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An anthropologist on Mars
July 31 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think I feel more comfortable meeting people from the forum because I feel that I have come to know them a little. I don't like the cold call thing much, and I almost never met anyone just from messaging.
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RHP User
12 years ago
with Meeka and would add that reading what and how people say things even their terminology tends to give a bit of an insight into their personality. The problem with the written word is that sometimes humour can be mistaken for arrogance. Forum contributors are probably more successful on these sort of sites.
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
I know my interest has been sparked by seeing someone posting here, so I guess I'd say yes to more likely to meet them. On the other hand I've preconceived notions about a few regular posters that have made me drop them OFF my radar. Posters are definitely putting themselves out there, I (MrsParadise) have started to really hold back on my posts because of that one way access posting provides an observer. I also like to hold a little air of mystery so I'm unlikely to go into too much detail about any of my tastes or passions... except for my passion for tradies, I like to wear that one like a badge of honour :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
The only thing you know about a forum poster is how good they write. And that they are shit spellers like me.Like all internet interaction you can be fooled by the articulation and the cleaver slips of the tongue rather than the reality of the slip of the tongue. I find that yes, and no.The reason is that I have not fucked a single poster form the forums. What I have found are some very good friends who have been supportive behind the scenes of RHP and we talk about more things than sex or the forums so a holistic friendship has developed.However there are people who write on the forums who have a total fantasy life, and have some mental health issues that roll off into offline and sometimes to the detriment of others.Same for guys that come across all charm and articulation and yes dear I want to know you as a person first. When really they are just mortal like the rest of us and want a fuck, once they get that then its move on down the line.Expectations of men and women are poles apart on RHP no matter how much you bleat ladiesThe men here want to stick a cock in you not marry you or take you home to meet mother.No matter how much they piss in your pocket girls, its not going to turn into a relationship Yes now and again we hear a fairy tale or two.Rhp forums are a great entertainment rather like a soap opera. But then the lights come on and here we are in the land of realityGetting sex off the net, reading forums posts are just a diversion from reality and some people generate a whole fabricated life for the benefit of getting a fan base on the RHP Hollywood Dream.I know one woman who gave herself a degree and a history and a life that she pulled out of her arse, and believed it.Then she set up a lot of stories of drama, where she was the main character.some people need a white jacket with longer sleeves
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well i want someone who is all MINE!I am not a swinger never have been!People who contribute to forums seem to be real.They explain them self well and others can see where they are coming from.I have met a few forum members and they really are nice sincere people.Will be meeting a few more this Saturday night YAY drinks night!I think you can get a better feeling in forums about peoples morals and understand what they want.Its good to be able to put a face to the people you do chat to on forums Much love from me to all forum members !
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think the forums are easier meeting, as one would hope they are who they say they are and genuine in their posts.I am not wanting to meet men from this site or any where else.I am weary in meeting males from the forums, as I guard my vulnerability and happiness very close to me.Yes I have let down my guard meeting meeting people from the Forums. I have made some really beautiful friendships with some posters and yes they are true to what they post.FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
I believe most people are pretty clear about their objectives... from what I've observed.... ..... but their expectations are pretty far fetched, especially in light of their options and their behaviour. DG- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
On a site like this no way in hell, do I ever think I am going to meet my Prince Charming.Not in a million years!!FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wow ! She's baaaack !Hey LT xx I think I dated that woman !Well,Date a forum person ? I thought they were just here to entertain us !I would feel quite comfortable meeting women from the forums and some I certainly would not ! Though as it turns out my dates have been lurkers who have seen me but don't post, and one who posts now and again.Having said that I also agree with LT, guess it takes all kinds as they say.
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RHP User
12 years ago
as Tuscan pointed out, one very high profile female had a life she pulled out of her arse (love that description )she even had imaginary friends profiles to vouch they had met.....lolAnd she was - is not alone.Just because someone post in the forums doesnt make them more honest about their intent.I dont have a problem with anyone on the forums who makes their intent clear, eg, here only for forums, here to shit stir,not to meet anyone.......but I am sure many of us are aware there are just as many timewasters on the forums as there is in the chat rooms and the general search button.I have been lucky to meet some wonderful people from the forums both one on one and meet & greet nights.(the timewasters and blatant liars never attend).
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On_Safari
12 years ago
My "brains trust", i can bounce ideas, not bodies; off you. Share a thought, a random act of kindness or a laugh. Some I will meet soon and others I hope to meet. Do I have any pre-conceived notions based on the interactions here and offkine? Hell yes....but I think most of us would. Nice post Kizza.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'll be happy to meet. I've initiated it a couple of times too. At least I know if they can write and have a quirky sense of humour (this is important to me) Having said that, what they write on the forums is only a start. Honesty? Well that's another matter. Only time can tell that and hopefully if I'm being lied to, I don't notice and it doesn't hurt me or anyone else. I like the bubble I live in.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Most of the men i've met and played with on RHP have caught my attention in the forums. All of the women i've met, played with or just formed friendships with are also forum posters. I think you can get a feel for someones personality through the forums. As to if they are more honest about their intentions......it's just as easy to lie in written word as face to face so i don't make judgements until i've met them in real life. It may perhaps be easier to catch a liar out if they contradict themselves in the forums as there is likely a greater body of evidence and written proof.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Super foxy doubt whether she would meet Prince Charming on this site I think it is possible There is a bit of a presumption from what I can read that if you are on this site that you are not suitable for a Lon term relationship but I feel that if you are not here then maybe you are not been honest and the opposite applies The forum offers an excellent conduit to share thoughts with others and not feel like the Lone Ranger I would classify myself normal and a good person so if I am here there must be many more unless we are all zombies Sex is only part of the equation My finger is now tired - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
After re reading some of my own posts, i have stopped masturbating... because i'm not sure i trust myself....i have only met up with people from the forum... and i have met some amazing people and also had meetings i'd rather forget.....but that has nothing to do with the forums, it's more a reflection on society in generali think sometimes people on here might just over think things a little.... but hey it keeps us all entertained!p
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wingman2014
12 years ago
By posting in the forums you are putting yourself out there to be analysed , scrutinised and even ridiculed . But you are also putting part of your soul on show and people who get where you are coming from can see that which can lead to potentially great friendships
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know there is no such thing as Prince Charming, but I absolutely believe that I may meet someone special on RHP. Why not? I have just as good a chance as anywhere else. Right?Yes, I agree that there are lots of guys on here that just want a root and scoot, but I don't meet them because I am not interested in that. DON'T BE SO CYNICAL PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'just_chill_n'i think sometimes people on here might just over think things a little.... but hey it keeps us all entertained!p Oh yes, myself included !Meeks, " good onya love" keep the faith !
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've met some people from the forums (and you're all just gorgeous!!! Mwah!) and yes I would agree that I let my guard down a little more and a little sooner than I otherwise would. I think we develop a sense of familiarity or something, it's like we already know a little about that person and the way they think about things. While there is the occasional nutter as LT pointed out, most of us are just normal folk.
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madotara69
12 years ago
We love parties, I can't shut up and Tara laughs a lot.Mado, Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
You know you're my favourite forum poster. I quite like the mix in here. Even those who are portraying themselves falsely add to the entertainment. I don't mind them acting out their fantasies here and you usually know which ones they are. It's not all for swingers. There are several posters who, like myself, aren't here to hook up. We just like to exchange ideas with others. Whether you believe me or not, I'm quite open and honest about myself, my feelings and my situation because I'm here as myself. If I were into role playing games, I would throw myself into the part as others do and live out my alter ego online. I don't see the harm as long as it's kept online. I'm not as forgiving of people who try to convince others that they're something they're not just to score a shag. That's genuinely deceitful and potentially hurtful as opposed to some harmless role playing fun.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' You know you're my favourite forum poster. I quite like the mix in here. Even those who are portraying themselves falsely add to the entertainment. I don't mind them acting out their fantasies here and you usually know which ones they are. It's not all for swingers. There are several posters who, like myself, aren't here to hook up. We just like to exchange ideas with others. Whether you believe me or not, I'm quite open and honest about myself, my feelings and my situation because I'm here as myself. If I were into role playing games, I would throw myself into the part as others do and live out my alter ego online. I don't see the harm as long as it's kept online. I'm not as forgiving of people who try to convince others that they're something they're not just to score a shag. That's genuinely deceitful and potentially hurtful as opposed to some harmless role playing fun. disrespectful to you and Jenny Lee.In amongst the mucking about with posting, you have shared some very personal thoughts, we have learned that Jenny Lee means the world to you. That is very real to me. You with sharing open honesty, and feelings has inspired me, just another person, the courage to express my feelings amongst the mucking about.I am sure the statistics would show many more people read the forums, than post to them. Some of those people are searching for answers, I for one have read many of your answers and believe in them.I do not think the forums would exist without belief.Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
Now you gone an' made me blush.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Lol don't stop loving yourself babe.....you have to love yourself before anyone else can. (Ponders own restraint from twiddling oneself!!!). Geez I'm more frustrated than I thought!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' Lol don't stop loving yourself babe.....you have to love yourself before anyone else can. (Ponders own restraint from twiddling oneself!!!). Geez I'm more frustrated than I thought!!! Inde, i was making light of the situation buts its actually more serious than i care to admit.... I seem to be having a problem with my hand cock co ordination a the moment, its usually a once a day ritual for me but lately.... i dunno? for the the past two weeks nothing... i'm starting to wonder whether i got married to my right hand without realizing!i don't now if its the cold weather or a complete lack of stimuli (no access to porn atm) where is Dr Ruth when you need her? is she even still alive?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan' I know one woman who gave herself a degree and a history and a life that she pulled out of her arse, and believed it. Then she set up a lot of stories of drama, where she was the main character. Was going to say that yes, I'm more comfortable meeting people I "know" via the forums, and then I read this. Yes, she fooled a lot of us. Good point.
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RHP User
12 years ago
thanks everyone...I do think that we assume... mostly... that a person's posts reflect who they are IRL, but then there is the exception ...and btw I saw a profile recently that seemed very familiar..different city,same style
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On_Safari
12 years ago
WOW!!! You mean you'd hang an exclusivity tag on your strap-on for the right man?!?!?! Oh girlfriend you just won another heart.....I don't think it's impossible to find love here in Pie World. Some of the people male and female I chat to regularly all want that "something" special if they don't already have a partner who fulfils that need. That's beautiful Meeks and I hope eventually you and He meet. Now who's this feminine bullshitter with the bogus persona ladies?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Indy,but then I will have to kill you..oh hang on, no I'm not Nikita...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Indy,but then I will have to kill you..oh hang on, no I'm not Nikita...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Indy, who said being in love means exclusivity? You should know me better than that! Well, it depends on who I meet I suppose. But to be honest, I have already found some love on RHP. :)
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Haha and here I was thinking deep down you were a softy romantic!! (Smiling broadly) guess you won't be hanging up your spurs anytime soon then. And Freya you gotta come to drinks :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Indy,ya want me to kill you?...hmmm...ok ,maybe we can share a Death By Chocolate or a slice of Marple cake
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Come on, I'll shout the Miss Marple cake even ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
The ability to string a few words together on a forum is probably a good indicator about a person, they probably come off better than someone who shoots off the odd random message of "heyyu got gr8 tits lets meet an fuk", I really wish that guy would stop sending me that message. I think a forum(er) lets call them the thinking man's RHPer shows a bit more empathy in the big picture of RHP, more than just jumping on adult cam and joining in with the rythmical slapping of foreskins and clits, but don't get me wrong I do forums and slapping when the mood takes me, ultimately remember to have fun it's all about fun. I love the forums because they make me think and the largest sexual organ we and I certainly have is the Brain...Till next time this is "the opinionated Birdieboy"
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' thanks everyone...I do think that we assume... mostly... that a person's posts reflect who they are IRL, but then there is the exception ...and btw I saw a profile recently that seemed very familiar..different city,same style well keep us posted on her where a bouts and posts. I know she is still here, and toying with a few people. The problem is when people try to dodge and hide pretty soon they cannot keep it up. by words and by actions the light will shine on them, then they have to go into the dark again and re invent themselves.but they do a lot of damage in the mean time to a fair few people.but thank heavens those kind of folk are not really that common on the forums.LadyT who is really a big fat truck driving, beer drinking fella with a small cock..so there errrm apologies if you are a big fat beer drinking truck driving fella with a small cock...
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madotara69
12 years ago
You have a good looking pussy, you may dream of being a hard driv'n, road roar'n trucky, leaving broken hearts at every departure. Please don't ruin my dreams, now I am unsure as to flip me lid or throw up.Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
You have me wondering who it is now LT. The woman that is, not the truck driver. ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
We can't name and shame. Though certainly tempting at times...
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you won't let me post in colour, you are OUT.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That is a for mite has come across exactly as they do in real life and I am always happy to meet up with forumites. And if you think my sense of humour on here is bad, wait till you meet me....it only gets worse.
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Goodvintage
12 years ago
I only view and/or reply to forums if I the subject is of interest...as it is with many other forums that people join...It seems to be more a communal arena that mainly attracts long term users (and occasional guests) and I believe, people with a genuine interest for being on RHP,which ultimately is for sex, pleasure, exploration etc...both genders included...Therefore Forum regulars seem to be more genuine...On the other hand I have spoken to a number of genuine people that are not into Forumsand are happy to chat and exchange messages...I don't think that people who don't contribute to Forums are not genuine...it's their choice...and finding time if you are busy can be challanging...Chatting to people online that you do not know can always be dicey, but I have found thatonce you have exchanged a number of messages (asked and received the right answers)you do get to know a person well enough to meet for coffee etc...Meeting and chatting to people online is all based on perceptionand whilst I am not overly judgmental I think you do need to be astutein order to make the right choice... Reality strikes when you meet in person...lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Birdieboy' "heyyu got gr8 tits lets meet an fuk", I really wish that guy would stop sending me that message. Hang on...
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RHP User
12 years ago
What a load of shut wake up- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
not sure I understand what you are referring to rootintootin
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you are not a swinger...... Maybe you should check out E Harmony ???- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hallo ;"Two emails then we meet." Of course it's an unrealisable ideal. It is meant to convey that the spoken word is fundamental to society. The written word is merely an abstraction of the spoken. The problem is that we have lost the art of standing on our hind legs and taking charge of things. Our street-wiseness has withered through neglect. We have made ourselves paranoid through aloneness.But each of us can do something about it. If we want to.Eric aka Bottom_Liner
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RHP User
12 years ago
Now that you're a forum contributor, I'm much more likely to meet you. Nicely done.
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madotara69
12 years ago
rootintootin, circle your wagon or you could be left out there all on your own, Yeeeehaahhh!Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
havent posted on here for quite a while but i'm glad a few people have woken up to a certain someone and their dramas. Sorry i never got back to you about having a coffee tuscan but would love to sometime when im down that way. 50z - pretty sure we've seen the same person :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
in fact only 2 or 3. I have met many from the chat rooms though nowa days I do not go in there as can not handle the new format. I don't post too much in here these days either.... been busy and I got a bit tired of the wingers winging at the regulars who I do believe are honest and up front. Not sure who the masked one is you are all referring too though me finks it may have something too do with sweets and apples.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'hotdigettydam' havent posted on here for quite a while but i'm glad a few people have woken up to a certain someone and their dramas. Sorry i never got back to you about having a coffee tuscan but would love to sometime when im down that way. 50z - pretty sure we've seen the same person :PYep, the one and the same !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting '50zkool'Yep, the one and the same ! Glad you got out unscathed :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
Red Hot Pie is no different to the real world, it is the real world. having a computer to shield you does not change who we are. If I walked up to a hundred women at any event, say a wedding and introduced myself I am certain I would not go home with any of them and would probably offend a few. If I get into conversation with just a few, like in a forum thread, my chances increase exponentially because they get to know and trust me as I am inherently a decent man but not charismatic. That still does not make it any easier to be a guy, and write messages and get no response. Or to be a woman and be bombarded with a mixture of honesty and trash. Perhaps they should do away with the flirts in particular as no one seems to like them?
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RHP User
12 years ago
gave me the best advice ever!!"When meeting another forum poster, go back and re-read ALL their posts"FOXY
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madotara69
12 years ago
Hot Topics (view all) 4346 74549 posts Girls Ask (view all) 548 15188 posts Guys Ask (view all) 766 13283 posts Couples' Corner (view all) 947 11568 posts Fetish & Fantasy (view all) 98 1601 posts LGBT (view all) 20 398 poststhat is a lot of reading, and it still may not stop "the dissapearing act" as you call it. heheMado
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RHP User
12 years ago
Advanced search.FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
hopefully lots of forum posters will meet on Saturday....BrizVegas drinks night...am planning my Margaret Mead costume,complete with wig and glasses
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'SUPERFOXXY' Advanced search.FOXY Cool, now I can go back and see where Miss Freya wanted to smack me, the time Meeka spoke to me,well us when she came home late one night, look for a clue to where you girls took jsk, my first mate and half of a wit and study all the talents chev has shared with us, yippeee.Oh chev heheThanks Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
26 pages of posts
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' 26 pages of posts I am writing a book, hehe
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' You have a good looking pussy, you may dream of being a hard driv'n, road roar'n trucky, leaving broken hearts at every departure. Please don't ruin my dreams, now I am unsure as to flip me lid or throw up.Mado I am just little old me with the big boobies.as for being a truck driver...I cant even drive a greasy stick up a ducks arse.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan' Quoting 'Freya77' thanks everyone...I do think that we assume... mostly... that a person's posts reflect who they are IRL, but then there is the exception ...and btw I saw a profile recently that seemed very familiar..different city,same style well keep us posted on her where a bouts and posts. I know she is still here, and toying with a few people. The problem is when people try to dodge and hide pretty soon they cannot keep it up. by words and by actions the light will shine on them, then they have to go into the dark again and re invent themselves.but they do a lot of damage in the mean time to a fair few people.but thank heavens those kind of folk are not really that common on the forums.LadyT who is really a big fat truck driving, beer drinking fella with a small cock..so there errrm apologies if you are a big fat beer drinking truck driving fella with a small cock... Thank fuck, you nearly had me in a conundrum, discombobulated and cheering for that statement to be a terminological inexactitude, I was wasting away to nothing...... I could eat the arse out of a low flying duck!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
DUCK!!!!!
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' DUCK!!!!! figure of speech, Miss Freya.Though it seems to have hit a soft spot, can I come out from hiding now?
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RHP User
12 years ago
One can learn lot as an anthropologist on Mars. We have been probing that place for years. Many tries have crashed and burned, some even while stepping out the door just a few feet off the ground. So much effort and time. Oh the sad looks, the disappointment. Yet there on that dusty cold little red spot in our sky so far away, is the countless sophisticated remains of humanities unstoppable drive to find life. Proof that despite the endless failure, the huge expense, the boundless expectations, the extraordinary patience, the savage humiliation of failure, we try and try again and again, for but the faintest hope to find something like us. Life.Should the forum be so different. I think not.Never stop trying, never give up.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Jesus, just reread that post, shit, way too deep. Fuck Mars, gets us nowhere, I am all for probing Uranus.Thank fuck I almost missed out on a shit storm, ya dribbling fuckers.
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