Attached Couples v Play Couples

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  SpicyKale

  6 years ago

  Really good question... We're more of a meet first, play later if we all like each other type of couple. Our preference has been ongoing friendships, maybe because meeting new people can be a bit stressful for a pair of introverts... in saying that, with the year we've had we haven't been great at that either! Sorry to our friends 😬So, maybe people that have a similar style to us see a fwb couple as a bit of a risk? Honestly though it's probably something we're softening on, people come and go through our life and it might be something we'd contemplate going forward. Putting a line in the sand and saying we're never going there isn't really healthy anyway... except for safe sex, that one's non negotiable! Anyway, your profile is banging and you couldn't be clearer about your situation if you tried. You'll have a lot of luck on here at a guess, everyone is looking for something a bit different anyway. Try getting along to one of the clubs over there, things can be a bit more in the moment in that sort of environment. OSS is really worth a visit! Good luck with it!

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  Sawadee

  6 years ago

  2 couples , 1 married ' and the other a single couple.. But the married couple are not interested in playing with the single couple ? What difference should that make ? That's really bizzare.. ? or am I missing something ?,

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  madotara69

  6 years ago

  And thoughtless snubs, are but the echoes of a small and frightened person. Such a shame. Nothing shameful with the friendship you guy’s have, perhaps an insecurity has arisen and under the attached idea, some kind of safety net eases the problem. Which may not necessarily be you two. Something though, when we play up.. I myself get aroused by being with Tara and sharing each experience, none the same, the sex is always different, but I love Tara, she is my best friend, without her I’d be a lost puppy 🐶 With her though, I’m awesome because she makes me feel like I am. Getting aroused while sharing is an almighty sexual high, it’s what most folk enjoy expressing when playing up with them, or him, or her. Sharing the love, it’d be a shame to foresake all and everything love is, under the vails of the teen eyed monster. Mado Mado Tara xx

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  SpicyKale

  6 years ago

  Hmm, looking at a few of those replies I'll clarify part of that. It was more of a time management tool with us, as harsh as that sounds. We just weren't interested in investing time in a couple that might not be around in a fortnight. The more time we've spent doing this our opinions on this have changed. Sawadee, I might be missing something, but I'd be guessing there's some out there that find their relationship threatened by singles. Maybe the fear of losing their significant other! If people are coming to swinging with that mindset there might be other issues they need to iron out first. In saying that, this lifestyle is a huge step out of the social norm for most of us. If married couples playing with other married couples is how some need to operate, who are we to judge. There's plenty of others out there that would be more than happy to take up the OPs offer 🤷‍♂️

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  usnow

  6 years ago

  The main problem we find is availability .Two separate families , kids etc .It becomes very difficult to find them both free .

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  It just takes time and understanding, it can happen just don’t give up 😊

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  SSExplorer

  6 years ago

  I don’t think it precludes anything so long as everything is up front. There is a difference in the chemistry of 2 couples sharing their most beloved partners but FWB can be fun too. It’s all about being authentic and of the sparks are there then the fun begins.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  You two sound great- awesome profile Best of luck finding what your hearts desire

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  We like the connection a couple have between them not their status!As long as people are respectful and follow consent we dont mind.We have made some great friends with married couples and some FWB.Enjoy yourselves and people will find all sorts of reasons to say no!

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  Sawadee

  6 years ago

  To me ' if 2 couples are attracted wether they're married or not ' i dont see a issue.. Until you give them a chance ' how do you know if its a goer or not ? OK, I can understand if theres no attraction or theres a personality miss match.. Then its a pass, ? I once slept with a girl I wasn't really attracted to but she turned out to be the most memorable girls i ever slept with . After Mrs Sawadee of course... so you never know ?

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  SpicyKale

  6 years ago

  Sweetnsensual, that's some of the best advice I've read on here in ages! I think we're all guilty of coming up with reasons not to do something, meet someone or go somewhere... If we actually did New Years resolutions, you've just come up with a perfect last minute one for us😊 Thanks!

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  Jackson1811

  6 years ago

  One of our rules is not to facilitate cheating. All of the unattached couples we’ve encountered contain at least one who’s playing without their spouses / partners knowledge or consent. We still talk to such couples but we certainly haven’t made a suitable connection with any yet.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  If you were to google RHP it says clearly in the promo "RedHotPie is the best casual dating & Hookup site for singles & swingers in Australia." I am unsure where the confusion could possibly be.Meeting people is not compulsory and being able to select who you wish to meet is just a personal choice.Being judgemental, self-righteous or morally superior hints that perhaps it was HerSwapFantasy that dodged the bullet.

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