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Are you a PLAYER ?
March 03 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
The way i see it is, in real life - we are responsible for and accountable for, certain behaviours......I see the life we choose on or from a dating site is fulfilling a fantasy - therefore becoming a fantasy player......sometimes this will merge with real life, sometimes it wont..... bit like going to a swingers club, you enter leaving behind another world, when you done you leave the fantasy world....isnt it great we have the choice.....lol.....love it
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RHP User
16 years ago
I dont know about being a player...here or anyway. I am honest and trusting and will react to things/whatever without analyising......i just react. So a while ago i was accused of being a player. The guy didnt think that his actions had caused me to dump him. He figured I had being playing him. So I guess the hurt he caused me didnt count???? Do players feel hurt or any kind of emotion?? Me I like to play (if i feel like it) but i am not a player xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
In your heart of hearts, are / were you looking for more from the men on here initially? Perhaps a commitment?Just curiousfussy :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Fussy Initially I had no idea what I wanted other than sex. I got that. But I didn't realise the side effects !!! xx Miss Saturn
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Letsgetcrazy09
16 years ago
Oh Miss S Load our machine guns, how could we. Mmmmmm maybe the paintball guns, gee after the game has finished we might just have to sit down and lick each others wounds........ I tend to agree with your definition of Player as to RHP Player I think your right there too. Although to be a real player I would have thought they aren't even interested in a FB, they are really only after the 'notch in the bed post'. It really is a heartless game some play in here. For those that are just after the ole knee trembler, there appears to some of that available, and for those that after something a bit more, well I guess we hear a couple of stories but they seem to be few and far between. Personally I have met some from here and we have built up a friendship, others I would like to build up a friendship, some are just sparring partners........oh this is just like real life only in cyberspace isn't it. Yes cyberland does mimic real life, only the heartless have ice cold titanium inserted instead. Anyway, they are my thoughts on the matter. Cheers Lets
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think a player is a person whose actions and words string another person along for the player's own gain or entertainment. Characterised by the player whimsically discarding said person without much regard for the potential emotional impact of doing so. URBAN DICTIONARY.... A male who is skilled at manipulating ("playing") others, and especially at seducing women by pretending to care about them, when in reality they are only interested in sex. Possibly derived from the phrases "play him for a fool", or "play him like a violin". The term was popularized by hip-hop culture, but was commonly recognized among urban American blacks by the 1970s. A certain class of low-rent, slack-jawed fuckups has decided that backstabbing and misogyny are totally radical, so the word is sometimes used as a compliment or term of endearment between male friends, as in the greeting "what's up, player?". Gina thought she had found the love of her life when she met Sean, but after she found out he had slept with three of her best friends, she realized that he was nothing but a player. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think the word Player has been totally taken out of context in 2010. I find it's often used when a person is jealous. When I ask, "so what's the real question" ? It often relates to me having been with someone else but openly admitting to it or being seen on cam with someone else, even though I disclosed what I was doing. Funny thing.... the green-eyed monster. Oh, I'm also finding that the term Player is being used instead of the term "slut" ! Mean the same to me. Cheers, Miss Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
you put into words exactly what i wanted to say...it's just such a shame that there exists "players"...but i guess that's just part of life...an interesting topic saturn...cheerstheSHERIFF
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RHP User
16 years ago
As for bedroom and console games these, are the only games i play..hehe.cause i'm too soft to become a hard core player.Me thinks deep down they have a heart..but don't want to use it when it comes to sexthat way they don't get hurt..hmm maybe some have been.thus hurt others with their games.xoxoxmummawonder why us girls stick together...lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
An RHP Player is one who has given up on trying to form meaningful relationships with people on here (I'm not referring to friendships like the ones I have with the women and some men). They have developed a style whereby each guy/girl is considered as a potential fuck buddy and they have a set of criteria (often quite harsh) to judge them by. If the criteria aren't met they simply move on to the next one!That sounds like 99% of the women on here and maybe 5% of the men. Funny I have only ever once been accused of being a player and that was the first time I met someone (not from rhp) and she basically had her wicked way with me. I wasn't expecting anything but didn't complain when she dragged me into the bedroom. Still afterwards she said she reckoned I was a player. I asked her why she thought that and she said she just did and she reckoned she would never hear from me again. Well I told her that wasnt the case and she just said we will see. When I contacted her the next day she still said she didn't think I was going to talk to her again. So I don't know what made her think that but I guess they are out there. This was a woman that is very careful about who she associates with (due to her job) and doesn't let any Tom Dick or Harry though the door. In fact she told me of several that didnt get past her door since they were not like their profiles (yes ok from another site).
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thought I should add that the other site is not considered a sex site at all so it wasn't like she would be expecting a lot of those types of people. I'm sure they are there as well though.
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RHP User
16 years ago
depends on the context. to me a player is'nt just a testosterone fuelled mans man, who is always looking to scratch 3 notches a week onto his proverbial bed post. no, it can mean something much more. for me, it is someone who can interlace fun and sexuality, but still has respect for the other person. so they don't walk away feeling like a cheap object. but it is a very fine, ever shifting line. is'nt it
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RHP User
16 years ago
i'm sure you'll find someone soon Ms S.Earl
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RHP User
12 years ago
I found this one on Players. Box
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