M42
A question for the hung guys
October 03 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
I do understand you, as I find that the motions inside their mouth are more an erotic turn on, but not as physically stimulating as I would like. For me this includes deep throat. I prefer a lot of tongue work personally, perhaps you have to find someone who experiments a little to find out what other things might work for you. In my case only one person has brought me to orgasm via oral alone (no assistance from me), but she had to pay close attention to exactly what I liked. Sigh, I miss her :) ... Oops! Your question was for the hung guys. My bad ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
obviously I'm not 'hung' lol but I'll answer anyway. I have one guy who is the biggest I've ever seen, biggest I'm ever likely to see in my life, huge, which has it's issues. But he also didn't like oral, until I went to work on him lol you need to find the right partners, that would be my advice. There are so many women who just go through the motions but they're not really there in the moment, not in the right head space, scuse the pun, only have to watch porn to see that, bores the crap out of me. Now where are they, I'll get accused of bragging now pfft and yes deepthroat I love and it can be done on hung guys, just need to go past that gag reflex
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RHP User
9 years ago
find a woman who's into worship. I am and the time spent before it even comes out of your pants, is as important as what happens once it does. That's the short version, best I leave it at that
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RHP User
9 years ago
We like what we like. If oral doesnt do it for you then Im sure lots of other things do. Ive only ever met one guy who didnt like oral but it wasnt that much of an issue. Sex is about lots of different ways to give pleasure to your partner. Prepare for comments from people who reckon their awesome oral skills could change your way of thinking... :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
To your generously sized member be a waste of time? Well this chick can deep throat and gives a mean BJ, but I'd gag on your arrogance and attitude! Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Glad to read your thread Trey - I thought it was just me cause I too have only cum once or twice in my life via oral. Often thought....."lets move on to a far more interesting place !". I think the thought of oral is a far greater turn-on than the actual act. I dont think my partners have been doing it wrong but I assume circumcised or uncircumcised impacts on the sensitivity just under the head. Again, my opinion, but I also agree with you that size also impacts in terms of whether the sensitive part of a larger,circumcised cock is deep enough in your partner's willing mouth. Nevertheless, the thought of it, the attention your partner gives and oral as part of the range of moves... is still incredible.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ahhhh Trey..... youre learning the way of RHP quickly. Perhaps the previous partners were all doing it right.... you were just receiving it wrong.
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RHP User
9 years ago
hotwives & shells, it's certainly not arrogance - or it wasn't meant to come off that was - it's more frustration. And yeah, it's not entirely a waste of time - it just gets to a point where I think "yeah alright that'll do" and then return the favour. Countrytouch, cheers for the input. Glad to know it's not just me. Might just have to communicate more about what I enjoy - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Typo in OP, precious was meant to be previous - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Pure gold! 😂😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have the same issue*, but it still feels good to me. You must be doing it wrong. . . . . * some comic license may have been taken ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
sucking on an 11 inch penis yourself, and having the "brain" behind it attempting to thrust it down your throat, to the point you want to gagg and throw up? You could always try the Electrolux, as we have heard that "Nothing sucks like Electrolux " lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
You can learn to deep throat your own cock. Don't scoff...start getting to those yoga classes, work on your flexibility. At the same time start training yourself to suppress your gag reflex. Start small, maybe some small size carrots, and work your way up to the zucchinis...or maybe a continental cucumber. Piece of cake. Have fun big man
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'DynamicCouple36'You could always try the Electrolux, as we have heard that "Nothing sucks like Electrolux " lol Partly for personal preference, and partly for practical reasons I feel this recommendation is in error. It's personal preference, but while I enjoy the lick, I don't really like by balls being sucked - for this reason I'd suggest the "bagless suction" of a Dyson. While true that "nothing sucks like Electrolux", Dyson offers "endless suction", and it can't be blocked - so perfect for longer, larger jobs. (While I understand my post may sound like brand advertising, isn't that the point of this thread? ;) ) O.P. my post would be much the same as CT's... also, maybe turn things around and have them play the Trombone, it's entirely different to a Tuba.
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RHP User
9 years ago
op did you really expect anything different from this lot? It's juvenile and about exactly what I expected. Why do I feel like I'm back in high school. I expect they'll derail this thread and it will get deleted. More trolls to come yet, give them time
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Lol SOL...brand advertising 😆😅😉 Not being a well hung bloke I can't comment on anything else....but I will enjoy the rest of the answers. I'm sure there is much to be learnt here 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
Trey, it was a good, interesting question and at least you got a few reflective responses. As for others, not even humorous - purely juvenile. Cucknshells, well done for starting the rot.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Right on cue
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RHP User
9 years ago
You're just not into it or you need the skills of an experienced and eager deep throater for hung guys. It doesn't seem like you're not into it at all as you've written in your profile "if you can deep throat you're a keeper. I can't remember the last time I came from a blow job." So I would suggest filling in the section that asks how hung you are. That's what size queens look for in a profile. And that way women will know whether they can tackle your tackle so to speak. For those of us who don't care about having a hung guy we pretty much ignore it that spec. In addition maybe say that you only enjoy oral if it's deep throat. So women that don't have the required expertise know straight up that unless they can swallow the salami they won't be rewarded with dessert.
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RHP User
9 years ago
We are constantly victims (yes I have personal experience of this) of your incessant bragging, ridicule when we don't squirt, fuck, deepthroat or anything else you do better than anyone else on just about every thing sex related. We are entitled TO HAVE AN OPINION THAT DIFFERS FROM YOURS, or anyone else's, without the fear of being labelled trolls and immature! The OP may say he didn't mean to be arrogant but it's how it reads, it's my interpretation, I'm allowed to have it without the fear that you will provide an inane critique of me instead of my posts (your 'attack' was not specific of course just a very generic and sweeping critique/ attack of a number of posters). Really ?????? Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Right on cue indeed
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Hotwives_Inc' We are constantly victims (yes I have personal experience of this) of your incessant bragging, ridicule when we don't squirt, fuck, deepthroat or anything else you do better than anyone else on just about every thing sex related. We are entitled TO HAVE AN OPINION THAT DIFFERS FROM YOURS, or anyone else's, without the fear of being labelled trolls and immature! The OP may say he didn't mean to be arrogant but it's how it reads, it's my interpretation, I'm allowed to have it without the fear that you will provide an inane critique of me instead of my posts (your 'attack' was not specific of course just a very generic and sweeping critique/ attack of a number of posters). Really ?????? Mary xx calm your farm. An opinion or ridicule for the op?
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RHP User
9 years ago
comments about vacuum cleaners and sucking himself off are of course making fun of the op and the subject. So what was the basis for your ire?
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RHP User
9 years ago
It just sounds like you havnt been with girls who are great at blowjobs. It really is an art that some ladies have, and I'm sure some guys do aswell. I'm sure more than a few ladies have had a guy go down on them and he/she/I haha have been very much below par. Same as fingering and fucking and anal and excetera excetera excetera (apologies to my childhood memories for permanently ruining the innocence of 'The King and I'). If you are getting blow jobs you don't like, either don't get one and spend that time going down on her or talk to the woman.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Speaking from a female perspective..my goal is to make sure that I get all of it down my throat..what wouldn't you do to turn on your partner...which in turns gives you pleasure (and power!)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm sorry your topic has not been answered by the guys or people who respect where you're coming from OP. Just the usual junk mail instead. Hope you stick around, we lose a lot of posters this way. I'm with you I touch. If only people could read and respond to the topic instead of the first thought that flitters through their head about the original poster. :-( Peachy.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Am I the only one who generally doesn't enjoy receiving oral, or have my precious partners just been doing it wrong? I mean, it's not horrible - just feels like a waste of time when they can only get a third of it in their mouth? I hate feeling ... picky if the person can't deep throat. Is there anything I can do to enjoy it more? I thought I'd copy and paste the OP here for the people who can read and respond to the topic as introduced by the OP. It is great to see a fair few posts addressing the topic, hopefully we can make room for the people who want to enjoy the thread and find more appropriate threads to amuse ourselves that isn't at the cost of anyone else. Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Once again the Forum Police have spoken and told us all how to post. No jokes or humour allowed!! No opinions that deviate from what the Forum Police dictate is appropriate or that the Forum Police disagree with!! No doubt the Forum Police will soon have any post not to their liking deleted and will then blame everyone else for the thread disappearing. Thankyou Officers for showing us the error of our ways. We can only hope to one day be as good at fucking and forum posting as you are.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Itouch and Peachy, it's ok for you to belittle with comments such as 'for those who can read' and 'trolls' yet I can't express an opinion. I'll call out shitty behaviour every time, it's time you reflect on your own approach to forums, and you yourselves 'calm' down. This keyboard warrior crusade is getting tiresome! OP, can I suggest you message each of the gorgeous young men who have responded to this forum. I can tell you one of them has 'the biggest dick I've ever seen', I even doubted that we would actually be able to have sex!!!! He was attentive in bed, generous with his ministrations and though I doubt I deep throated him, I still gave him some delicious attention orally. He was an absolute gentleman, very humble too! He might have some suggestions for you about how you might enjoy oral sex and how to communicate this with the women you play with :) Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well, I was telling the Mr about your thread TreyAwsom and he laughed and said you hadn't experienced me. I'm not a deep throater by any means. I enjoy what I do and am good at making men feel comfortable and getting them into what's going on... Other men aren't on my menu anymore though. You're not the first guy who has posted the sort of thing you have here either. I wonder if you're circumcised and a little less sensitive than some. The most reactive area on your penis is the frenulum which is the part at the back of the head, that's where I focus a lot of attention. Circumcision can remove more of the frenulum than it should. There's also the lack of the hood the foreskin would normally be which can have the head less sensitive than it would normally be and that's the second most sensitive area. :-D Just wondering, no offence meant. Peachy :-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Whats the issue if you arent fussed on women going down? Some guys just arent fussed apparently.No big deal. You cant make them like it, no matter how "awesome"your magic touch is. Some women dont like recieving oral. Their prefference too. But Im sure Mr"Icangodownonyouforhours" will tell her she hasnt had the right dude yet. And some people arent keen on anal. Doesnt matter how good you are at giving it, it wont make them suddenly like it. Thats life folks. Peachy and Touch... Its getting old.
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RHP User
9 years ago
...searching through this thread for the biggest dick Mary has seen.....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Woman needs to have a big mouth haha then it's ok I like watching them not being able to put it in their mouths because it's too big. . Turn on - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissBishere
9 years ago
I do find it a big deal if a guy doesn't enjoy oral. For me giving head is a must have. I wouldn't be with someone that didn't enjoy it. Nothing wrong with having preferences in my opinion. If you only want women that can deep throat thats your prerogative.
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Sawadee
9 years ago
If you said you don't get much pleasure from oral sex without mentioning the word " hung " it probally would have been a everyday forum topic. As " I Touch said. It was always bound to attract some negative comments . When I read your post I thought the same. Unfortunately , that 1 word can make the difference.. In answer to your question , I also find a BJ pretty ordinary unless the lady performing it has a exceptional talent. But I'd never complain , I'm always grateful for her effort. 👍 I saw a T Shirt with the words . A Blowjob is better than No Job , written on it ... ain't that the truth...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Willow_1' Some women dont like recieving oral. Their prefference too. But Im sure Mr"Icangodownonyouforhours" will tell her she hasnt had the right dude yet. I'm pretty meh about receiving oral, can take or leave it (this is tongue only...it's penetration that really gets me off). Every time myself or another woman has said that on here you get the guys going on with how we just haven't had their amazing talented tongue on us yet and if we had we would just TOTALLY change our minds. I see from this thread that it happens in reverse as well. I'm not sure why there's this pressure that everyone, male or female, has to love receiving oral and if you don't you're some sort of freak? For people who preach to be so accepting of everyone's preferences it's a bit odd. OP, like Soft said, be upfront with women that if they can't deep throat or at least take a fair bit of a big cock then oral just doesn't do much for you. Then you're not wasting their time or yours. Or you can just pretend to like it. Up to you.
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RHP User
9 years ago
For the longest time I had a what I would describe as having a mental block in my mind from being able to climax from oral and have only came for the first time this year ever from oral. For what it's worth for me anyway the things that helped me get over the hump were 1. Having a partner who enjoyed giving and was vested in me cumming from oral as much as me. 2. Spending time experimenting and communicating on what feels good and what doesn't. 3. Prob most importantly for me was learning to relax and enjoy the sensations and not put pressure on myself to cum forming a vicious cycle. There were a few other specific things in my head I had to get around which I won't divulge. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
And that's ok. Although it would be interesting. My BJ shudder comes with tongue piercings shoved down (what the non PC school kids used to call) the jap-eye - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
By a guy who seems to have zero respect for women. Not listening to "No" and laughing as you try and stick your humungous dick down her throat isnt winning you any popularity votes. Guys who try and force their dicks into my mouth ( not talking about you OP and there has only been one) actually worry me.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm not going on these forums on the mobile app, I didn't see half of these comments. Thanks to those who provided relevant comments, good to know I'm not the only one who doesn't get much joy from it - and equally good to know that it's not just a size/ me being picky issue. In response to SoftandCurious, I don't really want to limit myself to size queens if I don't have to - if it's just a matter of me communicating more then that works too (but hey if I try that and still get no joy, size queens it is). Thanks for reposting Peachy, it had got lost in all the ruckus - I'd started to wonder if I'd somehow worded my question incorrectly. Then, I remembered - it's the internet.No offence taken, I'm not (circumcised) so that rules that option out. Willow_1 - The issue is that I am fussed about it. I want to enjoy it, I know I have before. And I'm not overly worried about the fact that I don't get off on it - it's great foreplay. Would just be nice if once in a while things were different. jayme2 yeah I was wondering that when I was posting it - but then I thought "shit, if I don't give some indication of why I don't enjoy it then I'll just have to answer that question later anyway". I wasn't wrong, it just wasn't taken as intended. Forums are fun places. Aaaaaaaand I'm spent peeps. You guys went nuts, I couldn't keep up (phrasing).Keep on keeping on if you want, I'm out. Until the next post.
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RHP User
9 years ago
well personally I live for some guy sticking his dick down my throat
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RHP User
9 years ago
As a reasonable well hung guy, receiving oral can be disapointing at times. Whether it's the size of the mouth, or the inability to deep throat a larger cock. Having said the actually act itself, the eye contact, the dominance is extremely sexy. And in conjuction with hand and arse play can really makeup for any oral inefficiencies. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hmm, I read the forums occasionally but here's another perfect example of why I don't even bother adding anything. Same old ppl with same old 'expert analysis' pumping away like arrogant know-alls, belittling someone with a genuine topic of discussion. If it bores your poor little souls and you've been through the topic endlessly then I/we suggest you take your popcorn and snide, infinately wise (compared to other posters) remarks somewhere that resembles real social contact rather than priding yourselves on being the rhp forum experts on everything intimate and sexual. Anyway thats my bit lol For the record OP my personal preference is not just the blowjob itself but a mixture of a mouthful, some licking up and down the shaft and some nice slippery wanking to get the job done... cant beat some nice titties right there in the action too ☺ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
...... Im not exactly John Holmes myself so speaking from experience, full deepthroating isn't really as mind-blowing and hugely amazing as it's looks in pornos or touted at the bar physically... although there are times that I'm majorly turned on by my partner or other girls pushing the limit and enjoying it! I've always believed all horny sexy fun is 40% physical and 60% mental anyway! 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
A little bit of shameless advertising... Getting your huge cock out there in front of all the girls so to speak? Love it! We all need to advertise in out own way. I mean, most girls/ladies/women should be able to at least get 4/5 inches in their mouth... so only a third of you? Does that mean you have a 15 inch cock? While I would have thought that was great when younger, not sure how many girls could have fun with you. AND you like giving anal! With that cock! Damn, I find it hard to find girls with enough gumption to try me in their bum! With that all said, if you really do have that problem, why don't you get them to be a little more open minded with playful with you. Get them to put a finger in your ass and get to massaging that g-spot all us lucky guys have there. No matter how much of you they can fit in their mouth, you will love it. Ben
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'TreyAwsom' I'm not going on these forums on the mobile app, I didn't see half of these comments. it might have been delayed posts - only some people on the forum have "Instant Posting" (IP) rights, others (most) have to to wait until their post is actually made live by the forum moderators. So you can sometimes log in and the thread will have grown by many posts that appear before/in between posts that you had already seen.
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Allnightrider
9 years ago
The question is whether hung guys ENJOY oral . Hell yeh ! But sliding it up a warm wet pussy is as close to heaven as what you can get ! r /> Oral 8/10 Pussy 11/10
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RHP User
9 years ago
After making a Hoo Ha about a guy following you in a car park you laugh off a guy who thinks its ok to disregard the word No and force his dick into someones throat. Your contradictions are amazing.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mr_MrsAraps' For the longest time I had a what I would describe as having a mental block in my mind from being able to climax from oral and have only came for the first time this year ever from oral. For what it's worth for me anyway the things that helped me get over the hump were 1. Having a partner who enjoyed giving and was vested in me cumming from oral as much as me. 2. Spending time experimenting and communicating on what feels good and what doesn't. 3. Prob most importantly for me was learning to relax and enjoy the sensations and not put pressure on myself to cum forming a vicious cycle. There were a few other specific things in my head I had to get around which I won't divulge. - Posted from rhpmobile One of the better responses here. I know (and have seen) some guys cum more or less straight away as soon as a mouth touches their penis. There are also others like you mention, on the opposite end of the spectrum. O.P. The issue I have found is that some women have assumed they are doing something wrong if they can't make a man orgasm in any particular way (including by hand, oral, or intercourse positions). Especially if she is used to men needing less physical effort. But just as the woman often needs to be feeling perfectly relaxed, unpressured and uninhibited to orgasm, the man may also need mental attention as well as physical. I had often thought that having a woman go down on me was somehow "using her" as a sex object (despite how much I love the reverse). We are constantly drummed into by society about how we should not view women as sexual objects, and so that can lead to the above mental block when it comes to purely enjoying sexual pleasure, and reaching orgasm. With the right women you can overcome such mental blocks, as long as you can let go and understand that she is going down on you for her pleasure as well as yours. The same for cunnilingus, it can help to reach with a spare hand to stroke other areas of the body or hold hands to maintain a mental connection. Have you worked out other things you like? Anecdotally at least, some men like pressure or play on the perineum, anal play, internal or external pressure on the prostate, and warming oral sex lubes or gels are available. I'm sure there are also other ways of experimenting I can't think of! (... Personally peoples, I go by the motto of: if I can't make a positive, intrinsically personal and/or humorous contribution to a forum topic, I don't post. Like some others I'm stuck in the dark ages of either saying something nice or not saying anything at all.)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Fair dinkum!!! Why are most blokes and a lot of women obsessed about size?I myself am all about GIVING pleasure to my female partner. If she wants to give me a BJ then that's a bonus and size is not important in that case.Nice guys like me finish last anyway and we make sure the woman finishes first, Multiple times. A BJ is part of the foreplay and shouldn't be the ONLY foreplay and I would much rather explode elsewhere on or in a woman during intercourse.After all, aren't there two people seeking pleasure not just one???
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'countrytouch' Have you worked out other things you like? Anecdotally at least, some men like pressure or play on the perineum, anal play, internal or external pressure on the prostate, and warming oral sex lubes or gels are available. I'm sure there are also other ways of experimenting I can't think of! Good suggestion, countrytouch. I was going to suggest TreyAwsom (the OP) may like to experiment with using things like masturbation sleeves (Fleshlight, Tenga, Fifi) and toys that either vibrate or oscillate. While solo experimentation is always an option, I was also going to recommend whether they could be incorporated into sex with a partner. In my experience, most partners are interested in giving pleasure to those they are with, and are willing to use toys/enhancements to do so. A close female friend of mine has a toy with an oscillating head that is a bit like a miniature Hitachi for one hand, PalmPower brand. I wonder if something like that across a well-lubed glans head would make you sit up and take notice, OP? Toys also have the benefit that they aren't intimidated by the size of the organ they're asked to stimulate and don't have the same human limitations of gagging or the need to have teeth or take breaths. Far from being an insult to partners, sharing the task with toys could be a winning solution all around, provided the subject was broached carefully and respectfully.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Oral is fine but it's not a must have to enjoy a good sex sesh. I've always felt like guys were doing it to me because they thought it's what I wanted (or because if they do it, I'll return the favour), but it doesn't really do it for me. Even if I tell them, they think they are master tonguers and will convert me. Never happens. It's almost like an obligation, before sex you gotta suck each other's bits first. I don't get it, but that's just me. Intimacy does way more for me than any skilled trick they have. Everyone is different I guess ☺️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well I prefer having my head licked and sucked then deep throat. More exiting
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Champagnesunsets' After making a Hoo Ha about a guy following you in a car park you laugh off a guy who thinks its ok to disregard the word No and force his dick into someones throat. Your contradictions are amazing. what are you talking about, what do these things have to do with each other. I'm turned on by being phyisically dominated by cock, mind and cock yes, you aren't obviously going by your comments here, so why would you have a problem with me being turned on by this kind of domination. Is it just this subject or everything I do that makes you feel lesser? If you don't like oral, and it sounds like you don't, or if you're offended by domination with cock play and the topic upsets you, plenty of other topics you can go to, why don't you toddle off and leave us to enjoy this topic without judgement
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Champagnesunsets' After making a Hoo Ha about a guy following you in a car park you laugh off a guy who thinks its ok to disregard the word No and force his dick into someones throat. Your contradictions are amazing. how did you get non consensual from his post??
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RHP User
9 years ago
So essentially you are complaining because you say your dick is to big? Well now I have heard it all A bloke complaining about that has, to my knowledge, never happened before! #firstworldproblems
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RHP User
9 years ago
and apparently we're out of line for not ridiculing the op and staying on topic it's making people tired slap on the knuckles there for us, now remember the first rule of the bush in here, always ridicule and stay off topic, we'll fit in fine
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RHP User
9 years ago
simple formula really, why didn't I think of that before actually I'm pretty good with staying off topic.............
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teejaylongsword
9 years ago
OP u should hang in there (pun totally intended). As other posters have suggested, communication is important. Tell your partner what feels good and when to 'keep going' when u feel good. I am not sure what all the fuss is about regarding deep throating. It looks quite uncomfortable and the thought of someone actually gagging and maybe being sick on my cock is not a great turn on for me. On the other hand, if a girl only gets part of my cock in her mouth, that is fine. I just think to myself 'Wow. I am bigger than what she can take'. That's a sexy thought. What I love though is a good old 69 position. The woman can suck me and use her hands for the rest of my member that she cant fit in. I am busy and cant see what exactly is going on. If I want to imagine my whole cock is in her mouth (because her hand is wet with lube or saliva) then I can. Its more effort to come, but when I do I absolutely explode. The build up is huge. Its the best way for me to cum intensely.
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thesaintnsinner
9 years ago
I'm no expert and haven't really had much experience with a hung guy...but in saying that I do know that not all girls like a hung guy...maybe they are just put off the size to explore it or maybe the fact your not into it gives them the impression not to continue. I personally...again no expert find a good BJ isn't just how much can fit in your mouth! It's about touching, kissing, exploring and licking everywhere in different directions to tease. Using hand...using only my mouth..looking at my partner....and so much more. I don't think the deep throat is the only way to get a good sensation. Maybe be more open that you would like to explore more with it and let ur partner have a play to see what you do like. It's my partners fav thing but I guess it's not for everyone! Good luck - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I always wondered about this BUT OMG please please don't " return the favour " 😣 Getting down and dirty with someone is a combination of mind, body, eagerness and honest to goodness, being turned the fuck on, by what you're doing ! ! ! It should never be about " going through the motions". And everyone has their talents, no two people are ever the same. But it know, I totally get off and enjoy everything I do with a partner so that in turn adds to their enjoyment. .. the trick is to be in tune with what works with each individual/s.... hung guys I can imagine miss out sometimes because not all play partners can deep throat, but hell I'm sure they're still good with their mouths and tongues. Sex isn't only about "cumming", fuck being on edge is intense and so worth prolonging.. regardless of what you're doing to get you there. Be in the moment totally, otherwise you're ripping not only your partner off but yourself! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I know exactly what you are talking about in general oral does not do a lot for me. However i have a new partner who just loves to worship the cock and take it as deep as she can. She has even got me to cum doing. I supose just finding a lady that loves it has some skill to back it up - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Size was uncomfortable for the lady. Lady should not feel as though she has a problem. The tongue itself is magic. Oral is great but being with a lady is greater. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I don't have a huge cock but big enough for lovers to comment. Mostly too much tooth involvement in my experience and I wonder is this due to size or poor technique? If it's technique issue then they all only average cock suckers - Posted from rhpmobile
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bigs1977
9 years ago
Agree its not that i dont like it, it feels great but i struggle to cum when i keep hearing her gag as she tries to deep throat... kind of a mood killer - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not sure I'm overly hung. But have experienced good and bad oral. You don't need your whole member submerged down the throat of a lovely lady for it to be good. Foreplay and oral are part of the journey to that higher state of arousal. Don't think it had to be orgasmic. Just be receptive to it, and be mindful in the moment. 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Tell them to start swallowing when you hit the back of their throat. Then there is less gagging and they also massage your little head with the motion of their throat. An amazing sensation so I have been told. So a win win. ;-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Use a lubed hand on the rest of the shaft if you cant fit it all in. I ve had one huge one, it certainly did the trick on him....... but I prefer average myself
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Allnightrider
9 years ago
I am well endowed and as fate would have it not circumcised ! Oral for me (even if I do enjoy it) remains a nightmare , because if the glans is not exposed as in sex , then a lot of the sensation is gone . Also find that often sucking is just seen as one of those things that has to be done , and is not seen as part of the totality in achieving nirvana !
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Hawt1
9 years ago
Hi Trey,Yeagh, I am a bit the same, receiving oral doesn't really do it for me, but I know a large percentage of women really like to give head. A generous person allows others their indulgences. It still feels nice but doesn't quite get me over the edge. You might consider letting them try for a while, then finish yourself off into their mouths before returning the favour :DI did this recently and seeing my partners happy face made it well worth it... she just really wanted me to come in her mouth.
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Fun4All95
9 years ago
As a hung guy my preference isn't about finding someone who can deepthroat me and although I have had the odd specialist who has its still has to be a combination of what the woman enjoys doing herself and playing with it so that all people involved are enjoying themselves and getting frisky at the same time. I love oral both giving and receiving and usually its a combination of my shaft getting sucked but also working it with one or both hands and I've never once been disappointed.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' Tell them to start swallowing when you hit the back of their throat. Then there is less gagging and they also massage your little head with the motion of their throat. An amazing sensation so I have been told. So a win win. ;-) My FWB has taken it upon herself to try and 'take it all' but the gagging spoils the party -so much closer than anyone else to date though so yes, a champion in her own right :). I'm going to link her to your post and I'm more than happy to sacrifice myself for this little experiment
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MissBishere
9 years ago
The gagging is something that can be done for those that enjoy the sights and sounds of it. It's all about finding out what your partner likes and endeavouring to make that happen.
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Katkat
9 years ago
I've heard if you don't have tonsillitis you can swallow more well that's what I heard anyway lmao 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Never occurred to me that anyone had to suck the whole thing. Getting the tip in and working the rest in rhythm with the palm feels absolutely awesome. Deep throating is a fun trick but that's all it is IMO. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well this is one of my favourite things to do for a man. For me, I've found that it involves certain amount of communication (including body language) and adaptability - for both parties. It's doing what feels good and if it ends up with cum in my mouth and down my throat, then fabulous. If not, it is still fun and great foreplay. :) If a man told me he found pleasure in my gagging and vomiting all over him then it would be a thanks but no thanks. The same for a man that wanted to force his penis down my throat. I want to enjoy it as well. I can take a good size into my mouth and my gag reflex is nowhere as bad as it was when I was a teenager. So a guy can go pretty deep if I'm ready for it. I'd suggest a local anaesthetic throat gargle for some, however it may have an unwanted side effect for the male member! ;) Luckily, many guys really enjoy the head being stimulated by tongue and mouth with the shaft and balls being massaged by hands. I think if he's open to trying that rather than deep throat all the time, it broadens his horizons. I enjoy giving head and want it to be an amazing experience for both of us. Communication along with trial and error work well I've found. Great fun trying different things ;)
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Allnightrider
9 years ago
"Luckily, many guys really enjoy the head being stimulated by tongue and mouth with the shaft and balls being massaged by hands. I think if he's open to trying that rather than deep throat all the time, it broadens his horizons." Spoken like a master craftsman !
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's always excites me how far a woman can go but I'm a head and massage guy, but I'm also a grower not a shower so I guess i get more sensative in that area. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Ifsizematters' "Luckily, many guys really enjoy the head being stimulated by tongue and mouth with the shaft and balls being massaged by hands. I think if he's open to trying that rather than deep throat all the time, it broadens his horizons." Spoken like a master craftsman ! More like a journeyman...always things to learn and improve upon. ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have quite a large knob. So teeth can be a problem. Get past the teeth, with a finger tickling my arse, that will work ! But I do generally pull out, even a mouth, and wank my cock to orgasm. Only because I know exactly what I'm doing and how I'm feeling. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Length and thickness makes it challenging .. I have had a number of partners that could but most can't and sensational is different.. Mind you - most of my pArtners like the size of my cock thank god lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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deviatedan
9 years ago
Depends on the girl - generally dont like the gaging attempts of deep throat mind you i do appriciate a true expert When they just work the shaft in a unguided belief deeper is better i can pass But Work the head with the mouth and the shaft with a saliva lubed hand in a passionate guided way wow Might have just been lucky but have come across a lot of lady's with the passion and the ability to pleasure a hung guy orally - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hey Trey. Well...for a legitimate question you got quite a few narky answers. I wonder why so many people feel threatened by your query? I didn't see arrogance in your post, just a genuine curiosity and frustration. I know what you're saying and I've had the same question at times....I just figured it was down to my personal preference. I have NEVER had a woman who could make me cum through oral alone. The friction just Isn't there I guess. Having said that though...until I met my gorgeous lady I never even really enjoyed the oral experience per se. BUT....I've always looked on oral as foreplay anyway,( because I can't "slam" it in as I orgasm it doesn't feel as satisfying. Lol) Besides, I'd rather be going down on her anyway, I genuinely find that a bigger turn on. :) (And to all you helpful women who suggested Trey suck a cock to learn...as a BI male I can attest that me sucking dick, and/or my proficiency at it has absolutely no bearing on whether my partner can do a good job.) Truth is it all comes down to one thing, the biggest turn on for a guy. Enthusiasm. If she's really into it and enjoying it, then you are too. Too many women look on oral as a chore to be done before sex. If they just let go and ENJOYED giving head, y'know. ..just had FUN with it, it would be so much better. (Same apples for men going down there. Guys, get comfortable, pack a lunch, stay awhile. Spend some time and enjoy the scenery! ) Now. Before I am roundly attacked for my "arrogance" and being full of myself... I am NOT attacking women, I am not boasting I am simply answering a question because I can understand where he is coming from. Please don't denigrate someone for asking legitimate questions, that's pretty much the opposite of what this site is for. Have fun all! :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I ask that you before labelling others as trolls remind yourself that there are members of our community who consider your standard of social conduct as an embarrassment & though their higher level intelligence grants them access to many of the worlds secrets others will never see, like you they are not, from a moral standpoint, permitted to erroneously believe in any form of superiority over another. A strong willed individual like yourself wouldn't accept feeling that way when interacting with another... do I need to fill out that point? In context, I'm only a little over average size but have had numerous partners over my adult life ask me to, well, "not so hard, it hurts" is the exact same comment I heard every time. I freakin' love oral & am only on occasion able to climax from it. Though along the way I've learnt other things that contribute to its enjoyment. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Explore & enjoy... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'johnny2times' I ask that you before labelling others as trolls remind yourself that there are members of our community who consider your standard of social conduct as an embarrassment & though their higher level intelligence grants them access to many of the worlds secrets others will never see, like you they are not, from a moral standpoint, permitted to erroneously believe in any form of superiority over another. A strong willed individual like yourself wouldn't accept feeling that way when interacting with another... do I need to fill out that point? In context, I'm only a little over average size but have had numerous partners over my adult life ask me to, well, "not so hard, it hurts" is the exact same comment I heard every time. I freakin' love oral & am only on occasion able to climax from it. Though along the way I've learnt other things that contribute to its enjoyment. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
members of our community who consider my behavior embarrassing haha lmfao that's their problem
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RHP User
9 years ago
gotta love the fuzzy wuzzy full of great advice
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RHP User
9 years ago
wonder if what do you look like is one of the 20 questions you refer to in your profile and did your age change, sure you were older last time I looked I've taken note of your advice, although I wasn't aware this was an elite country club haha, I'm just here for action, my real life is no different to this, I'm not part of any labelled stuck up club, I'm a sexual person who has no inhibitions, freely enjoy sex and talking about it, my life is sex, gotta love that, but taking your worldly advice on board, I will in future remember to talk with a plum in my mouth instead of a cock I'll only take it out for a second though, then pop it back in, I do love my lollipop Now if you'll excuse me, I must hasten my departure (that's talking with a plum, did you like that?). I've been a bad girl and I'm going to be punished. Sorry, I can't think of a stuck up way to say that
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RHP User
9 years ago
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RHP User
9 years ago
one does wonder about oneself
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm not to big for Oral mostly, deep throat doesn't do that much for me, but I do love a wet sloppy suction. My issue is I love the taboo of anal, but most (nearly all) find in to big. I hear your pain mate, but life goes on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Different partners, different things With my lover it feels like the most intimate thing between us. After a LOT of practise we both know exacty what turns each other on. For me giving or receiving oral doesn't need to have an end goal. It's about exploring and discovering each other. It can even be a way of prolonging the ultimate. It can be the big tease or it can be mind blowing. Personally I don't think any kind of foreplay is a waste of time. It should be done because you both enjoy it, not because it's expected. I would hate to be judged on my ability to deep throat.But that's just me.
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RHP User
9 years ago
😂😂😂😂😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just tell your partner what you like, being well endowed and receiving great oral doesn't always mean getting deep throat. A woman that truly enjoys giving oral will always pleasure her partner wether deep throat is given or not. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
LOL.... I'm bi ands love to suck dick. I have given many straight guys a BJ and have received a complements from some very well hung blokes who reckon they have never had their cock sucked better.(perhaps no gag reflex helps). So it depends on the person I reckon. I'm just and average size boy, and have had some terrible BJ.... but I've also had some really good ones and some shockers (from men and women). But the best have been from blokes I must say
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RHP User
9 years ago
Long time reader, first time writer...... 😁 I can see where Trey is coming from but it's two parts........ Not getting off on oral..... Then second wanting deeper in and not getting it...... No one should link the two because either can be awesome without the other, just like women having great sex but only orgasming from their own play.... ( I hope that analogy sounds like what I mean ladies). Either way I think you need to keep experimenting to find what works there because your dick can blow your mind however your imagination wants it to...... Now how was that for insightful stuff...... 👍👍👍 Stay cool RHPer's
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RHP User
9 years ago
I can only speak from my experiences as an average hung man (but I think the size of the penis is not the major issue here). I think the problem is far more likely that not many people are good at giving head to the opposite sex. I'd say less than half the girls are any good at giving head to an average penis (they ALL think they are good) and a larger penis probably makes it even more difficult to be good. I haven't cum from a head job in over 10 years. The problem (like all problems) is many-fold. Firstly, a man or woman, does not innately know how the experience feels to the opposite sex so they need to be receptive to feedback from their partner. Secondly, they need to WANT to be good at it and put in the thought and effort to learn. Thirdly, each girl has their own idea of what is good, how sensitive they are, what they like and what they don't. And lastly many many men will tell a girl they are good at head even when they are average or even hopeless in the hope if they keep at it they will get better (and I suspect the same for either sex?!).
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'mindsex2' I can only speak from my experiences as an average hung man (but I think the size of the penis is not the major issue here). I think the problem is far more likely that not many people are good at giving head to the opposite sex. I'd say less than half the girls are any good at giving head to an average penis (they ALL think they are good) and a larger penis probably makes it even more difficult to be good. I haven't cum from a head job in over 10 years. The problem (like all problems) is many-fold. Firstly, a man or woman, does not innately know how the experience feels to the opposite sex so they need to be receptive to feedback from their partner. Secondly, they need to WANT to be good at it and put in the thought and effort to learn. Thirdly, each girl has their own idea of what is good, how sensitive they are, what they like and what they don't. And lastly many many men will tell a girl they are good at head even when they are average or even hopeless in the hope if they keep at it they will get better (and I suspect the same for either sex?!). with cum all over my face, I'm pretty sure I know when I've done a good job but yeah, you make good points there
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm small and not overly fussed about oral, give me a nice ass to sweat over any day Or shells big vagina, big vaginas make me feel so inadequate ;)
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