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BBW's
June 28 2008
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RHP User
18 years ago
*standing on soapbox*... and applauding LavaGirl. Well spoken, very well put. Hear! Hear! I'll be very interested to hear from some of the 'beautiful people' in reply to Lava. Let's just see who's pretty on the outside and rotten to the core. I already have bets on a few of you... and the others who will go "oh you're so right Lava, too true" and then carry on your merry way, not practicing what you preach. Viking. p.s. always knew you were good people Lava, you are articulate, attractive, funny... what bloke wouldn't want to spend time with you?
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RHP User
18 years ago
How can i not put my thoughts across at this post that needed to be said and shared? You are so right with the words.. " Treat others as you would be treated".. Just cause we have a little more weight than other women.. isnt it more important, that u men should be more attracted to whats inside us?? have been a larger woman all my life.. and i must admit.. i always wished to be slimmer...beautiful.. to walk in a room and people would notice me.. or walk down a street and men would stop and turn and stare....it never happend.. but you know what? thats not important , afterall.. I thought it was..until i met some wonderful people who made me learn and understand.. we are who we are.. its the inside that counts.. and honestly.. men that i have chatted to and met.. tell me always.. a larger woman seems more passionate.. is it true? i believe that i am.. i have many friends.. large , skinny , tall and short ( yes , tina..lolol xxxx) and i love them all dearly...
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RHP User
18 years ago
Most Big Beautiful Women I've been fortunate to meet have had much to admire, and often been most blessed in personality. A great counter weight when they compete with their more fashionably shaped sisters. The flip side of this coin are the less fortunate BUM's (Big Ugly Men), who too may have hearts of gold... but are often left out in the cold. So many cuddle worthy people, but not all are embraced.
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RHP User
18 years ago
my first net shagg buddy was a wonder full woman who was a genunie size 18+. rolls and celutlite with all the trimmings. but for about 3 months she inspired me to do shit that made me want to stand on the end of the bed beeting chest and howl.. we dont chatt all that much any more but we both send the occasional "how are you going? hope your well message/phone call".. i had a wonderful learning experiance.. and she had her spar heater, her kitchne cupards and her television antena fixed... LOL but having said that... i have to say my taste is an athletic figure. i really dont find fat and the hang ups that often come with it very atractive. and no i don't feel guilty about liking a more svelt woman.. but i'f i really like somone i'll curl up with them pretty comfortably anyway.. so... shallow or not?.. or just not part of your generalisation.?? and why did you want to post this? LRE (pondering)
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RHP User
18 years ago
Well done Lava. You will find the ones that are often picky no matter if ya big, small, etc etc, are the ones actually that don't have anything really to offer themselves. That is, what ever fault they have seemed to pick out in you, they have a fault that is a lot more unattractive. Yep arrogance is a big one. Good for you. Mwah. Miss Honey
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RHP User
18 years ago
i love BBW ladies they float my boat, nay my flotilla - i mean if ya wanted something skinny ya would nip down to bunnings and buy a plank and then drill a hole in it big girls you are my world and im proud to say so Kaled - My master comands me
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RHP User
17 years ago
well said lavagirl....... it is the inner beauty that really counts, the heart and soul of a person, the body is just packaging to keep it all safe.... for goodness sake, Keep the soapbox.......lol SuziB
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RHP User
17 years ago
Lava, I can only speak for myself but as you, I like to think I have matured enough over the years to appreciate the total package. I have met very attractive women who I would rather poke my eyes out with a blunt pencil then spend any time with. I have met larger women that will light up a room with there presence. I know which I would rather spend time with. I personally do not like the acronum "BBW" but accept that when used as a shott descriptor, like blonde hair etc is OK. I refuse to use the term as a means of naming a section of the women population. I see that ladies of stature have accepted the term and taken it as there own. I do not see the need to define these ladies as a group because the term BBW dosn't say any thing about thier character or activities or any other usefull information. We may as well have other useless charaterisations; Inies and outies --belly bottons, nipples Lobed or non-lobed -- people with earlobes and us normal people. Go for your life people I am sure we can find alot of other useless physical characteristic with which to separate and demonize people we don't know. Soap Box back to Lava. Peace Ed
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RHP User
17 years ago
Although i agree with lava and the similar comments posted here... i do think it all comes down to preference.. and isnt that what makes us individuals Let celebrate our individualness... some comments have been very 'down' on attractive and slim women... i say lets just love them all.. and shag the ones that turn us on .. Now can we all do this without saying anything negative about the ones who dont 'float our boats' I have my preferences.. but thats for me to deal with .. and i appreciate a guy who can honestly tell me ... i like you but you just dont do it for me.. gotta love all people for who they are.. Angie xxx
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RHP User
17 years ago
Errrmmmm, NO, I' d have to say I HAVEN'T. Actually, I haven't had sex with anyone over a size 10 - possible a slim size 12 on a particularly bloated day. I haven't had sex with a fella, a cross-dressin Transvestite, a dwarf, a girl with big Dumbo ears and crossed eyes, either. Why...merely because I'm not really attracted to those qualities. Would I condemn a person for having something that doesn't appeal to me sexually???>>>--------------------->NO, of course not. Would I have a friendship with a person thats overweight, has 20 chins, one leg/NO legs, a cleft palate, a palate that favours eatin toasted green tree frogs whilst listenin to Dixie-land jaz, fukk YEAH, I would. It would make NO difference whatsoever to me. Friendship is based on whats on the inside. For me, personally, physical attributes, - or lack thereof - have absolutely NO relevance to the friendship issue. One of my all-time best friends is a 4' dwarf, who has a wit & intellect that is scary, and (indirectly) makes me feel a little inferior. Is any of this a prob???? ummmmmmm, NO, not at all, We learn from eachother. He pokes the odd (humoured) jibe at me with no consequences whatsoever except a shared laff at my expense. Not really my style of post, so I'll jus saunter orf all quiet-like >>>---------------------->sauntering...saunter, saunter ~~F~~ **Hasn't this issue been flogged to death already, without any good coming from it??? Its like the Gaza strip of body shape/sexual preferences, isn't it. Casualties on both sides, and quite self-perpetuating, with little chance of a compromise or cease-fire. Wouldn't it be better to just let it be, and agree to DIS-agree**
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RHP User
17 years ago
I would be lying if I said I loved all men - some packages are just not that pleasant to unwrap. Joanna
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RHP User
17 years ago
think the whole "you should love somone for what's inside them" thing actualy a bit politaly correct.. why you are attracted to somone is you own choice. atraction comes in many forms, physical, social, ceribreal, finacial and reciprocative... (just off the top of my head but if you think about it i bet there is more).. why you find somone atractive is your bussines.. and ppl should not look down on you because they see things differently. eg. twice in my life i've be dumped because i was no finacialy attracive enough. but that was her choice and who am i to tell my partner they should live a simple life with a bloke who is happy owning an old house and driving an old car. not mine.. and good luck to both of them. i will not look down on either of them for not finding me attractive enough in the way they wanted. i really feel that if somone wants to base attracion on the physical aspects of somone, good luck to them. it's their bussines and not for us to judge or complain about. LRE (fighting for freedom of attraction)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Life is sometimes about square pegs trying to fit into round holes. Not everyone is a perfect fit. How much easier we would fit if both sexes maintained their youthful good looks and athletic figures. We all tend to be choosy in some way, unless one is acting out of desperation. The fact that men will continue to have sex with larger women is a bonus, but I often wonder about their motivation. In my case, it's not so much my body appearance that worries me, but the consequences of the bonus baggage. The back is not what it used to be and I don't equate the bad effects of knee arthritis with the usual notions of pleasure and pain. The joy of being a young filly at the beach in a two piece is long gone as the reality of years of sun exposure, dish washing hands, child bearing and distended boobs and buttocks has turned me into an aged mare. I no longer have any expectation of attracting young men, though it does not stop them from flirting on this site. I gather Lava is also somewhat cynical of the male motivation, but if pleasure is the byproduct, who is complaining. But more importantly, if you have found enjoyable company and true friendship, then more power to you. Life is for living, so may there be many years of joy yet to come.
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RHP User
17 years ago
All we will say, is everyone one was the same the world would be a very boring place. Hillbillies
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RHP User
17 years ago
If everyone lived in Beverly Hills and could afford the cosmetic benefits of Dr 90210, then my bet is that many women would have breasts the size of hot air balloons, lips the size of bananas and an inability to smile resulting from excessive botox injections. Thank goodness for natural women. Please correct me if I'm wrong, but I would imagine one could romp with Lava all day without fear of a silicon leakage. You don't want a slight bump on the nose to undo hours of sculpturing work under the knife, or pinch her bottom to find it contains a plastic implant. Until they perfect stem cell applications, and can reverse the aging process, or dissolve excessive fat deposits without need of a pump, we're all stuck with the inevitable. So the beautiful people should make hay while the sun shines, as the sands of time in the hour glass is only finite... and I do hope the rest of us keep getting lucky.
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RHP User
17 years ago
My mother, her mother and her sister where all very large women so it was in my genes to follow on the legacy. My mother changed that for me, from a very early age she changed our lifestye fed me the proper foods blah blah blah,,but never ever put herself down.. My childhood memories of these 3 women are full of joy and laughter. I am slim built thanks to my mother but i could have easily taken on after her. Mum lost a bit of weight while i was growing up. But now, shes back to the size she was when i was a girl.. and she is at her happiest. My father never stopped loving her regardless of what size she was.. He has passed now but my mum still finds lots to laugh about it is in her jolly nature. I have 2 brothers one slim and one took on after mum, he has the most beautiful 'slim' wife who adores him and they have 2 beautiful 'thin' children no one has ever ever referred to or discussed or even cares about anyones size in our family or our circle of friends. So for me there is never and should never be an issue about ppl based on size.. I have read some posts in here lately put in by some very unlikeable thin ppl whos intent seems to be purposefully to get under ppls skin.. others have given them the attention they seek by responding ( not that i blame them) This is how ppl should be judged PPl are who they are.. and thin or large my mothers frame of mind never changed... Love u mum !! xxxx oops dont tell her im on rhp lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
to you my sweet.... the best reply to a post i have read so far.. hope your mum is proud of you.. because if you were my daughter....i would be... congrats xxxxxxxxxxxxx tinks xx
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RHP User
17 years ago
well write it down in the history books, as im about to apologise to all the skinny people who may have been upset by my previous comments. and i do have skinny friends and enjoy the company of skinny people, but the fact is i get a cubby over chubby - lol bad pun... truth is i do like BBW's i just wish that people would be happy for you when you find that special person, and not say the "you can do better" line or similar. its intresting how our paradigms have changed, yesteryear if a girls ribs were sticking out she would be treated as being ill etc now its (apparently) the height of fashion, so i look at it that some women are under weight... Kaled - Bringing destruction to the Earth, and the death of the Doctor!!!
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Firery
17 years ago
Firstly this is Mr Lucky posting this, his thoughts only. The word slim used in different terminology, you have a slim chance of getting that, or size for the thinner than average person. Used in the first context its fine, used in the second context its fine. Now the word Large, you have a large house, you are a large person. Used in the first context its fine, used in the second context whoa watch out. Another way to present it, Skinny, very lean or thin; emaciated. Say to someone you are a Skinny person and its fine. Now the word Fat, obese, a fat person. Say this to someone and whoa watch out again. The point I am trying to make is this, if people are happy and comfortable with themselves, like I read from some in here then where is the problem. We are what we are and if we are happy then why take offence. Maybe its because thin people take it as a compliment being called Skinny even though it means Emaciated, Yes calling someone Fat is not a compliment. You can not have it both ways either both words are offensive or both words are not. To me life is what YOU make it, Life can be cruel at times, but we all make the best of it and get on with it.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Thank God we are ALL UNIQUE...... How bad would it be if we all liked the same.... I am ME..... Big,small or otherwise.....( I know what & who I am) Like yourself & other will see your beauty..... My Motto is: My body is my Transport...we have to get around someway My fACE is MINE & probably tests others ....like or dislike.... It took me 99years to get where I am today & Im loving it.... Small minded ppl that want to JUDGE others, for whatever reason... Let them...... Coz in the long run they are the ones missing out..... When I meet new ppl, I say, regardless if there is a "CLICK" or not.... "I have just met someone I didnt know yesterday" Lets all enjoy LIFE for what it is & the ppl in it.... Soapbox just deflated...... dazichane
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RHP User
17 years ago
charming kaled, seems not only do guys have a thing against skinny girls but large ladies as well. Now i remember a post that has been pulled when i said a tongue in cheek comment about large ladies, wonder if the skinny ladies in here will have a go at you or brush it aside, or if any of the larger ladies in here will go against what he said about us, lmao, i highly doubt it. All i can say is i found your comment to be extremely rude. Nibbles
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RHP User
17 years ago
Wow well said ! and well written girl xx I agree with tinks ur mother is a very lucky woman to have u for a daughter and u are just as lucky to have her as a mother - infact i wish ur whole family the happiness that they deserve lol ... awesome post luv xx
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RHP User
17 years ago
How dare you compare skinny girls to a piece of board from Bunnings, that is absolutely distgusting. I have to agree with Missnibbles and feel what you said to be totally unbecoming. And did wonder if she would be supported in here by the other ladies now that someone has gone against thin women. So tina,enjoynlife, tinks, lava, vikingbitch and whoever else attacked her, you all going to sit back and take it or you going to stick up for the skinny ladies in here?? or because it came from a certain lady you all disagreed with let this one go by???Hmmm Mrs H
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RHP User
17 years ago
and as far as i can tell.. not happy with that at all... sadly.. the other side of the coin is.. she's a great cook.. and NIBBLES.. listen here missy. you were not offended by kaleds plank joke at all.. i do not belive that for a minute, or an hour, or even a day. sheesh.. infact i doubt you've ever been offended by anything.. well.. maybe old butter in the jam jar.. LRE (off to clean out the jam)
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RHP User
17 years ago
I agree with some and not with others... but thats the way it is.. LOL The great thing about this place, is that there is a huge variety of people of all shapes and sizes.. The whole different strokes for different folks kinda thing.. It does though bug me when girls get upset about guys not being interested in them due to their size.. We all like and find different things attractive in another person... So some are not interested in meeting up with a bigger than average girl.. Move on.. They are not worth your time or energy anyway.. I mean, if you could convince them to meet you.. would that make you feel better?? Or would it be better to wait and meet someone who is more into you?? I know which I would prefer.... I meet people all the time.. yep, I've had people not be interested in meeting socially or otherwise because I am above average in size.. Really.. Thats their loss.. not mine... Majick
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RHP User
17 years ago
My last partner was a BBW and I enjoyed pleasing her whenever possible. Although I do look at slim girls aswell I am sure all guys do to me nothing beats being with a BBW. It would be wrong of me not to like BBW as I believe I am a BBM or Big Beautiful Male. As the song goes by Mika Big Girls (You are beautiful). Just my 10cents worth.
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RHP User
17 years ago
attack???? who? the young miss know it all who offended people? i don't think any one.. male or female should offend anyone... thats all i have to say...
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RHP User
17 years ago
Yeh i was gonna let this one go cause to b honest wif u i am sick of this fukn topic...how many ppl have bn insulted and hurt along the way wif the current and previous posts?!?!?! I dont get offended nor insulted if someone calls me skinny, fat woteva...i am the size and shape i am, that is me. However i dont take to others bein directly insulted or degraded, its unfair and unnecessary. So b4 i rant n rave i shall leave it here...cause i cld truly speak my mind if i wanted to, but have chosen to no longer respond to these topics.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Beauty exists at any size, and there are people who are attracted to every size of woman, different strokes for different folks as they say. Some men love skinny women, some men love more of an athletic build, some men love women with big breasts and wider hips, some men like women that are BBW. There is attractions for all sizes of women! In my opinion, regardless of the size of a woman there are a couple of things that make a woman attractive:- 1. That a woman is healthy - Good health looks great on a person 2. That a woman loves herself as she is, this in turn brings confidence and a confident lady exudes sex appeal. If you want a man to notice you (regardless of size), be confident and feel sexy. There are men who will be very attracted and turned on by how you carry yourself and how you present yourself. If you are down on your body and your beauty it’s like a signal, guys will pick up on it and steer clear. It doesn’t make a man shallow that he has a preference, he is only shallow if he judges a woman on why they are who they are! For the record I am happy to and do have friends who are on the larger size but when it comes to a sexual preference I like women who are in the mid range say a size 10-14. DJ
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RHP User
17 years ago
was going to let this pass... but your comment was very rude and offending to all slim women... we are all beautiful women...size does not matter... lolol...is it the same as men's doodles??? ooooooooooooooopss
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RHP User
17 years ago
When I posted this topic I must admit it was aimed at one person in particular in reference to a comment made in that now infamously deleted topic.....however I also wanted the comment put out there...... TREAT PEOPLE AS PEOPLE.......YES WE ARE INDIVIDUAL.......YES WE ARE UNIQUE.......YES WE ARE ALL SPECIAL IN OUR OWN WAYS......NO WE DONT APPEAL TO EVERYONE (thank god or there would be more shit fights over guys/girls etc than there already seems to be !!!)...BUT DONT DISCARD US (BBW / BBM) BEFORE GIVING US A CHANCE.... These are comments not to be ignored and my post never suggested anything to the contrary. The essence of my post was for guys to not ignore the BBW.....but not to the detriment of anyone on this site. Hillbillies......obviously you failed to read my post in the previous, now deleted topic, where I in fact defended the skinny girls....my beef was in fact with missnibbles alone and her comment which caused my heckles to rise..... This site has become one of late where it seems to be a competition to see who can jump on the bandwagon and have a go at someone else....another point to my original post here.... For god sake people.....grow up and if you dont have a positive or constructive post to add then dont bother adding anything.....all bagging someone else does is causes everyones heckles to rise...sides to be taken and unnecessary hurt to be caused from an innocent posting. Missnibbles....I must admit you did get my back up somewhat the other day and I said my piece aimed only at you.....and my advice was simply to say back off and think about what you say before you create more enemeies than you have a need for on this site....I am therefore being grown up enough to apologise for anything I may have said that offended and hope you may have the decency to do the same....even if only to me. This site has many close friendships forming through social events and these ppl do tend to stick up for those they like and feel for.....This post and the previous has made me aware of exactly how many friends I truly do have on rhp....friends I am honoured to have. Missnibbles give yourself a chance to find these friendships also.....dont be known as the one who shits everyone off!! Maybe go some of the way to fixing this image that has been created about you...by apologising.....(just a thought.) Lets get the forums back to the light hearted, witty place it used to be.....maybe we all need to take a break from here for a whole and let things cool down...it was never my intention to stir the pot and create a them vs us mentality. Thanks to those who answered with constructive and feedback appropriate to the topic, I appreciate your candidness and honesty.... Thank you to Mutual for not mocking the topic as you have a tendency to do with "serious" topics and treating it with respect, I appreciate it and welcome you as a friend anyday!!!! Lets all put our cat claws away ..... Lava xxx
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Firery
17 years ago
More than one comment in that famously deleted post were un acceptable. One that springs to mind is "hold my legs I am going in" and remarks similar to "there is an echo in here". These sort of comments DO vilify and defame people and were totally uncalled for, the person who said them shows NO RESPECT for females at all.
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RHP User
17 years ago
You don't know my arse from a hole-in-the-ground, yet continue to shadow my posts and ramblings. Some things are lost on SOME people, and thats where YOU enter stage right--------------------------------------->>>lookie, its LukkyTwo!!! In future I'm going to close my eyes ans scroll past your posts, and DEF' not read 'em...I suggest that YOU do the same with mine, eh. I won't be responding, so please DON'T bother putting fingers to keys, ok, it'll be a wasted effort on your part. ~~F~~ *It takes ALL sorts, I suppose**
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RHP User
17 years ago
I dont like mushrooms or tripe or even oysters and scallops. In fact I can say I hate them all big or small. But thats ok isnt it cause these types of things dont have feelings all bar the tripe and would never go up to a cow and say I hated her tripe cause she would get upset. I wait for her to be killed before I tell her. The only one whether living or dead that I would tell I hate would be a mushroom but even then thats sad isnt it....... kept in the dark fed on bullshit and then me tell them I hate them that would be to much I mean if I was a mushroom I wouldnt like it. So to all those foods I hate I dont really I just choose not to put ya's in me mouth. Is this the same as BBW?
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RHP User
17 years ago
I say this , and i say it again.. your post sais it all.. and this last effort of yours.. was so right.. am glad to be your friend in the REAL world. and always respect you for u are a amazing woman... xxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hillbillies/missnibbles whats with this 'fat/thin fat/thin thing that u keep insisting on following around the forums. Let it go for goodness sakes. Hillbillies I have read some of ur posts from previously they dont go back far so I assume u havent been around for long but u seem to go into most of the posts with the intent of provoking someone. Then along comes missnibbles sounding exactly the same. Are u related? sisters or something with the same anger management problems? or could it be that u are the same person even? hmm? I dont know why ppl are responding to things that u say, this only urges u on. I will sit back now and wait for the tyrade of abuse from 'both of you' but us can rest assured i will not be fueling your fire with a response I will continue to read the forums and add only positive responses. Thank you for your time Heaven
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RHP User
17 years ago
Heavensent, firstly no we do not know Missnibbles, never met her but felt that some of her things she said were unjust and some unfairly taken wrongly by other people, and secondly we are not new to this site. And thirdly if we have something to say re a topic it is our right, like anyone elses in here. If we come across as stirrers to you then i am sorry you feel that way. We know a number of people personally from here and i can honestly say we are not out to get at any particular person or persons. If we happen to respond to a topic that has been discussed before so what, ive noticed a few others have as well. If you dont like what we say, so be it, but there is no need to generalise us to any specific topic and that we are out to get people. Hillbillies
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RHP User
17 years ago
Oh and heaven why do you say "sit back and wait abuse from both of you" talking for ourselves, we have and will never abuse anyone on this site, we do not need to stoop to that level of behaviour. Mrs H
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RHP User
17 years ago
Did I hear my name called? someone was asking for abuse? That's my department This post has been sniped ZZ
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RHP User
17 years ago
Thank you very much to the person who didn't let me down regarding the bitchy comments. Wooohooo.... love winnin' money Viking
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RHP User
17 years ago
Lava, I think where it all went pear shaped was in your original post. You generalized and boxed all men in the same catagory, as BBW haters. That was wrong, and I believe you alluded to that in a later post you were aiming at one man in particular? However, being a 'male', I was generally offended by your post as it appeared I was in your sights for simply being male, and lets not forget that men arent the only ones who are guilty of this, dare I mention the 'H' word? Yes, Hypocracy? Im not aiming at you Lava, what I am getting at is that women (In general LOL) can be just as bad! For example, I am a man of mature foliage, ok, Im a walking carpet, and when a lady says, sorry, your not my type, Im not into hairy chests, I dont jump onto a public forum and fire a broadside at women. Its simplay a matter of, "ok, thats your choice, I will find a lady who is". I can understand your passion in this post, as I saw the other offending post and wasnt impressed either, but I think in this case you let your emotions get the better of your judgement here and you may have acted before cooling down? Dont get me wrong, I was appalled at what was written as well, but tarring people with the same brush just invites trouble, wouldnt you agree?
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RHP User
17 years ago
Have I missed something????? I think so???? Thought this was a genuine post, but now looks like a bitchin session...... Firstly I have never seen any comments in chat from any guys having a go at BBW's... Or wasnt I there that day????? Now this post looks like its just a bitching session aimed at a few ppl...... Be nice!!!! There is "LIFE" outside RedHotPie FFS (an abreviation I hate) dazi
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RHP User
17 years ago
It is a shame that some ppl think that it is ok to see us, but dare not tell anyone or go out in public with them and show some affection. And to think that just because we are large we are desperate and will take anything that is passing by. Even if that person is drunk and off there head on drugs and a mass murderer.
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RHP User
17 years ago
so i told ya what I dont like isnt what the post is about. Now correct me if I am wrong but BBW BMW FFS they all just letters after all, arranged in a different order sequence combination. Just like mushrooms poor little darlings. Now to all them BBW's out there dont get too comfortable what if someone took away your 'W' then you be a big brother. Or take away a 'B' and ya be left with BW hmmmmmm now what can I make of that....... HELP!!!!!! Someone please help me
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RHP User
17 years ago
Lava i am sorry if i upset you in anyway and appreciate your apology. To the others who had a go at me about something i said and took it seriously, nope an apology will not be given out and why should it be. Until they realise that attacking someone in here is malicious and uncalled for "gang behaviour", how about you all having a go at kaled for his comment or does he get away with it due to you all knowing him. And tinks thanks for backing up us skinny ladies, at least someone has the decency to do so. Nibbles
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RHP User
17 years ago
Thanx for your comments but they are not really on the mark..... Fortunately/unfortunately have a very close friend who is a male on rhp and prior to posting this topic, I discussed my concerns about the previous post and comments made and to my need to post this current topic. He then alluded to comments made in the male inner sanctum regarding this very topic....comments made by men to men about fat chicks. While he never gave me exact comments nor did he mention the authors, he did in fact agree with me and the fact that this topic needed to be posted. So yes, while I alluded to men in general, I very clearly stated at the bottom of the post that those who were guilty of the "offence" would know who they were.....and those who were up for nasty comments for the sake of it would also do exactly that..posted a comment. I also have no intention of defending myself on this topic....no I wasnt emotional at the time nor am I now..... I am simply a woman who has kept her mouth shut on so many controversial topics of late and felt the need to voice her opinion, yes on behalf of BBW's but also on behalf of women in general.... I will also continue to voice my opinion to this extent on topics I feel strongly about. I am also extremely disappointed that a topic of this nature has turned into a shit fight of us vs them....and has become a venue for ppl to have a go at each other....pity a topic can not be added and discussed without digression! Think I have just about had my say on this topic and this post...I realise there will be more posts and unless something grates on me personally will not post here again. Lava xx
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RHP User
17 years ago
Missnibbles ( or whoever) thanks for the flirt lol - ' I noticed you notice me and now I've noticed you " ..... a bit unusual to say the least under the circumstances lmao but sorry hunny im straight - or was there a hidden inuendo there. hmm? Heaven
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RHP User
17 years ago
I am BBW and I decided I couuld use it as material for a song. Here it is, hope you enjoy it (I am hoping to get the chance to play it when I'm in Perth next month) MURRUMBIDGE MAID I’m a Murrumbidgee Maid and I ain’t getting laid And I wonder what it is that I should do Should I have a breast reduction Or a bit of liposuction And maybe then I’d get myself a screw I went out with a very nice guy, but he was rather shy And when it came to lovin’ Didn’t know how it was done While kissing is okay, at the end of the day I know myself & I want a bit more fun I found myself a sophisticate He took me on a wonderful date We went back to his place for a wine I thought my luck had changed but he was quite deranged And he tried to tie me up with bailing twine Chorus Now I’m getting older and I’m also getting bolder when it comes to love and the pleasures of the flesh Young man are rather raunchy and they don’t mind me paunchy my experience to them is new and fresh Chorus I"m a Murumbidgee Maid and now I'm getting laid and there was nothing that I had to do Didn't have no breast reduction no bit of liposuction Thank god young men they like to screw yes every now and then I get a screw Cheers Happy loving Wilds
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RHP User
17 years ago
Lava U dont owe anyone an apology ,, this large V slim has gotten way out of line.. Any person who thinks they are better than anyone else for what ever reason, needs to take a good long look at themselves.. Large or small - it is whats inside that is most important. these ppl dont have a lot of grey matter between their ears and unfortunately are so shallow minded they will forever fail to see the error of their ways.. Thanks for lunch hun lol luv ya xxxxx
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deltoid
17 years ago
I have no idea as to what the remarks that were taken to be offensive in the first place, but a couple of points I would like to make First off a person who feels the need to make offensive remarks about a persons appearance is a loser. Especially in the case of a guy making these type of comments and considering the female to male ratio here. I would have thought it would be a good way for women who may come across this type of abuse to work out who the losers are. So unless you want to play the victim, stick these losers on ignore, and concentrate on the ample number of other decent guys to choose from. Of course abusing some one about the way they look is different to saying they are not interested in a particular type person, we are all attracted to different things. There are countless female profiles here were the woman clearly states she is not interested in guys under 6 foot or who are not hung with 9 plus inches. These comments appear to be OK, but it is not OK for a guy to state he is not interested in a woman over size 12. A simple fact is regardless of what we look like or the type of person we are there is always going to be people we do not appeal to. So if someone gives you abuse about your weight, ignore them there are plenty of others to choose from. However any woman who gets upset over a guy simply saying they are not interested in bigger women, it is probably an indication that they are not as happy about their size that they claim to be. and for the record, yes I am more attracted to a woman with a trim athletic body but this is only one aspect of a person I look for.
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RHP User
17 years ago
well okay, where to start i have to thank the "bear" for pointing out that old chestnut Hypocracy!!! so how many times have i been told im not okay coz im a bit portly, or im a tad hairy, or im too short ffs chicks are just as bad as blokes it would be intresting to see the reasponse if i sent a flirt to those who were offended, i can guess!!! not hard really - it makes ya think tho doesnt it. i mean i spose ya have to look good on a birds arm when she parading you thru the shopping centre or some other neuvo riche pompass show and tell i guess i cant compete with what the facist media prints and portray life how they want us to live, shame Stalin lost coz then portly men with facial hair would be cool... toodles had my say thx Kaled - inspired to do something
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RHP User
17 years ago
So....have we done this topic to death yet? Should we all get back to what we came here for. Go meet some sexy, fun, open-minded people. Whatever size and shape you prefer. Hope you all have an awesome & sexy day! xxx
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RHP User
17 years ago
Theres not a person here that should explain why their attractions are what they are , its not an optional thing !! its how we are , could you feel attracted to a chair , if you choose to ,?? NO !!, not sober anyway !!! We are all built differently , mostly , we are all attracted to different things , but one thing we all have that is identical , and that is FEELINGS !!! No reason why we all cant pursue our attractions , and be mindful of other peoples feelings . Like yourself !!.......Laugh !!......Dont be so serious !!! ~~~Horrible~~~ * Its ok to make bald jokes,.........jus not in front of the bald guy !!!
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RHP User
17 years ago
Loves the bald guy, he makes me laugh. Viking
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