M51
Anyone on here actually genuine?
January 19 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
That's the simplest reality of it mate. I haven't looked at your profile but millions will when they post a response here and dissect your profile to shit, a lot of them will put the blame on you when the reality is exactly what you described in your post. You answered your own question.
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Rlee552
7 years ago
A common complaint and theme, and not just from single males. You can search previous forums and get a lot of information and insight. You can check people’s validations and get more insight into them. Ultimately, it is what it is. Persistence, patience, perspiration, more patience. It all comes down to the P.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Not all the moons alignit maybe smokingmaybe sexual preference or just something someone saysWe have met lots of genuine people on RHP.Dont give up
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RHP User
7 years ago
Which is 2 more than most of the single guys on here
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RHP User
7 years ago
I guess now you can appreciate the story of the princess kissing toads until one of them turned into a prince.... But I’m curious... What actually is the issue if you’re an optimistic, confident kinda guy?? Wouldn’t those attributes alone see it that this kind of stuff doesn’t get to you??
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RHP User
7 years ago
That has not been my experience Respectfully..... if people keep disappointing you, then there’s one common factor in the equations. I would suggest that your screening up front may need some tweaking and your expectations may need tempering You can save yourself a lot of anxiety if you’re looking for people.... to know who to look for, and who to not look for.
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RHP User
7 years ago
But I agree, don't loose heart, someone will come along. I'm constantly dodging the tumbleweed when I open my inbox purely for the purpose of cleaning the cobwebs out. If you are having conversations and moving to KIK, you are probably doing better than most here. Just stick at it. Best of luck mate.
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RHP User
7 years ago
It’s seems there are a many time wasters! I’m genuine in fact looking for some late night fun NOW tonight 19th Jan, females only!!!
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RHP User
7 years ago
To meet people is to go to a Meet and Greet. Good luck. Hugs Q
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’ve met a few, and been ghosted by quite a few more off here. Luck of the draw.
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RHP User
7 years ago
One of the most common annoyances for us as a couple, is where you correspond with a "couple " and then the male suggests a threesome, as the female is not interested, or can't get her "across the line". Obviously he is acting alone, probably without her knowledge. So you just have to roll with the punches, and stay positive, there are still many genuine people on hete.
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
You dont sound like an "Optimistic kinda guy"...... I've met countless over the years...... my strike rate after meeting is probably 90%..... i attribute this to vetting...... I'm happy to meet when, on my terms. I'm happy to play on first meet, on my terms. I have had playmeets occur an hour after first message. With one fellow gorgeous member, we chatted for close to 3 years before we actually met due to distance and scheduling hassles. Women need to know you're not Hannibal Lecter before they meet you. And if they're anything like me, i wont meet you until im 90 percent sure that you're not a psycho, that I'm physically attracted, that you're engaging enough to possibly stimulate me in other ways and that we're on the same page. I hate awkward meetings when there's just not enough spark or too much douchebaggery to even get through one beer🤦♀️🤦♀️
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
We are a fickle lot. We change our minds. We are not always sure of what we want. We are not sure about people we chat too but have never met. I am one of those you talk about. I chat to many. I meet a few. I guess by chatting l give the benefit of any doubt until chat swings it one way or the other. Bu chatting/communicating, it is not a sign of "you'll be getting a root or even meeting". It's a chance to convey each others worthiness to the other. Often it doesnt, sometimes it will and you will meet. That meet may concrete the foundations of what was laid during chat, it can lead to intimacy. It may lead to friendship. It may lead to fuckall. No different to chatting to someone in a bar. Chat for hours. Buy a few drinks. Then she says see ya. The right person hits me up then it will happen. It's an adult site and the need for sex is a higher priority than most other sites. But that doesnt mean we are easy. Put the work in and if you are the right person for the person you are chatting to, it will happen. Being a trans here, all the guys think l fuck anything. Far from the truth. I'm also human and l need the right people. I'm not am easy pushover and neither are many of the women here. So keep working it. Keep on with self improvement. These dating sites are great for self improvement. But after you self analyze.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sometimes “chat” heads a direction that pin points a lack of comparability, or for a lot of men a lack of patience! I am genuine but not a sex doll I require attraction and banter Having a conversation turn into , “got any more pics and vids ?” Makes my typing fingers limp. Sometimes the attraction is there physically but something just is a miss with the flow in messages. It is hard to say “ I don’t think I am attracted to you “ after you have been chatting to a guy and initially you were into him ( looks ) The replies from saying that are not always nice or the guy just gets super persistent . So usually women just let the chat go dry instead. It’s not that they never intended on meeting , it is more that something didn’t work in the lead up. Being a woman on a adult dating site we can pick and choose and be fussy - it’s not fair and it isn’t always fun ( guys give a fair bit of abuse for not liking them,for not replying , for not replying fast enough, for not saying enough , etc) However it is what it is - if you really want to meet people from here quickly or without a lot of persistence , go to a meet and greet or go to a party or event ?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Annie said it perfectly. Hope for everything but expect nothing, or a site like this can make you very jaded very fast. And like ML says, if this keeps happening, look at your own screening techniques. Good luck.
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Tall74nHard9
7 years ago
depends where you are located. Some locations the women show more interest than in others. You'll either have a good run, or nuthin' at all.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yeah it sucks right. I've given up on trying to arrange stuff of late. Purely because of time wasters. I have limited time due to family and work and I just can't be bothered. People just want pics, sexting or want you to drop what you are doing. I get that that works for a lot of people but not for me.
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twowithnolimits
7 years ago
We are a genuine upfront couple .......... and it scares the fuck out of most people on here rflmao
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'd say you're doing just fine.Its a numbers game, but so is lotto. Chances might be slim, but without a ticket you are guaranteed of not "winning" right.You're getting to the conversation part, and thats a good sign. The more conversations you have the better you'll get.By better, I mean they will be more interesting, better flowing, etc. Why? Because most conversations are the same thing, same questions etc and you'll nail it Its like forums.........The same questions come up all the time
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FlirtParties
7 years ago
We get 80-100 genuine people to our Melbourne social meet and greet events. It's the best way to meet and chat with fantastic people. Our next social is on 9 Feb and is open to all verified profiles. FLIRT xx
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MissBishere
7 years ago
🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️ I'm genuine. Goes both ways though. Lots of guys flake out on the meeting bit to.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Flirt Parties are amazing and you know the people are real. You can still meet genuine people on here but it is more difficult. We are only interested in couples. Validated AND verified people who are seeking what you are offering are your best option.
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NylonFan
7 years ago
Have meet several awsome ladys an cpls on here Some carnt an dont get that im open and honest about my sexuality
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RHP User
7 years ago
Not only are there fake people/profiles on RHP, the same can be said for most dating APPs. I think people get a kick out of being wanted/chased, they are on here to see if they can be successful at getting someone to chat & message to, then once that turns into a request for a meet, bam Ghosted. They have got what they have been searching for.
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Nope no genuine people on here at all. The numerous people I've met from different States when l've attended Meet and Greets. The 120 people who attended the Qld M&G l hosted. The people on my friends list. Not to mention several people on this thread alone that I've met are all just fakes and a figment of my imagination 🙄 Maybe people should look at the way they do things instead of trying to blame the site for not meeting people.
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
There are just some normal unreal profiles. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
I am Genuine 🙂, lot of them are fake, lot of them doesn't even respond yes or no. But, there are few of them who are genuine, like minded, respect other, non judgemental and i respect them and i am here for them. "Where there is a light, there is a shadow. Where there is good , there is bad." I am here for good, so, i don't care about fakes as long as i know i will come across genuine and good ones :) 👍
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RHP User
7 years ago
We've met some of these unreal couples and unicorns. Some may even blow you away 😍 N8
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Your profile states Man 33, yet your profile mentions and states it is a couple profile. There is a confusion.. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
A sharp eye Ms Foxy. Simply following the RHP steps on how to change a single to couple profile. If you're wondering, come back in a few days. We hope to have it all done again by then 😊 N8
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RHP User
7 years ago
As a single guy I've found the site to be great and have met plenty of genuine sexy ladies on here. My advice is just to give it time there are plenty of women on here.
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
:) Ms Foxy x
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RHP User
7 years ago
I find there any a lot of time wasters singles and couples but in saying that over the years I have meet endless nice fun people and enjoyed their company and not m sure I will meet more in the to come. In saying that like most of us guys we send out 5 10 even 20 messages a day I try to keep mine clean and respectful and polite and usually get 1 reply in 30-40 messages sent so it's a big hit miss ratio. I do find it very rude am disrespectful when people take the time to read your message but can't be bother with a simple reply even a thanks no thanks . Anyway let's just all try to enjoy life lol 😂
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LetsFrolic
7 years ago
I just assume alot of those people are on here just for the thrills of thinking something will happen but then they become prudish. Happens way too often. People just need to chill be genuine hook up and have fun
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LetsFrolic
7 years ago
But the ones I have met have been awesome
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RHP User
7 years ago
Anniewhichway explained perfectly. Its exactly like that. Theres a lot of variables to consider Couples get the same to some extent. We have so many kik invites..then after the intial hi they dissapear forever lol leaves you wondering ..what did they want exactly?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Unfortunately your are rightThere are so many pretenders that is why we haven't become members and sent the moneyIt is so consistent with guys missing out at home.Maybe they should out some time into their relationship.Anyway the important thing is we keep our eyes open and trust in people generally, otherwise it will be a sad worldChat soon
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Freaky_Fun' Maybe people should look at the way they do things instead of trying to blame the site for not meeting people. Yep, absolutely - some people have profiles that don't stand out for whatever reason - but as OP mentioned in his question, and I can attest to - the amount of stuffing around that goes on is really quite bad. Fakers, dishonesty, lots of wasted time. I am sure that you have to endure your share of that as well, but I would think it probably safe to say that you have the luxury of more courtiers than your average male on here, you can afford to be more choosy. For a lot of blokes on here, they don't get very much attention at all so (in my theory anyway) tend to put themselves out on a limb a bit more when they do receive a message or whatever - thus leaving themselves open to being stuffed around.
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Lol Okey. I'm more so talking about attending Meet and Greets instead of just sending messages. Not only are they great nights and you get to meet awesome people. Its all about networking. Much easier to weed out the fakes and work out who is genuine if you know people who know people who know people. If you know what l mean 😆 I have never stuffed anyone around and haven't had it done to me but my bullshit detector is quite finely tuned lol.
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Oh and Okey the Qld Meet and Greet will be July 20th. Don't say l didn't warn you 😁 Look forward to meeting you 👍
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RHP User
7 years ago
What is funny a lot of people don’t give single males a chance they judge u on the little captions on here that no indication of what a guys like and if they are that shallow who wants to be with them anyway???
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Freaky_Fun' Oh and Okey the Qld Meet and Greet will be July 20th. Don't say l didn't warn you 😁 Look forward to meeting you 👍 I can but try. Getting time off isn't easy, at least outside of when they say you can have it, but I shall give it a go.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Do you need some help with working out how to make your's into an actual couple profile that is verified because I see you haven't achieved that yet? It isn't hard to achieve within a few hours once you've made the effort. Hope to see that soon. Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Late to the topic but i think it depends on what you are looking for, connection for us is important and would much prefer to be choosy in finding someone we can see a number of times vs no connection and only seeing them once or twice (if at all).
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RHP User
7 years ago
Late to add to the topic... Wow. That is some poor stats. Your complaint is justified I would say. I am fortunate in that I have not been ghosted...yet. Also I don't ghost. If I say I'm meeting you, because we've chatted enough, then I'm there, with bells on. I can't promise you we'll be getting it on or even keeping in touch but I'll be there to meet. It is hard though to have so many males think females are not genuine, precious, self-indulgent, insecure, bad manners, etc. because messages go unanswered. I looked at my stats recently, prior to closing my profile for a little while, I have had over 400 messages and over 100 friend requests since joining RHP in September. There is no possible way that I am going to nor would I want to reply to all that traffic. In order to do so I v would have to read every single profile and then write response. Impossible when I work full time, study, family and friends bhai plus making time for the people I do actually connect with.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Its like a pond at a park , just catfish everywhere . Sometimes wonder about whether over half the profiles are actual people or comp generated to suck us in to spend . However , like yourself , optimistic .
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm new to this site. As a single female I would get stood up at least 75% of the time for actually meets. Getting to that point can be hit or miss, I'm mindful not to ghost anyway as that really pisses me off. I generally don't have to deal with the fake profiles, just dickheads and jerks.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'mrbig0007' What is funny a lot of people don’t give single males a chance they judge u on the little captions on here that no indication of what a guys like and if they are that shallow who wants to be with them anyway??? That why you have a section that you can write about yourself and the people you seek. It's an opportunity to sell yourself for a reader that will generally read only once. Many have not much in there and have one liners like " looking for fun....."We are all in charge of our advertising space here. Some have the gift to sell themselves, some have the gift to bullshit to all and sundry. Some do not have the ability to write a winner. And some of those will be great peeps that miss the opportunity by not having those words. Those that are reading can only absorb that info but with our busy lives cannot afford the time to delve deeper and they move onto the next in the big sea of candidates
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On_Safari
7 years ago
And happens just as much to women and couples as it does single men OP. I got a message just this morning and the chat was going well - I asked this person if he was interested in meeting likeminded others at an upcoming social no pressure environment party .... and ghosted me! Did a reverse image search on his pictures and it would seem he’s possibly NOT the incredibly suave and buff man I thought I was taking with. You’re numbers are very frugal too by the way - try about 500/1 men to women ratio and then factor in the fake or unused and I deleted profiles. Thing is if you get the chance to meet someone take it - you never know, you might meet a keeper or have a memorable night or worst case scenario a new stalker but what’s life without taking chances? ~ Indy OS
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RHP User
7 years ago
I met someone from RHP yesterday. She's nice, but might be a bit selective so I better try hard...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'mrbig0007' What is funny a lot of people don’t give single males a chance they judge u on the little captions on here that no indication of what a guys like and if they are that shallow who wants to be with them anyway??? Give you a chance? Why should they? What youre actually asking for.... is called special treatment. And unless you have something in particular that sees you receive it in the wide world beyond here.... why would you expect it in here??? And are you any different? I strongly suspect... in viewing your friends list.... that you have your own preferences and that tells us that you only want to give CERTAIN people a chance. Your chance factor has a set of conditions... just as those who have rejected you do Comments like this are just a bit of a whinge. Had to be said.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' I met someone from RHP yesterday. She's nice, but might be a bit selective so I better try hard... Fingers crossed
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
With my previous posts, l had just finished a first meet with someone from another site. We had been communicating sporadically for several months. I sussed him out and decided to meet. And he is a keeper so perserverance as in a lot of things in life, pays off. But......he didnt pester or bombard me with messages. I dont chase guys. I have no need. But l didnt reject him. He read me as in my reactions to messages. And acted accordingly over the long run. Certainly showed his unique personality Isn't that is what makes online dating work?
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’ve only been a memebr for a week or so and haven’t really chatted to anyone yet. Just taking it all in but like you, as a single guy, I think we are up against it but I completely understand that. Not ripped, not young, not hung. Not laid haha. Lots of dodgy people/profiles but there certainly looks like some nice genuine people around. It is the internet afterall. Tread warily. Let’s see how it goes, might be just a perve at the end of the day. Oh well.
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AandA26
7 years ago
A starting point for most single guys is don't send out a dick pic followed by when do you want this. You would be amazed what some respectful conversation might get you, still amazed at how dumb and disrespectful a majority of guys are on here. Just because we are into swinging does not make my wife a piece of meat. Sure people will still stuff you around, that happens to us as a couple so I would expect it a lot more as a single but you never know you might meet some good people.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes, genuine married couple here,, I’m bi, my husband is straight but we enjoy they company of both F and M,, or sometimes MMf ha ha
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RHP User
7 years ago
Find out for yourself and go get a bi gf instead of Inline at cockfest.noluck.nocum 👍
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MzRizk
7 years ago
I’d happily meet you if you came to melbourne 🥂
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yep we are all looking for the same thing we just call different names but at the end of the day we just want to fuck
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