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Attraction... isnt it great.......

October 29 2010

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Today' at a predestrian crossing' this gorgeous looking girl on the opposite side the road caught my eye. I know its rude to stare but I couldnt help myself.. she was lovely.. In a moment' I caught her attention and our eyes momentarily locked ' and it felt like there was some sort of silent messages being sent back and forth.. It was so raw and almost animalistic like.. As we walked towards each other we both smiled in acknowledgement .. When I reached the other side of the road' I just had to turn around for another look.. she continued walking but turned several times giving a knowing smile.. I felt like a teenager al over again...lol This got me thinking about how this all works... Both male and females either subconsiously or consiously spend quite alot of time grooming themselves to attract the opposite sex' and in most cases nothing happens.. Then' on a day when you drop your guard and have your daggy clothes on then something happens like what happened to me today. Naturally' there are heaps of other people who have had the same experience. So what was your reaction.. Did you act on it or just put it down to one of them things. ? Mr JJ

Comments

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    15 years ago

    Hey Mr JJ....Interesting post.......Yes I'm sure most people have come across this situation....Although i often look for eye contact with random people and smile, hoping to receive one in return........The times that i have felt an out of the blue attraction on both sides....I am usually to overcome by emotion to act on it....or maybe it's just shyness etc ?.....But it has left me wondering WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN.?...."Sigh ".....as I'm sure your the same !.....Should we have approached them ?....given them a phone number ?.........I suppose we missed out Mr JJ Damn i Hate Missing Out !!!!!!.......Or are we happy having it as a fantasy ???.....Hmmmmm ? Tam Ponders !!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I love that invisible line between two people. Its raw & magnetic. Happened a while ago with me at work we were chatting & flirting...It was almost tangible, so hot! But then I mentioned kids & hubby and he shut it down. Lol...Dont blame him but wish I could tell him what we really like to do when the lights go out! Mrs H xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    And to answer your question....It will probably remain a fantasy. But who knows Im open to the idea! Sometimes these things work better as fantasies....and make work more interesting now!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Being over 40, I keep having to recalibrate my radar. Oggeling young females would have me branded a pervert. Smiling at females closer to my age has them quickening their step and looking at the pavement. Might need to change my aftershave. . . .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I think a lot of people...(I do any way) look at others who they think are attractive for some reciprocal attention, whether verbal or visual, smile or hello etc etc... So many people today walk around like they are looking for $100 bills lying on the footpath... I love looking at people male and female, and its so cheeky when they notice that you are looking and they acknowledge that.... there are some real nice people out there, I dont mean the porn star wannabees, prefer the real kind.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    A girlfriend of mine acted on her attraction and now they are married. She was out drinking with friends and kept checking out this guy at the bar, and he kept checking her out. When she was leaving she looked one more time, walked out the door then turned around walked up to the guy and gave him her number and said "call me". He did and the rest is history. I wish I could be as brave as her........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I always smile and make eye contact with the guys giving me a once over. Sometimes I even wink at them. It's even better when I do it when I am with my boyfriend. Best of all is when he smiles at them for checking me out and they get embarrassed. It's also funny to watch the girls when the situation is reversed. They seem amazed that I don't object to his perving at them. I take it as a compliment that someone thinks I am attractive enough to stare at and a return smile costs nothing. Keep smiling and perving!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I work as a traffic controller, yeah i know boo hiss, and been working the same piece of road now for nearly 3 weeks, and you get to know the local cars quite well, and every time this one particular lady drives past she always gives a huge smile and a wave, on tuesday she was stopped at the front of the line, when a passenger window went down and she handed me her phone number and said i drive past you every day call me and say hello, OK called her that night and went on a meet and great last night and all seemed to go pretty well

  • bondage_reality

    bondage_reality

    15 years ago

    Was the other woman an RHP chatter n is reading this n thinking ......HMMM was this written by the hottie I saw today

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yea' You're right Tam.. WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN.. It all happened so quickly I didnt have time to think straight.. I was probally that high from the whole experience ' my brain and common sense didnt kick in til afterwards.. By then the moment had passed and had me pondering what if ' .. Im not usually too shy when it comes to chatting. but this time I felt goob smacked and like I said ' I felt like a teenager all over again... lol.. Naturally I will have my eyes peeled next time Im in the same area and who knows ?? In regards to aftershave' No' I didnt have any on at the time and only wear it on the odd occassion anyway' so it was a pretty raw experience....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yea' You're right Tam.. WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN.. It all happened so quickly I didnt have time to think straight.. I was probally that high from the whole experience ' my brain and common sense didnt kick in til afterwards.. By then the moment had passed and had me pondering what if ' .. Im not usually too shy when it comes to chatting. but this time I felt goob smacked and like I said ' I felt like a teenager all over again... lol.. Naturally I will have my eyes peeled next time Im in the same area and who knows ?? In regards to aftershave' No' I didnt have any on at the time and only wear it on the odd occassion anyway' so it was a pretty raw experience....