time to build up a relationship and trust
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RHP User
15 years ago
I was (am) on the vanilla sites in the hope of finding my true love. Then I found RHP and it seemed like the better alternative. I'd love to find someone from RHP to spend my life with. Just like livitruf says, I'd be woohooing too if I found a sexually (as well as intellectually, emotionally) compatible partner. So, checking them out on RHP doesn't seem bad but could actually be a good thing as it gets the "awkward" stuff out the way upfront? Just my warped male mind. Sweetpetite > You know who I am but you have blocked me. I'm still here if yoiu change your mind.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Unfortunately! I have a guy messaging me for a while now and he knows I have no interest in him. But, he has the same attitude as the man you went out with. He sent me a message after I asked him how he was going with meeting anyone and he told me this: < what I find interesting is you find many many females also on RSVP, looking for "a nice guy to spend dinners with, movies and walks along the beach". Yet these same females are on *** seeking 3sums, partner swapping, group sex etc. They even have the same pictures on RSVP and ***, so you KNOW its the same person (yet multiple personalities?). < To which I replied:But, you are like them as well! You must be on RSVP to know they are there as well! I have heard the same complaint from many girls that alot of the guys on here are on RSVP too..wanting the relationship and walks on the beach! Laughable to me actually! < The he said: But im not a paid up member on RSVP. I only went on to read profiles and decided no point in paying if you see the same female on *** with 2 very very different needs. Put it this way, if I was to have a profile on RSVP, I wouldnt have one on *** as they are complete opposites! Kinda shows a person isnt sure what they want in themselves, let alone in what they want in another person. Can you imagine the mind games ? Pfttt !! < I do feel that many men feel that way as I am sure many women feel the same! < I think that it is great that you are giving him another chance...And I wish you luck with it hun xo xFunlovingx PS: Name of Site was replaced with ***
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RHP User
15 years ago
Guys that are pedantic enough to cross check several sites are also the kind of guys to want to control the female in a relationship so be careful of these hypocrites. People shouldn't be judged on the number of sexual partners we have or have not had. I have found that sexual compatibility is just as important as finding the right chemistry when seeking long term relationships. If we care for someone we should like them because of what their experiences have made them and not in spite of their experiences.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Miss_Saturn, If he is checking up on you now, maybe he might get a lot worse if you end up with him. But your right, dont judge him now..just see what happens....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'hazman' Men are creatures sometime we even men find hard to understand . Men would love to have extra marital , side on relationships but would not prefer/like their female counterparts to do the same . Reason - We are wired that way in our heads . Take for instance our nearest animal relatives . Monkeys and Chimpanzee's and the like . They would have many females in their pack which they then protect from outside males but will themselves always look out for more females .Weird !! Nature made us that way Secretly, I love all this monkey sex talk.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
I actually feel like changing my profile on the vanilla site to read something like, "I'm kinky and I'm proud. I have a high sex drive but I'm not a slut. I like to play with others but I only want one man. I've been looking around for awhile now, you'll even find me on another explicit site. I'm looking for love. I'm looking for a relationship. Don't judge me until we've met. " I just prefer to be honest. IF a guy asks me if I'm on other sites, I'm not going to lie ! Why should I ? And what does that say about the possibility of ongoing honesty with him if I did lie ? Sure I wouldn't go into explicit detail about my sexual experiences and practices until after we know each other but I believe we all need to be comfortable with being on RHP and with our sexual side. I'm just looking for a man who will take the cute, fun me with the wild, horny me. Hugs, Saturn
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