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A message to the Good / Nice Guys
January 16 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh Ms Saturn do you have a list you would like to publish of nice guys?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ms Saturn, thank you for publically bucking the trend and recognising that nice guys do exist here, they are appreciated and they do win. There is a wonderful thread about nice guys (whoever started that should be given free membership - ) and some of the comments by both men and women stated that nice guys had to be aggressive, an aphpa male. Well who says they aren't? Nice guys just have manners to go with the alpha man persona but don't brag about it. I don't have to worry about my mates "cutting my grass" at a club. For starters, most are married and wouldn't consider it, and those that are single have too much class and respect for me to even condemplate trying it. Ms Saturn, you mentioned effort and I liked that word.These nice guys put that effort in simply because they know it will pay dividens, instead of getting a once night stand, they will get the second and third date and make a friend. And we all know how important friends can be. Again, Ms Saturn, well done, very well done indeed. Mooka
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RHP User
16 years ago
There are some nice guys out there but they can also be a wolf in sheep's clothing.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Mooka Seriously, you are what I consider to be the perfect example of a genuine NICE guy. I hope women on RHP give you the attention you deserve. Hugs, Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
for the royalties from mentioning niceguys ;-) Seriously though - being a niceguy is nto hard if it's natural to you.. I'm not claiming to be the only niceguy here at all - just the one with the handle ;-) I'd also include Eunuch, Mooka, and Jose maybe even Stalky at times ;-) the list goes on... Hmm - come to think of it Stalky's been a bit quiet... I wonder if he's lurking in the bushes outside MsHoneys place again? hugs to all Wayne
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RHP User
16 years ago
I thought this was going to be another thread bagging us lol I was going to say ya can't change your personality like a light switch. Thankies.
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RHP User
16 years ago
And don't forget the other 67 niceguys.... (not me) Mr. SR.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Now there's a thought Lets put Stalky on the Niceguy list Regards Mr. SR.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Omg! Those nice guys make the biggest difference! And if theyre wolves, then we need to realise that we aint no lambs ladies!!!! I have met some fantastic guys off here that have remained great mates, and chat reguarly about non sexual stuff. They're so sweet and polite and theres no way no jerk is going to get his hands on me unless...I play lamb and cover my eyes and just pretend hes not a wolf...even though hes growling....sexy bastard! lol...oops, got off track. Anyway! be a man: be a gentleman. Doesnt mean we change in the bedroom if we're treated nicely outside it. You nice dudes make my day, and are the reason I log back in every day. Nice guys are the sexiest guys alive! xoxoxoxoxo
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XtremGuy
16 years ago
It's good to hear that the good guys are winning over some of the women here in RHP and are appreciated :-D
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks Saturn86 I consider myself a nice guy. But as far as getting anywhere with the ladies of rhp pfff except the one very lovely lady who im still friends with today. About rady to give up unless theres any rhp ladies willing to restore my confidence.
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RHP User
16 years ago
haha, Ms Saturn says "Thank you nice guys, you're so sweet!" and gives them all a big hug.... and then goes off and has hot sex with a Bad Boy.
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RHP User
16 years ago
sometimes being nice and i.e opening a door for a woman can end up in court, yes im serious a guy got done and convicted of sexual discrimination i have refused to open a door for a woman since haha scott
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'young_explorers' sometimes being nice and i.e opening a door for a woman can end up in court, yes im serious a guy got done and convicted of sexual discrimination i have refused to open a door for a woman since haha scott ya gotta be kidding!!!.... are ya sure it wasn't because he tweaked her on the butt after she walked through?...grins... ya great big chicken....brrkkk....brrkkkk...here, ya want some seed ta peck on?...giggling well, all i can say is...see ya in court... cheers jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have had the privelege of meeting a number of nice guys via RHP and am pleased to say that within my experience they have out numbered the other idiots (and am hopeing it stays that way). Nice guys always come first with me (guess i like the way they treat me) especially the one - he knows who he is - who came to this damsel in distress's rescue. Had a particularly bad experience and was left high and dry one night. I was playing away from home and this nice guy came to keep me company after having had meetings til 7pm, then driving an hr to be with me and then needing to leave again at 6am for another meeting. Needless to say he gets my attention and big applause. Mooka and Wayne - I know he is in good company with the 2 of you.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Hermes, Well... I'm personally too NICE of a woman to kiss and tell on who are the nice guys on rhp! I'm sure they know. I believe in giving credit where it's due and generally tell them via chat or private message or a little nibble on their left ear lobe (it's my secret "nice guy" code) !!! Young_Explorers: that's very very sad if the tiny tiny chance of possible court action would stop you from opening a door. But... I wasn't actually referring to door opening when I was talking about the things nice guys have done. It's the thoughtful gestures that count. (I KNOW u were joking... your photo looks sooo nice and sweet and innocent and cute ... he he he) MrUrge_MrsDesire: I agree about the sheep and wolf syndrome...it's a tricky one (I've fallen for it). I've been called gullible sooo many times that I'm thinking of changing my name ! I just prefer to take guys at face value, sure I risk being hurt but if I don't expose myself a little then I may also never find that great guy. Surely some of the other women have some positives to say about all the nice rhp guys ???? xx Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
Back in 2003, when I was still wearing a uniform, I had to spend a bit of time in my Headquarters in the city. Now this entailed me catching the train each day, something I had been fortunate enough to avoid during most of my military career! One morning, as typical the carriage began to fill up the closer we got to the city, all seats were being taken and people were standing in the aisle. About three stops out from my destination, I realised no seats were left, so without thinking, I stood up and offered my seat to the nearest person. This person happened to be a middle aged female in a business suit. As I moved into the aisle she looked at me then left fly with a tirade that would make my old drill instructor proud. How dare i offer her a seat, did I think she was weak, am I a dinosaur etc. So there I was, standing in uniform, jaw hanging down, shaking my head in disbelief. Remembering I am on show, I looked her straight in the eye, smiled and wished her a nice day and proceeded to make my way down to the end of the carriage. But my faith in human nature was restored. Just as I started to move, an old lady who was seated two rows back leant over and stopped me. Loud enough to most to hear, she said "Sir, that was a lovely guesture, pity that stuck up bitch is too ignorant to recognise a gentleman" I walked off that train with a smile on my face and head held high (and secretly pissing myself laughing).
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RHP User
16 years ago
yeah it's true it was in america of course thats why i treat women as equals now and can open there own damn doors lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
i put a vote in for ya as rhp sexiest chick. do i get a guernsey or an avo, lol?long live the nice guy. hugs Earl.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah men are known to be gentlemen towards women, as you were saying...walk them to their car, buy flowers etc, but what do women give back to men? I would love flowers just as much as a woman. I would be very surprised if that ever happend...xo
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have always been told that i am to nice for my own good and that it will not get me anywhere unless i am a bit more of a bag boy. But i continue to try and be as nice as i can and am sure it will eventually pay off for me in more ways than one.It is nice to see that there are still people who prefer to be with us nice guys in whatever way shape or form that may be.Remember slow and steady can often win the race.
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