Am I on the wrong website?!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Apparently if you like pictures of random penises and men asking 'hi r u horny' without asking what other moods you might be in, then this is the site for you!Intelligent conversation? Some kind of mental connection? Speaking to women like human beings capable of more than spreading their legs? That's some pretty forward thinking hmmmm....In all seriousness, the nice guys are out there, just keep looking for them. Till then the forums are here :)Cheers,Z

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Its Not A sex Site as Most often Claim and Assume.....the People that think that are often shallow minded People that Cannot read in My oppinionIgnore Those that dont bother to take the time to read your profile and what it is you are seeking hereThere are Genuine Men that are seeking the same.....But Alas Like myself you will have to wade your way through the Non genuine Guys that Only want you For sexI have been a member for 4 YEARS NOW......Long time to wait for Mr Just Right for me....But well worth itI understand why you have Joined here ......as I myself joined for Exactly the same reasons....All the Sexual info was openly displayed and talked about so you could have some Idea as to what to expect before you met them....Sex is the easy part its the Relationship Part thats Not that easyI also Joined other dating sites.....but they are all the same and often have the same people with the same profiles just looking for that Quick easy Fuck.....Keep Looking......Keep Your Idea of what it is that You are seeking....And Dont settle for any less than You deserve....Good Luck....Nudie...xx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Geez. A lot of social graces are lost on the net. People (ok, mostly men) instead of saying "Hi, How are you?" you get "wanna fuck?" none of the usual getting to know someone etc etc etc. We are on this site (and others) seeking new friends with similar interests rather than the usual socail venues. Thought it would screen out the usual feral types. NOT! Sometimes, a friend becomes one with benefits, which is a nice bonus, not a given, and is not expoected. One of the best places we have been to is CI - very relaxed and easy going, most people have no ego issues and most people are respectful - those that aren't are quickly sorted by mgt. Take care everyone, laugh lots and love heaps. Kisses n cuddles are the way to everyones' hearts.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Plenty of options on here but it’s just like anything else you need to sift through all the options and take what captures your attention/ imagination or desires. I would think being a women it would be a easier than for a guy just by sheer numbers but I haven’t found it too difficult at all. Yep there are the Fuckwits , Fakes , Scams And complete liars but there always going to be there and someone else will want those anyway.. Best of luck I don’t think you will need too much of it . Just remember if it’s not fun it’s as simple as logout and switch off and then you can leave all the tossers behind.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Should we have looking-for categories in these sites? Like perhaps a little icon on your profile that says either "hi, i'm here just to fuck"..."hi, i'm looking for fwb's" or "hi, i'm looking for a relationship" ?? and then make ur profile unavailable to anyone who doesn't suit ur category?? Lol, by what i read in a lot of these threads and the feedback from guys who have messaged me, the first category would be severely lacking in choices of the female gender and consist of a multitude of one-handed male typists, the second beomes a 'let's just go for a quick shag anyway and if its good i'll consider seconds' and the 3rd would probably scare off the majority in here from the start so u would be left with very little to chose from .... there are some, hard to find because they don't waste their entire day sitting at the pc searching for the next piece of new tail that they can get their rocks off with, lol Hey, no punn intended on any of the 3 categories, whatever floats ur boat... but yes it would be such a nice perfect world filled with rainbows and buttercups if everyone read our profiles and respected our personal wishes... Ha frigging ha! next!!..... Look at it this way, we have the priviledge of a delete and block system available in here, the ability to choose who you do and don't reply to, plus a veritable cache of eye candy for your personal amusement, so stop stressing, take control, kick back and just enjoy the ride ;-)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  i think your on the wrong website :) the people we have met and talked to in last year on here, are couples who want to play and make new friends (who play) or singles are all after sex (males and females). try RSVP or Oasis active maybe

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hey: NeoAndTrinity You are right there probably.. *smiles* Underneaththeskin: you reckon you got it bad kiddo?? I am NOT here looking for sex.. but girl.... try me telling anyone that.. I am a scruffy 51 YO single male - therefore I am a pervert obviously, trying to get an 18 YO girl to lay, AND/OR so desperate I will hump anyone!! :) ALMOST EVERY attempt on my behalf to communicate with people here is met with "Nothing" or "Negative" But the few that arent... are worth EVERY bad one :) I am NOT looking for a relationship so, RSVP is not my site, BUT, I do have friends, male AND female who had success on there :) having said that, I have friends also who have eventually had success here too... You know, even within CHURCH groups or the CWA, you wont find harmony when it comes to personalities... you certainly wont find it here. So: "Underneaththeskin" no, you probably arent on the WRONG website... be patient girl...and in amongst the NASTY surprises, you will find a NICE one... it just might come from an angle you are NOT looking on.. but, they can be specially nice too :) Good luck girl!!! caveman!

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