50's guy, looking, does this site work?

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  That sort of corney talk wont get you far on here.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Agree with mango69er, the ‘ladies cum first’ and ‘quiver in passion’ terminology is a turn off. It’s both corney and - tbh - are the kinds of things often said by guys who aren’t actually that great at being sexually attuned / responsive to their partner. Most of your profile is ok, although it could flow a bit better. The trouble is that you’re towards the higher end of the age range here and you have a tonne of competition as there is an abundance of single men. There are ways you could make your profile more compelling. Also, starting your description of the kind of person you’re looking for with ‘discreet’ suggests that you’re potentially not single and most people here are not interested in someone who is cheating. When you send a message stand out from the crowd by positively commenting on something in their profile and by actively initiating conversation. Even those who like to move to meeting quickly still usually want a bit of conversation to assess compatability.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Respect is paramount on this site. Consider who you are talking to and how to approach them. Yes it’s a sex site but there are still people involved behind the profiles. I don’t think the ‘hey wanna fuck’ approach works so the ‘hey let me make you quiver’ approach is tantamount to the same reception as the first approach.. Remember you are in the majority on this site. Your approach needs to be witty, unique, respectful, suitable to the profile you are looking at and individual enough so that is sets you aside from the rest without making you seem cocky or arrogant. Good luck with it

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Thanks to all, yes i need to choose my words a little better. Just for the record i am single. Thanks again.

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  FeistyFatty

  7 years ago

  Ick, I'm in agreeance with others.... that kimd of talk seems to be endemic to older gentleman and it just makes my skin crawl. No need for it. Just be polite, repectful patient and read profiles completely.....only contact women who you then know are seeking men such as yourself.

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